Anger
2024.11.27 04:34 IrrigoCactus Anger
Small note: The following poem was meant to be read in a different format, one that monile reddit gave me issues with.
My grandfather once told me, “Anger runs in our blood.”
A fearful reminder of what he had done.
I never saw it in him, though I knew it to be true.
I could see the nuclear shadow where the man he once was stood.
I see it in my father, who harnessed and handled
That internal flash-fire. But even bent to better ends,
A flame is still a flame, burns are unavoidable.
I can feel it in myself, a yearning to burn.
Like my father, I tried to control it.
Like my grandfather, I began to fear it.
Unlike either, I am learning to let the flames flicker.
So what if I am burned in the process?
There is no shame in trying, moving forward step by step.
I will not let my future be written in blood.
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2024.11.27 04:34 Puzzleheaded_Food55 PLEASE DONT LET FELT FALL OFF
I've spend days of my life on the Minecraft server. Like probably 4 days straight where I didn't sleep. I've build some of the coolest things in my opinion I've ever built and I'm so proud.
PLEASE I DONT WANT TO BE ADDICTED TO A DEAD SERVER
(also my username is The_British_Are_Evil)
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2024.11.27 04:34 thewolfofstatestreet Places to camp during Thanksgiving week?
Looking for outdoor camping. Any good recommendations are appreciated!
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2024.11.27 04:34 Hello09280228 Am I wrong to exclude my sis in law’s sister and kids from a thanksgiving tradition held by me, mom, SIL and niece?
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Let me first say that I think I may be the bad guy here. I don’t want to be, and I apologize for the length of this post, but here we go:
My 74 yr old mom began a tradition 10 yrs ago w/ my sister in law (35) and me (45F) where we bake pies together the night before thanksgiving. It began so my mom could teach us how to make my grandmother’s pie crust and this year my 12 year old niece would be joining us to start learning.
This was planned for tomorrow night and today my sister in law sent a text to the family chat asking if her sister could join us. Some background, her sister is a good person, but not the adult in the room. She doesn’t always follow social cues to the extent that she brings her kids with her everywhere and has tried to invited her family (2kids and spouse) on our family vacations that my parents pay for every summer.
Other aunt (OA) and I had a standing tennis date for AM workouts and she started bringing her kids who are 7 and 12 to the court and she has a hard time telling them no when they want to play so I ended up playing against kids and getting zero workout. I stopped that and got a gym membership so now we do that, but suffice it to say she has a history of things like that. She also took her top off in front of her kids, my nieces and everyone else who attended her 38th bday party this year. My brother and SIL are good parents and I’m sure they handled the situation as best they could, but my nieces still had to witness one of their aunts acting in such a way that none of us wants them to emulate.
Recently, my 12 year old niece began harming herself. OA also struggles with that and of course my SIL told her about it as my brother told me. The difference is, they sent my niece to stay with me to get some perspective from a caring adult, whereas OA showed her 12 year old daughter the picture of my niece’s wrist that SIL sent her in confidence. Niece was very upset by that. My nieces are my world and these things leave a bad taste in my mouth.
So today when SIL sent the request for OA to join, I immediately pictured all the kids coming and my niece no longer having that quality time with me and her mom and my mom. It turns out that it was just going to be OA without the kids, but I had already contact my mom and complained about it all. There wasn’t going to be enough room for even one more baker in my mom’s kitchen, so SIL offered to move it to her house. At that point I knew without a doubt OA would bring her kids and of course the kids wouldn’t be interested in learning baking techniques and suddenly this tradition I so looked forward to was dissolving.
Now, my brother understands why we assumed she would bring the kids and agrees with me that the fallout would be the girls just wouldn’t particulate. He also agreed it was likely that moving it to their house meant the kids would all be there. I was also upset that it felt like my mom’s tradition was being stepped on to make room for OA and everything along with the dynamic was changing.
I should also add that we’ve had a lot of death in the family over the last 5 years, beginning with my husband and including OA’s oldest daughter (w/ whom she commiserated over SH) the next year and then SIL and OA’s parents, most recently their dad a year ago Dec. 23rd.
I love OA and other nieces. I spend quality time with them and get them gifts and have sleepovers with them; but the honest truth is my brother’s kids are closer to my heart. I feel guilt for that, but it’s the truth. It’s not that I didn’t want them to come at all. I even suggested we have just the two oldest nieces join, but my mom said no to that because she wanted it either at her house the ordinary way or we could just do whatever. Whatever being have it at SIL’s house.
I feel I’m the AH because I’m the reason no one is coming now. I didn’t want to say yes OA can come but only her and not the kids, but my brother said that’s exactly what I should have said. It just didn’t feel right saying his daughter is invited but OA’s daughters are not. I felt it easier this year to keep the status quo and start a new tradition next year. And I do mean that. I was never planning to keep OA and family as not a part of this forever. Just this year since until today we didn’t ever know she wanted to join.
