Should I give notes or is that rude?

2024.11.26 04:00 Lov3sicCarmelo Should I give notes or is that rude?

Hey, so I joined a campaign a little while ago and we started last week but I was gone, I just started today and durning the campaign everything felt weird. So, I’ve played DnD before, not for a while though and this is my first time playing face to face with people I don’t really know very well.
Our Gm is very new to gming and I’m very understanding of this but I don’t know if it was just because of how awkward and weird I felt durning the session or if it was really him but the Gm like what he was doing didn’t make sense to me?
Like, he seemed like he was very unprepared for the session, he didn’t understand how certain game mechanics worked and would always explain things that didn’t really matter. He spent 20 minutes just explaining how this npc looked.
Another thing was just he would say no to me doing things but he would just let other players do things without rolling so like I wanted to cast ‘command’ on this robot that was attacking the party and the Gm said no because he wanted us to stay in the spaceship longer but a little later, he allows another player to shoot the robot and they didn’t even have to roll.
I’m probably just frustrated because it’s not what I’m used to, I’m used to like consist stuff and people who know what’s going on but the entire time I was at that table, I couldn’t hear people when they were talking, I couldn’t focus on the things we needed to because of the long expositions and I felt like I was one of the only people trying to progress the story.
I wanna try to give the Gm some advice but I’m not the best when it comes to confrontation or saying things in a way people won’t take it personally. I’ve been told I can be blunt and I tend to disregard other’s feelings. Should I try to give some advice or even offer to help the Gm or ???
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2024.11.26 04:00 Daddymx87 Ale Toledano

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2024.11.26 04:00 josylad Hiring: Banker II | North Port at First Busey Corporation

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2024.11.26 04:00 tracer2211 Today In My Binge From The Beginning

Partners in crime edition! In Season 6 Episode 216, Shields meets Mike! In her continuing efforts to infiltrate the genetics lab in the hospital to ensure that Brooke's baby is NOT found to be Eric's, she plays on security man Mike's obvious attraction to her.
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2024.11.26 04:00 Aromatic-Reporter574 EAD/AP valid after new 485

Will the EAD/AP which is approved for 5 years be still valid. Lawyer said don’t file a new one. We are changing EB2-NIW to Perm keeping earlier PD
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2024.11.26 04:00 UseTechnical4078 Any bæd p@rents wanna show them off?

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2024.11.26 04:00 HeftyMathematician76 Apple 2024 MacBook Air 13-inch Laptop with M3 chip $844 [23% off]

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2024.11.26 04:00 holyredditbatman-_- Camera/movement?

Forgive me if this has been asked, but the default movement is with the right stick and camera control with the left. This is the opposite of, well, basically every game in existence. I’m looking at button mapping (ps5) and I cannot change this? Why on earth is it like this?
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2024.11.26 04:00 Arkontas For the love of god flip your coin already

The AI designer confirmed it generates a 50% chance regardless of how you do it, and people have set up a macro program to emulate the same exact flip each time and it was random results.
It's random.
Just flip your coin, dude. I don't want to stare at you for 20 seconds while you sacrifice a goat.
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2024.11.26 04:00 RedditReadsBot The Buried Giant by Kazuo Ishiguro [Fantasy](2015)

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2024.11.26 04:00 The-Noid-RAHAHAHAHA Roast Funbot. Also, if you want, talk about Matt Rose under here.

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2024.11.26 04:00 SharkEva AITA for Publicly Humiliating My Wife at Her Workplace After Discovering Her Affair?

I am not the OOP. The OOP is u/Horror_Squash4757 posting in AITA_WIBTA_PUBLIC
Ongoing as per OOP
1 update - Medium
Original - 17th November 2024
Update - 25th November 2024

AITA for Publicly Humiliating My Wife at Her Workplace After Discovering Her Affair?

