She is a despicable human, she can’t listen, won’t stop talking and all she says is venom. I really don’t understand how she has “friends” I haven’t seen her be nice or a friend to anyone. No one!
2025.01.23 01:16 Yaaasitsme She is a despicable human, she can’t listen, won’t stop talking and all she says is venom. I really don’t understand how she has “friends” I haven’t seen her be nice or a friend to anyone. No one!
She is a despicable human, she can’t listen, won’t stop talking and all she says is venom. I really don’t understand how she has “friends” I haven’t seen her be nice or a friend to anyone. No one!
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2025.01.23 01:16 RepresentativeLeg232 Cancelled my Patreon today.
Not because they support Trump or Elon. But because Schultz won’t shut the fuck up about paddle & I don’t want to pay to hear dumb questions like “would you rather be a cat or a dog?” for a full episode.
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2025.01.23 01:16 EverSoEndless Who has the best fried prawns?
I'd like an order of fried prawns for dinner tonight. Crispy and seasoned to perfection. As a native all the places I grew up eating have either gone out of business or doesn't taste the same. I would really appreciate your suggestions, thanks in advance!
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2025.01.23 01:16 Rowleymommy4 Have vs need
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2025.01.23 01:16 Any_Common2500 Deoxys - help me get my girlfriend a shiny one 544954586536
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2025.01.23 01:16 General_Routine_2622 (M19) I have a constant fear of being cheated on by my girlfriend (F19) and I don't know how to ease it
I just mainly wanted to come on here and vent just because I am stressed and wanna talk to someone. But I also do want some advice and maybe some coping mechanisms on how to deal with this because it is truly affecting me. (Really long post, so bare with me please!)
Me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 months so far, and honestly, it has it's good moments and it's bad moments. We met through her cousin, who is my good friend, at a band rehearsal in his garage. This is also my first relationship ever. We've actually been talking since July and we didn't really start out the best. As I started discovering more things about her and her past, I, quite honestly, began to question if I should even be with her (because of this fear and other things too). But I still fell for her pretty hard and I wanted to be with her all the time, so I was conflicted. I did try breaking up with her a few times because of this fear and minor things that have happened to affect it, but nothing too bad. Once upon a time, before I knew anything about "placing boundaries", I almost broke up with her for the first time because she liked to hang out with a group of guy friends that played in a band. The thing that really worried me about it was that she hooked up with two of them in the past. A couple nights during the summer after we met, she has went out to one of their houses and pulled an all nighter while drinking with them there and barely even texted me during it. I was up worrying all night and making up scenarios in my head until she finally texted me in the morning and said "sorry my phone died" or "sorry i was busy, im leaving now." Meanwhile I was just thinking "I hope she didn't cheat on me with any of them."
Soon after, another scenario happened where she hung out with a couple of her girl friends and a couple of guys. Later in the night, all the girls left and it was just her and this guy. She was texting me here and there throughout the hangout and told me that she would be having him spend the night on the couch in the living room while she was on a bed across the room. She told me he was really drunk and he couldn't drive home. She said the only reason she told me was because her mom, who was in the other room next to the living room, wanted her to ask if i was ok with it. I told her, honestly, that I'm not ok with her sleeping near another guy alone. She sent me a pic saying "he's across the room if that makes you feel any better" which did, but I still made up scenarios like if he climbed in her bed and had sex with her without my knowledge or something. Eventually this was a boundary placed. Months later, I brought it up to her and she regrets it and how it made me feel, to which I appreciate.
When I discovered the act of placing boundaries, I eventually called her up and expressed my discomfort about her hanging out with these guys alone (and one other girl but that didn't make me feel much better), and she agreed that she would stop going out to places and hanging out with guys alone for me after a very long argument. She argued that she's had guy friends throughout her life, she's bisexual anyways so it doesn't matter, etc. I just told her that I don't trust guy friends because I have a belief/fear that once they're alone, the guy doesn't just wanna be friends. But I almost broke up with her because I didn't wanna control her and I would never change my mind about it. So I told her that either you agree with this boundary or we're going to have to split, and she didn't want to leave me over that.
Another thing that has bothered me is that she used to have an Onlyfans. I know it's in the past and I try to ignore it, but I always have bad thoughts about how she really used to make money by creating explicit videos of her doing god knows what, and privately DMing nudes to random men. In my mind, it makes her seem secretly addicted to sexual activities (even though it was only for financial reasons and she seems to have a somewhat lower sex drive compared to me) which triggers the thought of her cheating on me. The thing that bothers me sometimes is that she told me she doesn't regret it because how else would she make that money for college expenses. But part of me thinks she does regret it only for me because I've brought it up to her and she said that she thinks I'm disgusted by her. I tell her I'm not and that is the truth. Another thing that bothered me was that she posted on her spam account basically glorifying it by wearing one of those red flag shirts (which was a trend on tiktok) and said "has an OF". Again I expressed my discomfort about that and she deleted it because I also felt a little embarrassed that she used to do it. I know that isn't completely fair to her because it's the past, but that's genuinely how I feel.
