So.. my bf and I quitted our jobs
2024.11.29 18:40 Sparkling_Coin So.. my bf and I quitted our jobs
We were both in the army. Technically I still am for one more month but it will be over for me too. Just a small recap.. we met at the military academy. Our time there was darkness. It was as if we were slaves. We could just quit but we didn't. Like we got so deep into those invisible chains that we forgot that we could set ourselves free.
We were room mates back then. We were supporting each other. We fell in love. Our love was absolutely secret. When we graduated, it was not illegal to be together but we would still hide it, it would be safer. We had our own homophobia to deal with, who's the manliest of the two.
Some things happened lately and he just announced me that he will quit. He said that he believes I'm a ver good military officer, but we're fighting on the wrong side. He made me think of it a lot and I agree. I have my own values and morals and I was under the false impression that being in the army was in accordance with those.
Now he's making bread and biscuits. In the army he was responsible for food supplies. He really makes wonderful biscuits. He always did.
As for me? I was responsible for self defense. I will stick with that.
I just feel that we tormented ourseles for so long. I just hope that we will be able to live our lives like a gay couple that's free.
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2024.11.29 18:40 rahelbald There's no better way to celebrate Payday than with tributes.
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2024.11.29 18:40 VesperHelsing Vilka småstäder borde jag besöka i Sverige?
I en föregående diskussion på reddit skrivade jag om mina upplevelser i Stockholm och Göteborg och att hur jag kände att folk där ville inte ens prata svenska med mig. (Jag är en finländare som kan ok svenska). Många sade att jag skulle besöka mindre städer istället. Nästa året har jag planerat att försöka några småstäder, vilka rekommenderar ni? Jag menar inte små byar utan småstäder där det finns åtminstone en hotel och restaurang samt kanske sköna, gamla byggnader att se och något interessant i deras historia, och naturligtvist när jag kunde öva min svenska med folket därinne.
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2024.11.29 18:40 AutoModerator GTA Online Modded Accounts for PC, XBOX, and PLAYSTATION (Old and New Gen) Tired of the grind?
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2024.11.29 18:40 Gullible_Bus_4094 Why do you think so many assume that a person being atheist means that they don’t believe in existence beyond death?
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2024.11.29 18:40 Thomasshadbolt Tyson fury and deontay wilder
Please steel city fix this their hooks jabs and uppercuts phase through a block especially the body hooks and uppercuts jabs only really phase when thrown to the head it’s really kinda bullshit cause I’m winning and then suddenly a deontay will throw a right hook and it’ll phase through a block along with fury’s lead body hooks they just phase the block
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2024.11.29 18:40 Speirsington Got em
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2024.11.29 18:40 Tricky2RockARhyme Listen, releasing the game in the state it was in wasn't okay, but they've earned the benefit of the doubt with this patch.
I believe this is clearly an indication that GSC wants to make a game that we want to play. I'm sure that more is on the way, and I'm very impressed with how quickly such an impactful patch was put out. Keep going, guys. This is great.
Hardware RT whennnnnnn
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2024.11.29 18:40 Whole-Top2524 Truly waterproof raincoat for college student?
During the recent deluge in Northern California my daughter’s raincoats soaked through. She needs something waterproof and big enough to cover her backpack walking to and from campus for future storms. Thank you for your suggestions!
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2024.11.29 18:40 muser___struser How to stay motivated about software outside of work?
I (M26) have had a great SWE job for the past two years as a full stack web developer. However, during this time, I haven't done any homework to learn new skills/technologies. I am worried that in the long run, this will hurt me severely. There are a few subjects I would like to learn more about, but after a full day's work, I just don't have the motivation to read a textbook. Does anyone have advice on how to stay motivated to learn more after work? Any insights on how important this actually is? If it's just a matter of discipline, then any advice on maintaining discipline when you're already in a comfortable place? Any anecdotes of similar feelings and what you did about them?
