AITBF for cutting off my roommates friends
2025.01.30 08:09 Leading-Ad-4298 AITBF for cutting off my roommates friends
I (18F) have a close friend group at university consisting of four main people—me, my roommate Bailey (18/19F), Sam, and Presley—along with two other girls, Charlie and Rachel. From the moment I met Charlie and Rachel, I had a bad feeling about them. Something just felt off, and over time, my instincts were proven right.
Rachel, in particular, was rude to me from the start. She would make backhanded comments about my room, saying things like, “Oh, it’s finally clean!”—which was especially frustrating because I have diagnosed OCD and keep my space exactly how I need it. One night, I was walking her home while she was drunk, and when I let go of her hand for a second to step over a rock, she started screaming at me, calling me a btch* and other names. After that, I decided to keep my distance.
Things got worse when our group was getting ready to go out one night. Charlie and Rachel came over to our room and completely ignored me the entire time. Later, I found out they had been up-charging us for alcohol and were annoyed that I didn’t drive them around more often. For context: Rachel once texted me while I was out of town, asking me to take her jacket to the cleaners when I got back because she had puked on it. Besides the fact that the puke would have been sitting for days by then, I also had a flat tire. She ended up taking it herself, but when she later saw me driving (on my way to get my tire fixed), she got upset, as if I owed her a ride.
At that point, I decided I didn’t want to be friends with them anymore. Given how they had treated me, I assumed that Sam, Presley, and Bailey—who had all talked badly about them before—would have my back. I even told them I was fine with them staying friends with Charlie and Rachel if they wanted. But after winter break, I came back to find myself completely isolated. None of them talk to me now, even though I was the one who was wronged.
The more I think about it, the more I don’t understand why they would choose to stay friends with people who hurt their friend. When I asked Bailey about it, she said, “I just like having a lot of people around me,” and admitted that her friendship with them was shallow. But if it’s so shallow, why is she choosing them over me—someone who has always had her back?
So, AITA for cutting them off?
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Mientras manejaba estos días en las presas infinitas y viendo como los conductores hacen tantas idioteces: no conocen el efecto cremallera, no saben entrar a las autopistas, hacen altos donde no existen, manejan dos carros a la misma velocidad en una calle de dos carriles, sin pensar que el carril izquierdo debe ser usado por carros más rápidos, etc... Y esos pequeños puntos que podrían mejorar un poco la situación en las carreteras. Pensé en que yo 30+ aún recuerdo la canción de colgate ( todos saben cuál es supongo) y si algo similar funcionaría, una campaña publicitaria masiva y a largo plazo que le recuerde a los conductores estos puntos.
Tal vez viendo esta información seguido en TV, redes sociales, vallas publicitarias etc... los conductores más jóvenes, los futuros conductores podrían (y hasta los más viejos que tienen sus malas mamás) tendría un cambio de chip y los efectos se verían a mediano plazo.
Cómo creen que se pueda mejorar la situación vial de manera factible? Porque no creo que la cantidad de carros vaya a disminuir, ni tampoco creo que las calles vayan ser mejoradas.
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The closest thing you can get as a man to being cared about is being cared about because you're useful implict to the role of provider isn't being loved for who are you, but what you can do....
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this is a long one so buckle up but im js fucking terrified. im in highschool. about 3 weeks ago? ish? me and my boyfriend saw my best friends rapist at the mall. we thought it would be a lil funny to bully him and his bf so we did. my bf went up to him, said a few things and recorded it. put it on his snap story n the video got out, i made a post on my private story saying “i love bullying rapists” aswell and the school got ahold of both of them. we got suspended because the rapist snitched on us and because the school absolutely dick rides him because his mom works for the school, the school didn’t care at all he raped my friend and they js said “not to believe what you hear” when me and my bf told them after being called to the office. we got suspended for the rest of the week and then i was grounded for 2 weeks. my dad acted like i didnt exist for a day or 2 and my parents were js disappointed in me. i havent had a good relationship with them at ALL in the past 4-5 years. so it wasnt very pretty. i genuinely felt like id be a failure and that they hated me. and i still feel this way. i recently failed a class because i didnt do make-up work that i missed. i didnt think i had to do it because i thought the semester ended already so there was no point. but i was wrong and i could’ve done it. my parents said i lied and that i was js being lazy even though that wasnt the situation at all. ive also js been dealing so bad with my mental health lately and i really wanna kms. my boyfriend has been flipping out because i havent been taking care of myself either and its not making it any better. and then just recently, a few days ago, i was back at school. i was in lunch and i had my phone out, i was looking at myself in the camera and fixing my hair. i was being clumsy with my phone and i didnt realize that the rapist was behind me. so the faculty thought i was recording him and trying to take pictures of him. which that wasnt what i was trying to do at all. the whole rest of the day i was panicking because i didnt know if they were going to do anything about it and i couldnt have a chance to explain myself. during my last class i got sent to the principals office, and they talked to me, immediately i knew what it was about and i started shaking and freaking out because i didnt want to get suspended again. i explained everything and she js moved my lunch period and understood what i told her. i was shaking and on the verge of tears. im terrified because i dont wanna go back to school tomorrow and find out im suspended. ive been having non stop panic attacks since it happened and im js so done. ive been scared to talk to my parents at all lately because i dont want them to get mad at me. i freeze in place and get scared when i have to talk to them and im js scared. im paranoid over everything lately and i feel hopeless. i feel like im going down the wrong path with everything. im scared they hate me and my boyfriend and i dont want either of that. my dad doesnt trust anything i tell him and my mom has js been so bitchy to me about everything. i feel like i’ve failed at everything.
