Wife's hidden drinking causing chaos behind the scenes.
2024.12.01 07:25 foreverthursday1 Wife's hidden drinking causing chaos behind the scenes.
This may not be as detailed as I would like, but it is late, and I haven't had a chance to write this yet until now.
I (43m) am married to my (43f) wife. We are not quite at six years yet, but we connected well. I had gone through a divorce where I wanted to keep trying years before and she was a young widow. So we both knew grief from rerelationships.
When we started dating she was drinking fairly heavily, but was living alone and we had friends in common. She is a wine enthusiast who would travel with her late husband to vineyards and wineries.
She would give me tastings do I could learn more and I would introduce her to bourbon, Scotch, and craft beer.
However, I am not a heavy drinker, and have never struggled with any addictions.
Fast forward, and we are married, and her drinking is one to two bottles a night. Sometimes more. I have asked her to have a sober day a week, I have pleaded with her to limit herself to one drink at restaurants that aren't date (like having lunch with my kids at a normal restaurant), and none of these have ever happened. She can be a mean drunk, and she is going through full course semesters and working full-time. She gets drunk in front of my kids, but everyone else can't really see it because it is hidden behind this facade of wine aficionado. I have confided in close friends, but they are concerned about image as well. My wife is a worship leader at church, her work is Christian based, etc...
Her drinking is affecting every aspect of our lives, and the amount she spends on wine is staggering. I am burnt out and I can't continue like this.
What do I do?
AITAH if I leave?
AITAH for not fully understanding addiction?
AITAH if I seek help and "ruin her reputation?"
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