I (18F) want to contact my ex (18F) after a breakup. What is the correct approach?

2024.11.30 12:40 th333o I (18F) want to contact my ex (18F) after a breakup. What is the correct approach?

Me (18F) and my ex girlfriend (18F) had only been together for 4 months before i broke up with her but we used to be best friends for 1+ year prior our relationship. When I broke up with her we were both working at a camp and we lived together. Needless to say we kept having regular contact during that time and we basically were still “friends”. She took the breakup pretty badly, crying in my arms the first few nights. I broke up with her because i couldn’t deal with her psychological issues (she is bipolar, something i learned about her later on) since i already have a lot of issues myself. I was pretty heartbroken myself since making the decision of breaking up with her tore my soul, but i knew i couldn’t deal with it anymore. I tolf her i wanted to stay friends(because of our past), if that was ok with her of course. 2 weeks later I hooked up with a guy. She learned about it, I told her i didn’t like him, she found that okay-ish. She left the camp that night to go to her home, which ended up in a trip to the psych ward where they prescribed her some “calming” drugs. She returned the next day. 3 weeks passed without a problem. In the meantime I also made out with one of my old crushes(current friend) thing i never wanted her to find out since she would be heartbroken. I leave the camp, she stays there. My first night back I get a call from her asking me if i actually made out with that friend, since someone from the camp told her about it. I denied it(sadly) and she believed me. Next day, at a party my friend gets a call from her, calling her a lot of names. Long story short someone confirmed that we actually hooked up, THE DAY i broke up with her. This never happened. That night we fought very hard(both drunk) and the next day she ended up on the psych ward for real this time and she got diagnosed with bipolar. We never spoke again and I still can’t get over all this. This all happened in august after our break up in july.
P.S we go to the same school.
If anyone wants more info, i’m willing to share. I really need advice on how and if i should or not actually approach her. We never had real closure and I don’t think i’ll ever get over this if i don’t talk to her, atleast one last time.
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i hate that i'm reduced to this person confessing on the internet. i'm acting out of character; i feel bare and vulnerable—but i'll try to get used to this—to be a little bit courageous and learn not to run away from my thoughts.
you once told me how personally drawn you were to the works of ernest hemingway. so, i read the 'moveable feast' in hopes that i could feel what you feel and be closer to the deepest depths of your mind. i didn’t bother telling you how it got me into my longest reading slump.
i remember the time you told me your dreams of entering the art world, about how passionate you were in creating something that uniquely belongs to you. i regret overlooking your message and not asking about one of the drawings you're currently working on then.
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