AITA for being mad at my best friend for ditching me for a guy I used to have a crush on?
2025.01.30 17:50 Top-Channel-7206 AITA for being mad at my best friend for ditching me for a guy I used to have a crush on?
So my BFF Mary and I have been best friends for over a decade. We’ve always had each other's backs, but I’m feeling hurt right now, and I’m wondering if I’m in the wrong.
For context, Mary comes from a wealthy family, but she's super humble about it. I’ve always dreamt of being rich, and now I’m engaged to Jake, a wonderful guy who’s also rich, but honestly, that's just a bonus. I’ve had some rough relationships in the past, but Jake is IT for me. I really feel like we’re meant to be, and everything has been going well with wedding planning.
Now, Mary and I met when we were in middle school and joined the AV club together. We both liked it, but we joined for different reasons—she was more into the movies, and I joined because Mary was shy and sensitive, and I didn’t want to leave her alone. Our AV club president, Michael, was a couple of years older than us, and I had a huge crush on him back then. He’s tall, a bit geeky, and he's got This weird sense of humor thats so weird it comes off as funny, he can also be a bit abraisive sometimes, but there was something about the way he treated Mary that I couldn’t put my finger on. It wasn’t anything overt, but he treated her differently than the rest of us. I wasn’t super comfortable with it at the time, especially since they got along better than me and him, and it kinda bugged me. I’ll admit, I even told Mary to back off, but looking back, I cringe at how I handled that.
Fast forward to The present, and Mary’s been acting a little off. With my wedding coming up, she kept calling me with trivial stuff like "Let’s watch a movie", " ill buy us concert tickets" or "Let’s try this new restaurant," but I was trying to focus on wedding prep. I told myself I’d make it up to her and have her as my bridesmaid, but things got complicated. Mary got into some trouble with a celebrity—yeah, really—just two weeks before my bachelorette party. I didn’t want to be associated with any drama, so I didn’t invite her to the party, but I kept her as my maid of honor.
Things took another turn when Mary went back to college. She and Michael ended up at the same school, both majoring in film, and now they’ve been hanging out all the time—fancy dinners, concerts, and events that used to be things I’d do with her. On her birthday, she even went to a pop concert with michael and their college friends, and she didn’t even contact me. After my wedding, she didn’t reach out either. It’s like I’ve been forgotten.
When I confronted her about it, she said she didn’t realize I felt this way and thought I didn’t want to hang out with her anymore. She apologized, but honestly, I feel hurt. I feel like she’s replaced me with Michael, and I don’t know if I’m just being dramatic or if she’s really been distancing herself.
AITA for being mad at my best friend for hanging out with a guy I used to like, especially when she’s kind of ditched me in the process?
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