Am I an idiot for thinking about ending this?
2025.01.18 05:19 SafeSolid6158 Am I an idiot for thinking about ending this?
I'm M18 and my boyfriend is H18. We spent a few months apart, as I broke up with him due to my personal problems and doubts, but we remained friends. We recently got back together and I realized that we are more connected and happy as a couple. He has always been a very good boyfriend, to the point where people comment that he is PERFECT. Which is not true, we all have flaws but he is a very good boyfriend.
But still, these days the reason to fight appeared. I'm a bit of a busy person and I always have my cell phone on hand. He is already very busy, he has his projects and helps around the house and is the “do-it-all” in his family. During the day we always exchange messages and when he can't, I know he must be busy and I understand.
But one thing that I always made clear and he always made a point of doing, is good morning and good night every day. And lately he doesn't text me good night anymore and disappears for hours.
But here comes the impasse: he is extremely transparent with me, I have all his social networks (his decision) and every time he disappears it is always because something happened or he was busy. I know he's not one to lie and I understand.
The problem is that lately his absence has been constant but always accompanied by good reasons. Like: I didn't say good night because I had to help a relative with something or was doing something. And even though I know it's true, it could have happened. I end up being extremely upset and distressed.
In our last fight, I gave an ultimatum and we agreed that he could at least let us know that he was busy (as he used to do before). But still the problem continues. I feel really bad and I don't think anyone should feel that way in a healthy relationship.
I end up feeling stupid because I worry and even lose sleep, I get upset. And the next day he appears to explain to me why he can't talk and it all makes sense but it doesn't change the fact that I was anxious for hours waiting to hear from him.
I have his location (we both have it for security, since I usually walk alone) and he is always at home. I even have contact with the family to confirm this if necessary. He's not strange or indifferent, no signs of betrayal or anything like that. He doesn't seem disinterested, quite the opposite. So I don't know what it could be. We have been in a relationship for over 2 years and I never thought it would end for this reason.
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2025.01.18 05:19 Theirine Sound/trend from around 2020?
Around 2020ish (I think, maybe 2021) there was this audio that was used frequently with embarrassing stories. People would post stories with screen caps of their faces distorted and as the story got more embarrassing, the audio kept slowing down and getting more distorted. It was a digital sounding song, very repetitive, and the photos were usually filtered with a bunch of colors. There were hundreds of videos like this. One I remember was a woman that got Mexican food and went swimming in crystal clear water and got sick, and her description was hysterical.
I cannot find an example anywhere. The videos used to make me laugh endlessly. There were no lyrics and I have no idea how to find it and the memory is driving me insane because no one else knows what I'm talking about. Hoping someone here remembers so I can search the song or something
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2025.01.18 05:19 _FuelledbyCoffee What is happening??
My friend found out bits of cut hair wrapped inside her semester exam result photocopy. This paper ball was found tucked away behind her suitcase under her bed. And her notebook got missing yesterday. She has an exam of the same subject next week. What is happening india.??
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2025.01.18 05:19 Far_Philosophy_2654 Comment-Exchange!
This subreddit is all about building community. What better way to do that than by celebrating eachother? Post a fic that you have written and find a buddy to exchange comments with! If you share one with me, I'll read your fic and give some feedback.
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2025.01.18 05:19 maxgong9 The Chinese dub is pretty good. The English dub is ass.
I speak both chinese and English. I felt dw origins, the Chinese dub did a great job, while the English dub was the most cheesy dub I've ever heard. I can't tell how well the Japanese one was since I don't speak Japanese.
