They might be giants are probably the only thing keeping me sane
2024.11.27 23:40 KaiTheDumbGuy They might be giants are probably the only thing keeping me sane
They stop the urges and I love all of they're music and they're so great and fun and incredible and they just have sooo much music I could talk about them forever
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2024.11.27 23:40 gladmiester Ceramic coating and tint ✅
Just picked up the girl from getting tint and ceramic coat! Looks fantastic. Used Twilight Tint in Ringwood, Tom was an absolute legend.
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2024.11.27 23:40 winter_avocado_owl Coping with the disappointment
Hi all - I'm 35, female, and last year around this time I hit a mental health low that caused me to reassess my relationship with my family, get assessed for ADHD (spoiler: I have it. And so does most of my family, they are undiagnosed), and start getting real about the harm I was doing to my husband by failing to interrupt the patterns of emotional immaturity, bordering on emotional abuse at times, that I was taught by my parents was normal.
I don't enjoy spending time with my Mom because she often criticizes me, has strong and obnoxious opinions and myopic interests. She dominates the conversation when you talk to her, is critical of others and has no awareness of herself, her own emotions or how she is effecting other people. She would often complain she didn't really "know" my husband while never asking him any questions about himself or letting him get in a word edgewise. She is rigid and demanding - if we would have to reschedule a visit or be late she would get very angry, and she treated us like employees - mostly being focused on us doing household tasks for her when we visited. Every recent special occasion (when I got married for example) she would do something weird - she insisted on being on the phone with me for long periods when I was on my honeymoon trip, she would often make weird comments about photos I sent her, she criticized my dress, and when we purchased a house, she told us painting the walls the color of our choice was a waste of money and frivolous and we were making a huge mistake buy not leaving it the color the person who renovated it chose (whole house cheap grey paint). She sent me lots of useless items when I told her I didn't want to add clutter, and would grill me about whether I was using them or not. She also has terrible advice and if I was ever unhappy or stressed about something she would criticize me instead of being understanding. So when I didn't get a job that a lot of my peers got, she said "I didn't know you were so jealous and selfish." She's just not a very pleasant person to be around, she raises her voice, she is boring and limited and just plain unpleasant.
I don't know if she is a narcissist, on the spectrum, both or neither at this point. I got into this stupid disagreement with her about how often I visit my grandma in the nursing home. She says she is "heartbroken" that I do not visit and call enough - but I call weekly and visit once or twice a month. It's a 90 minute drive, and my grandma and I are not especially close.
Since I've been in this conflict with her, she stopped calling me socially (which is actually better because I hated talking to her on the phone but would do it because it helped keep her from demanding I visit her). She sent demanding texts to my husband asking him to call my Grandma and read Winnie the Pooh to her. She called my husband and I shallow. She told me that I was doing the same thing as I did when my dad was dying by not visiting enough (I visited my dad regularly). She showed up at our house uninvited. She said that I was "afraid of dying" and that's why I wouldn't visit my grandma (i... do visit her though. And... isn't it sort of normal to be somewhat death adverse, lol? I'm probably less afraid of dying than most tbh...). She told me I was "treated like gold" when I told her she needed to treat me like an adult and stop demanding my time and energy, and politely request it instead. She told me I scammed her and my grandma.
Here is the problem - she gave us money toward our downpayment for our house. I knew when I took it that it was a bad idea to give her anything to hold over me... but I also knew that it was given as a gift. I asked her repeatedly if there were conditions or a specific payback schedule or if she would ever demand the money back and she said no. And yet, here we are and she has been demanding that i send her money immediately to pay back the gift - this started after we did not let her in our home when she randomly showed up when I asked her not to come.
I have been working on boundaries and the demanding texts are a boundary now - I hate how she demands that I do things rather than asking - it makes me feel really stressed. She had a very strained relationship with her two brothers, and after trying to salvage the relationship with one of them and it not being worth it because he's extremely emotionally immature, I now also have two estranged uncles, my dad is dead, my grandma has dementia and also we were not close to begin with, and now my Mom is unwilling to come to a resolution of the conflict we are in.
