Wanting to hear others thoughts on this
2024.11.27 02:41 everyday_em Wanting to hear others thoughts on this
My pastor and two friends asked to meet with me on Sunday. They kept bringing up that I’m not struggling with a medical diagnosis but “heart issues”, aka that this is just a sin problem. I think they meant that they see how much the eating disorder still grips me and that in Christ I can find freedom, but it rubs me the wrong way. They also seem to think that it means that I HAVE to go away from my home, give up relationships, and quit my job to go pursue weight gain treatment then “heart issues” treatment.
The pastor also said some things that were definitely overstepping. (He compared me to a member who we recently found out had been cheating on his pregnant wife for years, saying how many similarities there are in our hearts and situations).
Does anyone else find this story to be super culty and insensitive?
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2024.11.27 02:41 AshLikeFromPokemon my baby in her new Christmas sweater ❤️
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2024.11.27 02:41 kiara_life2 حد من خلفية مسيحية يساعدني
انا مهتمة وحابة المسيحية شوية بس في كذا حاجة محتاجة حد يساعدني فيها لأن مش عارفة اسرش عنها!
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2024.11.27 02:41 dbvirago Help with where to go next
I've completely cleared out the Goblin Camp and can't find a way to get anywhere except the Mountain Pass. Game warns that it will be bitterly difficult for my level. I don't want bitterly difficult. Can't figure out how to get to the Githyanki patrol or Creche if that's where I should go. Any hints appreciated.
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2024.11.27 02:41 Dew-fan-forever- 26 yr old “[male]”Ive never been in any relationship. Hit me with good words please. They don’t have to be related to dating.
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2024.11.27 02:41 crimsonchic I hate going home from college
I’m traumatized by my home. I absolutely hate going back here from college during breaks. Throughout high school I had severe health issues and surgery several times. I also had severe depression and because of all of this I didn’t make good friends at school. The friends I did have were not my people and in college I cut them off. I felt like a loser in high school and had people be awful to me so I really just wanted anyone to be my friend. In college everything is different. I took a gap year and my health issues improved along with mental health and I also had a big glow up because of that. I’ve been treated completely different in college. I’m succeeding; I have good grades, good friends, a boyfriend, a great social life, great schedule and living situation, etc. I am so grateful for where I am and my depression has been fading. I feel like the real me is coming out. But every time I return home to this town for break, the horrible memories come back and I forget about my new life. I go back to being scared, insecure, and hopeless just bc that’s what I’m used to doing here. I don’t want to feel this way anymore and I feel awful because I love my family and it isn’t their fault. I know it’s just a house, a place but I’ve had so many bad things and bad times occur here. How can I make things different? I want to be able to continue my new life here but I have no friends or interests in this town. This is seriously weighing me down and I genuinely cannot do winter break here without losing my mind. How can I approach this?? I don’t want this loser mentality again
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2024.11.27 02:41 Vivid_Concentrate_89 My mom died I have questions about the dying process
My mom declined over a period of 8 years, where the AZ stages she went through them all. She died 2 weeks in the nursing home, and of course it was a blessing because the past year she was a shell of a person, between life and death, in diapers, being transferred from bed to wheelchair. Warning: This next part deals with dying process and might be uncomfortable for some readers---
I was very surprised when they called me to say she was dying, because although my mom was slowly declining, she was still eating well and had a huge appetite. I tried to learn about how AZ patients die, and what are their causes of death, to be prepared and to know what to expect. I read the main cause was Aspiration Pneumonia. Other causes would be an infection or sepsis or staph from a wound. I also read that they could forget how to chew and swallow so may stop eating, that would cause death. I guess I was expecting that one of these scenarios would arise, or that she would slowly eat less and less, and I'd know we were close to the end.
The week before they called me to tell me to come say goodbye that she had hours to days left, she was out on the ward in her wheelchair and eating fine. When the staff heard she was dying, they were so surprised, some of them were crying because they didn't see any big change.
In other words, there were no sudden infections, a fall, or a decline to not being able to eat. Instead, the part of her brain where her life functions are located just deteriorated like the other areas of her brain. She had been sleeping more that whole month before, that they had added a mechanism to her bed to shift pressure to prevent bedsores.
Thursday, she seemed the same as always, Friday, they stopped food and drink as she was actively dying. They called the priest Saturday and she got Last Rites, and her husband told me to come quick to say good bye. I got there Sunday morning. She was breathing 12 respiration per minute, the hospice nurse explained this happens when death is close. They were giving her morphine. ××××another warning could be upsetting××÷÷
Her mouth was hanging open, she would open her eyes if you touched her hands and stare at the ceiling, then close them again. Her breaths started being noisy, called the "death rattle". Sunday, Monday, Tues, Wednesday the same, we were just wondering how long she was going to hang on! Thursday morning, they could find no blood pressure and couldn't find her pulse. The Hospice Booklet said that means Hours left to live. Then her breaths speeded up. Then Thursday night, she died. It was 6 1/2 days from when food was stopped until she died.
