My partner cheated on and broke up with me...
2024.11.26 13:39 Wide-Appearance-7271 My partner cheated on and broke up with me...
Throwaway account just in case.
My partner and I were together for 11 years. We started off as friends and got to know each other through work but as time went on, I became attracted to them. I complimented them all the time, helped out as a friend with bills, cooked for them, bought them things. I was head over heels. They were initially surprised at the though of someone actually romantically liking them because her relationships with others mainly revolved around sex. We became official and exclusive after over a year of dates and hooking up. I had learned info prior from a friend that suggested that I was a second choice for them, as they were actively pursuing someone else who turned out to be an awful person, so they decided I was the better choice. At this time of my life, I was way more immature and they actually made me want to change things about what I was doing, although they did this with ultimatums. But I was happy that I was with someone who wanted me to change for the better. We did everything together, made a lot of memories early on, traveled a bit, tried new things, etc etc. We were genuinely in love so much, it made our other friends jealous of our relationship. We agreed that if we ever felt the need to cheat or felt that unhappy, to always discuss it first before going too far.
Early on in the relationship, we had a couple arguments, nothing relationship ending, but it concerned me how dismissive and quick to end the conversation if it wasn't leaning in their favor and didn't want to finish the discussion, ever. There were also moments where I would want them to help with my passion in life, but they just flat out said no. Or times where they thought they were too good to use public transportation so I had to do something about it or else. Or remaining friends in secret with people who fucked us/them over major in the past. And this is when things started to fade for me, somewhere between years three and five.
I started to become more depressed about things in life and lost my passion for alot of things I used to do. Every argument started to end with me being the bad person. Things that were done in the relationship started to service my partner more than it did us as a whole. Although I didn't mind because spending money is one of my love languages and making sure you are taken care of, the wealth share between us was clearly one sided, as they always admitted over the years (but never really worked on getting better) about being bad with money. Decisions about certain things were made with friends and not me. Or in one instance, they asked if something was okay and told me after talking that they were going to do it regardless of what I said....
The last few years it's was obvious I had become emotionally distant. I complimented them less, I had resting bitch face more often, I seemed more irritated more often than not. Our sex life in a way changed by how often we did have it, but not in the passion behind it. We were still very sweatty for each other. I still loved them very much and voiced that through many conversations. They always seemed to asked, "why do you still love me?" Or "why are you still with me" despite me always answering with, "because I love you and I want to spend my life with you, through all the good and bad.". They became unhappy in their own right because of how I was feeling. Soon, some ultimatums were made and some requests to do better in certain aspects happened. I did everything I could to make that happen, and when talked about months after, they said things were getting better, they're in a happier place. During this time as well, they got a big promotion at work and started making a lot more money. They became way more distant, spending more time away and going on trips without me. They were doing this telling more or less that they wanted to enjoy this money without me and live life to the fullest withthe best friends.
Soon I began to get a gut feeling that they were cheating. Soon after checking their phone, I discovered a bunch of sexts and pics exchanged between them and someone else (who's married with kids). I confronted them about it and they lied at every turn until I started stating actual facts about what specifically was being said and knowing the person's name and such. Only after that did they come clean. They proceeded too gaslight me and say that I should of saw this coming, how they've been checked out for the last 3 years of our relationship and just want to be alone. I was crushed. They told me prior to us breaking up that they weren't going to stop doing it because it made them feel happy and alive and proceeded to tell me that we should separate and that maybe after sometime we can find each other again.
Now I'm sitting here trying to pick myself up and not be depressed every day and want to end myself. I'm trying to get back to my old self and my passions but it's very difficult for me. Any advice??
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2024.11.26 13:39 DigitalSplendid Understanding θv + βw = 0
Continuing with the previous post (https://www.reddit.com/learnmath/comments/1gzhsyn/understanding\_%CE%B8v\_%CE%B2w\_0/) and based on the screenshot (https://preview.redd.it/understanding-%CE%B8v-%CE%B2w-0-v0-cwfv6lv0d03e1.png?width=640&crop=smart&auto=webp&s=856694fd0b851b6481760e0a7938fcff8d4ded82) for θv + βw = 0
Is my below approach correct?
There is a line say:
2x + 5y = 15 (this can be labeled as v)
Another line
3x + 9y = 44 (labeled as w)
So by v:
2x + 5y - 15 = 0
By w:
3x + 9y - 44 = 0
Now the scalar part:
θ(2x + 5y - 15) = θv
β(3x + 9y - 44) = βw
So θv + βw = 0 means
θ(2x + 5y - 15) + β(3x + 9y - 44) = 0
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