What do you think
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2025.01.18 05:19 propya Need help getting my honda city repaired
 | 4 cars are driving behind each other when suddenly on car in between decides that they want to turn right without any indicator and car in front of takes a sudden halt. The speed was reduced to point that no one was injured and car was driven back another 400kms from there. Major damage was done to the hood cover which bent in inwards causing the car to look like voldemort. Other damages include bent bumper, fender, no frame damage and headlights mounting tab to have a slight crack(will play an important role) Now starts the horror story of getting the car repaired. I have a tata aig comprehensive insurance but not zero dep (since car is older than 5years) Honda Whitefield Bangalore ASC After having a look at the car, service advisor mentioned that both headlights will need to be replaced since they do not know about plastic welding and each headlight costs 48k + taxes making 1lac+ rupees just for headlights. WTF there is no damage on the lenses or cover. He gave a total estimate of 1.9lacs + taxes asking half of it to be paid from my pocket. No brainer we left from there. Pragati motors Marathahalli Bangalore (network garage) They seemed pretty decent at first and promised that they will be able to source genuine parts from honda. I double confirmed and they seemed confident. So I dropped the car for surveyor visit. Surveyor took 7days to approve the claim saying it's a pre-owned car we need more details and blah blah. Had to raise a complaint finally with irdai and the repairs were approved where the from bumper, grill and hood were to be replaced. Now the garage calls me and says we will take 15days just to get those parts. Since then the car has been sitting in the garage as seen in the last 2 photos. I call them every alternate day to check if parts are shipped but no better response. It's been 12 days since they have placed order but no update plus now they are not even taking my calls seriously. I don't know what to do now? What are my options here? 1. Can I move my car between other garage once the claim is approved? 2. Should I go back to trusty garage and source the parts myself and leave the reimbursement claim upto luck? 3. Get the car repaired from local shaddy garages who are promising to fix the hood as well (I am not sure if it will bring it back to factory finish) 4. Anything else Please help me since I am frustrated with this whole process for now submitted by propya to MechanicAdviceIndia [link] [comments] |
2025.01.18 05:19 Sakcrel Zombie or mutant stories?
Hi, I am searching for something that has progression related with zombies and mutations. Like basically progression centered about biological stuff like Resident Evil. Stuff like the MC gaining tentacles, extra organs, more parts, etc. Hey if I can get specific what I would search for would be something like a Resident Zombie mutating and becoming stronger or a survivor in the apolicapsis also mutating extra parts.
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2025.01.18 05:19 DADDY8102 Spiritual experience under Ketamine...
So after I dislocated my shoulder, I had to go to the ER to have it put back in place. My muscles tense, and it requires me to be put under to pop it back in. Always, I get a quick shot of Morphine to put me under for a few minutes to do it.
This particular time, for some reason, they decided to use Ketamine. I went under and was in w bright white room. Only, I can't really say it was white or even a room. Hard to explain. I can only say this, I felt a peace and comfort I had never felt before. I wanted to be there. I wanted to stay there. Very indescribable, what I felt.
But, out of nowhere, I suddenly remembered I had 3 children, and they needed me. And I wanted to see them. It was right when I had that realization, everything changed. I was no longer in the white space of comfort or peace. I was crawling through a dark tunnel. I was an angled upward climb. It was muddy and rocky and moist and dark. I felt dread, and a panic to push on for hours and hours, because I had to get back to my kids. I had to. I couldn't quit! And when I say it took hours, it really felt like maybe 15 hours or so. And then suddenly, I somewhere else. I couldn't tell where because my vision was impaired. Think of looking at the world through a fractured windshield. It took a good 30 minutes for my vision. To i.prove enough to realize I was in the ER. Dr said I was under for 10 minutes. I hear all the time it was a trip down the K hole. I personally feel it was more a spiritual thing.
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2025.01.18 05:19 AirRepresentative798 How to verify Ahmedabad passes??
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2025.01.18 05:19 tw4449 Daily Monika #1501 (by Likesac)
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2025.01.18 05:19 Lookn_for_Beans_21 Does there need to be a map voting system in the finals?
I think there’s enough maps to vote for now. I’m sure that it wouldn’t affect something like quick cash(maybe ranked). But I think I speak for everyone when I say there are specific maps that we do not want to play on (cough cough…Kyoto…cough)
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2025.01.18 05:19 Conscious_Income8870 Boyfriend (39m) Gets Mad Everytime I Go Home for the Day
My (33 f) boyfriend (39m) gets mad every time I go home. We own our own separate houses. We live about 10 minutes away. I used to spend every single night there. He has this really cheap mattress and after a long time, it got really uneven and I started having backaches. I started spending the nights at my house because I was at the chiropractor every other day and I was having constant headaches and back pain at work.
I'm there everyday. I'm a teacher and I take my work home with me. I also have this online temporary side gig for the next 6 months. The other night, I had so much paperwork to do, I stayed home to do all of it and he got really mad. But when I grade at his house, sometimes I get distracted. I also don't want to bring 50 posters to his house when I can just grade them at my house. He starts getting irritated if I'm spending too much time grading at his house.
When I get home from work, I like to clean the house and I go to spin exercise classes. I usually don't get to his house until 7:30 to 8:00 at night. We spend time together and he makes dinner. But he gets mad every time I go home. I'm there a lot until midnight and I'm always tired at work because I'm only getting 6 hours of sleep every single night. But I don't want to go there earlier because there's only so many hours you can sit on the couch for and I like to get things done at my house or run errands.