For another story that affected my negative thinking even more, after dating her for about 3 months in, one night I posted her on my Instagram story because I wanted to show her off. Later on in the night, I went on FaceTime with her and she eventually fell asleep. Her phone died so it just hung up and I stayed up. About two hours later, I get a message in my instagram DMs from a guy that is a mutual friend connected to a couple of my buddies. He responded to the story, "do you know how many dks have been in her gango?" I replied with something like, "you don't know anything about her so why don't you mind your business." A couple messages in, he sent me "I bet you don't know about the onlyfans that she had." So i said "yeah I do, but it's all in the past". As he kept texting, he started to gloat about how he had sex with her and said "you're just mad i've been in your girl's p*y."
I blocked him and I started panicking. I tried calling my girlfriend but she was asleep with her phone dead. I was up all night. By the time it was almost noon, she finally answered my call and I said "who the hell is this guy?" I told her about all the messages he sent after she asked me. She told me that the only time they ever had sex was in junior year of high school, and then he became her dealer later in the future, but then she switched to someone else and that was the end of their connection. She told me that the night before this all happened, she was trying to pick up from a dealer and she didn't even know it was him and that it was just under a random dealer name. After completely bailing on her (he prob would've robbed her if he didn't), she got a text on telegram saying "i know your address and your room number for your dorm" and basically said he was coming for her and her family. She then blocked it thinking it was someone just messing around. So after I told her which guy sent me those messages, she knew it was him. I made sure with one of my close friends who's friends with the guy and he confirmed that it was him and his dealer name. We eventually found out that he was messaging many people crazy types of things and that he's pretty much a maniac who "wanted to hurt the people who hurt him most." The way my girlfriend did that was that she apparently texted his past girlfriend that he was trying to hook up with her through her onlyfans, which is pretty ironic to think about now.
But that whole experience traumitized me a bit and I actually almost broke up with her over it, which I really regret. I regret all 3 times I tried to break up with her. But due to that whole situation, sometimes I suspect that she's hiding something out of the story because it was all so crazy and I never thought I would get a crazy message like that. Sometimes I think that they did have sex while we were dating and maybe he tried to tell me that in my DM before I blocked him? I know I shouldn't think that and I should move on because we've dropped it now, but I still do here and there.
After all of these events and quite a few more that don't involve suspicions of cheating, we are honestly doing better than before. We may have our arguments still here and there, but we find a way to get through it. While she's away at college that's like 40 min away from me, she still texts me a lot (which was after I told her I would appreciate that she would text me more and even when she's active on social media instead of forgetting or putting me off for later), but she changed and started doing it for me because I communicated with her. Now we have open communication about everything and we are much stronger. I really hope it just stays that way and it doesn't change back to being worse.
More great qualities about her is that she posts me on social media a lot, she comes back to see me every weekend, she gives me a decent amount of sex, she's much more affectionate when we hang out now, she asks me more about my day unlike before, she listens to me about anything I want to talk about, she respects my boundaries, etc. This is why I feel bad sometimes because I still worry that she's lying behind my back when she stops texting me for a long time while she's away. It's such an obsessive thought. Sometimes she will fall asleep on accident during the day or say she's gonna go to sleep, while I hope she's not meeting up with some guy or girl. She also sometimes still comes around to a few friends and aquaintances that she's slept with in the past, whether it's at college or at home, because those people are friends with HER friends or siblings.
I've just heard so many cheating stories and I've discovered there's more cheaters in the world than I thought, and I don't want that to happen to me without me knowing. And before I communicated all of my issues with her in the past, she still did those things without naturally thinking about me and just being kinda "clueless". Like I've had to tell her these things, when for myself, they would just come naturally and I would try my ultimate best to keep her from thinking negatively. Even though I'm glad she's doing better for me, that all still bothers me. So the thought of her cheating is really scary to me and makes me think she'll do something bad because she was/can be unaware of things. I just sometimes wish I could surgically remove this thought out of my brain.
(By the way if you made it all the way to the end, you are AMAZING.)
Tl;dr: i (m19) have a constant fear of being cheated on by my girlfriend (f19) and i don't know how to cope
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2025.01.23 01:16 Ok_Golf_2967 In response to the criticisms of Carrie
I am finding it deeply upsetting that so many people in these comments are using her trauma or apparent erratic behavior as an indicator that she can’t be trusted, her judgement isn’t sound, and that her perception of reality is off. This is such a problematic approach to anyone who is struggling. It’s also incredibly condescending to infer that her mind isn’t fully intact. People can go through a trauma and still have a coherent and accurate understanding of the world around them. Trauma doesn’t necessarily equate to a break in reality. Also, blaming her so called spiral on trauma is not evidenced based. Maybe she’s pissed about losing a friend? It is messed up to me that this Reddit’s response to her disclosing trauma has been to immediately assume that make her judgement less than. Trauma, or PTSD, for that matter, doesn’t make you “crazy.”
