2024.11.29 17:39 heyitscjjc New fridge came with a dent upon delivery, how should I ask for a replacement?
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2024.11.29 17:39 _Standingonbusiness_ My fiancé gets treated like shit by his extremely hectic family
Reposting this because I genuinely need a lot of advice and I need to hear from different perspectives.
I have been with my fiancé for 4 years and we recently got engaged. I love him to pieces but I can’t stand his utter inability to set boundaries with his family or speak up when it’s necessary. They treat him like absolute fucking garbage. I’ll give a few examples :
• His grand father’s dying wish was for my fiancé to have his car, his grand mother doesn’t allow him to drive it unless if it’s for her personal needs (so when he’s acting as her personal chauffeur)
• His entire family turns on him the second he refuses to do something for them (he does practically everything) and they proceed to say he’s useless and never helps with anything.
• They have zero respect for him or his time, every time they need something, he has to drop everything and tend to their needs.
• His mother bragged to me about the amount of money she makes based off of only a single client but she pays her son minimum wage and has no problem with him not owning a car (the business belongs to his father but she runs it and he works with her) (she asked him to work for her and assured him that after some time she’ll pay him well. Needless to say, I call bullshit)
Also the fact that he’s paid so poorly makes it impossible for him to save up and that in on itself is stressful enough as I don’t know how the hell he’s going to afford to pay for the expenses we’re going to have once we start living together. I told him he needed to go work somewhere else but he’s been dragging his feet and avoiding the subject, probably because he doesn’t know how to go about telling his mom the simple fact that if she doesn’t pay him decently, he’s gonna have to quit and get a new job. This part is what infuriates me the most.
• His mother forces him to take his grand mother to all her appointments often playing the victim card and doesn’t pay him for the days he has to take off work to take her own mother to the doctor’s and/or to run errands.
• His mother has started purposely leaving to work earlier without him, without waking him up and I suspect it’s so that he misses work and so that she doesn’t have to pay him. When confronted she says she didn’t want to wake him up cause then he’ll scream at her (poor thing 😔 also my fiancé is a very calm and collected man, I’ve woken him up several times and he’s never reacted in a violent way, he literally just stretches and stands up)
• His mother is constantly playing the victim card and trying to turn her kids against their dad, to whom she’s still married, she also practically lives at her mother’s and forces my fiancé to go with her because and I quote “you can’t leave me and your sister alone, what if we need something?”, so his dad, who is severely depressed at the moment might I add, is constantly alone. His mother forces her kids to pick sides.
• He once took a day off work to take my car to the mechanic, when his grandma found out, she went like “it’s good that you did that for her but it’d be better if you did the same for me” which is a wild and insane thing to say considering the fact that he often misses work for her sake.
So these are just a few examples of the crazy shit that goes on in his family. The fact that he’s putting up with it (especially the part where he’s paid literal minimum wage when he should be paid way more) is making our shared future look very very uncertain and shaky, if he doesn’t stand up to his family and continues working for his mother, we’re going to be extremely emotionally and financially unstable as where we currently live, minimum wage isn’t even enough to cover half the rent of an apartment. I am currently working as a legal consultant and getting paid way more than he is but I’m going to have to quit at one point to undergo an apprenticeship once I pass the bar exam, which means we would have to live off of my savings and his income, which again, is close to nothing at the moment.
He knows that his family are not behaving like sensible adults but he has that “it is what it is” mentality which I loathe. How the hell can I make him see all that’s wrong and push him to set firm boundaries and put his foot down when necessary?
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2024.11.29 17:39 Chai_fan About Indian railways
I’m travelling by train for the first time and its a 16 hour journey i have a bunch of questions and I don’t know anyone who travels by train so help me if you can 1. Do they provide blanket at night 2. Whats the food status (how to get food, didn’t see any option on paytm while booking tickets) 3. Do i need to tie my bag with something or are they safe as it is? 4. How much space is in the 3rd ac and 2 nd ac
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2024.11.29 17:39 LongInside2444 Looking for subleases at Rambler Athens, (Jan - Dec 2025), or roommates
2 BR
Atlas Athens is good too
I can afford the full lease.
Returning UGA student. Been working the last 3 years.
