I need some help financially
2024.11.25 04:29 corleigh22 I need some help financially
 | Last Monday, I started a new job after not having one for a month. With the being said, I haven’t been paid since then. I don’t get my first paycheck from my current job until December 5th. I’m running low on money in general and need to get groceries and gas. Anything will be helpful!! Thank you so much!! submitted by corleigh22 to VenmoDonations [link] [comments] |
2024.11.25 04:29 SIKHEADTOM BRITISH LADS try a USA HIP-HOP FESTIVAL for the first time! | CAMP FLOG GNAW 2024
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2024.11.25 04:29 ChipNDiego Anyone get a hitch? 2021 NX 300h
Looking for a hitch, just for a bike rack, but they look odd. The Curt model appears to be several inches under the bumper for some reason...bring up clearance concers.
Anyone get one they like? Please share details and pics....thx.
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2024.11.25 04:29 confuze0 Is kissing my girl best friend WRONG? New guy does not like the thought of a purely platonic, drunk kiss- which is normal to my best friendship.
I (22F) had a conversation with this guy I’m seeing (21M) last night. Basically we were talking about my best friend (22F) and I was painting a picture about how she’s a very physically affectionate person, which is just part of her nature. She has been in my life for 7-8 years and is my absolute die hard best friend. They started talking online in a friendly manner, just her sending him memes and stuff. I expressed I was okay with this because I want them to get along, which is so great they do. I also have already spoken to her about what level of physical affection is okay with me, because in the past she has done flirtatious things like sitting on her friends’ boyfriends’ laps, or dancing quite promiscuously with them. It’s fine for her other friends’ relationships, but she knows this isn’t okay with me, so we’ve recently had conversations about it to prepare for when I settle down with a partner.
She knows I’m not comfortable with this, and has explained she would never want to hurt her best friends so this is never going to happen in any of my future partners (I’d get upset if that happened to me, personally). Anyway so I was just telling this new guy about how she can be physically affectionate, but genuinely means well.
To explain this, I used examples of my own friendship with her- we are like sisters. When I stay at her place, we spoon and cuddle. We are perfectly comfortable skinny dipping together, and embracing our bodies around each other. At music festivals, we have sometimes kissed whilst being high / drunk, but it feels ABSOLUTELY platonic. It is a really nice way of expressing our love for our friendship, and has never been sexual. To us, it’s like giving your best mate a high five or a hug or something. Plus, we have only kissed maybe twice (for 5 seconds, MAX) in the entire 8 years I’ve known her, one of which was a new years kiss that we had, right after I had shared an intimate kiss with my (now ex) boyfriend; because it was just the three of us hanging out and I didn’t want her to third wheel or feel left out. It is so nice having a girl bestie who I can be physically affectionate with and it not have any sexual undertone whatsoever. It’s not something I’ve ever paid much thought to, as it doesn’t mean anything intimate to the two of us.
This new guy who I really like and feel aligned with said he thinks this would be a deal breaker, and the thought of it makes him super uncomfortable. He said he considers any kind of lip-kissing besides hellos and goodbyes as very intimate, and says that’s what society views kissing as too. But I just don’t think he understands, because he doesn’t have guy friends who are as physically affectionate as my girl friends. He made me think about having to sacrifice that if I ever wanted to settle with him, which makes ME super uncomfortable because:
If I was at a festival with her again, and she just wanted a peck on the lips, me rejecting her would suggest that suddenly something we had done platonically forever now has an “inappropriate” or sexual undertone. I’m scared if I wasn’t allowed to do this anymore, she might think I like her!!! Which would absolutely suck, because to us it has been platonic this whole time!
I don’t know what to think of this. If this guy was at a festival without me, I would be absolutely fine with him kissing his guy best friend, for the lols. That’s what I have been allowed to do in my previous relationship, and it has always been entirely friendly and just party fun. I always discussed and asked my partner before going to festivals, to which he was fully on board with, as it is a good preventative measure of wanting to hook up with random people who throw themselves at me. Neither my best friend or I would EVER want to do anything sexual together, and because we’re basically siblings it feels weird thinking I’d have to change the dynamics of our relaxed friendship for this new guy who clearly can’t fathom having friendships like that.
She knows me more than anyone else, and I absolutely adore her. So putting these weird boundaries on her feels wrong to me, as it has always been innocent and playful. Never anything sexual.