It’s also insane that so many of you are saying, “it’s not her phrase. She shouldn’t be upset” about Carrie’s attitude towards Ross’s new show. It’s not about who “owns” the phrase. It is something they shared together. She has a right to be upset that he’s using the phrase. Furthermore, I think it’s a butt head move of him to use it. Regardless of who “owns” it. He knows it’s tattooed on her body. He knows it’s a phrase that has deep meaning to her. Using it feels like, at worst, a deliberate dig and, at best, an ignorant choice based on of a lack of emotional intelligence.
Please never be so skeptical that you stop validating peoples feelings. Being upset or, hell, even spiraling a bit, doesn’t mean your perception of events is wrong. Emotion doesn’t equate to irrationality. Having something bad happen to you doesn’t make you irrational.
Finally, remember it is unethical to diagnosis or discuss someone’s condition without first meeting them. Any speculation about Carrie’s mental health is just speculation.
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2025.01.23 01:16 KaiBlood where is donkey kong december? i miss you donkey kong december
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2025.01.23 01:16 dr_cafetero ISO Good high torque esc
Any suggestions/recommendations for a good brushless esc that I can use in an rc snowblower? I've got the Spyker snowblower that I've 3D printed and it's running an 1100 kv brushless motor. I stupidly tried using a cheapo esc I had laying around and that idea went up in smoke lol. TIA
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2025.01.23 01:16 JohnnyUtah-91 For someone who is a legend in comedy, Rodney Dangerfield played a terrifying monster in Natural Born Killers.
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2025.01.23 01:16 oicu812buddy Finally.
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2025.01.23 01:16 ysaid99 My dad died and I just feel…nothing
My dad died yesterday night after a long illness, he had stage four cancer in his brain and hadn’t been himself for a long time, in hospice at the end. I live close by in the neighbouring town (about 15 mins) but wasn’t there at the end as he just slipped away.
I just feel so numb, I’d shed so many tears in the past few months (pre-grieving almost) but now I just feel, nothing.
I’m currently with my mom, my brother etc and they are all so visibly upset as they talk about plans etc, and I can’t even spill a single tear no matter how hard I try. I don’t even feel upset, just thankful that he’s no longer in pain, and that I fondly miss the person he was and the opportunities we won’t have. Work have given me some time off but I genuinely feel like a fraud in taking it. I guess I’m just looking for some reassurance that this is normal, and it doesn’t make me the monster that I feel I am at the moment.
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2025.01.23 01:16 NegativeNellyEll I'm crying at how cute this guy is, ID please? (Victoria, Australia)
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2025.01.23 01:16 ininabanz i know my dirty white socks are turning your head to mush
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2025.01.23 01:16 Dirdee_Hippie Post-cholecystectomy syndrome (PCS)
Has anyone experienced PCS after their removal?? Unfortunately,, I have. It's been awful. I had emergency removal surgery in October bc my gallbladder ceased to function (biliary dyskinesia). None of the doctors that spoke to me while I was in the hospital for nearly a week said anything to me about PCS. Now, I feel like I'm right back where I started. Scared to eat! It's like a gamble; Russian roulette if you will. If anyone else has been through this, do they have any suggestions on how to handle it? Or safe things to eat?? Thanks in advance!
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2025.01.23 01:16 Zestyclose_Text_2378 DEI hire
 | Ladies! Your gender once again is grounds upon which employers can LEGALLY deny you employment opportunities. Are we as a nation going to let our ancestors’ fight for equality be over turned with the stroke of a pen? HELL NO!!! Write to your representatives NOW! submitted by Zestyclose_Text_2378 to facepalm [link] [comments] |
2025.01.23 01:16 TheBigMontrealGuy [38/M] Montréal lets chat and see if we click! Dont be shy all welcome!
Trilingual Canadian. Latino but tall and pale with what im told is a great voice haha. Easy going and open minded so don't be shy! 420 friendly and even had fun growing! Love all kinds of pets so dont hesitate to show them off! Also down to game. Im also a big foodie! We can use other platforms to talk on too so come on down and lets chat! Everyone is welcome not super picky on age or location so dont hesitate!
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2025.01.23 01:16 Ok-Dinner2326 Prilosec to Pepcid
Has anyone made the transition from Prilosec to Pepcid? I’ve been on Prilosec for almost 10 years due to GERD. My doctor suggested I try to get off it, however my acid is too severe. I’m looking to switch to Pepcid and see how it goes. Curious if anyone else has done this and had success?
