Feeling like I’m going insane. Weed, music, laundry, yelling, banging
2024.11.25 05:28 UnionInner807 Feeling like I’m going insane. Weed, music, laundry, yelling, banging
This is going to be pretty long.
So, my best friend and I moved into our first apartment. We signed a 1 year lease. We moved in on August 1st. The apartment is a house split into 3. We’re the one on the top floor. Literally the day we moved it, we immediately were greeted by the smell of weed. Feeling optimistic, I laughed it off. Honestly, I didn’t mind the smell. Then, it consistently was happening, about 1-2 times a week for about an hour at a time. Okay. I was fine with that. A little less than 1 month in, we started smelling weed every day, all day and all night. Certain times being worse than others. I had their whole routine down. Starts really bad around 11am-3pm. Then around 8pm-11am. The time in between that was just lingering smell. I finally decided I had enough about another month of constantly smelling it, wheezing, (I have a chronic illness) flaring up really bad, stuffed nose, nausea, headaches, dizziness. I’m pretty sure I’m allergic to it. So I decided I was going to call the landlord and just have them email everyone and ask they don’t do it inside, but rather outside. Well, that didn’t work. I was still always smelling it and feeling sick. (((Also—— I work from home 5 days a week. I literally had no way out. That’s where I work!))) Now that they were blatantly smoking, even more now, I started having breakdowns. I have complained and complained and complained. They finally just stopped, because this last time I complained, everyone got an email from the landlord stating they will be contacting my city’s police department to do random checks in everyone’s apartments. They’re not allowed to do that, it was just to scared them. The guilt I felt each time I complained was horrible too. I felt like a Karen. I have too much empathy, I’m ngl. Anyways, like I said, it stopped!- but wait, it’s been replaced. With music. Loud, bass music. All day, every day. It can start anywhere from 8am-12am. Yes, midnight. So now, I’m complaining to the landlord again. Every time I complain, the music stops for the rest of the day, but then the next day they start again. This last month, I’ve started babysitting one day a week, 5am- 8pm. The baby needs sleep, but literally can’t. I’ve been trying everything. Drowning out the music doesn’t work since it’s bass. Putting the baby in every part of the house. Doesn’t work, you can hear it throughout the house. I literally feel like I’m going insane. Between my animals, the music, the smell, the baby crying, not being able to sleep myself. I literally feel like I’m going insane. I almost admitted myself to a mental hospital about a week ago. I know how dramatic this sounds, trust me I do, but I can’t explain how I’m feeling any other way than- insane. Now these are the biggest issues. BUT these are not the only issues. We have one washer and dryer in the basement. But they seem to leave their clothes in it all day, every day. After a few days, I got fed up and took their stuff out, put it on the dryer, so I could finally wash my stuff. I mean, I was officially out of clothes. And trust me, I’m not one to do that. These neighbors bring out the worst in me. But soon after I did that, I heard them yelling “who do they think they are?!?!?”. Tbh, now I’m scared of them. And they also have a really loud car that they start at least once every 3 hours and they just sit in the driveway with it running, super loud. Even at like 2am, they’ll just start the car and leaving it running for 15 minutes. Our trash cans should be assigned but nobody knows whose is whose. I thought I found ours, but it gets over full. Also, when we first moved in, we were taking all the trash cans out every week because they were always full and nobody else would take them to the curb. We don’t anymore and only do one, but that one gets full from them too. Randomly, our mailbox will be open with no mail in it. My packages always end up at their doors. One time, a doordasher ignored my specific instructions on where my door is, because “your neighbors came out and told me to leave it at this completely different door, so i did.”. I don’t blame the dasher, it was probably confusing, but why are they telling them that??? I have no idea what’s going on here, but I’m so done. I’ve lived here a whole 4.5 months, and my mental health has tanked. I’m gaining so much weight. I have breakdowns regularly. I feel like I’m not at home, but rather someone else’s that I’m paying $1000 a month for. Not including utilities and shit. I’ve become a shell of my former self. I have panic attacks all the time, can’t leave the house anymore. Have a hard time driving. Even if it’s only 10 minutes. Lastly, I need some “advice”. So, my dad came up with a plan for us to move into a new apartment with my older brother. He just applied yesterday, and I would happily live in an apartment with him! I’m actually quite excited. My only issue is the lease. Everyone keeps on telling me that I have built enough of a case, with my complaints and videos, to legally break the lease without any repercussions. But I am so afraid that’s not true. And I’m going to be stuck paying a “break the lease” fee of $400, plus the $1000 rent each month, along with the other bills at the other apartment. Do you think the landlord would work with me? Do you think the people telling me that are correct? I’m so anxious about this.