How does one navigate this situation? I want to respect his boundaries of course, but limiting my authentic friendships which I established well before he came into my life feels like a wrong sacrifice, and taints something entirely innocent. As girls, we are far more open with physical affection than guys are generally (braiding hair, cuddling, dancing together, bathing together like siblings); and don’t view light kissing with a girl best friend once in a blue moon as a sexual act at all. If I did, I wouldn’t have been so open about describing this friendship with him, and easily would’ve pursued her instead in the past 8 years. How do I respect his boundary without making this control my closest friendship and change the dynamics I have with her? It’s really not something I’ve ever thought of in this way, and I don’t want to sacrifice or make her feel weird about something so normal to our friendship.
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2024.11.25 04:29 IrishWonder4 Rare Binx W
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2024.11.25 04:29 turndown4matte This kinda sucks lol
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2024.11.25 04:29 ICEDOUTYUGIOHCARD I’m going to marry this Capricorn girl yall are so cool
I just wanted to share something ion need no advice. She invited me to a family gathering and mentioned that she could have invited anyone, but she chose me. Although we don't currently date, I plan to date her and eventually marry her at some point. Crazy thing to we haven't talked in like 3-4 weeks fr and she invited me.
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2024.11.25 04:29 george3544 Worried about my ALT years not counting
Hi everyone.
I have a question for you all. I have a degree in foreign languages, a CELTA certification, and have 2 years of experience tutoring IELTS in my home country.
Currently, I am in my third year as an ALT, where I act as the T1 with only a supervisor observing the class. I am also fluent in Japanese, so I take part in all of the meetings and 研修. Next year, I plan on getting a master’s degree in TESOL, and I aim to transition into a main teaching position by hopefully getting a prefectural 特別免許状. If I can't get this I have to apply for a private school. In which case, do you think my qualifications and experience are enough?
I keep hearing that ALT experience will be ignored, so I'm a bit nervous about going the private school route.
I don't want to return to my home country to obtain a teaching license, as I’ve already established a life here.
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2024.11.25 04:29 bored7789 Nothing to do
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2024.11.25 04:29 AquaPuppy_ What is this?
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2024.11.25 04:29 ChaoticInsanity_ How can I fix the lighting and flowerbed? ESPECIALLY the flowerbed? Please help!
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2024.11.25 04:29 MJamesK Gonna celebraaaaaate 👀
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2024.11.25 04:29 Beyond_Dreams100 Should you buy unlisted shares?
Buying Unlisted company shares & platforms from which this can be done. Please share your wisdom…
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2024.11.25 04:29 Standard_Tangerine72 Trade captions 0547dabf16e04ea1f42d755d9a36adced53555809c64e172814d83a3747faed84a
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2024.11.25 04:29 xatfi Donald Trumpin voitto käynnisti erikoisen autoilmiön – tämä oheistuote myy nyt kuin häkä
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2024.11.25 04:29 Barch3 Trump plans to kick trans personnel out of the military within days of his inauguration
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2024.11.25 04:29 Xero123_ Nazo Unleashed 3D Animation Project
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2024.11.25 04:29 OldDrummer3110 Send me your irls
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2024.11.25 04:29 modunhanul Do other animals think kittens/puppies are cute?
When rhinos or giraffes see kittens or puppies, do they think they are cute?
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2024.11.25 04:29 Indra-Svarga kalma-kalma din pag may time
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2024.11.25 04:29 heyimreallyahuman Genuinely curious to see what strangers might see without knowing me
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2024.11.25 04:29 Ordinary-Prompt-5450 Chatting about the time I made out with my friends fine ass aunt. Session in comments.
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2024.11.25 04:29 beetsnbleucheez Storing Photos & Videos
Hello everyone! I am interested in understanding cheap options I may have to safely and easily secure my photos and videos. A little info on myself: not tech savvy, may be growing my photography hobby into a side hustle, hate the idea of paying a monthly subscription for cloud back up for my photos, and frugal as can be.
I've been told that setting up a NAS may be the best option for me. However I don't know where to start or if it's going to take a lot of maintenance and $$ Thank you in advance for y'alls advice. Happy to share more info if need be.
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2024.11.25 04:29 RadMustache Did you know Gallica actually has an equipment screen?
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2024.11.25 04:29 curiouskiwicat The take on a traditional hymn I sing when rocking my 18-month baby girl to sleep
Amazing grace, how sweet the sound
that saved a wretch like me!
I once was lost, but now am found--
was blind, but now, I see.
'Twas grace that brought my heart to fear
and grace my fears relieved!
How precious did that grace appear
the hour I first received.
Through many dangers, toils, and snares
I have already come.
'Twas grace that bought me safe thus far
and grace will lead me home.
When we've been there a million years
bright shining as the sun,
we've no less days to sing in joy
than when we first begun.
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