Confused, frustrated, and scared about the direction my life is going socially

2024.11.29 17:27 IceFew6779 Confused, frustrated, and scared about the direction my life is going socially

To be honest this might be a little long but I don’t know where else to go and this is kinda my way of seeking a different perspective. I don’t know what to do, i guess you could say I’m stuck. I used to be extremely social and had an amazing support system, that was until I met a girl and got into my first serious relationship with her. It was everything that I dreamed a relationship to be and I leaned into that thinking it’d last forever. Because of that I abandoned everyone in my life for her because in my head I thought “well everyone may leave but at least I’ve got her” and I was content with that. That was until about two years ago to when a lot of bad stuff happened in the span of a month. I crashed my car, got kicked out of my apartment, lost my career I spent a year building, was in and out of the mental hospital, and then to top it off I lost the person I thought I’d spend my life with. That put me in a really bad place and in the span of a month, just like that, I had no one. Tbh I don’t think I’ve fully recovered since then. I have my family but I can’t really talk to them because one, I abandoned them too, and two, they step around me and act like if they say the wrong thing then I’ll off myself. At one point that was definitely warranted when I was dating that girl but now? 2 years later? I’ve tried talking to them about it but it only makes things worse with them. Plus they aren’t the best in terms of emotional support, the “suck it up and move on” attitude kind of thing. I don’t have any friends I can rely on because they are going through their own stuff and the amount of baggage I have would only make things worse. I’ve tried to talk to people, go out and make friends, join discords, etc. but each day I find myself losing the ability to be social and closing myself off even more. I can’t go to the bars or anything that cost money because I’ve got none and it is really sad seeing someone do stuff meant for friends…alone. I want to be in a relationship but how can I when even looking at a woman TERRIFIES me. When I talk to people idk how to speak because I’m overthinking EVERYTHING and end up being either boring or way too formal. The stress of going through everything alone is getting to me and I just don’t know what to do or how to fix this downward spiral. I just want to vent about my problems to someone and it not sound like trauma dumping or it be my own thoughts.
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2024.11.29 17:27 32BeatWriters Also, a personal soap box here...STOP HIRING DEFENSIVE COORDINATORS AS A HC FOR A YOUNG QB. https://t.co/Ts92qyaQcz

Also, a personal soap box here...STOP HIRING DEFENSIVE COORDINATORS AS A HC FOR A YOUNG QB. https://t.co/Ts92qyaQcz submitted by 32BeatWriters to 32beatwriters [link] [comments]


2024.11.29 17:27 32BeatWriters RT @Schrock_And_Awe: Thomas Brown has gone from passing game coordinator to interim head coach in three weeks. Never dull with the Bears.

RT @Schrock_And_Awe: Thomas Brown has gone from passing game coordinator to interim head coach in three weeks. Never dull with the Bears. submitted by 32BeatWriters to 32beatwriters [link] [comments]


2024.11.29 17:27 Actual_Cobbler_6334 [Schefter] Black Friday: For the first time in the 100-plus year history of the franchise, the Chicago Bears have made an in-season head-coaching change, firing Matt Eberflus.

[Schefter] Black Friday: For the first time in the 100-plus year history of the franchise, the Chicago Bears have made an in-season head-coaching change, firing Matt Eberflus. This should have happened before he Eberflubbed the season.
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2024.11.29 17:27 illustrious_otter Delta Recertified- worth it?

Have you had a positive ir negative experience with Delta recertified fixtures?
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2024.11.29 17:27 verucka-salt I was wrong about GF

I still despise his corniness & jewels but he got me in the feels on the Buddy show seen last night. My bff has a sister with Downs who I adore passionately. She’s been in my life since I was 10 & she 7. She’s the funniest person ever & we talk a couple time a week. She cons me into bringing her candy & whatever. I cannot imagine life without her. She watched the show too & told me; Nice for them but I’m too busy for all that.. Ok Mo.
You kids were right & I was wrong. ☮️
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2024.11.29 17:27 Low-Concentrate-7753 Can I keep 2 female Canaries in the same cage? What are possible complications of this

Can I keep 2 female Canaries in the same cage? What are possible complications of this I bought my sweet baby girl Chickpea about a month ago, and she seems incredibly healthy and active…the only thing is I think she may be lonely. I’d like to buy another female canary so she can have some company…is there anything I should know before doing this!? Thank you!
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2024.11.29 17:27 JoZach1k So Arc is treating windows users like shit

i switched to arc in search of something new and better hoping ill become more productive n can customize it but so long all productive features have been given to only the mac users which no i see that too is slowing down
I've heard praises of the Zen browser but I'm not sure if it is efficient enough to work on my slightly older laptop
i right now am in a dilemma to leave arc behind cause of the absolute shit support and falling through on promises
my 2 considerations are brave and probably Zen. Can anyone suggest what i should do I'm really high on efficiency and privacy and a good workflow for my college work...
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2024.11.29 17:27 Conscious_Air_6637 Soy bueno besando o es normal que las mujeres me metan lengua y mano?