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2025.01.30 08:09 ConsciousEqual7298 Let us kick a teammate in this scenario
Embark.... if a player manualy leaves a game early, lets say in round 1 then only rejoins when you guys are in the final round (after you and the other player grinded to get there)
Give us the power to vote them off the island Give us the power to 300 kick them in the gut
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2025.01.30 08:09 OutrageousBoot1327 Anushka Sharma kiss
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2025.01.30 08:09 JaylenDaya Wondering how much was your mk8 gti
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2025.01.30 08:09 blubinthetub Stock on Lush App
Is it just me (or The Netherlands), or is the Lush app acting weird lately? I feel like it only shows 2/3 of what they actually sell, and it also differs in what is sold out and what isn't in comparison to the website. For example, Milky Bath is out of stock on the app, but it isn't on the website.
Is anyone else noticing this and, if so, does anyone know if Lush is aware of this?
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2025.01.30 08:09 FenixFVE Most of the people who oppose AI are dialists. When they say that AI has no soul, they mean it literally.
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2025.01.30 08:09 Charming-Pilot-2009 Was your first IT job ML/DS/AI related?
Hi, the question in the title says it all, but here’s a bit of context for anyone who wants to know the background.
First, I’m not from the U.S.; I’m from Europe, specifically Spain, so the job market is a little different, I would say. I’m in my last year of my Computer Engineering degree. After many years of not knowing whether I really liked this field or not, in October 2024, I finally decided to end this confusion by finding what I truly enjoy or what my passion is.
After conducting in-depth research, I came across this field and fell in love with it. Since then, I’ve been fully focused on learning, and for the first time in my life, I genuinely wanted to study more and more—not just for the sake of achieving a result, but for the pursuit of true knowledge.
I know that three months is nothing when it comes to learning this field, but thanks to an active approach, I’ve been progressing at a really good pace. Right now, my learning is focused on my final degree project, which is a Kaggle project, Home Credit Default Risk, and on re-learning math by reading Mathematics for Machine Learning, paired with MIT lectures on Linear Algebra and Probability & Statistics.
And what’s the problem? Well, I’ve been lucky enough to land an internship. I mentioned that, if possible, I wanted to learn and work on a Data or AI-related project. I know my knowledge isn’t top-notch, but I have a solid foundation from my degree, along with what I’ve learned on my own. And, well, we live on hopes and dreams! But, of course, that wasn’t the case.
My job will be to learn COBOL (along with JCL, ISPF...) and work on projects that require someone with knowledge of this technology. I know it’s a good opportunity to land my first job, and once I’m in, I can switch to another project. I asked my manager about this, and it’s possible, but the timeframe could range from five months to more than a year.
Although I don’t mind it too much—since once you’re in the market, it’s easier to move than to get in—I feel a bit disheartened that I won’t yet be working on real projects related to what I truly enjoy.
So, my question is: Before getting a job in this field, did you also have to endure a job that you didn’t like as much? Did you manage to land an AI job right away after a lot of effort, or was there some luck involved?
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2025.01.30 08:09 AmazingAmiria Where Was I in November?
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2025.01.30 08:09 KingElessarEvenstar Maybe Hello Games is looking! Prayers of the machine for they who returned is freezing at the electronic heart.
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