Should I Reach Out or Wait to See if He Will again?
2024.12.01 02:20 Ok-Error-2355 Should I Reach Out or Wait to See if He Will again?
I need advice about my ex. We dated for 4–5 months two years ago, and though the relationship felt meaningful, it had its challenges. He could be controlling and rigid, and our intimacy declined near the end. He ultimately broke up with me, saying he wanted someone who would "change for him," which left me questioning my worth. We didn’t speak again—until now.
On Thanksgiving, he texted me out of the blue after two years. I didn’t recognize his number at first, but we had a polite exchange. He suggested a call, but I told him I wasn’t ready to unpack things emotionally. I said, “Would it be okay if I reached out to you later when im ready?” he said yes, but only if I was in the right headspace.
The next day, I messaged him again, jokingly suggesting something casual (a one-night stand), but admitted I didn’t actually want that. I told him I was scared to unpack things, and he replied with a simple "understood."
Here’s where I’m at now: I recently flew out of town, back to where I work. While I was with family I couldn’t stop obsessing over him, but once I arrived at my destination, the weight of those thoughts disappeared. I feel lighter, like my connection to him was tied to proximity or nostalgia. That said, I still care about him and wonder “what if?” I’m unsure whether to reach out or let him make the next move.
My Question: Should I reach out to him, or should I wait and see if he will reach out again? Any advice or insight would be appreciated.
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So I'm nearly 20, and I've been on HRT for nearly 5 years. This journey has been..... Difficult to say the least. From begging my parents for their consent to navigating the medical system and care, it's taken a lot of effort and a lot of time.
Recently, I realized that I don't actually care much about being a woman, every time that I think about it, it has been just "oh I want to look pretty", "I wish I were the woman in this relationship" and never truly intrinsically about being the concept of a woman. It's basically all purely vanity and regarding appearances.
I've been thinking about detransitioning recently, but it just feel like I have lost so much. I've lost so much time, my parents would never look or think of me the same way, I lost friends and etc. I really don't want to say to my parents that I'm stopping this. Because they would put that in my face and say "we told you so." I don't want to admit that I was wrong. I was also in the process of scheduling FFS and SRS this year, and it just seems like I did so much for nothing? I feel like I'm experiencing the sunk cost fallacy, and I don't want to give it all up for naught.
Also, every detrans space is transphobic as fuck, especially on tumblr. So that also makes things harder.
😐 anyways, I'm just wondering if anyone else has any similar experiences? How did you get over the feeling that you've wasted your life? What did you do next? Thanks.
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What do you go cheap on?
Kid will be playing mostly Roblox/Minecraft/Multiversus at first, so I'm thinking you go quality on Mobo/CPU, but get a cheap video card. Not sure how cheap I can go and still have him be happy for a year until he gets a nicer card next year.
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2024.12.01 02:20 KitKitKate2 Question
A few days ago, my father told my mom to tell me that i have to get "re"-assessed before i enter any college or university. He said i have to do this for accomodations, but i'm not sure it's required. But the next day, he also said that i would have to be assessed again this year, or maybe next year.
It was apparently because he went to a workshop for kids with IEPs/Special (Educational) Needs, it was for people who were going to transition to a post secondary pathway, like either heading to college or university or just straight to the workplace without post secondary education. That was the only information he told me, not even the name, but suggested that i actually attend another one as well so i understand more, i guess.
So today, i researched more on this topic and found out it seemed to be required in order to receive accomodations because apparently just having the diagnosis isn't enough for the college or university to be able to accomodate and otherwise support me and other students with IEPs. This was from websites based in Canada, so i'm not sure if this is only for students in Canada or internationally or just for North American students.
Has anyone experienced needing to do this to receive college or university accomodations?
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2024.12.01 02:20 RisingGam3r Questions on the realism of a hypothetical battle
Good evening, warships. Fair warning: This post is rather long-winded.
I'm here to seek answers to questions I am having a difficult time researching, and to hear opinions on my scenario set-up.
I am writing a series of short-form historical fiction pieces surrounding naval combat during the first and second world wars, in case anyone is curious as to what utility these answers provide me- It always bugs me if I get something wrong, so I prefer to do my fact checking beforehand. I feel like the way things play out here is a little contrived, and I want to make the battle seem realistically constructed.
The specific scenario I am writing is as follows; an Iowa-class battleship and a small escorting group are assisting with the invasion of an as-of-yet unspecified pacific island in early 1944. All ships are moored in a loose formation and the remaining parts of the battlegroup are escorting the transport ships they arrived with away from the area- too far away by the time of engagement to be of any help.
The Battleship's group consists of herself, one Cleveland-class light cruiser, two Mahan-class destroyers, and four Fletcher-class. The enemy force attacking will consist of three Akizuki-class destroyers. Japanese command in the area wishes to damage the Battleship while it is vulnerable, but sufficient resources for a highly effective strike are too far out of range, so they send what can be spared for a torpedo hit-and-run attack. The Mahan-class destroyers would be at anchor near the battleship, listening on hydrophones for submarine engine sounds. The Fletchers patrol at slow speeds, occasionally stopping their engines as they run anti-submarine duties.
The three destroyers come in at high speed and take the group by surprise. Crew on the battleship is called to general quarters as the Fletchers feed her information on where the Japanese are. She singles out the closest destroyer and scores a direct hit with one of her main guns and destroying it before it can launch torpedoes. She turns away to make distance while firing based on radar targeting with secondary battery. Japanese destroyers launch torpedoes in a panic, missing the battleship but hitting the bow of the Cleveland (causing severe flooding but not sinking the ship) and destroying one of the Fletchers. Most of the destroyers end up in a knife fight as two of the remaining fletchers screen the BB. Both remaining Japanese destroyers are severely damaged and attempt to retreat, both being sunk by continued fire from the combined American force, whose destroyers sustain minor damage from return fire.
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So, that's what I have. I don't know that it's particularly realistic- especially with something as valuable as an Iowa class not being heavily guarded, even for a single night. I plan to explain this by having the destroyers come from an unexpected angle, passing through gaps in other defensive screens.
Now, a set of questions- At anchor in a potential combat zone, would the Iowa class likely its boilers lit and if not, how fast could she make turns for Flank speed in an emergency such as this? How fast could her crew get to battlestations and have the main guns ready to fire?
Sorry for being so long-winded. I'm hoping that some fellow ship nerds can help me make the backdrop for my story feel realistic (within the context of it being alternate history).
Anyway, if you got this far thanks for reading!
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2024.12.01 02:20 brujulanorte The initial payment represents 2% of the target payment.
Hi, I am about to do a marketing job for a telecommunications company, my work is good, but I don't know how to negotiate the payments. The company proposed me a base pay that represents 2% of the target pay, it seems to me very low, even ridiculous. The role is: Campaign design (user identification, lead funnel building, campaign concept) execution (metrics tracking, content ideation, hiring copywriter and graphic creative).
Should I renegotiate the proposal? Reject? Should I set a monthly fee?
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