NO BOUNDARIES
2024.11.27 02:40 Splashyattack NO BOUNDARIES
My MIL has broken into my home. She betrayed my trust, and is entitled saying she can do whatever she wants.
We bought a lock to lock the door since our glass door had broke, she tried to get in again the 2nd time and couldn't so she banged on the door yelling instead.
3rd time, the last time. She got caught trying to climb through our window and only stopped because she saw a spider.
She was told the very 1st time that it was disrespectful, rude and she needed to give notice in advance to either text or call us. When I had explained I've put boundaries in place for my own mother which was me deleting my social media (because she kept spam calling me at midnight to demand money) she disregarded my feelings, my hurt, and told me she is my mother now and she can do what she wants any time she wants and is allowed to show up when she wants. She was told AGAIN to not to do it by both of us and how it gives me bad anxiety and I'm not good with sudden changes of plans.
Instead I'm told I am severely depressed, and it's my problem and I need to seek help. All because I do not want to be involved in family politics, drama, bullying, whatever. I am quite happy by myself, alone, I'm content I'm happy with what I have and I don't need anything more.
I grew up really poor, I didn't have a mattress for a long time or a pillow or even a blanket. Sometimes if I was lucky I had a sheet, I remember foraging for food a lot with my grandmother, living off of what we could and being frugal, I lived a completely opposite life to them.
They grew up with a silver spoon in their mouths, always getting new phones, new cars, holidays all the time, never having to worry about paying the bills or how much money they have to pay for stuff or look at discounts. And when I told them about how I grew up I'm stared at. And then I find out by my partner, they all (not him) think Im lying for attention and I didn't grow up the way I did.
They can't put their head around that someone can be happy with nothing. I'm so happy I have a roof over my head. I have a full fridge, freezer, pantry. I'm blessed to have a mattress, a blanket , a pillow! I feel so rich. I don't need anything or want anything more. But because this is normal things they believe I need more in life and I can't possibly be happy. They think I'm so depressed and they're "worried" about me and my mental health but won't let me speak my truth. Won't let me explain why I am the way I am. Cut me off on conversations and then tell me I'm wrong they're right and I need help.
It gets draining to explain myself every year and then be scoffed at as if it's not true. And I get so anxious going to family events or being with them because I'm always targeted and spoken to rudely. Then they laugh it off as a joke. I've had numerous racist comments/jokes from either the family or their spouse. I've been white washed now. Told I am not asian because I was born in Australia and I am no longer asian. Which I hate and have been vocal about saying its my identity. I am asian. I am me. But you're making me out to be this completely different person I am not and introducing me to friends saying "hey this is x and she's not asian she's Australian she's basically white" and them justifying it because I was born in Australia. I've been called a wog, I've been called a chinky china person, I've been called so many nasty words, and my response is to try laugh it off . Excuse myself and leave or ill get angry and then cry out of anger.
When I stopped excusing myself and walking away and voicing it. It became drama. I'm no longer the same person who sits there to get shit on and take it and they don't like it. When I explain I might have a mental illness or disability I'm told "no you're not you're just depressed because of your childhood trauma" and "we're all a little depressed" or told flat out that whatever you say doesn't matter because your voice isn't heard and they only hear themselves so you don't say anything and they get angry in the silence and start picking at you to get a response.
I'm so exhausted having to please people and do things deemed "normal" just to blend in. I don't talk about my interests or hobbies anymore because I'm told "you're not a kid anymore grow up" and basically told to shut up. Then they speak about stocks, cars, kids, and I have no interest for any of that. So I don't engage. And whenever I get up to use the bathroom, instantly hear "WHERE DID X GO?" but when it's any other person leaving the table. No one bats an eye or says anything. The person who leaves doesn't even say anything where I always excuse myself and say it loudly "I'm going to the bathroom" and I leave. But still being talked about. Or when I told 1 person and they lied and said they didn't know where I want and my partner perked up and said she went to the bathroom. And I questioned it and was told "oh I wasn't listening" but you talked shit about your friends for the past 10 minutes and didn't listen to me when I said "sorry I gotta go to the bathroom ill be back" .. boundaries are broken and keeps being broken non stop.
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I've been trying to determine the origin of song and direct identification is proving not feasible. Thus, I need some help in narrowing down some details regarding the tune. The most important features that will help me in my search: instruments, genre, musical style, and musical descriptors. Instruments will help a lot as I'm 90% certain the music is older song/theme/loop by Kevin Macleod.
https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/179598067379470336/1306107226175442964/SilentNitghtmares-EndingMusic.mp3?ex=674742e5&is=6745f165&hm=edab38909e1395df189af3b6e1ca80bd9ab44665232713fb3324008e8e8a40dd&
Any assistance would be helpful.
PS It did not originate from a German Audiobook.
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2024.11.27 02:40 ArmaCityDillo9832 Who is the audience for swept away?
Because unfortunately it wasn’t me. I never step away from a show completely hating it because I can appreciate the artistry and performances but I’m genuinely confused about swept away.
I hadn’t heard much about it and also know nothing about the avett brothers. I didn’t realize it would be so religious. Uncomfortably so.
The first half (though there is no intermission) was fine, it was good even. The performances were stellar and the dancing was fun. And some really cool technical choices I enjoyed.
But with the over the head mention of god over and over and over again I felt that the story really went nowhere. The last half dragged on and on.
Please tell me what I’m missing.
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2024.11.27 02:40 MoisturizedToad Should Wonky Wednesdays stay limited to wonky faces or also include hair and other defects?
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2024.11.27 02:40 LoganSCPLOVER "Paradox Anarchy"
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