Boy, 13, whose parents sent him to boarding school in Africa starts family court case against family after claiming he was 'abandoned'
2024.11.29 08:26 KellyfromLeedsUK Boy, 13, whose parents sent him to boarding school in Africa starts family court case against family after claiming he was 'abandoned'
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2024.11.29 08:26 Which-Strategy3651 Fasting glucose vs hba1c
I recently got diagnosed with prediabetes (45mmol/mol) so this morning I tested my glucose and it was 5.2mmol/L which is fairly normal, I expected it would be much higher?
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2024.11.29 08:26 0hbie i let my ex paint me as crazy despite everything he put me through
also a tw for mentions of stalking!!!
around five years ago now i (currently 24f) was dating who i thought was the nicest guy in the world (currently 27m), let's call him Leo.
Leo was funny and sweet and treated me the best i'd ever been treated, until we had sex for the first time. after that he began to paint every single thing i did as sexual, to the point that i couldn't brush my hair or yawn without him touching me or pestering me for sex. we'd been together for about 6 months by then and for a little while when he had started pestering me it didn't bother me much because I thought it was just because he'd lost his virginity and was just a little overly excited. for about a year i excused it but it started to get worse, turned into him pressuring me and begging even while I'd cry until id finally agree to let him do something to me. I was young and naive and believed everyone was good in their hearts so i, unfortunately, continued to brush it off. eventually this turned into me having no desire at all, which both he and myself convinced me was my mental illness and that i needed to get help, which I never really did.
right as his behaviour had started to get really bad his living situation became unsafe (for reasons i won't disclose for anonymity) and i asked my parents if he could move in. this wasn't an odd thing in my house, we'd had friends and partners live with us before, my family is the type to take in anyone they know they can trust because, well, we'd want the same kind of support if we ever needed it. id been lying to my family and friends that Leo was a perfect partner, so despite not liking him much themselves, they let him move in for me.
things got worse after that and what used to be touching and groping against my wishes quickly escalated into r*pe. he lived with us for about four months before I finally snapped while on a family trip. he had gone through my phone and deleted my cousins contact thinking that the i love you text I had sent him was indicative of me cheating. I don't know why that was the last straw, it really shouldn't have been I should've left him two years before that, but it was. i lost it on him and told him that we would fake nice until the trip was done and then he would leave me alone for good. I should've known that wouldn't be the case.
he stalked me for six months after that. he would show up to bars I was at or call me and tell me he knew where I was. he would drive past my house and text me begging me to come out to see him. it was a genuinely terrifying time in all honesty, and I don't think I've ever admitted how scared it really made me.
while he was stalking me he began spreading rumours to mutual friends and around our university, which all inevitably came back to me, and none of which i ever corrected. i don't know why but i felt better being the evil bitch who cut him off from his family and cheated on him than being the girl who let him, well yea. he told people i was mentally deranged and needed to be institutionalized, that i cut him off from his friends (who i adored but he stopped seeing for reasons he never told me), and that i only moved him into my house to further control him. only a few friends close to me and my family know what happened and they only found out because I ended up with ptsd, which resulted in regular panic attacks whenever I would see someone who looked like him or the make and model of his car.
luckily anyone who actually mattered to me didn't believe a word of it, and in the sixth month after we broke up i met my current partner. by then the stalking was pretty well done, but I still told him about it, just in case he didn't want to date someone with some pretty serious baggage loll. he didn't care and when Leo discovered the guy I was seeing was more than capable of laying him out cold if he wanted to, and had a record of doing so to predators (long story loll), he left me alone.
i'm really lucky, i've had so much support in the years since then, and alot of therapy, and i'm much better off than I was, but i've never admitted to anyone how scary it was or how damaged it really made me. I always laughed it off and joked to make sure the people around me wouldnt worry too much, but god i just wanted him to leave me alone. I know they knew the truth, people don't have panic attacks because their exes weren't compatible with them, but it's nice to actually type it out and admit; I was fucking scared all the time. he had lived in my childhood home, with my family, in my childhood room, everything felt so tainted for such a long time and i never felt really safe anywhere I went, I always felt like he was there watching me.
I've also never admitted how much it hurt not to speak up. my dad made a comment when he found out the whole story, he said he thought they'd raised me better than to ever let that happen to me. he's apologized since, but i agree in a way, when it was my friends i had to be held back from killing someone, but when it was me i convinced myself i was the one in the wrong for not wanting to give Leo what he 'needed.' it's taken alot of therapy for me to stop blaming myself and excusing his actions because 'i eventually did say yes.'
it sucks that he got to leave (he moved away) with his image intact, and sometimes it keeps me up at night that i've never ruined that nice boy rep he had, but also i'm just glad I made it out. I fully intended to marry him because I was broken and he was still good to me, or at least id convinced myself that was reality, but I'm out and with someone who doesn't accept my yes unless it's enthusiastic, and never pesters or pressures me. some days I'm grateful he deleted that contact, him interfering with something connected to my family was the thing i couldn't look past i guess, thank fuck, and that probably saved my life.
it wasn't my fault, but sometimes i do wish i could reach back in time and shake some sense into myself. i let him walk all over me and that's on me, but i'm grateful it helped me learn how to be stronger and more protective of myself. anyway, sorry that kinda came out in a ramble, but it's nice to say out loud. as my therapist would say, shit happens and all we can do is heal and grow.
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2024.11.29 08:26 KellyfromLeedsUK Gregg Wallace appears to stare at Penny Lancaster's chest on Celebrity Catchphrase - two years before he was accused of bullying Sir Rod Stewart's wife on MasterChef
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I need a question why he can attack when stealth what skill he use. Skill attack 5 hit per sec damage 120 per hit and duration 15 sec mean he can damage 9000 when steath
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2024.11.29 08:26 KellyfromLeedsUK Apple users shocked after learning official device contains chemicals which cause birth defects and cancer
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2024.11.29 08:26 KellyfromLeedsUK Wicked's Cynthia Erivo weighs in on movie theater singing debate after clarifying her salary for hit film
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2024.11.29 08:26 KellyfromLeedsUK High Street pins hopes on a Black Friday and Christmas boost after post-Budget slump
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2024.11.29 08:26 GUNNYBELL23 How do I know what to pack for the parties?
Hello fellow cruisers, I'm wondering how we find out what we need to pack in order to enjoy all the different parties? I've heard that they have 80s parties white parties '90s parties fancy dress up days and all sorts of different theme things. We are going on the panorama January 10th and I am wondering what I need to pack to have a rocking good time. We have never participated in any of the different parties on the little deck. We did dress up for fancy night on a 10-day Cruise, but they told us that there was going to be too fancy nights so we had prepared for that. I have no clue how we found out that we had two fancy nights but somehow we did. We have friends cruising with us as well this time and we want to make sure that they have the greatest experience they can for their very first cruise. Any and all personal experiences and information is welcome. Also how do you find out which day of the cruise each of these events are on?
Separate question. This is our first time going to the Long Beach terminal and we are going via Uber or Lyft and are wondering how far in advance time wise do we need to leave our hotel in Long Beach in order to get to the terminal? I hear sometimes it can be a nightmare with traffic and you can be sitting somewhere for 25 minutes when you're close to the port. I don't want to miss our time slot for checking in. Also are there any tips for embarkment day Uber rides like they have for disembarkment Uber rides where they tell you to go to the Queen Mary and get your ride there that I will save you a half hour? ( Little history I've had eight back surgeries so I can walk a fair distance but not a super long distance. About two blocks is about my average or so)
Thanks again cruisers I appreciate you all.
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