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2024.11.29 17:39 sagar9175 Ichelle Streekstra
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2024.11.29 17:39 coffeefrog92 Can a native Arabic speaker tell me what the name Sufyan means?
Hope this question isn't off topic for the sub.
I've tried to track down a meaning for this name but I've found mutilate answers including:
2024.11.29 17:39 BonTheRabbit 111874
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2024.11.29 17:39 Meyer_Madness LCCC - 2 matches today
Well rd3 for the LCCC came around pretty quick! We’ve got our first 2 matches already scheduled and players itching to take the win for their region!
29 November: NoImNot vs FrankKarsten @ 1pm est English stream- https://www.twitch.tv/specimen French stream- https://www.twitch.tv/njds_thibault
Lamchopss vs Pham @ 4pm est English stream- https://www.twitch.tv/queenmiamiabou French stream- Spanish stream- https://www.twitch.tv/baraja3tintas
Historically, SteelSong is pretty awesome into RP and RP really great in RB. Today we get a look into seeing how history may not represent the future.
Who you guys rooting for?
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2024.11.29 17:39 Few-Sorbet-9635 Pumpkin rabbit VHS
Does anyone know if this is getting restocked? I missed it and really wanted it (I missed out on the plushy by about an hour or two!!!) (😭) submitted by Few-Sorbet-9635 to Thewaltenfiles [link] [comments] |
2024.11.29 17:39 JoBookman [Suggest a Book] Is my taste in books childish?
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2024.11.29 17:39 Hotstreak2k3 ⭐[4K ] Zelda: Twilight Princess - 18th Anniversary Tribute in Unreal Engine 5
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2024.11.29 17:39 Commercial-Truth4731 What if a large teardrop cloud appeared over America on the eve of the Iraq war vaporizing everyone?
A year shaped cloud so Vancouver, Seattle and the Caribbean were spared but everyone inside it disappeared
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2024.11.29 17:39 mdpm69 ¿Genero musical de origen local que escuches?
Recomienden.
View Poll
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2024.11.29 17:39 Pmatwell1 Rate me. Rate me my friend.41/m. I’d say don’t take it easy on me but I’ve already seen other’s comments. You’re clear on the task.
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2024.11.29 17:39 JoBookman [Suggest a Book] My wife hates history...
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2024.11.29 17:39 Fit-Razzmatazz1569 Finally in the wild!
32.99! Huntington Beach
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2024.11.29 17:39 nuunuuu Is Wentworth over completely?
I feel like after season 8 came out, I heard about another season coming out? Did anyone hear that also? Or am I not remembering right haha
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2024.11.29 17:39 Yorshy What do you guys think?
Got these off 'some guy' (I know, I know.) in Jordan for pretty cheap. Pretty sure they are fake but wanted you guys' opinion! Thanks! submitted by Yorshy to AncientCoins [link] [comments] |
2024.11.29 17:39 CrazyJo3 Scianara Fluse
https://bearswire.usatoday.com/story/sports/nfl/bears/2024/11/29/chicago-bears-fire-head-coach-matt-eberflus/76646696007/
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2024.11.29 17:39 Really-not-a-weeb Why does this person know me? Are we a hivemind?
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2024.11.29 17:39 laundrymountain ELI5 - Help me understand the size comparison of things like glucose and white blood cells.
I’m trying to come up with tangible size comparisons to explain various things in the blood. From what I’ve found, glucose is around 1 nanometer and white blood cells have a large range in size but the smallest ones may be around 10 micrometers. If a glucose molecule was the size of an M&M, would the white blood cell be bigger than a football field?
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2024.11.29 17:39 riel_pro En caso de una investigación federal o similar yo intente irme
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2024.11.29 17:39 West-Guidance-7562 Ghost of tabor 15% off
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2024.11.29 17:39 kart2265 Anyone preparing for upsc from pune
Which would be a good area to stay and prepare if you cannot afford to go to Delhi?
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2024.11.29 17:39 bsorensen101 Black Friday and Cyber Monday Ticket Discounts
Hoping to give some ticket gifts this holiday season. Nothing better than an experience rather than a trinket. Any promo codes or offers you’re seeing?
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