AITA For not wanting to pay £1500 so that my dad can work out of my bedroom closet?
2025.01.18 08:50 CreakyCargo1 AITA For not wanting to pay £1500 so that my dad can work out of my bedroom closet?
Recently, I (23M) made the decision to drop out of university. This was due in part to the fact that I didn't find it intellectually stimulating, but also because my nan was having some housing trouble. That situation deteriorated and, long story short, I find myself moving in with my dad(50M). Me and my dad have had a rocky relationship, mainly because we lived together before and he has a very particular vision for his home. If anyone disrupts that vision, then he kind of explodes.
Now I don't have much of a choice of where I live and I'm very appreciative that he's offering me a room. I was also quite excited to stop moving about, as I've done so about 4 times in the last few months and having an opportunity to start a career would excite me, not to mention we've been getting along a lot better recently. But my excitement kinda died when I was told what his vision for our situation was. My dad has been very honest that he has a single room and, considering that my brother might be moving in, he wants to split a fairly big room into two smaller bedrooms. Okay, that makes sense and I was willing to pay for it (assuming my brother reimbursed me for half when he arrives) Thing is, that might not be happening for a year (or in my opinion at all) but my dad still wants the work done ASAP. This is because he wants to use the extra room, which can only be accessed through my room, to work in. Effectively, he expects me to pay £1500 so that he can work out of a closet in my bedroom.
My dad only requires a laptop to work and has already admitted that he could work in the kitchen, though he did mention it would be a hassle. Now it's his house and I understand that he has the final say, but I feel like I have a right to be a little miffed at his decision process here. I mean I'm already paying to have his attic redone (which I'm happy to do cause it's mainly my stuff going up there), but I'm also expected to pay for all of this, so that I have the right to pay him rent for a room I'm going to have 0 privacy in.
I'm thinking about just telling him that me moving in on a long term basis is the wrong idea and that I'll just try to move out ASAP, cause I just don't feel welcome in his home anymore. It just feels like he's purposefully made the situation as unappealing to me as possible. AITA or am I right in thinking this is a little crazy?
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