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2025.01.20 03:54 MsCartoons o mais pica cara no mundo presente senti-me ao esta arte fazer.
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2025.01.20 03:53 GameProfessional 🌐 24/7 Video Game | PSP3000 SONY PSP-3000 PlayStation Portable PSP Black Main Unit | Seller: yes_japan (84.0% positive feedback)Location: JPCondition: UsedPrice: 100.30 USDShipping cost: FreeBuy It Now | |
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2025.01.20 03:53 ScholarNecessary9172 I've never posted here before, but I don't know what to do anymore.
I'm 34F, he's 32M. We've been married for two years, together for, I think, six years, and we haven't had sex in, I think, three years - definitely not since we got married, and not for a while before. I'm sorry that this post is kind of unfocussed, there's just so much in my head.
I don't even know where to start. When we first got together, he was a virgin. I didn't mind - we took it slowly. We first had sex about six months into our relationship, after a few months of fooling around.
He's not a very confident person, and definitely isn't confident sexually. I always had to take the lead, 100% of the time. If I tried to let him take the lead, or encouraged him to, he'd just... freeze, panic, and any sexual atmosphere would be gone, so it was never an option. I've started thinking about it as he mostly just likes sex to be done to him, and not something he likes to actively participate in. Many times I questioned if he was even enjoying it, and he assured me he was. We had sex relatively often back then - maybe 1-3 times a week.
After the first year or so, I started to get a little frustrated. Despite all of the assistance, guidance, encouragement and anything else I could muster, he just didn't seem particularly interested in my pleasure. Bluntly, sex with him was boring, mediocre, and often physically painful due to the complete lack of foreplay on me. I have never had an orgasm with him, nor has he ever made any attempt to bring me to orgasm. Our sex life comprised the same four activities: Making out, me giving him head, missionary, or cowgirl. Anything else was just too much for him.
Anyway, at a certain point - I think around 18mo? - I just couldn't be the sole driving force around our sex life anymore. I felt used, and things felt unequal. I expressed this to him uncountable times, in various ways - first gently, then more firmly. Nothing.
So our sex life just... petered out. If I didn't initiate, we would not have sex. If I did not give him explicit instructions of how to move and what to do, he would do nothing. I kept expecting that he would eventually initiatiate, or just do something, but he never did.
He is a person who is paralysingly afraid of failure. He 100% would rather not try at all, than try with a chance of failure. This is a general problem, but it makes sex extremely difficult. He was never comfortable touching me, no matter how many times I encouraged him to do it. I've given him so much guidance, demonstrations, assurances, encouragement, literally everything I can think of to encourage him to try and touch me, and he is just terrified of... I don't even know what he's terrified of. I've asked, in various ways, and he's never been able to articulate a reply. Experimentation is simply impossible - he won't do anything that he's not confident he can do well, and since he's never done anything, he isn't confident of anything.
As far as I can tell, he has no curiousity or drive about sex at all. He has never expressed any interest in my body, or any sex act. Once, early in our relationship, I had him do once of those blind couple kink-matching quiz things with me. At that time, I just thought of it as some light-hearted "getting to know your new boyfriend" fun, and didn't yet know the depth of his inexperience. He did it, because I asked him to, but the discomfort was coming off him in waves and he clearly hated the experience. I have no idea why - he's not particularly prudish, he's not religious. He just isn't into it. I offered to let him stop, multiple times, but he insisted in continuing because it was "what I wanted", and the entire thing was just painfully awkward.
In the last few years, the lack of sex has become a source of acute pain for me. I had a horrible ex-boyfriend when I was in my early 20s who would tell me to my face that my body disgusted him and he didn't want to have sex with me. He was a jackass, but I can't stop hearing his voice now.
I bought cute lingerie to wear under my wedding dress. I didn't wear it at the last second when I got dressed on the morning of the wedding because I couldn't stand the idea that it would elicit zero response from him. And I was right - he showed no sexual interest in me on our wedding night, or the morning afterwards, or at any point on our honeymoon.