I don't even know where to begin. My wife, Lia (43F) and I have been married for ten years. We have two beautiful children: our five-year-old son and our two-year-old daughter. I thought we were happy - or at least, I thought we were trying. But four weeks ago, my entire life came crashed down.
I (46M) started to notice when she was glued to her phone more than usual. Lia has always been private, but this was different. She'd smile at her screen, then immediately lock it when I walked into the room. One night, after she fell asleep, I couldn't resist. I checked her phone.
What I found still makes me sick to my stomach. There were messages with a coworker, Eric (48M), going back years. Explicit texts. Photos. Promises of love. Even references to secret trips they'd taken while I was at home with the kids, believing she was working late.
My heart was racing, my hands trembling. I confronted her the next morning. At first, she denied it, said I was misunderstanding. But when I read her the messages out loud, her face crumbled. She admitted it. She said it started four years ago, long before our youngest was born. She tried to justify it - “you were distant, we were struggling”. But nothing could excuse this.
I started digging deeper. I followed her to work one day, needing to see it for myself. Sure enough, after her shift, she walked out arm in arm with Eric. They didn't even try to hide it. They got into his car and drove off. I followed them to a restaurant where they sat like a happy couple, laughing, holding hands. It broke me. But what shattered me completely was when I learned they'd built their own life together. They'd been renting an apartment near work - a place where she'd go when she was "working overtime". I saw them go inside, watching them from my car parking on the streets, a few blocks away. I checked on them for about 4 nights, and they had the same routine.
That's when I snapped. I packed all of her belongings - everything she owned, into the back of my car and drove to her work place the next morning after spying on them. I know I did wrong. When she walked out, I dumped everything right there on the sidewalk in front of her and her coworkers. I told her she wasn't coming home.
Since then, l've filed for divorce and am fighting for the full custody of the kids. She's begging me to forgive her, saying she doesn't want to lose the family we built. But how can I?
Friends and family keep asking me if I regret how I handled it - publicly humiliating her, kicking her out without notice. I do. She tore our family apart, and the least she could do is face some accountability, but I can't help but feel like the bad guy for how I acted.
I had nights where l've felt very lonely, and I miss her. Of course, I am also attending to therapy sessions to be better for the kids and for myself. All I care about are them, they don't deserve this chaos. And as much as it hurts, I know they are better off with me than someone who could live a lie for so long.
Am I the asshole?

Comments

facepalmforever
The only thing to worry about at this point is a DNA test.

SnowWhite05
That’s the first thing that popped into my mind when OP mentioned the length of the affair spanning from before the 2 year old was born.

TaylorMade2566
Your STBX had NO problem making her affair public, so she has no right to cry about you making the divorce the same. I really hate it when people claim to want to make a relationship work after they were outed in an affair but they did nothing to stop it while it was ongoing. The time for possible forgiveness was when she came to you and admitted she had an affair, ended it and wanted to make things right with you. NTA

**Judgement - NTA*\*

Update - 8 days later

Thanks to everyone who commented on my original post. I wanted to share an update about where things stand now.
For those asking how I didn’t notice her affair for four years, it’s because Lía was always incredibly private. She was adamant about boundaries and would shut me down if I asked too many questions. She handled the rent, utilities, and her own expenses, while I covered groceries, the kids’ school costs, internet, water, and anything extra. She claimed it was fair since we both worked, and I didn’t push because I trusted her and didn’t want to create unnecessary conflict. Looking back, I can see how I missed the signs, but at the time, I didn’t think questioning her was necessary.
After finding out about her affair, I had DNA tests done for both kids. My son is biologically mine, but my daughter isn’t. That was a tough pill to swallow, but it doesn’t change anything for me. I’ve been her father in every way that matters, and I love her like my own. I believe the person who raises a child is their real parent, and no court is going to convince me otherwise.
Right now, I’m in the middle of the legal process. The divorce itself hasn’t been finalized yet, but I’ve made it clear that I’m fighting for full custody of both kids. I’ve explained to the court why I believe Lía isn’t fit to have primary custody. Her betrayal wasn’t just a personal one—it shows a complete disregard for the stability and wellbeing of our family.
The court process is slow, and so far, we’ve only had preliminary hearings. I’ve provided evidence of her infidelity and the double life she led, and I’ve asked for a full psychological evaluation for both of us to ensure the best decision is made for the kids. I’m also working on showing the court that I’ve been the primary caregiver emotionally and financially. My lawyer has told me it’s a tough battle, especially since courts often lean toward joint custody, but I’m not backing down.
To those who said my story sounded fake, I get it. This is the kind of nightmare you think only happens in movies or to someone else. I wouldn’t believe it either if I wasn’t living it. All I can say is, I hope you never go through something like this. It destroys everything you thought you knew about your life.
For now, I’m staying focused on my kids and doing everything I can to give them a stable and loving home. They’re the only good thing to come out of all this, and I won’t let them down. Thank you for your support. It means more than you know.