My plan is to continue with boundaries and be low contact if she ever tries to get back in touch with me. It's hard to do things in a respectful way because I am so angry at her, but my goal is to act in a way that I can be proud of and maintain self respect no matter what she does. I did try for too many years to keep the peace and make her happy at my own personal expense, because that was impossible. She was never going to approve of what I did or said.
The stupidest part is I actually tried family therapy last year, and after talking to my Mom the therapist told me "You're Mom has only good things to say about you, she doesn't have any complaints and doesn't know what is wrong." This after screaming in my face that there is something wrong with me, criticizing me constantly, and always saying I did something wrong every time I would see her.
My question for all of you is - how do you cope with the disappointment. I am in a horrible state of grief and ambiguous loss about my family, and while I have tried a lot and am hopeful I move through this, I also feel "struck" in the bad feelings and resentment. How do I move through?
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2024.11.27 23:40 currentBroccoli What is this?
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2024.11.27 23:40 JianClaymore [Pavlovic] The Giants say they will honor Brandon Crawford's career on April 26th at Oracle Park. Bruce Bochy's Rangers will be on the other side.
![[Pavlovic] The Giants say they will honor Brandon Crawford's career on April 26th at Oracle Park. Bruce Bochy's Rangers will be on the other side.](https://external-preview.redd.it/soPwYDh8Fq8_gE1M7lSHqgGNFwiYnAjHJrA63qbMIVo.jpg?width=108&crop=smart&auto=webp&s=fefe6126bb4325bf9215a03fba614292dbef3f02 "[Pavlovic] The Giants say they will honor Brandon Crawford's career on April 26th at Oracle Park. Bruce Bochy's Rangers will be on the other side.") | submitted by JianClaymore to SFGiants [link] [comments] |
2024.11.27 23:40 aligators me watching liverpool beat madrid and realizing they're up 8 points
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2024.11.27 23:40 MountainHot5680 Isto é para ti!
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2024.11.27 23:40 F1yngDutch How do you get in touch with venues / crews ? What are your advices for who wants to build a network, let’s grow together!
Thought to post a useful one for the DJs of Reddit!
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2024.11.27 23:40 Am-1-r3al Is this legit??
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2024.11.27 23:40 ttuzecan Food additive carrageenan (E 407) could disrupt the intestinal barrier and increase the risk of type 2 diabetes, study finds
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2024.11.27 23:40 TeaUnlikely3217 Woman says social media agitator accused of pimping attempted to recruit her
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2024.11.27 23:40 100kBitcoin Final BlockFi Distribution Complete
Final blockfi distribution is complete.
I received 30% of the total BTC I had collaterallized with them.
I paid back a very small amount of the loan that was needed to recieve my crypto instead of dollars.
Do I have a loss since I didn't receive the other 70% of my crypto, in this case, BTC.
Please provide as much non tax expert advice.
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2024.11.27 23:40 Effective_Maybe_4251 Trade help, mclaurin for Sutton?
I was offered mclaurin for breece ? I know it sounds dumb but with the injury news it could be a good trade. My other rbs are Gibbs, James cook , and frank gore. Would you do it ?
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2024.11.27 23:40 sr_steve I thought it was "Raw Copper".
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2024.11.27 23:40 meeralakshmi Joe Rogan Being a (Female) Pedo Apologist
https://youtu.be/Ping4kU7CHM?si=rtToGzPhJyb0YWH7
From 2:57-5:10, he’s absolutely disgusting.
https://youtu.be/I3SyzQJJhvA?si=kkwqI8-aNAIArzTM
This psychologist dedicated her work to helping male survivors due to the abuse her husband suffered as a child. At 15 her husband told his mother he was being raped by his aunt and his mother replied that no one can make a teenage boy have sex when he doesn’t want to. Fuck Joe Rogan for using the same child abuse apologist logic.