I usually sleep naked, but I hate doing it now, because every time I lie naked in bed next to him and get no more response than an inanimate object would, it feels like a nightly rejection.
I have a small case of sex toys in my bedside table. Most of them are almost literally gathering dust. I masturbate occassionally, when I really feel the need, but I can't say I really enjoy it. It's for relief, not for pleasure.
I'm posting this tonight because I stupidly tried to initiate sex with him today. I pulled him in close, kissed him, ran my hands over his body. He kissed me back for a few seconds, then told me to turn the light off because he was tired. I haven't been able to sleep and I can't stop crying. I feel so stupid.
For the last year or so, we've been living in the same predictable pattern. Every so often, I will bring up our dead bedroom, and we will have a conversation about it. Nothing is achieved in these conversations. I ask him if there's anything I can do. He says no. I ask if I repulse him. He says no. I ask if we'll ever have sex again. He starts crying and becomes inconsolable. I end up having to comfort him as he cries.
Once or twice he's suggested we go to therapy, or he goes to therapy alone. He went to 3-4 sessions a few years ago, but I have no idea what they talked about, and it didn't seem to help anything. He had to stop because they were too expensive, which makes sense. Once he suggested it might be his antidepressants suppressing his libido, so he went to his doctor and changed to a different type. They made no difference to anything, and he hasn't been back.
The next morning, we do not speak of the discussion. Weeks, maybe a few months, go by. Nothing changes, until eventually I raise the point again and the cycle repeats.
I've considered asking for a divorce. Or, perhaps, an annulment, I guess. But we love each other, our lives are otherwise perfect, and I don't know how to face our friends and tell them I broke up because we don't have sex. It feels absurd in the grand scheme of all of this. But I'm only 34. Every day, I think about the fact that I repulse my husband. That I am worthless as a woman. That he does not see me as a sex object, maybe never did. I look back on our old encounters and see them differently - did he even enjoy them? Was he closing his eyes and thinking about something else? Was I forcing him into something he didn't actually want?
I think back to my previous boyfriend before my husband. With that ex, I had the most wild and experimental sex of any partner I've had. I did anal for the first time. We had sex in public. I pegged him. We even tried a threesome - I didn't like it, and we didn't repeat it, but I look bad on those days like a lifeline now. Definitely proof that I was attractive to someone once. I was a sexual being. There was a man who wanted to have sex with me, enthusiastically and often. I have no interest in going back to my ex, but those memories are the only thing stopping me from falling into utter despair, because they're the only proof that I can't be as repulsive as I feel.
I'm not sure if I even want to have sex with him now. I can't picture it. But the idea of going without sex for the rest of my life is extremely upsetting. I don't want to sleep with anyone else, even though I suspect he'd give me permission if I asked.
But if I don't want anyone else, I don't want a divorce, and he has no interest, that's going to be the outcome.
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2025.01.20 03:53 GameProfessional 🏆 Game Professional | PSP3000 SONY PSP-3000 PlayStation Portable PSP Black Main Unit | Seller: yes_japan (84.0% positive feedback)Location: JPCondition: UsedPrice: 100.30 USDShipping cost: FreeBuy It Now | |
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2025.01.20 03:53 Relative-Laugh-4206 Look to the left
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2025.01.20 03:53 fight-mouse 35 m4f / m / t / fb come say hi
i’m just hanging out, drinking water, hitting the penjamin, and playing skyrim for the 100th time.
feeling social and hoping to chat with someone interesting and capable of carrying a decent conversation. would love to hear about who you are, your hopes and dreams, and what makes you smile, and i’ll share the same.
let’s hang out!
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2025.01.20 03:53 IrelandonRedditBot [r/PublicFreakout] Scumbag kids threatening a Ukrainian man with a screwdriver ( Dublin, Ireland)
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2025.01.20 03:53 ToonAdventure Hitsuji Gondaira's message on the completion of Mission: Yozakura Family translated! 🌸
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2025.01.20 03:53 Gus_TheSupplyGuy We gotta stop with the "fire McDermott" every time something goes wrong.
