My dad broke down the door, blames me and expects me to apologise
2025.01.24 23:10 Cassie_lol My dad broke down the door, blames me and expects me to apologise
Last night my dad broke down my door. Bashing himself into it then getting some tool and breaking it down. Now today he expects me to apologise to him. We are moving houses and said after this happened that I don’t get the room I wanted and the study room is his home office and he gets them both and in return I get his room because of all the damage I have done. What damage? He was the one who broke down and destroyed my door why should I have to apologise for his actions. As for the room I was getting and the study essentially the reason we bought the house makes the most sense for me to have. It’s not the biggest room in the house. The only difference is that is has its own bathroom and more closet space. I’m a teenage girl (16) and have way more clothes than him (he is a 55 year old man who wears the same 2 jeans and shirts everyday and I have a uniform that alone is more clothes than he has), I also have more furniture (bed,desk,vanity) compared to his bed and desk (I have a vanity because it was my old kids desk that is too small to use as a study desk. As for the study, it’s a small room with a desk, I would use it everyday as I’m going into year 11 and doing VCE and my mum and I were going to share it if she starts working from home, he only works from home once a week and has a desk perfectly adequate so this study being his study is selfish and inconsiderate. I have missed half of year 10 due to an eating disorder, he has ignored me the whole time until November and started constantly nagging me to speak to him and when I don’t he says it’s my fault and blames everything on me. So please tell me who is in the wrong, I know I’m not the perfect daughter but he is no role model. I’d also like to say that he is a gaslighter, everything goes his way and if not he will put you in the wrong, blame you and play victim. What I don’t understand is that from the moment we saw the house we all agreed whose room was whose so if he wanted to have my room he should have said instead of causing a scene and taking it from me the day we move. I would attach a photo of my door that he destroyed but it says I can’t.
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2025.01.24 23:10 RevolutionaryScene69 Nostalgic for College Girlfriend
I (46m) just ran across a journal entry I wrote about my college girlfriend, mostly about how wonderful she was but with quite a bit of NSFW commentary. It put me into a strange headspace.
Don’t get me wrong. I’ve had more meaningful relationships since then, and, well, higher quality physical ones as well (admittedly nowhere near the quantity). But, in reading the entry something rather melancholy occurred to me. In the 25 years since her I have never felt as desired as I did then. It was a long term committed relationship, but uncomplicated by adult, real world issues. Simply young love with high sex drives and absolute, drug-level addiction to each other… Always jumping one another, passionate, movie-like, for years. I mean, we lived together but still regularly found ourselves in random closets and bathrooms, and even had a map of campus so we could check off the buildings. God the way she looked at me before pulling me into some room, nothing behind her eyes but blind desire, passion, love.
In retrospect, to have and receive that level of wholesome passion feels increasingly unusual, rare. Maybe not even possible once life/careers/responsibilities get in the way (anyone have it??). And perhaps the fact that neither of us had been truly burned yet was a major factor. I am grateful for her, and to have experienced that. She’s married with children now and seems happy. I’m hopeful she and her husband have the vibrant sex life she deserves.
I think I just wanted to share, to honor her, and us, in this small way. I briefly considering messaging her, but of course that would be wildly inappropriate. Thanks for listening.
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2025.01.24 23:10 Budget-Register1208 Why niko is a braindead moron
I love how niko acts like he had no choice in killing faustin when he could have told dimitri "Do it yourself" or "no"
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2025.01.24 23:10 Arhsn9 Thank you UPS/Panini
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2025.01.24 23:09 Party_Challenge_5400 Attaching fabric appliqué to nylon windbreaker?
Hi! I thrifted this blank windbreaker and had this idea that I can't get out of my head that involves large cursive text embroidered on the jacket. Only problem is the placement of where I want the design to go can't be done by any of the custom embroiderers I've reached out to. Don't wanna give up though, so I was thinking I could cut out fabric and hand-sew it to the windbreaker? Wasn't sure if this would be an option because of how tricky nylon is. My other options would be to paint it or try to get a vinyl decal placed on it. Lmk if anybody has experience with this!
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2025.01.24 23:09 lss_web_1444 AMA post title 112
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2025.01.24 23:09 Distinct_Ferret_3929 Looking for Tomarry fic
Sorry for my language.English is not my first language.I've been looking for this fic for long time, but I can't find it.I just remember Harry being tortured by the Death Eaters until he went insane. Voldemort told him that no one can be trusted except him, and Harry fell for his trap. Harry thought all his friends were dead but they were still alive and were making plans to save Harry. I also remember there was a scene where Harry started to disobey, so Voldemort ordered the Death Eaters to imprison him and torture him again. Anyone who knows the name of this fic please tell me.
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2025.01.24 23:09 Beginning_Cut_2130 Of course I’m still selling 💋
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2025.01.24 23:09 mouthofbeees Sovereign?
Now that Cheeto is passing insane executive orders, is there an option for us to become sovereign citizens?
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2025.01.24 23:09 cjone98 Is my tank safe for shrimps
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2025.01.24 23:09 Toasty0011 Anyone know what this is?
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2025.01.24 23:09 Still-Ad-6119 This is a long post, but thank you if you take the time to read it...
