mom says she would support me if i was gay but continues to say homophobic things
2025.01.19 02:01 Impossible-Song3058 mom says she would support me if i was gay but continues to say homophobic things
My mom has told me on multiple occasions that she would love and support me if I was gay and I shouldn’t feel like I couldn’t tell her, but she always says really homophobic things, especially about lesbians. she will say lesbians are ugly, uses the d and f slur, makes fun of women who dress masculine, jeers at movies that shows homosexuality, etc. She also makes fun of gay men and trans people but her main topic of focus are lesbians.
I’m 19 and have never shown an interest in boys, and my mom is always pestering me about it. She used to outright ask me if I was gay a few years ago but I was still questioning back then so I always said no. I dress masculinely and she knows I’ve went to pride. I’m 100% sure she knows I’m gay, and I think she’s saying all this stuff to try to get me to come out to her, but I don’t understand why she would say all this stuff to me if she had a suspicion I was gay.
We have a wonderful relationship in every other aspect, and I know for sure she would never try to upset or belittle me. So I don’t understand why she acts like this.
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2025.01.19 02:01 embily04 Can I chop and leave no leaves?
I have a philodendron that I forgot at college over winter break. Looks like it tried putting out more growth but it looks super ugly. Can I chop off almost to the base with no leaves? Or will it not grow back?
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2025.01.19 02:01 Exquitisy Finally
Also is shadow scythe + demon king daggers a good combo?
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2025.01.19 02:01 ybaghops My current pack 🐾
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2025.01.19 02:01 NeonBuckaroo Existential crisis after watching Lost in Translation
Don’t know why it took me so long to get round to watching this for the first time. Profoundly moving film. Could watch it on repeat. Bill Murray was transformative - I’ve never seen a “smile” used as such a powerful plot device before.
The taxi ride home with “Sometimes” by MBV - enchanting.
I’m sat here now looking at flights to Japan, thinking of all the places I haven’t been and all the connections I haven’t made - a movie everyone should watch before it’s too late for them to shake things up in their lives.
What does everyone think of it?
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2025.01.19 02:01 red5-standingby So it begins in my hometown. Mass deportations could begin as soon as Tuesday in Chicago
Can’t wait to see how the 2nd amendment works out here.
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2025.01.19 02:01 IllustratorOk5966 It’s just bruising right?…
Very frightened💔
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2025.01.19 02:01 hawkhandler account balances and aggregate columns
I am building a star schema and have a few questions about the dimension tables.
- what is the best way to deal with constantly changing account balances? We are talking about an advertising network with very high velocity transactions. a partner loads up an account with some $$ and then micro transactions are logged in a fact table that chip away at that balance. a partner might want to see their account balance at any point in time. I'm assuming that querying the fact tables ad hoc is not the optimal solution but clearly, neither is overwriting an account_balance attribute in a partner dimension table.
- what is the best process for storing an attribute in a dimension table that is strictly increasing. let's say you have a table of your customers and one of the columns is total_transactions. you want to keep a running total of the number of transaction that customer has completed. only needs to be updated at the frequency of once daily. do you count the days transactions for every user and add to the existing value in the table? what does this process look like?
2025.01.19 02:01 DebtDapper716 THAT SPY (inspo from Tyler, The Creator's most recent album lel)
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2025.01.19 02:01 noaleyeetman Is the poco x6 normal good?
Should i buy a poco x6 what your opinion on it
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2025.01.19 02:01 Jade-Taylors-Version Divorce/Solicitor Northern Ireland
Hi. Looking for some advice. My husband and I separated just over 2 years ago. We owned a house together, it has since been sold, we split the profits 50/50 and his solicitor subtracted the cost for a divorce from the money to hold until such a time came that we could get divorced. Now that we have passed the 2 year mark, I want to get things going as I know it can be a long process. I have contacted him several times asking him to get in touch with the solicitor but he has not. So I rand them and they said they couldn't talk to me as he was their client. Now I don't know how this all works but surely they should be able to talk to me if they are holding my money? They said my only option would be to hire a solicitor to send them a letter. I was under the impression that, because we are amicable and have no assets or children together that I would not need to get my own solicitor.
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2025.01.19 02:01 cherryofpie iOS 16.1 to 18.2.1?