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2025.01.23 01:16 P1GM3U Sou babaca por achar isso traição?
Eu (M20) namoro um homem (H22) há 4 anos. Ele é meu primeiro namorado, nosso relacionamento é excelente e ele é uma pessoa incrivelmente admirável. Possuímos uma grande sinergia, quase nunca temos desentendimentos e temos uma vida sexual bastante ativa.
No entanto, eu não fui sua primeira parceira, embora tivemos nossa primeira vez juntos (segundo ele), ele teve duas namoradas antes de mim, sendo a última uma amiga nossa em comum, o qual ambos somos próximos.
Confiamos bastante um no outro em relação a fidelidade, ambos têm acesso ao celular, ainda que nenhum de nós acessa; assim como somos bastantes transparentes em falar o que sentimos e sobre nossos fetiches/desejos sexuais, porém algo me incomoda.
Diz ele que não pode gastar comigo nos próximos meses até setembro porque ele quer tirar o visto de trabalho para fora do país, já que irei possivelmente morar no exterior na metade do ano. Não há quem pague tudo na relação, pois fica com a disposição de um de nós para isso, costumo pagar por lanches e ora cada um contribui com o que pode, mas ele deixou claro que não irá gastar mais com saídas até conseguir juntar o bastante para tirar o visto.
No entanto, apesar dele querer economizar comigo, ele faz questão de pagar R$400 mensais em aulas particulares de inglês com sua ex que é amiga nossa, ainda que eu o ajude a avaliacorrigir os textos que ele escreve em inglês e a o ensinar melhor a gramática e conversação por eu também ter um nível avançado no idioma. Recentemente, com as aulas de inglês e por sairmos juntos eu, ele e sua ex/amiga nossa, ele me confessou algo que sentiu/teve hoje.
Eles consideram que o que tiveram foi um "pré-relacionamento" por ter sido online, e o encontro que tivemos fez ele sonhar tendo um amor poliamoroso entre eu, ele e ela, o que o fez acordar excitado pela manhã. Isso o motivou a baixar o tinder para procurar por mulheres para fazermos um ménage em comemoração a meu aniversário, isso tudo sem me consultar. Fora que com isso ele confessou também que possui sentimentos ainda confusos com a sua ex/amiga nossa.
Eu não sei o que pensar sobre isso, não estou brava, mas decepcionada. Não sei se eu sou a babaca ou a trouxa da relação por me sentir assim, na verdade eu nem sei direito o que eu estou sentido frente a tudo isso.
Mas, bem, eu sou babaca por talvez considerar isso traição?
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2025.01.23 01:16 ineedallyourinfo Quick GRWM
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2025.01.23 01:16 Baronduki Is this physical copy of Balatro “new” from GameStop??
 | I’ve purchased Balatro digitally on both the Switch and mobile, and I thought it would be neat to nab a physical copy of it because I love the game so much, so I ordered it “new” from GameStop. I have seen some interesting packaging over the years, but uhh, is this a “new” copy of Balatro? 😂 Genuinely asking because this is bizarre if so. submitted by Baronduki to balatro [link] [comments] |
2025.01.23 01:16 No_Neighborhood_8921 80 yr old jade plant dying
 | Hi! I have an ~80 yr old jade plant that has been struggling the past year. Not original owner but it's been in my family about 35 years. It started a year ago last march after we finished a remodel, it was kind of pushed into a dark corner in the dining room for a couple of months during construction and practically no water. I’ve always watered it about once every 2 - 3 weeks. I had watered it more when I moved it back into the living room but then it started looking like maybe it was getting too much water just on one side. So I’m back to watering once every few weeks. When I do water it runs out the bottom. As for the light it has always been in indirect sunlight and it used to flower every year. It did not flower this year. It has been dropping leaves and getting smaller every week. Some of the biggest branches shrivel, the smaller branches droop & but the leaves seem healthy. It's producing tons of babies with little roots. Basically lots of small new leaves sprouting out and dropping off. I'm wondering if maybe the plant is just at the end of it's life cycle ? Never had any problems with it before. Thank you for your advice and help! (In the photos you will see some scarring from where large branches were, this is unrelated and from a time it was exposed to frost several years ago. It's flowered since then.) submitted by No_Neighborhood_8921 to plantclinic [link] [comments] |
2025.01.23 01:16 Legitimate-Flan-7565 Anxiety for hiv
So I recived oral sex most fingering in December and in January now I got rimmed and fingered. Now I’m so scared that I have hiv. I got some bumps on my back and I saw it was a symptom. I’m currently on pep ( Biktarvy) and I’m even more scared if I have been infected with hiv. I can’t sleep
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2025.01.23 01:16 PixelsOfEight January Sale - Swivel Gun XR 2.99$
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2025.01.23 01:16 Ok_Emphasis_3464 Played goalie because I always get hurt playing on the field.
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