2025.01.19 19:51 andobonando Type me based on a description of myself (MBTI or any other typology system is fine)
I am an introverted and shy guy, and I’ve been this way since I was a child. I’ve always preferred being alone or, if necessary, with a small circle of friends - friends that I’ve always found difficult to make. Retreating into my interests and inner world has always been my best option and the only place where I truly feel like myself, even though it is a complex, hard-to-understand, and still largely unexplored space.
I’ve never felt comfortable in social settings, and for this reason, I consider myself quite socially awkward, unfortunately. Talking to my peers has always been challenging because I’ve always felt alienated from the roles people my age usually assume. For this reason, I’ve often thought there was something different about me, but in recent years, this feeling has stopped being a problem. Instead, I’ve come to understand that standing out from others is probably something that adds value to who I am and makes me more “unique.” As a result, what others think of me is no longer an insecurity of mine.
While interactions with my peers have always been difficult and draining, I’ve found it much easier to connect with older people, particularly the elderly. I’ve always preferred listening and observing over speaking, which is why I believe I’m better at expressing myself in writing than verbally.
I’m currently studying Graphic Design at university, and I graduated last year from an art high school with top marks. Due to my shyness, I don’t participate much in class, even when I know the answers. At school, I was always one of the best students. Academics have never been a major difficulty for me; the only times I get distracted are when I dive into research on something that piques my curiosity. I’ve always excelled in school compared to my classmates, particularly in languages, mathematics, and artistic subjects. On the other hand, I’ve never been good at or enjoyed physical education. I’ve always placed great importance on grades, both because I’ve always wanted to be one of the top students and to prove to myself that I’m intelligent and capable.
I am fully aware of my intelligence, and it’s probably the quality I admire most in people. One of my primary goals in life is to acquire as much knowledge as possible. For this reason, I love learning new things, especially if they’re related to one of my interests. However, intelligence is also a source of insecurity for me. Despite knowing I am intelligent, I often find myself frustrated and embarrassed by small mistakes, comparing myself unfavorably to others and feeling foolish. At the same time, I sometimes feel “superior” to many of the people I interact with - almost everyone, except for those I respect, which are the few people I truly care about.
I have a strong moral compass and tend to get along only with the few people who share my principles. Currently, these people are limited to my girlfriend (ENFP) and two friends: one ENTP and an INFJ. Because of this, I consider my standards extremely high, and I often view interacting with other people as a waste of time. I even find myself feeling disgusted or annoyed by what people say.
Despite isolating myself and living in a world inside my mind, external stimuli and noises always catch my attention. I constantly hear everything people around me say, notice what they do, and observe how they behave. This duality puts me in conflict: I love watching people, studying the dynamics between them, and understanding their roles within various social settings; yet, at the same time, what I see and hear often makes me realize how ignorant, disrespectful, or even revolting people can be.
One of my main interests, for this reason, is typology. Through books and online research, I’ve studied various personality theories. I even have a file dedicated to typing the people in my life and another for multimedia characters. However, this passion of mine is purely a pastime, as I don’t truly believe in any of the theories I study, finding them extremely limiting and unrealistic.
Other interests of mine revolve around art. Specifically, I love character design, and I’m writing a story centered on six characters whose designs I’ve created. I enjoy designing movie posters or book covers. I’ve been drawing freehand since I was a child, and recently, I’ve started sketching horror-themed subjects that I think reflect what’s inside me. I’m also fascinated by the world of clothing styles, aesthetics, and liminal spaces. I consider myself “aesthetically aware” and express myself through a defined photography style and a characteristic sense of style. I love seeing people dressed in alternative ways that capture my attention.
I enjoy writing, though I still have much to learn. I’m not an expert in music, but what I listen to includes works by various composers, film soundtracks, and dreamwave/synth-pop music. Media is another of my interests—I have a rating list for every movie I watch and another for TV shows and anime. I also enjoy walking in the mountains, especially when there’s fog or snow, and exploring abandoned places. Ethology is another secondary interest of mine.
I have some social medias, but due to the distraction they represented and the overwhelming amount of trivial content, I’ve imposed strict time limits on my phone. Now, I primarily use social media platforms to acquire information or post photos I’ve taken that reflect my style.
I am an extremely organized person and cannot tolerate disorder, which often makes me very rigid, even with the people closest to me. For instance, disagreements with my girlfriend often arise from my rigidity and stubbornness. I have certain fixations that others might not understand but that deeply bother me. I need my space to be just as I want it, tidy and orderly. I’m always focused on the future, constantly creating a mental “schedule” of everything I need to do in the near future. This makes me highly inflexible when it comes to changes in plans, and even minor unforeseen events can cause me significant frustration.
With people I’m close to, I often use sarcasm, though always within the bounds of respect. With those I don’t know, come off as calm and distant yet polite. However, I refuse to lie to please others, and I’m therefore direct and straightforward in communication. This sometimes makes me come across as rude, but honestly, I don’t care. I don’t place much value on others’ opinions of me, as I have a strong sense of self (despite my struggle to fully understand myself). Social harmony isn’t something I prioritize unless it involves the few people I care about. In fact, I find minor conflicts between others entertaining, as they provide opportunities to study people and their dynamics more deeply.
My relationship with emotions is quite complicated. I don’t understand them, nor do I feel connected to them. I never display strong emotions like joy or sadness, but I often experience a sense of loss and melancholy. The emotion I probably feel most often is anger, typically in the form of frustration or annoyance, but I never show it. Talking about my problems or feelings is something I find extremely complex and difficult—not only because I struggle to understand myself, but also because I dislike talking about myself, even with those closest to me. This has always been the case; my parents often accuse me of being overly reserved and of never sharing anything.
I consider myself somewhat sensitive but not emotional. In fact, I don’t mind feeling sadness; I even enjoy sad movies and music, though they don’t evoke any strong emotional reaction in me. Still, I believe I have a fairly developed emotional intelligence and decent empathy.
My relationship with love is particular. I went through puberty later than most of my peers. While they talked about crushes and sexuality during the early years of adolescence, I was still discovering this world and remained in my own bubble. I’ve never liked discussing these topics, and until I got into a relationship, I had no one to confide in about them.
Before meeting my wonderful girlfriend, I was never romantically interested in anyone, as I view love as something incredibly serious and intimate - unlike many others. I didn’t consider love important and was almost afraid of it. When I met my future girlfriend at school, she immediately caught my attention. She showed an interest in me like no one else had before. Despite my attempts to put up walls to protect my personal space, she kept seeking me out and showing her interest in me. I was aware that she liked me (she made it quite clear), and I was romantically interested in her too, but I tried not to show it. After two years of rejecting her advances because I didn’t feel ready, I finally accepted her last confession, and we got together.
Our relationship started slowly, as I needed a lot of space and time to take steps forward and open myself to intimacy. Now, after more than three years, I consider our relationship the most important thing in my life. I can’t imagine a future without her. Being with her has made me realize that what I truly needed in life was someone genuinely interested in me—someone patient, with whom I could slowly share my inner world and knowledge while feeling understood and appreciated.
Since typology is my passion, I am aware and confident of what my MBTI is. I’m posting this solely to see how people perceive me differently from what I actually am based on this brief description of myself.
(I hope I haven’t made any grammar mistakes, English is not my native language).
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