2025.01.31 08:00 ermurenz UFC Fight Night 250 weigh-in results: Adesanya vs. Imavov card official with one miss on prelims
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2025.01.31 08:00 Capali2025 Am I just delusional?
Hey fans of Charlotte!
I don't post so much, but I think I need some closure or... just to type my thoughts out and throw them into the void.
If you take the time to read this, you have my gratitude.
A month ago, I was dumped. It blindsided me completely. We'd been seeing each other for almost 8 months and, without sounding dramatic or hyperbolic, it was the most healthy, respectful, loving relationship I've been in. I know 8 months isn't long, but I had taken a break from dating for almost 2½ years after being in several abusive relationships. I had accepted that I'd just be alone and then this person just came out of nowhere and... damn, we clicked. I was treated really well. It'd been a long time since I actually felt like someone cared about me. (I know, that's sad, but I've had a chain of abusive partners since 2019 until I gave up).
It breaks my heart that we clicked so much. Everything just lined up so perfectly - and I'm INCREDIBLY uneasy using the word "perfect" but... They were visiting my city by chance and we met. Conversation, intellect, emotional maturity, open and honest, same humor, same hobbies, same politics and even the sexy times were great. We never fought - just had 2-3 small disagreements solved within minutes. I had previously been apprehensive about meeting their friends and family but... even they were warm, open and loving and accepted me immediately because I made my partner "happier than I've seen them for a long time" (quote from one of their friends). They arranged plans for us in the future. I thought it was going somewhere and I was shocked that this person wanted me.
It was a long-distance relationship. I hear you go "oof." And I agree... I was, again, uneasy about it... but we clicked and we actually made it work. We communicated every day and managed to see each other every 2 weeks. We ended up spending 10-14 days out of the month together. We didn't rub each other the wrong way. Every second together was fun and filled with love. I wish I was exaggerating because it'd make everything easier. I felt truly cherished. I'm crying writing this. I genuinely have no bad memories of our time together.
Unfortunately, my ex just came out of a messy, abusive marriage. We met 2 months after they divorced. I was cautious and worried about being a rebound but I was assured they had "lost feelings" for their partner and the relationship as long as 4-6 months earlier due to the abuse. I believed them and I actually never felt like their past seeped (at least not overtly) into our relationship. They were triggered a few (2) times by similar comments/behaviors I had made but we solved those issues pretty fast. But, clearly, their former partner has fucked with their head.
The other issue is that the ex is an immigrant in Europe. Why is that an issue? Well, because they missed their home, friends and family. The last 2 months of our relationship, I could see how the homesickness was affecting them and I suggested they travel home for Christmas to catch up with family. I couldn't go, so we met up before Christmas and had a magical 5 days together with family/friends, nice outings and cozy times. They were their usual loving self for the first 2 weeks of their trip home and then... they broke up with me. They decided they wanted to quit work and return home to be with friends and family and... not take me with them.
I believe everything they've said. Everything they've shared, posted online, etc. has been emotionally charged about missing their family and hometown and "not wanting to leave" and "I can't wait to come home and be around these people again."
I was, I am still, devastated. Admittedly, this is the first red flag they had shown me. They had made this (emotional and nostalgic) decision to return home without talking to me or trying to include me in their plan, when they had otherwise been so committed to our relationship. They said they didn't want to take on the responsibility of another person in that situation and, unprompted, they had told me many times how poverty stricken, poor infrastructure, and dangerous their home country is. They know that they themselves are going to struggle when they return home and don't want the extra burden of me, nor do they have the emotional capacity to do long-distance from across the globe.... and I understand and sympathize with it all.
They refuse to admit that the past marriage influences their decisions, but clearly it does? They just took on the responsibility of importing a partner from another country to Europe for several years and it failed. It was abusive. When they spoke of their past partner, it wasn't neutral. It wasn't angry... it was... exhausted. They tried a friendship but it was too hard for them and they had purged the past partner from all social media. I never wanted to ask too much because the relationship was still "young," so I just wanted to enjoy our time together and hope the wounds would heal and we'd figure out going to their home country in the future.
I was petrified of moving with them but it started to settle in when I realized that, if I wanted a future with this person, I would have to consider moving with them, especially after seeing how much they missed their family. I actually wanted to have "the talk" when they came back after Christmas but they... made the decision for me. For us.
