Being a Quranist in a conservative muslim household
2025.01.25 00:20 batsypoo Being a Quranist in a conservative muslim household
Alsalam alaykkum, first I apologise for this long post but I have found a great community here and have been lurking on this subreddit for a long while and finally decided to post and take things off my chest. I am a 21 AFAB that was born into a Shia muslim family in the Middle East. I started wearing the hijab at the age of 8 yrs old out of my own 'will' but it was only because I looked up to the women in my family wanted to copy them. I no longer believe in the majority of the practices my family adheres to. This might seem controversial but I do not really care about the Sahabis life or Imams life or any of the wars or historical events that happened in the 7th century that are not mentioned in the Quran. Sure, it is good to be educated about how Islam came to be but ultimately I don't see how it affects my relationship with Allah or makes me a better muslim. I reject all Hadith, but here is the thing, whenever my family makes claims (this is haram, dont do this..etc) I ask them for their source in the Quran. This makes them really angry and it baffles me, for how am I the one in the wrong for sticking to the Quran and not to the words of some book wherein lies falseness and human error? My main gripe with most Shia practices is how much they are focused on Islamic figures and totems. My family constantly celebrates the birth of Imams they believe to be infallible and mourns the loss of them. They visit their gravesites and make Dua'a there believing it is more likely to be accepted. They bring home stones/marble from said gravesites and wipe cloths on the shrines believing them to bring good. I feel like this hinders actual progression into a good muslim and tears focus away from the original message of islam. Do not get me wrong, I love my family members but it is too much for me to sit in silence and for my words to not be heard. I almost feel like I am seen as Kafir whenever I bring up the Quran and refute their Hadiths or Shia Riwayyat. I feel suffocated and trying my best to have patience. Does it ever get better with family? Will they ever be convinced? Should I just give up? I hope someone who has similar experience can help out. Thank you all.
TL;DR I am a Quranist in a Shia muslim family that is struggling to be heard or taken seriously.
submitted by batsypoo to progressive_islam [link] [comments]
2025.01.25 00:20 ciscoriko1 Are these legit sealed copies?
 | submitted by ciscoriko1 to gameverifying [link] [comments] |
2025.01.25 00:20 MundaneAppointment10 17 yo babysitter ramblings advice/judgement needed
hes 6, 7 in may. hes a normal kid no behavior issues. but like when i say "i dont wanna play this game" bc its unsafe (like when i do i nearly step on his ankles and shit i hate it) hes like "no its fine" or when im like "dont sit on my back on the really high up chair its unsafe" hes like "no its not" or im like "dont sit on top of the monkey bars!" and he whines and cries which is normal but like what do i do. my mom said to just let him fall but like no. he also whines and cries when i dont do exactly what he wants which like i may be a horrible person but like he needs to learn how to compromise and that hes not the boss of everything because i dont want him acting like that to other kids. i want to teach him patience which he does not have. i understand that im not his parent, but i feel like if his parents put me in charge of him that i should not do him a disservice by setting him back. i dont ever yell at him, i just calmly correct him. like for example if he says something mean im like "dont say that thats mean" or if he wants to cheat in a game im like "lets play fair" or whatever. or if were playing mario kart or something hes like "try your best" and when i beat him he weeps 😭😭 i know hes 6 years old lmao but like i dont know what to do i dont wanna coddle him and set him back socially (i know these arent terrible things, but I want to make sure he grows out of it)
hes a wonderful kid dont get me wrong, i just get a little frustrated sometimes and a little worried when he cries about wanting to play a semi unsafe game because i dont want him to hate me but i definitely do not want to step on his ankles!
side note, i want to get closer with his parents. ive never been paid to actually watch him, im like a mothers helper sorta kinda thing during neighborhood events. he has a stay at home dad and older siblings that watch him sometimes but like.. i really want to be paid to watch him cuz i watch him a Lot while his parents have gatherings, it would be cool to get paid to scooter around the neighborhood and go to the park and stuff with him but i barely know his parents. i only know them bc they have neighborhood dinners.
submitted by MundaneAppointment10 to Babysitting [link] [comments]
2025.01.25 00:20 greensnake651 My pure saiyans team cooked
 | In need desperately submitted by greensnake651 to DokkanBattleCommunity [link] [comments] |
2025.01.25 00:20 AutoModerator How was your parkrun day? | January 25, 2025
Let everyone know how your parkrun went - where did you go? Any PB's or milestones?
