What the hell
2024.11.25 04:29 AssociationDizzy1336 What the hell
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2024.11.25 04:29 Rare_Bid_9178 Burt cannot win if he defends a pred
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2024.11.25 04:29 Honest-Art1413 Ghosting/Breakups Suck
Even as a mental health counseling intern... BREAKING UP SUCKS! While what I am about to share is based in my personal experience and bias currently, it may resonate with some of you, and I hope that my mental turmoil can provide comic relief, comfort, or all of the above to those reading.
I just gotta be honest, even though I know most of the tools for therapeutic techniques, and these are tools that I use with clients, for some reason, it really doesn't help me at all. For example, Cognitive Behavioral Therpay (CBT) is a big buzz therapy at the moment, and focuses on reframing negative beliefs and this idea of radical acceptance of emotions. Trust me, I have been doing all of those things. Challenging the thoughts of the breakup and acknowledging my emotions. But, you can do all that stuff and still feel awful. Granted, there is not an overnight cure, but I can totally see my future clients saying nothing is working, and I hate to break it to them (and myself) but you just gotta keep swimming as Dory says and hopefully one day they just click in your brain and it all makes sense.
I got ghosted. No closure. Closure is a false belief to make yourself feel better (in my personal opinion) because at the end of the day, him ghosting me demonstrates through his actions that he is not caring about me. I think about how he may be cheating. Maybe he is in his head too. Avoidant attachment perhaps. Feeling the love our relationship had and backing away because it got too deep. While I understand his behavior, and if he walked into the clinic, and I had to see him, I would get his situation. I'd be understanding. On a personal level, it sucks. It hurts. Asking myself the Why? I always joke with my clients saying they are "shoulding" themselves to death (get the joke?) Everyone loves a little humor.
I got strung along. He confirmed we were exclusive. Reassured me he cared about me always. I am all his. Etc. Etc. Just for that door to be shut right in my face. Yeah, I got a bloody nose. Will I heal, definitely. Will I remember I got a bloody nose, definitely. I have been through breakups before, and I will get through this one. But, it still sucks. I can do all these different skills and techniques I teach my clients but at the end of the day, it is still a sucky situation. I am not sure if there is a theory out there that 100% fixes the sucky situation. Sure, we can be logical and rationalize these thoughts, but at the end of the day we are humans who have human emotions and emotions are just unpredictable. They don't follow logic. All we can do is accept the way we feel, and that is easier said than done.
So yeah, I am hurt. I am angry. I am frustrated. I am disappointed. I am confused. I am a scared. But, just gotta let them exist and feel it. The tools, tips, and tricks only help to a certain extent, but I just gotta keep pushing forward and hope for the best. He was a d*ck. To tell me all these wonderful things about our relationship and confirmed exclusivity, our care for one another... just to ditch me up the river without any paddles.
Why do I still care about someone who can do these awful things to me? The negatives of the past relationship are so overwhelming yet the one or two positive things stick out. I know he will always be a part of me, despite this ghosting situation. Again, I can make the logical choice to move on, find someone who meets my needs, and that is all great and fine and dandy. But, emotional me wants him. Wants to break no contact and tell him "can we hang out this week?" but logical me says no. The battle inside me between the reasonable self and emotional self is real. Idk who will win. Most would want the reasonable self to win, and I kind of want them to win too. It just this emotional side got a good left hook, and its gonna be a long couple matches before the winner is known. Time heals all wounds.
There is my rant/vent about my exclusive partner who ghosted me without reason. Told me all these nice things, and then just vanished like Houdini. If you made it to this point, thank you for reading, and hopefully you found this funny, helpful, stupid, etc.
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2024.11.25 04:29 BuildsByBenjamin Best combat against motion sickness? [Other]
Looking for ways to combat my body betraying me halfway through the day at a park.
As much as I used to love spending the whole day at an amusement park, riding everything over and over, these last few years my body has seemingly given out in the afternoon and especially in the evening. (Usually after lunch, so I try to do the best ones before I feel like eating. Tho I'm also mindful to stay hydrated.) Haven't thrown up yet, but it's been tempting once or twice by evening after a wild ride. (And I'm in my mid-30s. This shouldn't be happening to me yet!)