Comments

Forward_Most_1933
I don’t understand why she just didn’t get a divorce but instead wasted four years of your life and fucked up the kids’ lives. She is a selfish person and deserves all the wrath that is headed her way. Stay strong, OP.

writingisfreedom
She did it because she thought.....1 she could get away with it...2 OP wouldn't leave

Awesomekidsmom
Because she had a capable & loving sitter - she could live her life & still know the kids were good

adiboxer
I went through this not once but twice. Sorry you going through all this I know how it feels. I won in both of my divorces so I am glad I fought for custody of my kids, you keep fighting for yours. When they treated I dragged them both through the mud in courts and social media and till tnis day I don't feel bad about it. They both got what they deserved period so don't feel bad that you drooped everything off at her work place and infront of co workers too. Now atleast she knows actions have consequences period.

OOP: I’m really sorry you had to go something like this twice. That’s unimaginable. Thank you for your support and for sharing your experience; it helps to know I’m not alone in this.
I do have screenshots of the entire conversation from her phone. Years of texts, photos, and everything else. I made sure to send them to myself before confronting her, so I have all the proof I need. Sometimes, I think about exposing her and him publicly, putting it all out there so people see what they did.
But honestly, I’m just so drained. Between work, taking care of my kids, and trying to process everything, I barely have the energy to keep going some days, let alone drag them through the mud. And even when I do feel angry enough to do it, there’s a part of me that feels guilty. I don’t know why. I mean, they’re the ones who destroyed everything but I guess it’s because I don’t want to stoop to their level.
I’m taking things one step at a time and focusing on what’s most important: my kids and getting through this divorce. Maybe one day I’ll feel differently, but for now, I just don’t have it in me to make a spectacle out of their betrayal, even if they deserve it. I feel like I’m stupid for this mindset

I am not the OOP. Please do not harass the OOP.
Please remember to be civil in the comments
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2024.11.26 04:00 Snoo82891 What kind of saw is being used to cut the brass pin in this video.

I have never seen brass rod cut this easily and cleanly. The closest product I have found is a pipe cutting saw on Rakuten but I believe whatever he is using here is for more precise work.
I've been trying to do something like this on a huge project for months, so any clues are deeply appreciated.
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2024.11.26 04:00 Tenorchar C3 Lyney?

Is there a significant difference between C2-C3? Currently at C2 and thinking of using my guarantee for C3. My alternative plan is going for Citlali instead. Thanks in advance.
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2024.11.26 04:00 urdadsgayyy69 What do you think about Reba and Snoops decisions?

Danny- I hope hope hope he wins I find his voice so unique and I love him!!
Adam- He is very good! If he plays his cards right he might have a shot at the finale
Jeremy- Very nice voice he gives 2nd-3rd place vibes tbh but very nice!!
Christina- Loved her performance, but I don't think she will win unfortunately
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2024.11.26 04:00 canonshootr504 ASICS Jolt 4 Bight Ackblack ON SALE FOR $39.99 (Reg. $64.99)

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2024.11.26 04:00 decisively_autistic AITAH in this issue of my relationship?

36m have been dating my 32gf…weve both been through traumatic pasts with our exes. So its hard at times to communicate bc of each others trauma. I have been to therapy and still do. She said she has and doesn't anymore after 4 years but anytime we argue she tells me I don't accept accountability. I used to be a heavy drug user and have been clean for over a year. I almost lost my possessions and family but I also almost lost my life. I have been to the bottom but lately I've been pretty successful in sobriety. I have a great job, a great car and great credit…the only thing I don't have is my own place. I live with my gf. I know I'm not the worlds best catch but I stay in shape, I eat healthy. I meditate…u wouldnt think I used to do one of the most deadly drugs if u looked at me…anyway back to topic…ahe makes me feel like I've regressed at times…it seems everything is my fault and anytime I have sound logic that proves her contradictions, she makes a vague statement about how I'm being sonorecose and twisting words that they don't make sense and that I have no accountability. I feel really sad bc I genuinely like her…she brought me out of a bad mind set after leaving my ex…im a very physical dude…i like to look and feel good…and when I told her I wanted a partner that's the same she had no problem joining in my activities to stay in shape…when it comes to it…she manipulates the situation by saying I never want to work out with her when I ask her to go on runs all the time or talk to her about technique…she thinks I gaslight everything and that I don't love her for who she is…
As a man I've never felt more depleted than I do at times like this…no matter what I say it's wrong and its hurtful…i can't be honest and give constructive criticism in a loving way without sounding like I'm grooming or wanting to change some one.
Sometimes being a man I want to cry and let it all out…but I just can't...ive lost so much…my last career and life, my ex, my child…after rebuilding everything…i still feel like just disappearing sometimes.
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2024.11.26 04:00 Beratungsmarketing Norway drops investigation into suspected links to Lebanon exploding pagers - Blue Water Healthy Living

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2024.11.26 04:00 Sufficient-Double502 Foothill Gold Line E-News Update – November 2024 Project and Community Updates

Two major headlines
Pomona to Montclair Segment: Construction Authority Board Approves Funding Agreement
Glendora to Pomona Segment: 92% Complete
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2024.11.26 04:00 cheetahprintshawty What’s something that makes you smile no matter what?

