My parents are an albatross around my neck.
2024.11.26 07:00 throwawayhidecrazyex My parents are an albatross around my neck.
I’m so tired y’all. This is an alt account because sensitive info, and I don’t want people finding this post from my hobby account.
So here’s the story:
I fell in with a not-so-great crowd (and gf) around the same time I began transitioning, and my parents think they are to blame for losing their daughter.
I’ve been transitioning for four (almost five!) years now, haven’t had contact with that crowd for over two years, but my parents still think they are to blame for my transness. And ever since I started HRT, any negative emotions directed at them? It’s the testosterone giving me roid rage.
But the problem is that I still care about them a lot. They were there for me when I needed to take time off of college after my breakup. And they are giving me some of the lowest rent in town by at least $100. And letting me store my large project in their garage while I don’t work on it.
We’re in family counseling, but I’m starting to feel like it’s just prolonging the agony. Every time I go there’s no progress. It’s the same every time: “I want to have a good relationship with you and be able to trust y’all.” “I want my old child back, the current you is on drugs and your name sounds like a pun on Satan, but also, I want our relationship back too.” Every single time it feels like we go in circles, and just as soon as I convince myself that I can trust them again (after things being held over my head, like legal name changes and financial stability) they pull shit again.
The latest? My college fund, which is supposed to be in my name (but isn’t anymore) and the insurance they “kept” for me and convinced me to drop my (expensive) insurance for, are both in my deadname. The name I haven’t used for four years, and hasn’t been my name for over two.
I can’t keep dealing with this, I need to apply for grad schools and get good grades for said schools. It has to stop, for both our sakes.
If you read all this I’m sorry. Any advice is appreciated.
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2024.11.26 07:00 Lumpy_Commission4863 How should I reply to company asking my rates?
Hi UX community, I really need advices from other designers right now.
I just start doing freelance. A company asked me to send over my folio, and then asked me my hour rates, how should I reply? I know I shouldn't underprice my abilities but I also don't want to lose this opportunity. This is my folio: https://www.behance.net/gallery/212463207/Daisy-Phan-UX-Visual-Design-Portfolio (all comments welcome)
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2024.11.26 07:00 ImEliasK Its currently November 26, 2024 at 08:00AMat GMT +2
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2024.11.26 07:00 Regio1974 Sueño despierto?
26-Nov 12:30am Queriendo dormir se me vienen las siguientes imágenes a la mente y todavía no estoy dormido.
-Estoy en una casa/ofna con P. Lomas y me dice que ahorita viene mi papá.
Llega alguien voy a abrir y es mi papá pero realmente no le veo el rostro, pero se que es el. Pasa, lo quiero saludar o darle una palmada que es lo único que alcanzo a darle., no alcanzo a verle el rostro pero se que es el. Pasa a la casa/ofna y va a verla, a meterse a conocerla ya que siempre fue medio metichillo.
Después se va a ver a P. Lomas, lo saluda con gusto y se ponen a platicar como cuando se encuentran dos amigos que no se han visto en un buen tiempo.-
A todo esto mi padre falleció en el 2018, P. Lomas es un amigo/compañero de trabajo de él desde que fueron jovenes y siempre han estado en el mismo rubro a pesar de trabajar ya en otras empresas.
P. Lomas ya tendrá unos 70 años, es viudo y uno de sus hijos falleció hace dos meses y lo escuché muy deprimido hace 2 semanas que platiqué con él.
Pienso que talvez está llegando su hora y viene mi padre por el.
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2024.11.26 07:00 Sea-Sky-Dreamer How soon flea bath after spaying?
We finally got a formal feral kitten/cat spayed and are currently housing her in the garage in order to recuperate, per instructions from vet (10-14 days, indoors, no heavy activity). We were just going to get her spayed and return her outside, but she's essentially become our pet. She's very affectionate and sensitive. We're worried that if we keep her as an outdoor cat, something bad will happen to her: she could get attacked by other cats or animals, mauled by neighbor dogs, run over by a car, etc.
However, she has fleas and we want to make sure we fully de-flea her before we bring her in the house. We have the flea ointment that you apply every 1-2 months but I think it's best to try and giver her a flea bath before starting her on the ointment.
My question is this:
How soon can we give her a flea bath?
Can we do it on the final day (day 14) of her spaying recuperating period, or do we need to wait a little longer? What's the normal time you wait to give them a bath after spaying? Should we apply the ointment first?
Any advice is greatly appreciated, thank you!
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2024.11.26 07:00 OGredditor8 Is IITM BS in Data Science and Applications eligible for UPSC Indian Statistical Service Exam?
Hello, everyone!
I'm a final-year student about to graduate from the IIT Madras BS program in Data Science and Applications. I'm considering attempting the UPSC Indian Statistical Service (ISS) Exam, but I want to clarify whether my degree makes me eligible.
The UPSC ISS eligibility criteria specify:
A Bachelor's Degree with Statistics/Mathematical Statistics/Applied Statistics as one of the subjects.
However, the study of Statistics as a component of a multidisciplinary course for one or two semesters is explicitly not sufficient.
Statistics must be studied throughout all years of the degree program.
The IITM BS program includes courses in Statistics, Data Analysis, and related fields across multiple semesters, but it is a multidisciplinary program.
Does anyone have insights into whether this degree qualifies for the ISS exam? Has anyone from a similar background successfully applied?