Are there any methods to combating motion sickness? Like the medicine people take for boats? Maybe I'm just not hydrated enough, or need to find that sweet spot of not having a full lunch but snacking every few hours.
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2024.11.25 04:29 learn_tolearn Naval 3 Heuristics for Decision Making
- If you can’t decide, the answer is no.
- If two equally difficult paths, choose the one more painful in the short term (pain avoidance is creating an illusion of equality).
- Choose the path that leaves you more equanimous in the long term.
Peace! ✌️
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2024.11.25 04:29 FroggieMoodie Elegance that leaves a lasting impression
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2024.11.25 04:29 Active-Case-4180 My baby boo, not even a year old and looking so big 🥰🥹
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2024.11.25 04:29 anarchyart2021 Biden Is Still There - The leader of the free world is having a melancholy farewell tour.
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2024.11.25 04:29 True_Sir1086 Looking for this car anybody got it?
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2024.11.25 04:29 Dense-Ad-1766 Rate my kit (Tama Starclassic Bubinga)- Red Mahogany Burst
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2024.11.25 04:29 AirFlaky3081 sleeping
does anyone else’s kitten sleep on the strangest parts of their body? my 2.5 month old kitten is currently sleeping on my leg (im laying sideways) and i think its the cutest thing ever that he only sleeps next to/on me no matter what
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2024.11.25 04:29 steel3997 Wild Honey Pie is the greatest Beatles song.
It's the greatest piece of music ever. I recommend it to everyone on this planet. It's even better than Honey Don't and Act Naturally, 2 other top 3 greats.
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2024.11.25 04:29 Memer_edit135 Somethings off... ...?
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2024.11.25 04:29 riskybuisnesss Help finding a charm
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2024.11.25 04:29 aydav84 Is the ring affecting iruma?
So, in the royal one arc when iruma goes through his evil cycle there is a scene that he talks with the misfits. He tells them that they are the best potential candidates for returning to origins. My problem is that the normal iruma doesn't even know what returning to origins means. Does this mean the evil cycle affected his memories? Maybe he had some of derkila's memories at that moment? Also, he was telling this to misfits as if he was complimenting them. But isn't returning to origins a bad thing?
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2024.11.25 04:29 cesar2598- Before and After, 39 hero levels done during Hammer Jam
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2024.11.25 04:29 No_Pause_9558 Which is the most secure L2 to pick for defi
I finally decided to have some defi adventure for my crypto, but I am trying to start with some L2 because mainnet is too expensive. The problem is there are so many choices, I am making a decision between optimism and base right now, but how am I supposed to know which L2 is more secure for holding assets? Do I compare the TVL or they are basically the same?
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2024.11.25 04:29 dotdeedot2 Cheetah Hips
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2024.11.25 04:29 dew-y H: Groll Armor W: 20 leaders per
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2024.11.25 04:29 AjAk707 ITAP of a river in rural Thailand
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2024.11.25 04:29 marygogo How’s everyone adjusting to their job?
When I got diagnosed with Graves’, I was working as an event and account manager, but I just couldn’t perform my job properly. The constant headaches, anxiety, fatigue, and brain fog were too much to handle. I ended up quitting and changed jobs two more times within 18 months.
Now that my TSH levels are stable and I’m managing the symptoms with a strict diet, I actually went back to the same job I had when I got diagnosed, lol. It’s crazy how much of a difference it makes when the symptoms are manageable.
How’s everyone else dealing with work and symptoms? Have you had to make changes, or are you able to manage everything in your current role? Would love to hear how you’re all going! Stay strong everyone!!!
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2024.11.25 04:29 ProfessionalAd1097 AITAH for “ruining” thanksgiving every year for finding hair in my mother’s cooking?
This happened quite recently so I figured I’d ask for advice here.I 25(F) have a strange dilemma that’s turning into a full on family drama.