Post it all below in this week's weekly thread.
submitted by AutoModerator to parkrun [link] [comments]
2025.01.25 00:20 jesus-is-not-god Boiler piping
"Yeah,this will work". As if water doesn't follow path of least resistance. Added an air separator to make purging possible.
submitted by jesus-is-not-god to HVAC [link] [comments]
2025.01.25 00:20 AutoModerator O poder da fé: como confiar em Deus em todas as circunstâncias
 | submitted by AutoModerator to Noticiasdodia [link] [comments] |
2025.01.25 00:20 Ok-Landscape-4835 I do not care for Homer Simpson vs Peter Griffin
 | submitted by Ok-Landscape-4835 to deathbattle [link] [comments] |
2025.01.25 00:20 djdenimvest Sciuridae - \\\Sciuridae///
submitted by djdenimvest to EDM [link] [comments]
2025.01.25 00:20 Over-Item6899 Street Fighter Duel APK - https://www.modplaza.com/street-fighter-duelapk/games/role-playing/apk?feed_id=13402&_unique_id=67942e4d8a0e9
submitted by Over-Item6899 to ApkModders [link] [comments]
2025.01.25 00:20 Several_Ad5786 FOO but planning for daycare
Husband and I (both 30 y/o) bought a house almost a year ago. We followed the guidelines to stay under 25% of our gross income thankfully. But the first 6 months were rough with lots of money going to repairs and just things needed for the house. Over the past three years before that we’ve worked hard to pay off over $45K in debt (CC’s, student loans, car loans.) We got pregnant shortly after moving into the new home, and have our daughter due in May.
We’re back in a good place financially now to save a lot each month or pay down more debt we have - small 7.5% car loan, 4-6% student loan debts (altogether totaling $35K). We currently have two months of emergency funds saved as well. Our daughter will have to start daycare in Jan. 2026. This will completely eat away our extra money we have in our budget. Should we save as much as we can this year to build up our EF knowing it’ll be tough to save at all starting next year? Or should we continue to pay down debt?
submitted by Several_Ad5786 to TheMoneyGuy [link] [comments]
2025.01.25 00:20 Gees_World Patience ❤️
 | submitted by Gees_World to BeAmazed [link] [comments] |
2025.01.25 00:20 Electronic-Still6565 Separating the funds in IKBR
Is there a way to stash some funds in IKBR so that it would not be used for trading/margin/leverage. I trade from an EU country but trade American stocks. I do not want to frequently move money in and out of banks but want to make sure that not 100% of my funds are exposed for trading.
Is there a way to achieve this with IKBR?
submitted by Electronic-Still6565 to interactivebrokers [link] [comments]
2025.01.25 00:20 MusicBlogs2025 The Permanent Rain Press Interview with Yafania
submitted by MusicBlogs2025 to musicindustry [link] [comments]
2025.01.25 00:20 Renegade604 Pretty soon she won't be a baby anymore! :(
submitted by Renegade604 to BabyCorgis [link] [comments]
2025.01.25 00:20 Ok-Log7775 I sell my account
 | I sell my account global of Dokkan Battle, because my main it's the account jap. For more photos and information write to me in private or on telegram. This it's my username: matte_2005. submitted by Ok-Log7775 to DokkanBattleCommunity [link] [comments] |
2025.01.25 00:20 ggdmeow Need advice to start streaming!
