AIO for cutting off contact with my best friend for "faking" his suicide
2024.11.29 10:29 aRockLikeBrimstone AIO for cutting off contact with my best friend for "faking" his suicide
My friend (22m) and I (21m) have known each other for 6-7 years. He's the only guy I've ever known who I could honestly see as my best friend. Lets call him Gerald.
Gerald has been struggling with depression/suicidal tendencies ever since i've known him. I even had to save his life from a previous suicide attempt in high-school when we were just kids (around 14-15). Our friendship was honestly quite toxic, we would hurl insults at each other and make jokes about each other's expense. Despite this I've always been there for him and supported him through his struggles, which is why I thought of us more as brothers.
About a year ago, Gerald moved to the Thailand so he could chase his dream of becoming a Muay Thai champion, or at least that's what most of our friends thought. He told me the truth however. He told me that he would plan to take his own life eventually while he was there. I tried to talk him out of it, but he was adement about it. I couldn't really blame him, concedering his rough childhood/family situation.
About a few weeks ago he told me how he wasn't doing really well. Muay Thai seemed alot harder than he had expected and even worse, he became addicted to cocaine. He even borrowed money from me, telling me he needed it for food. Literally the next day, he calls me again and tells me he spent it all on cocaine. At the end of the week, he calls me for, what I assumed to be our last time.
He told me that he'll wire the money he borrowed back to me, and then "that'll be the end of it." I told him I understood. I also told him that I've always seen him as a brother to me. He told me that he knows and that he always cared about me. At this point i was absolutely convinced that he committed suicide after hanging up the phone.
For two weeks I was a mess. I felt absolutely destroyed that my childhood friend had passed away in some random city in Thailand and that his folks will never know what happened to him. He made me promise, before he went to Thailand, that I would never tell a soul what his intentions were when it finally came to it.
Cut to this morning. I accidentally sent him something on whatsapp. Lo and behold, Gerald writes me back asking what that picture was. I immediately called to check up on him. Not only was this dude alive and well, he came back to our country a week ago. When I asked him about his suicide, he basically just laughed it off and told me that I was an idiot to think that he killed himself?? What the fuck else was I supposed to think happened?
I asked him about his comments about how "that'll be the end of it." He just told me he was referring to the money he borrowed from me. I got furious. I mourned this guy for two weeks, thinking he's dead, and now he's laughing at me because of it? I told him to never contact me again. He was shocked and confused, asking me why. I told him that I knew that he knew what those words meant. And for him to not contact me for two weeks just to make it appear that he is actually gone.
After hanging up on him, i blocked him on all my socials. He is dead to me, hell, he'd been dead to me for the past two weeks.
A part of me is convinced that he knew what he was suggesting when we had that phone call two weeks ago, but another part of me thinks that it is all a misunderstanding. But then again, why would you call your friend an idiot and laugh about the fact that he thought you died? Am I overreacting by cutting off contact with him?
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2024.11.29 10:29 lexirit4ni Am i being controlling?
(this is my first ever reddit post sorry if i did it wrong)
Me and my boyfriend have been together for a little under 2 years, we met when he was heavy on smoking but not addictively maybe 4-5 days of the week, i was fine with it as i was young but i began to realise i didn’t like who he became when he was on the substance. he took a one month break it got me to realisation he’s a much better person while sober and his self had improved so much in like self esteem and his moods etc. we had both compromised to meet in the middle and put a limit where he chose 2-3 times a week, he couldn’t handle it. maybe 1 month he would be totally fine with it and then the other month he wanted more and he would keep lying about it to me and non stop choosing it over me. we went back in forth like this and eventually we settled down and was happy for months, we built trust back and had no more lies until no where he can’t handle it no more, he wants to smoke more, like no limit which i’ve seen him and he’ll smoke every day, i can’t handle that. over my time with him i learnt to be more laid back and that took so much of me because weed has done so much bad to my family and i would hate to see him like that so to be able to settle down with a 2 days a week took a lot. but now he wants it right back up again and i told him if we can’t meet in the middle you will lose me and we won’t work out (mind you he does it for fun only) and his excuse is always “i want to live life to my fullest” and i totally go with that like that’s why i’m okay with a couple times a week, but like really there is so much more to fun then just weed. and honestly i don’t think he would chose our relationship over weed.
look idk i just need some advice and to see others perspective on it all.
is this controlling? what should i do about it?
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Etter fullført bachelorgrad(🥳), ville jeg som mange andre ut i arbeidsmarkedet. Jeg har utenlandske foreldre men har bodd i Norge så lenge jeg kan huske. Dette er viktig informasjon, nemlig fordi jeg har søkt en god del på stillinger allerede. Etter nesten 100 avslag, hadde jeg på følelsen at mitt utenlandske navn muligens blir filtrert bort i møte med andre kvalifiserte med norske navn. Dette er greit i seg selv, ettersom det er få som får jobb på første søknad.
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Dette gjorde jeg, men i tillegg til å søke med navnet Christian, søkte jeg også med mitt opprinnelige navn.
Jeg har nå dobbelt søkt på 15 stillinger. Martin fikk to intervjuer og jeg fikk 0(🤣)
Hva skal jeg gjøre nå? Er jeg en drittsekk om jeg møter til intervju og røper sannheten?
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