My (38m) wife (38f) is visiting chatrooms. How would you proceed?

2024.11.25 09:19 ThrowRA_thing786 My (38m) wife (38f) is visiting chatrooms. How would you proceed?

My wife (38/f) and I (38/m) have been together for 20 years and until recently I thought that our relationship was fairly solid, although admittedly things had gotten pretty quiet in the bedroom and a lot of that was down to me. I don't really know why, I just lost interest in sex a bit and I suppose life got in the way. We still had sex occasionally but it was seldom. This is relevant because in recent weeks she has become a lot more interested in sex and she said that she just wanted to relight the spark and I've been happily participating.
There was something niggling at the back of my mind though, maybe because I read a lot in the past about a renewed interest in sex can mean that someone else is in the picture, but I just felt that there was more to this. So I did something that I've never done before and I snooped on her phone. There was nothing in her messages or call logs but something made me think to check her browsing history, and then I could see that she's regularly visiting a chat room. I didn't open the link, I didn't look at anything else, I could just see various times where she's gone to the site and logged in and I can see that she's receiving messages on it just based on the title saying you have x number of new messages. I'm pretty sure if I opened the link the account would have been logged in but I couldn't bring myself to do it. I felt sick and scared to continue looking in fear of what I might find so I just closed out of everything.
It's worth mentioning at this point that I initially think this just something she gets off on. I don't think she's having an affair or anything, there are no signs of something like that, but it still feels like a betrayal. I have no issue with her watching porn etc. everyone has needs, but actively participating in intimate conversations with other people feels like a step too far in my view. And of course maybe she could be having a 'virtual' affair with someone online, like it could be the same person she's talking to all the time and not random strangers. I don't know, there are so many possibilities and my head isn't really clear right now.
I don't know how to proceed now though, I don't want to confront her based on her browsing history because I don't want her knowing I was snooping on her phone and she could try to turn things around to my invading her privacy. I need to sort this out but I need to do it right so I need to find a way to bring it up without saying "I saw this on your phone". And I'm also concerned that I'm about to open a can of worms here than can never be shut again, 20 years is a long time to risk so I'm trying to balance everything until I get the full picture. So any advice would be very much appreciated.
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So, I'm achievement hunting, and found the Christian Iberians somewhat fun. Well, two of them. Portugal and Aragon.
I've attempted four Castile games, and each time find it... underwhelming. Aragon and Portugal, both first time I found fun and do decedecently well. Castile however, because of the two disasters I'm the 1400's, I'm just wondering what's the point of playing them?
Not to mention. Achievement wise, Portugal has the unique achievements for Navigator and All Blue. Aragon has Consulate of the Seas and The Reapers. But all Castile achievements can be done as Spain. Which can be formed by any of the Three.
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