I DID NOT EXPECT THIS! After all we've gone through the past 8 years to have to sit with her 6 days at her literal deathbed was just another TRAUMA that myself and my family have to emotionally deal with. I know some of you have experienced this with loved ones with cancer etc. and it's truly horrific. I'm in my 60's I've never seen this. (I was at my brother's bedside when life support was stopped, but that took 2 hours as he had technically already had died)
I feel so drained, on the one hand, I'm so happy she's out of the limbo of life. I'm glad she didn't linger another 6 months!
But I'm just realizing that dealing with her the past 5 years especially the last 2, then watching her die, that's why I'm a basket case. It's not that she died, it's all of it. I'm so drained.
Was this normal, that an AZ patient dies like this with no Aspiration Pneumonia etc? Is this considered the natural dying process and does it usually take a week? I got there on Sunday and thought she pass within a day, not that we'd sit there 5 more days. Thanks for any insight
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2024.11.27 02:41 Open-Marionberry-194 I think we have enough Italian restaurants in Miami
Why is every new restaurant pasta forward?
I like pasta.. I like Italian food. But I don’t get excited about anglonotti..
Also.. the menus are just boring.. are we just basic bitches or is anyone else wanting more?
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2024.11.27 02:41 Smasheysmashey I slid in next to my partner in the tent, pausing when I felt something wet.
That’s when I felt the hot and rancid breath of the bear in my ear.
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2024.11.27 02:41 bananajam1234 Sloth
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2024.11.27 02:41 Professional_Prior41 Help me please. Just need invite
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2024.11.27 02:41 Tais_210 Base layers?
Hi everyone!
My friends and I will be going to Iceland on February for about a week. We were wondering if there is any recommendations on what brands for base layers would keep us warm during this time of year.
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2024.11.27 02:41 Separate_Rhubarb_365 Bit weird there mate
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2024.11.27 02:41 Lanzoon Why girls secret talking to other even, not notify her boyfriend?
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2024.11.27 02:41 Substantial-Okra-737 Other half of my gf, dm or kik me
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2024.11.27 02:41 Open_Violinist_722 Put info from multiple tabs into one
Running into a data issue. I have an excel doc with multiple tabs. I’m trying to pull all the data from each tab 10 totals with four columns of info into one sheet. Example:
Sheet1 Client Name Employee Name Red/Green Status DOL Contact Comments
Sheet2 Client Name Employee Name Red/Green Status DOL Contact Comments
All info on each tab is set as a table.
Can anyone walk me through what function to enter to put all of the data from all of the tabs on another tab together? Googled for a good hour.
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2024.11.27 02:41 realbigmenace I love homemade pizza
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2024.11.27 02:41 National-Fox-7504 Pony up for Leather?
Hi All. Looking for feedback from 6g owners on whether Leather seats are worth the upgrade price? Can you even tell the difference? Bad vinyl would suck
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2024.11.27 02:41 TopTransportation695 3 pics of face of 1 masked nazi from Cbus
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2024.11.27 02:41 Prestigious-Key3190 Share irls 05b03e09a7fca6374cd3d9030710fc3e38e734e0abac60f5043ef9f51139490719
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2024.11.27 02:41 dee0703 Anyone able to trade ? These are the sets I'm close to completing.
 | If your able to trade, here's my link 🙂 thanks in advance Play MONOPOLY GO! with me! Download it here: https://mply.io/k38I6aHSoZs IGN: Diana submitted by dee0703 to monopolygo_fairtrade [link] [comments] |
2024.11.27 02:41 litqueenfun The Queen consort of Mongolia, Genepil, in Mongolia. The last queen consort and married to the Bogd Khaganate, Bogd Khan, until his death on April 17th, 1924, when the monarchy was abolished. She was killed during the Stalinist purges in May 1938. Photograph dated January 1st, 1923.
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2024.11.27 02:41 notmyidealusername Red lump on Senegal's side.
 | Yesterday I noticed a lump with a slightly pink tinge on the side of my Sen, today is a little bigger and red and nasty looking, it's certainly looking worse. It's others active and still eating. There's four other bichirs of similar size in there plus a pair of kribs and an old Pekoltia. Water is 0, 0 and <10, pH ~7.4, 25-6C and fairly soft. Is it some sort of infection or perhaps physical damage from the plec, perhaps more likely a spike than being rasped on? Never seen anything like it before. submitted by notmyidealusername to Bichirs [link] [comments] |
2024.11.27 02:41 DieselBrandly What is the best brand for quality deck boxes?
Getting a gift for a friend and I want to get him a high quality deck box for pokemon TCG. Does anyone have suggestions (price doesn’t matter at all)
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2024.11.27 02:41 Popular-Report8168 Why don’t we just run small ball with out bench
I’m going to lose it lol
If we lose another game from bad backup 5 play
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