I miss them. We still talk a bit and things are pleasant. They have been very defensive when I talk to them about us, I feel like they know they're giving up on something and don't want to be reminded that they might be making a mistake. "I want to make my own decisions for my life without the influence of another person for once" was uttered during our breakup.
They have plans and things to focus on, preparations... but I'm... stuck. The other day, I got talking to one of their friends and, when they asked how I was and I... in a moment of grief ... overshared and ended up left on read. I feel unhinged. I hope they don't block me for this, but I'll accept the consequences of my actions.
Thanks for reading. I guess they know their homeland better than I do. I may be delusional but I said to myself: "here, I struggle for nothing. There, I'd struggle for something." Is it really so delusional to want to give up my privilege in Europe to live in the global south?
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2025.01.31 08:00 karmalizing Announcements x Daily Discussion for Friday, January 31, 2025
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2025.01.31 08:00 Able_Custard_3780 Would You Rather in Japan: Explore the Land of Sushi, Anime and Samurai With 254 Fun and Thought-Provoking Questions
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2025.01.31 08:00 Danyghr What are you playing today? #Gamer_Fridays
It is #Gamer_Fridays ! What are you playing this weekend?
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2025.01.31 08:00 Lucky_Mechanic4853 TGIF from the boys
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2025.01.31 08:00 AugmentedStartups New Members Intro
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2025.01.31 08:00 Zakaria_Rachad MSI MAG 275QF vs ASUS TUF Gaming VG27AQL3A
I'm currently trying to upgrade my setup and I've been confused between the MSI MAG 275QF wich have >1 billion color and the The ASUS TUF Gaming VG27AQL3A that have the ASUS Extreme Low Motion Blur (ELMB), I'm using it for playing Apex legends mostly, my question for those who had a real hand experience, is the ELMB worth sacrificing the 1 billion color and if anyone tried both of the specifically would make it a lot easier for me to decide, thank u very much.
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2025.01.31 08:00 Great_Lordofstark Which was the one movie you saw in the last 5 years that made you feel 'that was worth it ' and why ?
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2025.01.31 08:00 kaosmoker This is your weekly opportunity to vent. I hope everyone is doing well and had a great week. I encourage anyone to share whatever is on your mind currently in the comments.
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2025.01.31 08:00 empath_beta Why managers in Indian IT companies don't switch?
Still water gets rotten fast. So the main topic is why Indian managers stick to one company and remain leech.
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2025.01.31 08:00 ufo-uap Loch Ness Monster Is A Myth But Aliens Could Be Real, Says Top Scientist
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Struggling with this. I think it’s ‘seno’, can anyone help?
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2025.01.31 08:00 AutoModerator Weekend's Daily Thread: General Dating Questions and Open Thread
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2025.01.31 08:00 reddit_lss_2 Hide post test 31/1/2025 07:59:23
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2025.01.31 08:00 _Lucifer_777_ Need help Deciding what is better.
Don't know which one to choose. According to akasha.cv the Atk% is better than the em one. But when I tested it with the "Potapo's solidarity" the em sands won. Like it did 908K on the best scenario meanwhile the atk% did 804K. My team is Mavuika, Citlali C0 TTDS, Kazuha C0 VV iron sting and benny C6 lions roar. submitted by _Lucifer_777_ to Mavuika [link] [comments] |
2025.01.31 08:00 Evclane Applying for eller major: need advice
Hello everyone, I am applying for my eller major in the fall. Whilst I do have some counselor appointments in order, I have some questions for everyone regarding how likely I actually am to succeed in getting what I’m looking for. Currently I have a 3.25 GPA at u of a, I am a transfer from Pima. I would be applying for my major this coming fall. If I work hard, I can probably raise this to a 3.5, but I’m not sure it would be possible at this point to raise my u of a GPA to a 3.75 (preferred admissions). If I’m understanding correctly, 3.75+ GPAs have basically automatic enrollment into their choice of major. I am really interested in applying for a degree in MIS, but I’ve read it’s one of Eller’s top programs. I don’t want to be automatically counted out due to my GPA, would it be better for me to apply to something else at this point? I’m interested in business analytics, which is a new program, I’m just really concerned about where I stand odds wise. Let me know if there’s anything specific to address regarding information I can provide. Thank you in advance for the help and my apologies if formatting is weird as I’m on mobile.
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2025.01.31 08:00 AutoModerator Weekly chit-chat thread
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