He got mad because I signed up for an exercise class early in the morning. He wanted me to spend the night. Sometimes. I suck it up on weekends and spend the night. But then I go home and sleep because I don't sleep good on his mattress. He won't come to my house because he has a dog. Which I understand, I don't want the dog to be restricted all night. I think the dog should be able to roam free and I would feel guilty.
When I used to spend the night on work nights, I would get up and rush home and get ready and rush out the door to work. And then as soon as I got home it was a rush to get everything done so I can go to his house. It's a lot of rushing around even though we only live 10 minutes away. I feel like during the week, my house it gets messy and laundry gets backed up because if I'm not there, he gets mad.
The one day I went to this co-op they normally don't go to after work to pick up milk. I told him the other day and it seemed like he got mad that I went there and didn't tell him. He gets mad if I stay at my friend's house too late. The one day I was at my friend's house from 6:30 p.m. until 9:30 p.m. and he was wondering why I was there so late but we're girls and we can't stop talking.
I really like going to my exercise classes on Saturday morning. But I sleep in on Sunday mornings so I could spend the night Saturday and I also have Monday off for the holiday so I can spend the night Sunday too. I just don't know why he's so mad about me going home at midnight so I can go to the class in the morning. And I know after the class, he's going to want me to pick up breakfast and come over. Which is fine, but if I'm always spending all my free time at someone else's house, nothing ever gets done. There's only so much you can get done at someone else's house.
The other day, when I told him I had too much work, he acted like it was a favor that he's letting me stay home the one night. But he was really mad and upset. And he kept texting me that he's lonely. I don't get lonely and I enjoy talking to myself. I tried ending it with them numerous times if he's unhappy that I can't be there enough, even though I'm already there everyday, but he doesn't want to end the relationship.
I don't know how to manage to get things done while always being at his house. Sometimes I need the floor to spread my papers out, but there's too much dog hair everywhere. He picks up after his dog but I feel like he can do a better job. I don't want to give up exercising because he's mad I'm not at his house. But I really like going to those exercise classes because they push me or as if I go to the gym, I'm not motivated as much.
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2025.01.18 05:19 AP419 Coach asked to write my own impact statement
My coach, SM, is super busy and asked me to write my own impact statement. I've been with a firm for 4 years, manager, and have been going out of my way to write them for my coachees. Should I kick it back to the coach? Your thoughts?
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2025.01.18 05:19 BigMommaSnikle Taking a break....
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2025.01.18 05:19 Acceptable_Bug8615 F Fair reputation meter
I can no longer reach phase 3 as the event will end tomorrow. Anyone from team phase 3 that can share the daily requirements for reputation meter?
Can't seem to find it anywhere wiki, discord or google.
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2025.01.18 05:19 Excellent_Toe4823 Plate not heating evenly?
Been trying to print an articulated dragon for a friend of mine. The print takes up the whole print bed but it’s failed every damn time. Most of the fails have been due to one or two segments of it peeling off the plate as if they didn’t adhere to it, while the rest is fine. And the pieces that do peel off are the ones farthest from the center of the print plate. I copied the file to reduce the size a bit for my next attempt, hoping that’ll work
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2025.01.18 05:19 kinryuukid3d Any idea what's on my cat's eye? It doesn't seem to bother her any.
She has this brown spot in her left eye with a little floating tendril coming out of it. It doesn't seem to bother her any, nor is it impeding her vision as far as I can tell.
https://preview.redd.it/gqjyrt3esode1.jpg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1c4e33f46ffc3ff065ea4c473b18b11486451072
Her name is Darcy and she's 5 years old, long-haired.
Since it isn't really bothering her I wanted to see if someone's seen something like this before and if I should be concerned. I don't want to stress her out with a vet visit if its not necessary.
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2025.01.18 05:19 iekather Hitman 2: Silent Assasin
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2025.01.18 05:19 konsoru-paysan Do you think Nvidia's Arm based CPUs be LGA or PGA?
I'm assuming it be lga since it's more user friendly since in shipping and basic cpu handling there would be no issues in damaging any pins on the mobo unless of course you clamp the cpu in the wrong position (or as Amd in all their wisdom put it if you drop the cpu on the mother board 🙄). Pretty much all my local repair shops are filled with amd bent or removed pins plus in second hand market, intel cpus are safe to buy.
Stuff like this why I mostly buy intel cpus and of course nvidia gpus not cause of their dlss or ray tracing potential but their superior software features. If nvidia goes lga with their chips then they got my vote. But what do you all think what route they will go?
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