AITA for going no contact after my MIL asks to FaceTime our surrogate during ultrasound

2025.02.02 05:01 Own_Acanthisitta1996 AITA for going no contact after my MIL asks to FaceTime our surrogate during ultrasound

My MIL has always acted a little crazy especially about my feminine issues, but took a whole new level when my husband and I got engaged. I had a hysterectomy and we are expecting through surrogacy. We told her we won't be doing a gender reveal party because we will be meeting our surrogate for the first time in person and finding out the gender at her ultrasound. My MIL texts us and asks if we can FaceTime her during our ultrasound and meet our surrogate and "thank her for giving me my grand baby" were her words. And then asked if we can show her the ultrasound screen so she can "see my grand baby in utero". And then ended the text with a winky emoji. Also, our surrogate only speaks Spanish. I speak fluent Spanish, but my MIL does not.. so I have no idea how she plans on communicating with her?? We are so blessed and beyond thankful to have an amazing surrogate who we love like family. That being said, am I overreacting by feeling extremely disrespected that my MIL would ask me to FaceTime her so she could thank our surrogate for making her a grandmother in front of my face during our private gender reveal... after knowing how emotional the entire process has been. I feel like it should be a special moment between my husband and I and our surrogate, not a show and tell.
I'm glad she is thankful but it feels like she is trying to be hurtful because she's mad we aren't doing a gender reveal like she wanted. This is a pattern of crazy behavior. I just don't know what to do at this point. We obviously said no to this request for a million reasons. Our surrogates comfort and privacy is our top priority.
Am I the asshole for cutting communication to anything pregnancy related moving forward?
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So, I was home alone and she rushed into the common area outside and started turning on lights and yelling, "one these people better come out", and "I'm gonna catch one of them" and "if someone doesn't come out I'm gonna start banging on doors" because she somehow thought we had done something to her which we had not. She switched on a light that controls the lights in my bedroom yelling "I'm going to wake everyone up".
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