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2024.11.29 18:40 jonok474 Cowboy Store - Cyclescheme Checkout
I don't see the Cycle to Work scheme checkout method on the site. The instructions state you can enter your Cyclescheme certificate number and process your order. Am I missing anything?
https://uk.cowboy.com/pages/cyclescheme
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2024.11.29 18:40 Eickhorn Lizzies Always Makes For a Good Screenshot !
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2024.11.29 18:40 CitizenErased Mesh via webGUI
I got a 7590ax, a 1200ax and a 3000ax, the last two work fine as repeaters, but can i really only set them to mesh mode with the WPS button? I tried with starting WPS from the GUI, but that just times out
I already installed the FB at a place hard to get to ...
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2024.11.29 18:40 AstutePuffin UK - car accident scam
Bit of a vent/warning to UK based Redditors
So I was in a car accident on Tuesday. No fault claim with dash cam footage to show other car came into my lane
However what happened over the next few hours and days has been a horror story.
So I was mentally a bit shaken immediately after the accident, on my drive to work an idiot just hits my car out of nowhere. I call my insurance, file the claim, start preparing the dash cam footage and photos of damage.
My insurer (Hastings) tells me how they will pass my details to other companies, such as Enterprise for the car replacement, some garages for repairs etc.
Somehow, it seems my details have been leaked to fraudulent companies. I got so many calls in the space of 5-6 hours that I went into autopilot, answering questions they asked, giving descriptions of the accident etc. I assumed that because they knew my phone number and name that they had been delegated by Hastings.
Two of these callers asked for my national insurance. Despite being mentally exhausted and overwhelmed with the bombardment of phone calls, this made me suspicious and I asked why they needed my NI number. The guy replied very calmly yeah no worries, it’s just so we can check your claims history to make sure you haven’t made claims with other insurers before. Which typing it now sounds stupid, but at the time, given all the factors such as how he knew my name, he seemed legit.
So that’s how I gave away my NI number to scammers - they somehow knew of my accident and the companies involved within hours, and impersonated them to steal confidential info. No idea how they had my details to begin with.
Then I received a phone call from Enterprise (legitimate enterprise) who informed me of the process to hire a replacement vehicle. Half an hour after this call, I get a message from Enterprise (the name of the sender was ENTERPRISE, no phone number visible). It asks me to upload photos of the car from all angles, the VIN number and then my drivers license. Given I had just been on the phone with Enterprise, and they called me by my name in the text, I assumed that again this was legit. So now I’ve also lost my driving license to fraudsters
Guys if you are ever unlucky enough to be involved with insurance if any kind - NEVER give out your National Insurance, photos of ID and definitely not bank info. This sounds obvious when you are calm, but immediately after an incident you may be more vulnerable mentally given your faith in your insurer - I am normally very careful, but this made me realise just how evil scammers can be.
I hope this post may help even one person avoid sharing their confidential info with scammers. If anybody has advice on what to do given the loss of my NI and drivers license numbers, would be appreciated
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2024.11.29 18:40 Additional_Glass2503 My Purchase Experience - A Review about Friendly Diamonds USA
Hey Folks,
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If you’re considering buying an engagement ring or any jewelry, I wholeheartedly recommend Friendly Diamonds. I'm planning to buy a necklace for my wife this Christmas, and I know this is the place where I'm placing my order at. The combination of quality, transparency, and exceptional service truly made this a memorable purchase!
Thank you, Mak
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2024.11.29 18:40 Particular_Knee_6364 Best exercises to strengthen knees for hiking?
Planning a big hiking trip in 3 months but have historically weak knees. Want to prevent injuries before they happen. What exercises helped you build knee stability for trails?
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2024.11.29 18:40 Miserable-Week-3372 "The day you plant the seed is not the day you eat the fruit." – Anonymous
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2024.11.29 18:40 netocrat Ontario will offer $77M to offset dramatic spike in OPP costs for towns
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2024.11.29 18:40 Numpty2024 When and why did men having long hair become taboo?
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