Any guidance or advice would be greatly appreciated!
Thank you in advance!
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2024.11.26 07:00 UnknowErrorLoading Split not working.
I got my Chuwi Hi 10 pro today. I tested the split but it doesn’t showed up. How can I use the split?
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2024.11.26 07:00 Resident_Entry8999 Best places on campus to sit and eat alone?
I'm going to be on campus throughout the day, and I have no doubt I'm going to be hungry. I know it's silly of me to think this because I'm an adult, but I'm kind of shy about eating alone in public, mainly due to the fear of being judged by others. I usually like to grab a friend to eat with, but this time I'm on my own. What are the best places to sit and eat, preferably somewhere quiet and with available seating?
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2024.11.26 07:00 Lotrislife_ Should I stay or should I go? Is my husband a good man with problems or a conniving manipulator?
Okay, I am at such a loss in my marriage. Please bear with me with this. I apologize in advance for the long story. I go back and forth between believing my husband is a really good man with a lot of problems or is just a conniving manipulative narcissist. We started dating at 19 and had such a beautiful yet surface level relationship until we got married at 23 and then everything turned sour. We’re now 26. During the time we were dating/engaged, he treated me beyond incredible (possibly love bombing behavior) but once we got married, he literally did a 180. He started working all day everyday and would come home in the worst moods and began to mildly emotionally and verbally abuse me. He kept blaming it on work. He is an incredible worker, runs a business he started around the time we were married, built us a house, is a good dad to our 15 month old (so far). We both couldn’t take the marriage anymore. We filed for divorce after I looked through his phone for the first time and read text messages to a friend that he saw on a work trip talking about the girls they met at the bar while he was there (as far as I know and from what I picked up, nothing physical or sexual occurred). He claims it meant nothing. Then a month later, he left to go on a camping trip with a group of friends in the middle of a horrible fight. A couple months after that, I heard from a close friend that her client was on the camping trip also and witnessed my husband being quote “all over” a girl and she apparently felt uncomfortable. I couldn’t tell you what “all over” means. My husband is trying to convince me it was nothing and he was simply confiding in her. I was told that he was following her around the whole time and even put his hand on her leg. I don’t know if I believe him and I will never know the truth about this case unfortunately. And the third instance (bear with me here) was with his friend’s daughter (his friend is older). Let’s call her Kayla. A couple nights after they met, he manipulated me to take our baby and leave town to go to his parent’s for the evening, said he was working late, sprayed his fancy cologne, and went out to dinner with that friend hoping Kayla would be there. I came home and smelt the cologne. I looked through his phone that night because I suspected he was cheating and saw that he was texting Kayla saying how he wants to see her again and he wishes she came out tonight. I also saw that he was googling “does it still count as adultery if you’re already filed for divorce”. I texted Kayla myself and she was adamant that she wasn’t interested and nothing happened. He claimed to swear her off. But on Halloween after trick or treating with our baby, I saw his truck at a restaurant where I saw him, Kayla and her dad together out to eat. He tried to meet up with her again that same night after I caught him because he claims he was drunk and thought we were over anyway. I know this because I saw it in his phone. They didn’t meet up, as far as I know. So then just last week, we got in a fight and during the fight, he admitted to me that when him and Kayla met for the first time, he says she quote “grabbed him by the dick and tried to hook up with him”. I find this very strange behavior for a girl even if she’s drunk. I then got to thinking…why would he continue to try to pursue her if that actually happened? And research information on cheating on the internet? I texted Kayla again and she said she doesn’t remember anything from that night but that is not something she would do no matter how drunk she was. Since we’ve filed for divorce, we have been so up and down. He recently has been making a really big effort to try to win me back but I just. cannot. trust him! I’m so confused because I want to believe he’s a good man but I don’t know if he is. He’s admitted to his wrongdoings and has really been making what seems like a 110% effort to make things right but I can’t help but feel like it could be love bombing. He claims that he has been the way he is because he’s incredibly stressed with work and he’s been trying to cheat because he’s unhappy in our marriage. The 110% effort that he’s been making also happened right after - as my counselor says - “took my power back.” (I went out to dinner by myself and didn’t answer his calls and texts. That was the moment I gave up. It’s like he sensed my energy switched). I also want to preface that I don’t believe there has ever been a sexual affair. I don’t know what to do. We have a child, I’m Christian, and I’m incredibly financially dependent on him. I do think I’m a great wife. I do all the cooking, cleaning, am a SAHM and take care of our baby 24 hours a day, I’m patient with him even when he’s mean and I’m such a lover. My only downfalls (in my opinion) are that I am financially naive, I can lose my cool when I’m pushed too far and I am now incredibly insecure in my relationship. I’m including this info because I just don’t believe I deserve any of this! I guess the reason I’m seeking advice on Reddit is because I have zero clarity. And I’ve been trying for so long to seek it but I still feel so torn. I am so sick and tired. I can’t handle another heartbreak again and I can’t handle anymore stress. It literally seems like it’s killing me. Last thing I’d like to mention: we are separating for possibly a temporary time. He’s providing me and our baby an apartment for 6 months because he’s hoping it will help us. Separation seems like the best idea because we both have realized that we have personal problems to work on which could be the reason our marriage has failed. Half of me is hoping this too but the other half of me is hoping I’ll just get the courage to leave.
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