No suelo preguntar estás cosas pero me dió curiosidad y quería sacarme está duda.
Tengo 26 años y desde que di mi primer beso a los 16 años nunca e tenido la iniciativa de dar un beso francés o tocarlas. Siempre a sido las chicas las primeras que inician eso de hecho me asusto un poco la primera vez que mi primer beso se volviera de pronto mi primer beso francés. No estado con tantas mujeres y no soy menos un mujeriego Pero haciendo memoria mujer que beso unos segundos me da un beso francés o me toca.
Quería saber mujer o hombres con experiencia o gays, soy bueno besando? O es normal?
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2024.11.29 17:27 Admirable_Seat_1466 Who did Elon Musk’s public relations before…idk before it was obvious he started talking of his own accord lol

Just asking because I could use some amazingly good press if I ever get rich. And they seemed to really nail it when everyone worshiped him as a god like he really was nikola tesla. Where does one even go to hire a PR person?
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2024.11.29 17:27 Mean_Tadpole4725 Razor not so slim anymore

Razor 2019 laptop, been using it as my desktop PC lately (for 2 years). Recently noticed that the lid wouldn't fully close making it display on my two monitors + the laptop's screen which is supposed to be closed. ununscrewed it and the case burst open :/
Will remove the battery and use it permanently as a desktop 🤷🏻‍♂️
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2024.11.29 17:27 Captainxpunch This is a revamp of my previous Virginia Tech build.

This is a revamp of my previous Virginia Tech build. Took some advise from people on and made the maroon darker and changed up the helmet designs a little bit with the cursive font.
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2024.11.29 17:27 Entropy_Interstellar Chahat was the movie maker today. What a story 👏👏

She played Rajat today full on.
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2024.11.29 17:27 mylifeistooshort Do convertible car seats typically go on sale on Boxing Day? [BC]

There are some sales today for Black Friday but then with the GST holiday in December, I am wondering if it would be better to wait until Boxing Day and get the GST off and a possible sale.
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2024.11.29 17:27 South-Suspect7008 2 weeks of progress

Been shadow trading for a year and discided it was time to try for real. Some really small amount of money for you guys but made about 3k profit so far! And yes, I had some dumb luck and yes, I know that will probably not continue. Do you nice people have some literature you'd recommend or some videos you'd recommend? Appreciated!
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2024.11.29 17:27 tyrophagia Would you guys consider this bad fuel(right)?

On the left is fresh fuel. I'm not overly experienced with diesel. You can a couple of millimeters of water at the bottom
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2024.11.29 17:27 Hot_Programmer_2393 What is this?

This post contains content not supported on old Reddit. Click here to view the full post
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2024.11.29 17:27 Adventurous-Life-281 Top 12 Profitable Business Ideas Bangalore - tecftm.com

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2024.11.29 17:27 numonte Eletricidade 2025

Precisava de ajuda a tentar perceber isto:
Tenho fornecimento de eletricidade contratado à Iberdrola. O preço atual da potência contratada é cerca de 0,22€/dia. Recebi um email deles, a informar que irá haver uma atualização de preços em 2025 e o novo valor da potência será de 0,43€/dia. Fiquei pasmado com um aumento de quase 100% e liguei para lá a confirmar se o valor estava correto, ao que me responderam que sim, e que seria uma aumento generalizado.
Procurei, mas não perceber a razão para este aumento.
Alguém mais por dentro pode dar uma luz em relação a este assunto? (pun intended)
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2024.11.29 17:27 s_u_ny This DSi listing that says it comes with “40+” games! You have to scroll through a few photos before seeing the 42 all time classics.

This DSi listing that says it comes with “40+” games! You have to scroll through a few photos before seeing the 42 all time classics. U hav
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2024.11.29 17:27 Wise-Recording7202 I want to print a planter

Any settings that will make it stop from leaking water?
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2024.11.29 17:27 DillyDillySzn Posting this picture of a random dude for literally no reason

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2024.11.29 17:27 thebestcucky Does anyone know when the Stalker 2 patch will hit Xbox gamepass?

Like why are we waitingg
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2024.11.29 17:27 zcarcamo Black Friday Sale

Black Friday Sale Sale automatically applied at check out! https://applezaira.com/
Added new slimes: Egg Nog, Peppy Peppermint, and Slime Vapor!
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2024.11.29 17:27 Clean-Ad4235 IPAs are disgusting

I’ve tried a number of IPAs in a number of countries and have come to the conclusion that they taste horrible. I can’t get behind drinking something that tastes so bad to get a buzz.
There are much better beers out there —wheats, blondes, and stouts all taste far superior. Even a local beer from a tiny brewery would be better. But somehow, IPAs have become incredibly popular over the past few years. How? Why?
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