Baltimore is a better team, almost everywhere you look. The fact that McDermott and company had this team hyped and ready to play and had a great defensive scheme for a unit that was frankly out sized and out talented by Baltimore is a credit to his coaching ability. If you really want a new coach you are out of your mind. Then he gets up on the podium after the game and somebody asks him about buffalo being a city of losers and you can see him get instantly fired up defending this city, I'd walk through a wall for him and I don't know him.
McDermott is a hell of a coach. He just took down a team with arguably 3 hall of famers and 8 pro bowlers.
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2025.01.20 03:53 LahigtL How much can I sell my psp?
I have this psp that I don't use at all and I prefer to sell it but I don't know what price would be fair If you could tell me at what price it would be good to sell it, I would appreciate it. :)
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2025.01.20 03:53 FireFang900 I’m so mad
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2025.01.20 03:53 YourExHubby Troll Couple (harmless nudity)
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2025.01.20 03:53 Dense_Time1753 hi guys! I watched the show a long time ago so I don't remember many things... is it true that Cam is Gloria's stepson? If so, it would be a bit shady since he is married to his stepbrother (?
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2025.01.20 03:53 Nocfairy Tô me achando feio pra krl, na moral
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2025.01.20 03:53 Big_Training6081 Ping issues?
Just curious if this is a me problem or an everyone problem. I'll join a server that says I have 19 ping and when I'm actually in game I'm hovering around 100ping? I feel like I'm at a disadvantage trying to fight but I guess if it happens to everyone it's not a huge issue.
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2025.01.20 03:53 Significant-Crazy508 Email question
Was anyone getting Google photos emails before 2022 or did this just start this last year
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2025.01.20 03:53 jaru4122 Every Run gets better & better
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2025.01.20 03:53 LovellyCareer Kendall Jenner
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2025.01.20 03:53 TheUrbanEnigma For those familiar with William Taylor...
How do people feel about the (seemingly) optional final verse. I don't want to spoil my opinion, but I'm curious how the ending of the song affected other listeners.
(If you're unsure of the difference, the two version I primarily listen to are by Sean Dagher and Poor Man's Gambit. Pay attention to the ending of the song and you should see what I'm on about.)
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2025.01.20 03:53 Coffeesir0409 Driving School Recommendations around Q.C.
Pa recommend naman po ng driving school around QC yung kaya mag turo hanggang Van or L300. Mag kano po kaya? Mag expire na kasi soon yung license ko. Mag papa pro na din kasi sabay sabay na sana sa dagdag restriction.
May option naman sana ako ipagawa yung corolla ng erpats at duon mag practice kaso gusto ko yung surebol na. Thanks in Advance.
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2025.01.20 03:53 zipzap123456 San Francisco show 01/17/25
Saw her last night at the Masonic in San Francisco. She was hilarious and wonderful to watch and listen to as always. Everyone really seemed to be enjoying themselves, including the woman next to me, but at roughly the same time about 45 mins to an hour into the show, some people got up and left. The woman next to me left and didnt come back, and it really looked like she'd been having a good time. I'm wondering if any of rhem were caught off-guard by her mentioning that she was going to talk about her suicide attempt (she mentioned it long before she talked about it) and it was triggering or upsetting to them. Has anyone whose seen any of her "Life on the PTSD List" shows noticed this?
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2025.01.20 03:53 Intelligent-Road9893 Look here
https://l.smartnews.com/p-iezCkI0/vMSdlD
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2025.01.20 03:53 Accomplished_Fig5506 I js got my first tube amp. Marshall dcl20r. Can anyone provide me the basics for using this thing and how to take care of one?
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2025.01.20 03:53 playincongruous [f 18] Cute girl with glasses on
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2025.01.20 03:53 chonkybingus where to purchase singles in LA (Los Angeles)?
do you guys have card shops/singles u recommend in the LA area with a large variety of decently priced singles 🥹?
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