i’m starting to like a guy i shouldn’t— what should i do?
2024.11.27 05:50 1_Just_Trying i’m starting to like a guy i shouldn’t— what should i do?
there’s a guy i’ve been becoming more close with. but the most recent times we’ve been hanging out, he’s been treating me so well and so nice that i’m starting to catch feelings.
normally when we hang out, it’s me and him with other people. but the most recent times we’ve been hanging out, it’s just been me and him.
the other day, we stayed on school campus until 6:00PM. we studied, did homework, and (mostly) talked about ourselves. i planned on heading to a cafe afterward by myself to buy treats for one of my family friends, and as courtesy, i invited him to come with me. he came along, and he even paid for my pastry (not including the pastries i bought for my family friends), despite me offering to pay for the both of us.
we hung out again today. i was at work (i worked a 12-hour hospital shift), and he told me he was on campus studying. i jokingly asked if he wanted me to join him (the hospital i work at is down the road from our school), and he said yes. [i don’t normally do this. not even for my friends. if i have work, i go straight home, making no stops along the way. but for this guy, i did.] i headed to school immediately after campus, expecting to spend the time to study, but instead he drove us to get coffee. at the cafe, we talked and messed around (not that way). and when we headed back to his car and to school, we just continued talking and “mess around”. (he would tease me or i’d tease him). when we got back to the school campus, we stayed in his car for almost two hours just talking, laughing, and telling stories.
he’s the type of guy who’s so sweet and kind. he gave me a ride in his car just so i didn’t have to walk in the cold to get to my car (my car was parked 2 rows away). he always opens the passenger door for me even though i can do it myself. same thing with my chair— if we pick a table to sit at, he’ll pull out my chair for me so i can sit first.
and then when we do hang out… when we sit next to each other, we sit super close. either our knees or our shoes touch. and when we walk next to each other, our arms are always touching.
i’ve had and currently have other male friends— we don’t do any of these things me and this guy do.
tl;dr: i’m starting to develop feelings for one of my guy friends because of the way he treats me, but i know he only wants to be friends because he keeps saying that he’s not ready to get back into another relationship yet. what should i do?
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