2024.11.27 02:25 GoodLuckBlessYou Sentem a respiração pesada? A ansiedade pinicando na pele, sem uma razão aparente?
Talvez o problema de vocês tenha nome e sobrenome. Ou, talvez, se sintam assim e nem sabem o porquê. É o meu caso agora. Me peguei tendo umas emoções meio caídas, dificuldade para me conectar com oração. Quase como se tivesse um peso sobre mim. Se você se sente assim, esse post é para você :)
Se você estiver se sentindo assim também, vamos respirar fundo juntos. Isso! Respira fundo... Agora vamos agradecer à oportunidade de estarmos aqui? Sim, muitas tragédias, muitos problemas. Mas quantas outras tragédias não poderiam ter acontecido com nós? Mesmo nossas dores poderiam ser ainda maiores e crueis.
Não que sejamos obrigados a agradecer... Mas sinto que, quando não consigo ser grato à vida, as coisas pioram como uma bola de neve. Mas, se sento comigo mesmo e agradeço... Até me arrepio. É outra resposta hormonal do corpo. Agradecer parece às vezes como dar uma facada no peito; às vezes, como tentar respirar debaixo da água; ou às vezes só impossível. A sensação que tenho enquanto agradeço é que toda ansiedade e desconforto se colocam na pele, mas começam a se diluir e se tornam nada...
Por isso, respira junto comigo, e vamos agradecer antes de a ansiedade se tornar intensa, ou a tristeza se alastrar ^^
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2024.11.27 02:25 confusedduckling29 I 28F called off my engagement to 29M. How to move forward?
Hello everyone,
As the title suggests, I am a 28 yo Punjabi F (born and raised in the US) and I recently called off my engagement to a 29 yo Punjabi M (also born and raised in the US). Although, I am from the States, I always thought I would be able to practice and adhere to my traditional Punjabi/Indian culture. This includes but is not limited to celebrating certain holidays, practicing my religion, and of course arranged marriage. My parents were always very conservative and disliked every possible guy I ever introduced to them. I eventually admitted defeat and asked them to find someone for me so that they would be happy (same religion, caste, educational qualifications). What really mattered to me was sharing the same religious values and being able to build a family.
Well my father somewhat arranged my engagement to my ex-fiance in 2022. I am currently in school and will graduate in December (medical field). Our engagement was approximately two years long. I honestly did not think I would experience what I did because even though it was somewhat "arranged," all my cousins in India and in the states who were "arranged," did end up in successful marriages. My relationship was very toxic to say the least.
August 2022- Engaged.
Feb 2023- Find out he is a diabetic (severely uncontrolled) and he loses his left toe. His family NEVER mentioned that he had any health problems and this was a huge shock to me and my family. I decided to stay with him because I had promised to be with him through thick and thin. I would not want someone to leave if I were to fall ill. Honestly, this was my biggest mistake.
Feb 2023-June 2023- I am verbally abused by his mother because I had told my fiance that I would leave if he did not take care of his health. I intended to stay but I needed to know that he would actually take the right steps to correct his health. She constantly taunts me and tells me that I could "run off with anyone." Basically, calling me untrustworthy and another word I won't say on this post.
June 2023- He is healing and attempting to live a better life. His mother still has a very hot/cold personality towards me.
Oct 2023-Feb 2024- His parents (future MIL and FIL) are CONSTANTLY arguing and involving us in their arguments. My MIL complains that her husband is not engaging in sexual relations with her and will constantly compare herself to me. She also states that her husband (my FIL) is surrounded by young women who attempt to seduce him because he is wealthy. At one point during this time, she starts to COVER ME (shawl or blanket) so that my FIL will not look at me. In this whole relationship, I never once saw him look at me inappropriately. This man is so sweet (like a dad) he only gives me side hugs to be respectful. Furthermore, my fiance's health is declining. He is being treated for diabetic retinopathy (diabetes is affecting his eyes) and his mother states that her son is ONLY sick when I have exams.
Feb 2024- August 2024- Hanging on for dear life. Wedding planning is happening and his mother constantly taunts me. My parents are not as wealthy as them. She dislikes the venue or the decorations my family chose or she herself wants everything I want (the clothing I am choosing for myself or bridal makeup for example).
Sept 2024-Oct 2024- My fiance is about to lose another toe. I stay by his side and even slept in the hospital, missed days of my rotations, and did my best to help him. I finally crack and tell him that we should push the wedding back and also consider moving out of his parents home. He agrees. The day that my family and his family go to sit down, his mother BASHES me in front of everyone. She brings up every little thing I have ever done wrong or any disagreement we have ever had. She denies ever taunting me. The worst part? Her son supports her. I took off my ring and called it off. After he sees my ring is off, he apologizes and says that his mother did taunt me and my family. At this point, its too late.
How do I move forward from this?
I know many of you may be wondering as to why I chose to stay with my fiance despite being born and raised in the US. Honestly, my parents moved to the states in the 90's and they brought their mindsets/views with them. This greatly influenced my upbringing and being my father's only daughter, I did not want the others in our Indian/Punjabi community to mock him based on my choices. The constant struggle of belonging nowhere is real. I am not FULLY Indian/Punjabi and I am not FULLY American either. But I do realize after this incident that I need to stand up for myself and not worry about "log kya kahenge." I am a bit scared about the backlash I will receive in my community but I will have to be brave.
EDIT: This post was removed and now posted to this forum!
