Youth stolen from me- How do I recover?
2025.01.18 19:37 BottleNo4960 Youth stolen from me- How do I recover?
This is a different failure to launch story, but with immature parents. When I went off to college my parents took/borrowed my student loan money. Was never there for me, showed preference to my brothers. They would not help me to stay in the city I went to school. I had to return home to my rural town with little job opportunities. I realized I was on my own and if I left again there would be no support. I was paralyzed with fear. It didn't help I had major depression and anxiety. I saved but car and medical accidents happened. Due to this trauma I felt uncared for and I spent my youth not dating, trying to get their love, and taking care of them. I hit perimenopause I realized I’ve wasted my life. I cut them off and all other toxic family. I realize I’m alone. I’ve always known I was alone. Even when I was living at home and broke an arm and leg my family refused to take care of me, but borrowed my car without asking me for 4 months. I’m scared who’s going to take care of me? My sex drive is in decline. Trying to get a testerone prescription. Trying to date with no experience. I have a good job and savings so it’s not a financial thing. I used to think I didn’t want kids but I think it was because I was taking care of my parents and I was tired. I used to want to travel, but I’m getting tired. I have the ability to as a teacher but I don’t know if that part of my life has passed. I have a therapist but I don’t know how to fix this. Help. Anyone have a similar story?
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2025.01.18 19:37 OuttaEldritch Getting in your enemy's head by faking out an ability
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2025.01.18 19:37 MrRedAndroid ArmA 3 2025
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2025.01.18 19:37 MoongazingSoul Galactic Marine TVC Custom 4.0
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2025.01.18 19:37 GameProfessional 🌐 24/7 Video Game | Nintendo Wii Holiday Bundle Black Console
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2025.01.18 19:37 No-Bee6722 My efforts are being downplayed. Ignored when in tears.
I’m feeling really frustrated and hurt after an argument with my partner, and I’d love to get some opinions. Today, he made a comment implying that I just sit around all day while he works. It was incredibly hurtful, especially since I work full-time (8:00 to 17:00) and also work remotely for another company after hours. I make sure to get home by 17:00, pick up the kids (a 4-year-old and a 4-month-old), take care of the house, cook, clean, and get everything ready for the next day (their clothes, pack their bags, sterilize bottles etc), so when he gets home, he doesn’t have to worry about any of it. I do this because I want him to have a break after his long work hours, but it feels like my work and efforts are being downplayed.
He has a new job where he works from 7:00 to 21:00, and I understand that his job is demanding, but I also feel like my hard work isn’t being recognized. On top of my full-time job, I’m managing multiple businesses, but that doesn’t seem to be acknowledged when he makes comments like this.
What hurts even more is that I had no maternity leave and worked up until the day before I gave birth and then three days after my C-section. All these tasks I do daily are done with a 4-month-old in my arms. Normally, I’d brush this off, but it really stung, especially because when he saw how upset I was, he just dismissed it as ‘one of my moods’ and didn’t acknowledge my feelings at all.
What hurts the most is that he saw me in tears and chose to ignore it, as if my emotions didn’t matter.
I’m also wondering—when was the last time he had to bathe the kids, cook, clean, or take care of things like that around the house? I do it all to make sure he doesn’t have to worry about it after his long days at work. I’m starting to feel like my efforts aren’t being appreciated.
I guess I’m just wondering if I’m overreacting or if anyone else has been in a similar situation. I feel like an apology is due, but I’m not sure how to approach it without it turning into another argument.
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2025.01.18 19:37 MiharDL some training
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2025.01.18 19:37 Open-Performance-655 New Jeans!
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2025.01.18 19:37 Lazy_Negotiation4544 Good road trip!
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2025.01.18 19:37 malakismenoafti Looking for Rufus Du Sol - Next To Me (Arodes Remix) please thx
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2025.01.18 19:37 GameProfessional 🏆 Game Professional |Nintendo Wii Holiday Bundle Black Console
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2025.01.18 19:37 -_-__-_--_- Eski çizimlerimi buldum p1
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2025.01.18 19:37 MelodicFrog69420 H: Glow Turkey, Glow Scorchbeast W: leaders
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2025.01.18 19:37 SkywalkerMC *Spoiler** (pausing the newspaper)
Did I miss any information about Dr Hales’ 2nd book from S01!? These Values Nine: How I let Kier in.
I don’t believe we had a firm connection until this moment, only speculation.
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2025.01.18 19:37 BMS_WyattGaming Overpaying for perm quake
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2025.01.18 19:37 Azyks_ Cheeky bastard
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2025.01.18 19:37 Lisonschka Super Loud meowing
I have had Cats my whole life but this one is different. I have him since I think 9 years now and he’s always been very talkative but since he got older he meows even more (sounds like complaining bc he is kind of grumpy) and he wants more and more affection/cuddles/love BUT every time I leave the room and he can’t see me he will start meowing like crazy (not only one time have I thought he must have hurt himself but he’s completely fine). It is so loud and sounds so terrible :( I feel bad all the time I hear it. Also the vet said that he’s fine Also he lives “alone” since I got him from the shelter, because he absolutely hates other cats (or other animals) and likes to rip them apart (literally), besides that he is the most handsome cat I have ever seen I just wonder why he’s so loud (it started like a year ago I think) I don’t want him to be sad but I really don’t know what to do :(
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2025.01.18 19:37 ItsYaBoiDez [P1V7] is there a volume 8?
Hey, so I've just recently discovered this series in my public library, and I've read all 7 volumes of part 1 they have (the manga). My issue now is that I use an app to track my progress in a series I'm reading, and it says that there are 44 chapters, but volume 7 ends at 33. I personally think my app may be counting the bonus chapters but I just wanted to ask all of you if volume 7 is the end of part 1 as I can't find anything about an 8 and if I can just move on to part 2.
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2025.01.18 19:37 GameProfessional ⬆️ Up Game Shop | Nintendo Wii Holiday Bundle Black Console
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2025.01.18 19:37 RangerOfMonth Trading punks.
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2025.01.18 19:37 GameProfessional 🛍️ eBay Video Games | Nintendo Wii Holiday Bundle Black Console
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2025.01.18 19:37 Black_Twinkies While laughingly small, a tasty way to mixup my week
Blazed up, these guys lasted way more than two bites as each one packed a flavor bomb waiting to explode in my mouth. Dipping in the creamy chipotle sauce added even more zest to the bang giving me quite a delightful snack experience. Combined with the rest of the discovery box items I am quite satisfied- although the price tag felt like a treat to myself compared to my normal order price range.
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2025.01.18 19:37 Gengiskhan1958 Need Help Writing Low-Level C Code for Ore-Waste Contour Detection Using Color Gradients
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2025.01.18 19:37 GameProfessional ⬆️ Up Game Shop | Nintendo Wii Holiday Bundle Black Console | Seller: ersan_3197 (100.0% positive feedback)Location: USCondition: UsedPrice: 120.00 USDShipping cost: FreeBuy It Now
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2025.01.18 19:37 heyiambob Summoning prime Laron Landry energy tonight
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