AITA for ending the relationship because my partner couldn’t respect my boundary
2024.11.26 18:30 Step_BlackPlayer AITA for ending the relationship because my partner couldn’t respect my boundary
Honestly, I feel like I overreacted. She has been trying to reconnect and work things out, so I am reconsidering my decision.
What is the so-called boundary, you might ask? It’s sharing our relationship problems with other people.
I understand that some people—if not most—would be fine with it, but personally, I am not.
There are several reasons for my feelings on this. One reason is that my partner doesn’t understand what “TMI” (too much information) means. For example, she once shared something very personal about me with others—something I’ve tried to forget and bury because she discovered it while going through years' worth of messages.
Additionally, I have never had good experiences with people sharing my problems with outsiders. This stems from my upbringing in an abusive household, where I was often publicly shamed for my mistakes. As a result, I have developed a strong dislike for others discussing my personal matters without my permission—not just shaming, but other negative experiences as well.
Lastly, I tried to be accommodating. I understand that sometimes relationships can become confusing, and it’s natural to seek someone else's opinion. After discussing it, we both agreed that a friend of mine would be a good choice for advice. He had previously helped us with similar problems (we argued a lot), and he never took sides, even though he had known me much longer. He was willing to stand up for her if I was in the wrong and encouraged me to apologize. So, he seemed like the best choice.
To address her TMI issue, I asked her to at least inform me about what she wanted to share, as I didn’t want anyone else knowing things I had never told anyone besides her. However, after all of that, she decided to share everything in a random Discord server she had joined for about a week. If you’ve ever used Discord, you can imagine how that went. Most of her “friends” immediately told her things like, “Leave him; you deserve so much better! Be with us!” That was just from hearing her side of the story.
This is another reason I thought my friend was a good choice—he always listens to both sides before coming to a conclusion. After she did that (this was now the fourth time she went behind my back), I felt really hurt yet again. Still, I decided to forgive her until she confronted me, saying, “I feel disrespected, so I am breaking up with you!” When I asked what I had done wrong, she surprisingly had nothing to say. I can only wonder who told her I was disrespecting her—couldn't have been those kids who started hitting on her right after the breakup (just a hint: it was them).
Now, after a month or so, she has come back apologizing, saying things like, “I was confused and didn't appreciate you enough,” etc. So now, I am very confused.
I forgot, but she has been texting me constantly this past month, begging to get back together from random platforms.
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