I want to update to 18.2.1 but I want to do iOS 17 first just in case but my phone doesn’t give me the option to download iOS 17.
So is ok just to download iOS 18.2.1 from 16.1 without downloading iOS 17?
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2025.01.19 02:01 shavinggcream looking for Chicago tix
Looking for 1 Chicago ticket message if u are selling 🙏🙏
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2025.01.19 02:01 fineNdandi My two most favorite outfits atm 🌼
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2025.01.19 02:01 OlaAsh28 Such A Light…
If I didn’t hate DB more than I already do, I do now. During the victim impact statements, Sherri Sparks (the mother of Jackson Sparks) said that Jackson was such a light in their lives. Then, when DB made his remarks before sentencing, he said that his younger daughter was “such a light” in his life. Seriously? I mean, SERIOUSLY?
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2025.01.19 02:01 Traditional-Delay150 What are these spots on my gf’s bully’s belly? (We don’t think it’s ringworm)
 | Hi guys, my partners dog (Ruby) has a bunch of spots on her belly. We don’t think it’s ringworm cause us and the two cats would probably have it as well, it also doesn’t look like ringworm. She did have spots on her back but they slowly went away, and now they’ve migrated to her belly. There’s no bugs in the house, the only thing we can think of is the grass/insecticides outside messing with her, or allergies. We’ve also recently changed her shampoo to an aloe/oatmeal type in case that was the reason, because the old one didn’t seem to be helping. Also, Neosporin was just put on the spots that’s why they look shiny. There is chicken in her food and that is the next change we’ll be making if the shampoo isn’t the issue. Any advice would be appreciated. submitted by Traditional-Delay150 to DogAdvice [link] [comments] |
2025.01.19 02:01 sharewithme Word of The Hour: quitclaim
quitclaim: a release or relinquishment of a claim
See tree for quitclaim: https://treegledictionary.org/define/quitclaim
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2025.01.19 02:01 Reboundotics So uhh- this may or may not be my hear me out list....
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2025.01.19 02:01 pestopasta57 how much should your emergency fund or savings be?
hi! for context i’m a healthcare professional, earning 60-70k per month. started working last year 2024. just wondering, how much should your emergency funds or savings be? separate ba yung EF sa savings? if ganito yung sahod, magkano dapat yung EF at savings (separate)? different bank ba?
Thank you!
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2025.01.19 02:01 Feeling_Fox_5426 Season 2 Ep 1 Question about Helly
Why did Helly not tell them what she found out on the outside??? I figured that she would be DYING to tell them that she is literally an Eagan?? Wouldn’t that be helpful for them all to know? Idk, I’m confused about this!
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2025.01.19 02:01 paladin-dense Question about beer cheese
So I’ve made beer cheese once before, but my issue is that I don’t remember what I used as the cream base in the dip, and I don’t remember the recipe I used. I’ve seen recipes that call for heavy cream, cream cheese, and condensed milk, and I’m just not sure which would be the best one to use. Im leaning towards heavy cream, but I’m also curious how it would taste with cream cheese, though also a little worried that it would overtake the flavor of the dip.
If anyone has any recipes or recommendations, it would be greatly appreciated!
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2025.01.19 02:01 GroundbreakingAd2672 Bro ain’t no way
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2025.01.19 02:01 FoxesStoat Would the GAA in Norn Iron?
Accept a stadium bigger than the original design, in the same ground as casement park, if(DUN DUN DUN) Trump funded it but it had to be called Trump Park instead of casement park.
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2025.01.19 02:01 james08m UDM Pro Radius authenticaton to determine client VLAN/Network
Hi all,
I have a UDP Pro at home and I want a specific port to assign different VLAN depending if the computer is on my domain or not. I don't find much information on this. Keep in minf that I am just starting with this so clear steps by steps would be appreciated.
What I have so far...
I have a 2 domaine controlers on a specific network. These domaine controlers are also acting as DHCP and DNS servers. A NPS role was install and configure correctly and I am already able to use RADIUS to authentified computer on the domain to a specific wifi. I am also using the NPS to authenticate use on my VPN server (openVPN).
Now, what I want to do is configure ports on my switch to assigne the domain network to computers on the domain and if the device is not on the domain it goes to the guest network.
Any help for the UDM configuration? I know it will use the 802.1 Control feature but can make sense out of it.
Thank you,
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