Hey! So, basically, I just need some advice to start streaming as a vtuber (since I used to a while ago already, but with my camera on). I really dont know what to even look for, and I dont need something big or detailed yk?! thanks xD
submitted by ggdmeow to vtubertech [link] [comments]
2025.01.25 00:20 One-Comb3922 Yo Guys check out this new beat
 | submitted by One-Comb3922 to beats [link] [comments] |
2025.01.25 00:20 Rinatintin13 Edit idea
Dude. If someone hasn’t done it yet: someone make an edit with the cast with wrong side of heaven by ffdp, because oh my god. If someone did it already, please give me the link. I love this game and I crave more content so bad. This game ruined me as a kid and I love it
submitted by Rinatintin13 to SpecOpsTheLine [link] [comments]
2025.01.25 00:20 Distinct-Relief-8343 Lo de que el dinero que gana el hombre en una pareja es de los 2, solo aplica cuando la mujer se dedica al hogar, no con la que trabaja, gana su dinero y no se dedica al hogar.
submitted by Distinct-Relief-8343 to OpinionesPolemicas [link] [comments]
2025.01.25 00:20 Boring_Orange_1258 Vegan Frisco Melt
 | Made a vegan frisco melt for dinner, kind of like Steak n Shake. Obviously, it doesn't taste the same, but it's pretty good. I used a Beyond Burger patty, but I think I might try making my own from ground Impossible meat so the patty is thinner. For cheese I used Daiya American and Violife Provolone. And I made the frisco sauce myself. submitted by Boring_Orange_1258 to VeganFood [link] [comments] |
2025.01.25 00:20 corrosion23 FL studio not able to record vital with midi
>! I've been at this for 2 weeks and have made no progress on learning fl. Do I need to get vital to open within fl? I've just been opening the app from my homepage. If I need to open it from within fl how do I do that?!<
submitted by corrosion23 to VitalSynth [link] [comments]
2025.01.25 00:20 Runaway2332 The Importance of Videos
 | Here we have what looks like someone selling your old garden variety chunk 'o rocks. I scrolled right past them, thinking "What the HELL?! Why would anybody post THESE for sale?!?" Then I remembered whose store I was in on Etsy and scrolled back up. I clicked on one. Still not impressed. 🥱 Then. THEN I clicked on the video and HOT DAMN AND HALLELUJAH, wouldja LOOK AT THAT?! I was gobsmacked. Check it out....and THIS is why you should include videos when selling or bragging about a specimen! 🤣 https://www.etsy.com/listing/1744159533/400lbs-muscovite-w-biotite-mica-schist submitted by Runaway2332 to mineralcollectors [link] [comments] |
2025.01.25 00:20 Mental_Neat1013 vale perguntas sobre amizade tbm ?
gente, queria um conselho de vocês. Tenho (ou tinha) uma amiga que eu curtia muito. Amizade mesmo, sem segundas intenções. Acontece que todas as vezes que ela entra em um relacionamento (idas e vindas do ex) ela diminui drásticamente o contato.
Eu sei que amizades entre homem e mulher pode ser uma dor de cabeça nos relacionamentos, mas é que fica estranho esse vai e vem. Meio que eu só fico servindo de segunda opção mesmo 🤡. Estamos sem conversar desde outubro e antes conversávamos todos os dias kkkkkkkkk. Basicamente ela mantém o "contato" através de memes, mas nunca mais conversamos descentemente.
Queria a opinião de vocês, podem responder sem dó
submitted by Mental_Neat1013 to relacionamentos [link] [comments]
2025.01.25 00:20 Issho100 BMW Schlüssel
 | Hi Leute, brauche euren guten Rat. Habe vorhin die Schlüsselbatterie gewechselt & jetzt will der scheiß Notschlüssel nicht mehr im Gehäuse einrasten. Hat da jemand ne Idee ? 😅 Vielen Dank im Voraus! LG submitted by Issho100 to automobil [link] [comments] |