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2024.11.27 23:40 Idawutimdoin Is the merch good?
I was debating on buyung the merch, but wanted to hear from fellow fans beforehand. To the ones that has bought merch from his official store: is the merch good quality?
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2024.11.27 23:40 GamblingLover5000 Can’t play the game.
Recently bought RDR2 for steam just to find out I can't even play it. Everytime I try to open the game it says: "Unable to launch game, please try reinstalling the game." So I figured, that will fix it.. Nope. Reinstalled it 2 times and still doesn't work, then I went, "Hey, maybe it's the rockstar launcher that's the issue?" Turns out I can't even open THAT. Just like the game itself it shows a pop up message, this time being "The Rockstar Games Launcher failed to initialize!" So I'm basically stuck, and I also can't refund the game anymore. (P.S, Rockstar Support is actually horrendous.)
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2024.11.27 23:40 Mysterious-Lobster99 Hola
Nací en 1996 . Criado por mi abuela y mi tío crecí en México 🇲🇽 . Cuando nací mi madre me abandonó mi padre igual mi padre tenía dos mujeres más embarazadas . A los 4 años perdí un primo recién nacido . 👶 a los 5 perdí mi padre que solo conocía 2 veces . A los 10 crucé a usa 🇺🇸ilegal vivo en california pasadena . A los 15 me regreso a México 🇲🇽. A los 20 regreso a usa 🇺🇸 ilegal a north Carolina a los 25 me mudé a las Vegas nevadas perdí a mi madre abuela . No pude ir a su sepelio en México 🇲🇽 . A los 26 perdí a mi primo hermano de 17 años el hijo mayor de mi tío papa el mismo día que falleció mi abuela 1 de enero . Hoy tengo 28 y vivo en north Carolina me independice con el trabajo que tengo y y llevo 6 años de casado no he podido arreglar papeles . Que me recomiendan hacer ? me pueden preguntar lo que sea . .
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2024.11.27 23:40 titomo420 FT
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2024.11.27 23:40 Only_WallaceReddit You Remind Me
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2024.11.27 23:40 Background-Wrap-8847 Workers' rights for aux teachers
To preface, I'm not an aux; I'm a US expat who lives in Catalonia and I own an English Academy.
I've been seeing a lot of posts where people talk about working conditions in their schools. Things like being asked to make up hours missed due to flooding, exams, field trips, etc., or being told to monitor patio or direct classes when the teacher is absent. People often mention a handbook and rules and stuff and I started wondering: what kind of contract do you guys have? Is there one? How are rules enforced and what are the situations in which they can dock your pay?
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2024.11.27 23:40 Express_Animator4706 How worth it is the diamond pass?
I am pretty under leveled and want to know if it’s worth it to buy the diamond pass.
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2024.11.27 23:40 fush_stoney95 First days in CR and loving it
First of all I‘d like to thank everyone commenting and creating Posts. I‘m following this space for months during our preparation for our CR trip.
Now we‘re here since Saturday evening and we (m29/f33) are in love with 🇨🇷
Stayed in San José for one night after landing heading towards Turrialba for a beautiful Dome within the forest and now living pura vida for 4 days in total in Puerto Viejo (carribean coast)
We already saw some sloths in their natural habitat, same to monkeys and other beautiful wildlife.
Got in touch with friendly and nice types of characters.
Left to say: We love it! Everyone has to come to See this beautiful part of earth. But respect the nature and it‘s wildlife.
Cheers.
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2024.11.27 23:40 Superb_Appearance559 How do we add apple payment method on seller account?
When I go to my shop I don’t see apple pay for customers to pay I’m in US , I tried to watch video but there is none
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2024.11.27 23:40 MichaelSonOfMike The state of Texas is fighting against overtime rules. People are so stupid that they elect representatives who represent a tiny percentage of us. This is literally a government fighting for the rights of a few people over the masses. Yet we elect these people. This country is so stupid.
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