Also- this wasn’t everything we have been going through, I’m just tired of writing lol. There’s been lots of banging (specifically to the music) too. We randomly smell weed too, it hasn’t completely stopped, but stopped enough for me to be a bit more comfortable.
Thanks for reading :) I promise I’m a good person.
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2024.11.25 05:28 Swimming-Sell1055 Help with puyo puyo Yakuza 6
So I’ve been at puyo puyo for a month straight now and I don’t know if I have terrible luck or I’m doing something wrong. I’ve read through some old threads and am using the tower stacking method and it works for the most part. Issue I’m having is that I just seem to be really really unlucky in that my opponent seems to get chains rather ridiculously that it screws me over and I lose. I once got to a 28 win streak but Rulue never spawned for me so a little upset about that. I know this isn’t required for any trophy but Ive committed this long in getting a 100% completion throughout 0-5 that I would love to get 100% in 6. Just wondering if you guys have any tips or different methods that seemed to work for those of you that did complete the completion for puyo puyo
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2024.11.25 05:28 TheRocketeer0826 Hope none of the original S3 fish win.
Simbal worked the hardest and still got eliminated. None of them deserves the win.
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2024.11.25 05:28 aakash_n AITK for asking my parents to vacate the tenant
hello so We have a good size house and my mom like to have Tenant because she doesn't like to live alone in such big house
so over the years we hv had many tenants stay with us for years however only 1 tenant live now she's alone so no issue and now I'm earning too so my mom got this new other tenant they had small kids and their kids were soo noisy disturbed my sleep a lot since my room is like below the terrace
i got angry asked my mom to vacat the room or I'll have to sleep somewhere else
I earn good and give some good amount of salary to my parents so money not an issue but my mom feel alone scared living in big house
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2024.11.25 05:28 Batra6003 Friendly advice, please read this post, will do everyone good
I, like many people, have the tendency of checking answers after the exam. Of course, there will be a few mistakes, but when we say confidently to anyone that we shall get, let's say, 90, or 110, we assume that we WON'T get more than 2 questions wrong in, let's say, DILR, and 2 more in quants, among the attempted. I would like to remind everyone, that those 2 questions are those where you are doubtful of having made a mistake. There could be questions where you are sure you attempted correctly, the option matches, but you don't realize you may have chosen the wrong answer or maybe even typed the answer incorrectly. More plausible, you simply did a silly mistake. So the score becomes worse than your "worst prediction". On the other hand, there are people who are severely underconfident about their methods and keep doubting their intuition. They could have gotten much more than they expect.
My point isn't to hurt anyone by calling them a liar. I am saying, in everyone's story, he/she is a hero (got all correct) or a villain (all wrong). A low attempt decreases your maximum possible score, but increases the accuracy. A high attempt can increase the upper limit, but 2 correct and 3 sillies is worse than just 1 question attempted (though correctly), cause the other person got the same score as you, and he/she saved a time worthy of 4 more questions, and 4 additional questions. Keeping yourself on top of the world by showing people their place will give you temporary satisfaction, which, at the time of results, will not come as a shock if you genuinely performed well, but if you don't, you will be a subject of laughter. On the other hand, hating yourself for a poor attempt won't give you any satisfaction rather will demoralize you from getting your revenge in upcoming exams like XAT and SNAP.
Remember, CAT is one exam. Yes it has the most prospect, not denying that, but all top 20 institutes offer similar career prospects. If 15 of them come from CAT, 5 more come from other exams. You can either compromise on your whole year, or just get into an equally good institution.
PS: This advice is written for me too. I am just like everyone here. Looking at my own post will allow me to introspect.
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2024.11.25 05:28 Frosty-Bee-4272 Mazi smith
I think mazi played well against the commanders and has had a few good performances this season . He has struggled at times but I’m glad he is showing some improvement . Hopefully he has a breakout year next season
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2024.11.25 05:28 EvanNoel90 I liked Dan when he became friends with Blair
I like how naturally comfortable he was being himself with her and loved their bond over all their similar interests. He had this air of confidence during that time..I found it alluring.
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I just wanna know why they are hated for the way they teach.
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2024.11.25 05:28 Estiioc Just as the founding fathers intended
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2024.11.25 05:28 carpaltunn3ls Need advice on stashing money
Hi! [F27] here, working as govt employee. I recently closed my mom’s bank and i was the named beneficiary of the said bank. That being said, I have 600k cold hard cash and I don’t know where to put it. A little background on my finances, I have an MP2 account worth 500k and EF worth around 180k. May savings din sa UB but ginagamit ko yun for day to day expenses. I want to put it to MP2 pero kasi 5 yr lock yun. Any ideas po?
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