I have a very difficult relationship with my mother, as does SIL and my brother. SIL didn’t even want to come but as always was being nice. This is my mom’s fave holiday and I look forward to this tradition because we usually get along well for it. I was just really looking forward to a quiet evening with my mom, niece and SIL. Mom didn’t have a big problem changing it to SILs house, though she said she wasn’t thrilled about it and figured all the kids would be there and she wouldn’t get the quality time with her granddaughter that she was hoping for.
But really, I feel this time it was because of me that now my brother has stepped in and decided his wife and daughter won’t be coming at all. Mom made a post on Facebook that he thinks had to do with this situation, though I really disagree after reading it. I asked mom and I was right in thinking it was about the family of her friend who was in the hospital today after suffering a stroke.
So now I’m left alone with my mom without the happy buffers whom we both love so very much.
My niece and I also share a bday, so we are extra close.
I feel wrong about even thinking of excluding OA or the kids. I’ve thought it over during the last several hours and I really believe it was just because I’ve seen so many times what happens when she brings the kids and I lose out on quality time I was hoping for with my niece. Both sides have 2 daughters and the younger daughters are sweet tornadoes and with them there too it would be basically impossible to have the time together we were anticipating.
My brother said mom and I should have compassion and I agree. If I had known it was only going to be OA with no kids there would have been zero problem. Brother understands the assumption but says I should have said no kids. That just didn’t feel right since his eldest daughter was still invited. I even suggested to SIL that we all start a new tradition next year.
I don’t know why I feel sometimes animosity towards OA and her kids disrupting, other than I’ve seen negative effects from it on family and my nieces specifically.
I already feel like an AH just writing this. I am normally the kind and accepting one. I don’t get overly upset over anything, and I’m the adult they send their kids to for safety and for a good talk. These are things brother and SIL have told me directly.
I’ve been I tears tonight because I feel such swirling feelings over all of this. I find it difficult to put into words why I wanted things to not change. Again, just having OA or her eldest daughter join was no problem to me. So I really don’t get what my problem is here.
I guess more than am I the AH, I’m looking for confirmation as to why I am and what I can do to make this right. I’m waiting for brother to return my call so I can tell him it’s my fault, not our mom’s as he assumed. That I feel awful and want to do whatever is needed to make this right.
I’m not a petty person. I’m not jealous or someone who wants to keep things for myself. I think that’s why my brother didn’t believe me when I said I think this is on me, not our mom. Because mom always makes us all angry. I get so few moments with her where things are good, and I wanted this with my niece, and she with her granddaughter. I still don’t totally understand myself. I’m hoping some of you armchair therapists (or real ones) will have some advice for me.
That’s the other weird thing. I never go to others for advice since typically have an intuition for what is the right thing in a given situation. This never felt totally right to me, but it didn’t feel totally wrong either.
I welcome all commentary and any questions. I want to understand where I’m wrong and why. And maybe figure out where these feelings are truly coming from. Thank you all in advance.
TLDR: I didn’t want my sis in law’s sister and her kids to join our thanksgiving pie baking tradition with my mom. Wanted to keep it to Me, Granny, SIL and my niece.
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Hola, perdón incomodar si llego a incomodar con la pregunta es que no uso mucho está plataforma. En fin, quiero durar mucho tiempo en la cama, es decir, que puedo hacer para no irritarme o aguantar. Disculpa otra vez si les incomodan 😪
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2024.11.27 04:34 aurorannerenee Student Kit Organization
Im starting cosmetology school next semester and am worried about how to organize my kit? I want to be as prepared as possible, and don't want to have to lug my things around in an unorganized duffle bag for very long. How do or did you guys organize your kit for school? Did you buy a separate bag or case? Which one?
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2024.11.27 04:34 Both_Marionberry3636 Never Buying from Fashionphile
I assume these websites lurk on this subreddit so they should know many of us will never purchase from them going forward because of the lack of support they show for victims of theft whose handbags end up on their websites. Just thought I'd put this out there since I recently came across a discussion about just how many stolen handbags end up there, never to be addressed or taken down.
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2024.11.27 04:34 techy_bloke Used Macbook M2 vs New HP Laptop?
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Kindly suggest, which one should I pick?
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2024.11.27 04:34 Gholl14 Are there any good disc golf courses in Oahu?
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2024.11.27 04:34 Far-Minute-5062 Been a while since I realized
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2024.11.27 04:34 Constant_Broccoli_74 Individual Tax filing for Year 2023-2024
Did you file your tax file before the 30th of November?
I forgot to pay the amount for taxable interest income. Is it possible to pay it before the 30th of November and submit the tax file for 2023-2024?
I already have the T10 form from my company. Would like to get your opinion as well
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