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2024.11.26 04:00 tkdzart Overseer (acrylic, marker)

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2024.11.26 04:00 WorldlinessFun2245 Breaking NC for an apology?

Before posting this I have read multiple threads about people wanting to break NC to apologize for not being a good partner and things like that. But what I really want to apologize for is for my shameful actions when we broke up.
Long story short my girlfriend of 2 years started cheating on me once we moved in together. We were both really excited when we started living together but her issues of unworthiness in our relationship combined with the appearance of a friend from university who was ready to love bomb her and start buying her presents became the perfect escape opportunity and she took it.
Instead of being an adult about it what she did was push me away so I would be forced to break up with her for being emotionally manipulative. And the signs that she was cheating were clear as day, I confronted her twice and she denied it both times. I broke up with her exactly 2 weeks ago, the next day she was loving and told me she was "willing" to live with me for the next few months and dumb me was considering it. We even slept in the same bed, kissed, hugged and told each other I love you those both the night of the breakup and the one after that.
Day 2 after the breakup I just had this hunch that if I saw her texts I'd see something bad and soon as I opened her whatsapp I saw her planning a date and telling this other guy she loved him. And I just lost it. Never been angrier. I called her to ask how long had it been happening, I started insulting her, telling her she would never amount to anything in life and started taking her things out of the house, I told her family about her cheating on me, packed cat shit inside the bags with her clothes (she had 8 cats that I was taking care of), wrote "whore" repeatedly on one of her favorite jackets and a mattress, and the last thing I told her was that she should kill herself because I knew she had struggled with suicidal tendencies and even had attempted suicide like a month before we met.
When the anger went down I felt so ashamed for having done that. When I told my friends they told me she deserved all of that. I also never imagined that she would make me invest so much into a relationship and taking a huge step like living together heavily compromising my finances just so she could go fuck and fall in love with another guy she had just met.
I blocked her from everything except for email, SMS and Telegram. I wanted to unblock her on Whatsapp just to tell her that I apologize for my actions during our breakup that as much as what she did hurt me to my soul there's no excuse for saying and doing those things that I did and that I don't want that to taint all the good memories that we shared together with this horrific one.
Does a part of me wishes we would reconcile? Sure, but I recognize it's pure neediness and that I would never go back with someone who would do that to me. But at the same time I don't want to be the person who goes out of his way to say things that can permanently damage a person no matter how awful her actions were.
I don't know if the damage is proportional to what she did to me but still it doesn't feel justified to treat a human being that way.
What do you think? Is it likely to backfire on me if I send her the apology?
Yes, I'm afraid that she ends up actually killing herself and that weighing in on me forever, not going to dance around that fact.
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2024.11.26 04:00 No-Violinist-9733 Mera pyaar Gohan ka outline

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2024.11.26 04:00 borkmaster0 Track Replacement - Express to Local (D)

In Manhattan, D runs local in both directions between 59 St-Columbus Circle and 145 St from Nov 25 - 27, Mon to Wed, 11:30 PM to 5:00 AM
What's happening?
We're replacing tracks
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2024.11.26 04:00 Kind_Tip6936 Portal for flights- is it a scam?

I’m a new VentureX cardholder. Over the last month I tried to book 2 international flights. And I’ve had a range of error messages like -Sorry that itinerary is not available, please search for another -Only 1 seat available. Please change the no of travelers or another route. (I’m just paraphrasing)
The thing is in both cases I meddled around with different dates for the same airline but I kept getting some error or the other. Called CC and they were equally clueless.
I ended up booking from the airline directly (British Airways on one occasion and Turkish Airlines on another)
This doesn’t allow me to earn 5x miles and not able to use the travel credit. Super frustrating and I have ended up paying more eventually!
Anyone else face this issue? As of now I don’t see any benefit getting this stupid card.
TLDR: venting because the website doesn’t let me book air tickets and I have to book directly with the airline losing out on miles and unable to use credits
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