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2024.11.27 02:25 Ok-Network-74 Stock Etf Tracker
having trouble with the dates being accuratly measured. LMK if anyone knows what the problem is
https://colab.research.google.com/drive/1Lx4XVyRB8O7gSn9ezcWDhC0RS3Yd--61?usp=sharing
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2024.11.27 02:25 Decent-Horror-3541 To the moon 🚀🚀
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2024.11.27 02:25 definitelynotta_rat LF Digital Chat
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2024.11.27 02:25 GamebredWr Laimer should get bigger part of Kompany's project
Hello guys, I think Laimer is doing a huge performance in big gams since last year same as today against PSG and I think he should get more time in the team. What do you think ? submitted by GamebredWr to BayernMunich [link] [comments] |
2024.11.27 02:25 ImStudyingRightNow Rank these point guards all-time: Isiah Thomas, John Stockton, Jason Kidd, Steve Nash
I'm more interested on who y'all think was actually more conducive to winning than what their respective accolades were.
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2024.11.27 02:25 ztelemetry First Event, First Tripod :)
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2024.11.27 02:25 FlyingCarp 1000 Wins: The Fool
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2024.11.27 02:25 YellowDuck_7388 Girlfriend went through my desk while I was gone on vacation
She claimed she found pills. They were tic tacs spilled out. I have no idea why she went through my desk but it felt weird. What would you think?
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2024.11.27 02:25 Abusedgamer Because I really am homeless and in need of help
I just joined
Not sure what to put,but just to be honest,Im homeless and hungry,got a headache
Need money for food badly,joined off the post about paypaldonation being banned,like that was a whole moment last night.
I need money for A shirt,shoes and even a rainjacket . .
Also seam tape,for my tent
Im asking for like 300,but Ill take what I can get
Mostly I really need money for food.
Right now my phone bill isnt due,so I can leave that in the back of my mind,but really and most importantly FOOD
Pizza,wings,Tacos,burgers,Nachos
You name it,Im hungry . .
I have cashapp,paypal and venmo so dm me which you prefer . .
Look forward to being here . .later
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2024.11.27 02:25 No-Motor5963 Gunsmith part 8 what am i missing here?
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2024.11.27 02:25 MobileSuetGundam The RG Tallgeese has been such a joy to build
I’ve not yet put the decals on, but just look at this handsome lad. The Tallgeese is easily my favorite mobile suit in Gundam Wing. Having now seen (and felt) the whole build, I reckon he’s one of my favorites in the franchise. The aesthetic, the intricacy of the parts, and just how solid he feels — this mobile suit fucks. The verniers alone gave me such joy. Thanks again to everyone who recommended this. submitted by MobileSuetGundam to Gunpla [link] [comments] |
2024.11.27 02:25 Small_Cell5550 Nettie and lottie beef in 2018 pt1
from what i can hear nettie fought lotties mother and maybe sheila or kat fought lottie herself but please correct me if i am wrong, and i'm also not sure if she is nettie dil lottie the one who married whitey or not.. please do tell if you can hear more from these videos i can't hear or understand much 🙏🏽.
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2024.11.27 02:25 Extreme_Tax405 Building chaos resistance on balor's poison srs
I rly have problems with chaos res in this build. Most items are uniques, leaving only the helmet, gloves, and boots for chaos res. But they also demand hp, other resistances, and dexterity.
Are there any other ways to up my chaos resist except invest 10+ divines per armour piece?
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2024.11.27 02:25 BenTheNeighbor Will they make it big?
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2024.11.27 02:25 jilinjames J. Cole Announces Return of Dreamville Festival in 2025
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2024.11.27 02:25 Elove228 Help
Getting Kobo this Friday how much smaller is Clara color between the Libra Color. I had the Paperwhite by Kindle and was happy with the size. So should I just do the Clara color. Don't see myself using the stylus. I have one with my iPad air and gets little to no usage. Still use pen and paper for annotations
Anyone has experience with both?. I use readers with my phone and Ipad doesn't matter screen size
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2024.11.27 02:25 pisces-moon- Penis Irritation
I’ve had this issue for several months now, I think it started when I used a scented lotion. Some days it gets better and other days, like today, it flares up. By the way, I’ve not been intimate with anyone for 2+ years. Nothing seems to work. I’ve been to a walk in clinic 3 times. The first time, I got hydrocortisone 0.5%. The second time, I got Betamethasone/Clotrimazole 0.05%/1%. The third time, I got Clotrimazole 1%. Im trying to see my family doctor and a dermatologist but everything is backlogged. I’ve tried not master-baiting for 2 weeks with no change. I’m cutting out sugar, carbs, etc in case it’s a yeast infection, but no change. I used to have high libido but now erections and master-baiting cause further irritation and flare up. I’m at my wits end, this is all I can think of everyday and I’m severely depressed. Does anyone have any idea what this is and any suggestions? It feels like there is no end in sight and I’ll be stuck with this for life.
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2024.11.27 02:25 Blonde_arrbuckle Is Elgin Odin?
I thought Boyd would be the most Odin like figure However, Elgin has the gift of foreshadowing, one eye, etc. Also....
"Odin has several animals, including two ravens named Hugin and Munin, who fly around the world and report back to Odin. He also has an eight-legged horse named Sleipnir, who can run through all the worlds. "
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2024.11.27 02:25 PUBLIQclopAccountant The music once Future Twilight starts talking is just "I Am The Doctor" but in 4/4 instead of its canonical 7/8
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2024.11.27 02:25 DaveMatthews97 Megaton's strongest mutant warrior
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2024.11.27 02:25 Ill_be_here_a_week Symmetry by The Goons
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2024.11.27 02:25 Expert-Purchase-750 What would you do 0516960770f5b44bbce90eab347c1e47a53d69cc0c50fbf7770bd17841d2ef3152
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2024.11.27 02:25 Intrepid-Butterfly60 M2F
Tara tambay tayo sa baybay.
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