A little backstory: When I was about 9 years old I was playing outside for a few hours, then it was time to come inside for lunch. My mom had made my siblings and I our routine turkey and cheese sandwiches. We all sat down and when I was a couple bites into my sandwich…there it was. A long auburn curly hair. I instantly was grossed out and sneakily threw the rest of my sandwich away. I thought I was off the hook until my mom stormed into my bedroom with the sandwich in her hands. “Why didn’t you finish your lunch!?” she yelled at me. I instantly started crying. I didn’t know I was going to get in trouble for not eating my entire sandwich, but I showed her the hair and she said to just take it out keep eating next time. Little did I know this was the start to this debacle.
Now here comes the problem… Every Thanksgiving at my mom’s, I end up finding a hair in my food. I promise I don’t do this on purpose, they just…appear. And no it’s not mine, I have dark brown hair whereas my mom has reddish auburn hair. Every year without fail I take a little bit of everything onto my plate and an auburn hair sneaks its way into my food. Now I know you can just pick it out and carry on, but to me it grosses me out and I lose my appetite. I love my mom’s cooking and never go a meal she makes without thanking her, but this happens way too often, and not just at thanksgiving.
Last year when I was eating some mashed potatoes, i pulled out a strand and she immediately glared at me and then rolled her eyes. As I set down my fork she scoffed “well now you’re not gonna finish your food” and without a response, she got up and walked out of the dining room. Everyone looked up at me and my brother just said “just keep eating she’ll come back and forget about it” so i did. I didn’t mention it for the rest of dinner and ate everything else on my plate. My mom cooled off and came back in to help everyone clean up, and my sister said to her “looks like you’re the one to not finish your food” and then they started whispering but I never found out what that was about.
About a week after halloween my mom was talking to my siblings and I about our thanksgiving plans and wanted us all to join her. One day when I was at her house after work we were chatting and she brings up thanksgiving, wanting to know if i’ll be joining her or my fiancés family. I said I would love to join, and i would love to help cook anything if she needs (she always declines). Then she says to me “are you planning to make a scene again” and i was shocked. I knew what she was talking about but I didn’t make a scene. I said no, but I can’t help it if I find a hair in my food. Then she talks about how I’m so dramatic and I better not embarrass her in front of our family. Now she’s mad at me before Thanksgiving has even happened, and she’s threatening to uninvite me if I “make another big deal about it and ruin thanksgiving.” I honestly feel like i’m being silly or too critical, but am I the asshole? It happens out of nowhere and it’s never intentional.
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2024.11.25 04:29 rhsandne Rams Game
Hey all! My 11 year old is receiving tickets to see the Cardinals @ the Rams in December for Christmas.
Does anyone know what hotel the Cardinals stay at while traveling to Sofi stadium? We would love to try to stay at the same hotel if we can find out where that is!
Any insight is appreciated!
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2024.11.25 04:29 Loud_Signal_6259 Change ringtone based on Focus mode
Any way to accomplish this?
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2024.11.25 04:29 Ok_Alternative_4300 Drumroll... Zeiss Victory HT 10x42 vs Meopta Meostar B1 HD 10x42 vs Skyrover Banner Cloud APO 10x42
And the clear winner is...
IMHO the Skyrover Banner Cloud APO 10x42 because...
No tinted glass like the Meopta and Zeiss have
Snaps right into perfect sharpness easiest
Better than razor sharp clarity TODAY was in fact noticeably the best out of these other two
Humongously wider FOV it's comparing the Zeiss and Meopta both having only 330 FEET FOV vs over 400 FEET FOV same 10x42 magnification.
What I really liked the most of the SRBC having noticeable better immersive views as well that were clearly white without the tint the other European glass have.
SRBC was night and day brighter PERIOD...
The 8x42 SRBC is even brighter in fact may be a little bit too bright at times during the daytime.
Honestly not a fan of 8x but this has got to be my favorite clearest 8x all purpose bin overall even compared to my Swarovski NL Pures due to having zero glare compared to the Swaros.
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