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This is hard for me to post, but probably it is harder to keep it on my chest. I've been struggling lately or maybe even worse lately but I've been struggling my whole life. I am a 32-year-old female from a Latin American country. I had a difficult childhood, my dad is a very violent person and my mom is and has always been like a little girl on a woman's body. I was always afraid, trying to pretend I did exist, walking on eggshells to avoid my dad from screaming and going crazy, it never worked and always kept happening. I was parentified and a neglected child, they won't take care of me or my needs, we used to live with my aunts and grandma and it was good having them around, they gave me love and care about me but never stopped my dad's violence. My whole life I had felt that there was something wrong with me, but I did not know what. I started going to therapy at 19 years old and it has been a long way. My whole adulthood I have struggled with my mental health, It has been impossible for me to keep a job for a long time, up until this point in my life I have only had shitty customer service jobs, even though I went to college. I have always been unstable I haven't developed professionally or financially speaking.My entire life I have been working on feeling better and I have made a hugh amount of progress, I have been able to release the fear, pain and anger that was trapped in my body, it has been a really hard an lonely process, but I have come a long way. I am at the point now were I was able to understand that there was never something wrong with me, that I was only a broken child with terrible parents and they damaged me in more ways and deeper that I have alwasy been aware of. It is wear but blaming myself and thinking that my life has been the way it has been was my fault was a little easier for me to deal with everything, now that I can see that it was never my fault, that I was a victim, that all those things should not have happened and that I have always been doing my best to survive with what happen to me I feel like I am only a victim and that I have always been. A victim of my parents, of their chaos and trauma and a victim of the circunstances. Nothing makes sense for me anymore and I have been thinking about dying because what is the point now? I have never been a regular kid, teeneager young adult or person in general. Violence and trauma have taken a lot away from me. I don´t have a life, I don´t have a career and I dont know what would like to do because when you are surviving you don´t have time to develop and get to know yourself, I don´t have kids, I don´t have savings, I don´t have a car or a house or even a partner. I am just surviving day by day on a shitty job, I job that I really hate and is bad for my mental health but also pay my rent and feeds me. I feel so lonely, I am not going to therapy now and I am not sure about wanting to go. I am not sure about wanting to die or wanting to live and how to do it. Does anyone here feels like me or has had a similar life experience? I just want to know that I am not the only one and survive today. I dont know... revisa la redaccion y ortografia Este contenido podría infringir nuestras Políticas de uso. ChatGPT dijo: ChatGPT Aquí tienes una versión revisada, con correcciones en la redacción y ortografía, pero manteniendo el tono emocional y auténtico de tu texto:
This is hard for me to post, but it’s probably harder to keep it inside. I’ve been struggling lately—or maybe I’ve been struggling my whole life, and it just feels worse lately. I’m a 32-year-old woman from a Latin American country. I had a difficult childhood: my dad is a very violent person, and my mom has always been like a little girl trapped in a woman’s body.
I was always afraid, trying to pretend I didn’t exist, walking on eggshells to avoid my dad’s screaming and outbursts. It never worked—they always happened. I was a parentified and neglected child. My parents didn’t take care of me or my needs. We lived with my aunts and grandma, and it was good to have them around because they gave me love and cared for me, but they never stopped my dad’s violence.
My whole life, I’ve felt like there was something wrong with me, but I didn’t know what. I started going to therapy when I was 19 years old, and it has been a long journey. My entire adulthood, I’ve struggled with my mental health. It’s been impossible for me to keep a job for long periods. Up until now, I’ve only had low-paying customer service jobs, even though I went to college. I’ve always felt unstable. I haven’t been able to develop professionally or financially.
My whole life has been about trying to feel better, and I’ve made a huge amount of progress. I’ve been able to release the fear, pain, and anger that were trapped inside me. It’s been a really hard and lonely process, but I’ve come a long way.
Now, I’ve reached the point where I understand that there was never anything wrong with me. I was just a broken child with terrible parents who damaged me in ways I wasn’t fully aware of. It’s strange, but blaming myself—thinking that my life has turned out this way because of something I did—was easier to cope with. Now that I see it wasn’t my fault, that I was a victim, that all of this shouldn’t have happened, and that I’ve always done my best to survive, I feel like I’m nothing more than a victim.
A victim of my parents. A victim of their chaos and trauma. A victim of the circumstances.
Nothing makes sense anymore. I’ve been thinking about dying because, at this point, what’s the purpose? I’ve never been a “regular” kid, teenager, young adult, or person in general. Violence and trauma have taken so much from me. I don’t have a life. I don’t have a career, and I don’t even know what I’d like to do because when you’re just surviving, you don’t have the time or space to discover who you are.
I don’t have kids. I don’t have savings. I don’t have a car, a house, or even a partner. I’m just surviving day by day in a job I hate—a job that’s terrible for my mental health but pays my rent and puts food on my table.
I feel so lonely. I’m not going to therapy right now, and I’m not sure if I even want to. I don’t know if I want to live or die, or how to figure that out.
Does anyone here feel like me or have a similar life experience? I just want to know that I’m not the only one—and I just want to survive today.
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2025.01.24 23:09 Eastern-Barber-140 Windows users/accounts and MyAsus
I'm new to Windows 11 and haven't used a PC in years. I recently purchased a new Asus Vivobook with Windows 11 home. I made two accounts, an admin and a regular user.
My question is, do applications install separately (twce) when creating a new user account on Windows 11?
For instance, my laptop came with the app MyAsus and it is Asus' app that controls computer hardware updates like drivers and function keys and controls things like what the trackpad does etc. On my primary admin account, I had opened MyAsus and selected its settings to only download Asus updates when I manually check to do so.
Today on the admin account, MyAsus demanded to be updated and would not do anything within the app else until I pressed confirm. I updated the app.
Later on, after logging into my regular user account, MyAsus popped up on this account and asked to be updated (I already updated it on my admin account) and I noticed the settings were default and it had earmarked regular updates etc.
My question is, why would Asus have their app update on both accounts, if its on the same computer? And why would it let a regular user choose to do critical updates if they choose so and set the settings back to normal to begin with on that account? Is this application installed twice? Are other programs like Microsoft edge, etc installed again for every new user account on Windows 11? Also does having two user accounts affect performance or resources?
Thanks.
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