Almost 30 and being controlled by my dad. What do I do?
2024.11.28 02:39 Hour_One5004 Almost 30 and being controlled by my dad. What do I do?
I’m almost 30, and I can't leave the house without my dad’s permission. If I ever do, it’s like hell at home. I have a gym membership, but I’m not allowed to go because he thinks I might meet a man there.
I’m not allowed to marry someone of my own choice either. If I even talk about it, he threatens to leave the family. The only option I have is to marry a man he chooses for me in Pakistan.
The only way I can leave the house is if I’m working or if I go out with my mom and sister. I have no freedom to make friends or even meet people. All of my high school friends are married and have kids, and I’m still stuck at home, under constant stress. Recently, I got laid off from my job, and now I feel like I can’t go anywhere. I don’t know what to do anymore. Sometimes, it feels like life isn’t worth living if it’s going to be like this.
My mom has tried to help me find a way out, like getting me married, but my dad won’t even meet with potential families or talk about it. She makes countless excuses to try and get me out, but she’s so scared of his anger—he yells and swears at her—that she ends up asking me to cancel my plans. I feel trapped, suffocated, and as if my mind can’t function anymore.
What do I do?
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2024.11.28 02:39 Nvrbnacmp Finally completed the game
A little accomplishment, my 2nd final fantasy that I finished (1st one being XVI), even though I played most (5-6-7-8-9-10-11-13) in my younger days...
Will be looking to move on to play the 7 remakes now...
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2024.11.28 02:39 omnipotentalbatross Would you consider these characters as siblings?
My fantasy (with romance) WIP takes place a few generations after the creation of the world and birth of humanity. The Gods who formed the world are key characters. Several of the Gods cannot reproduce, but have found ways to create subsequent generations.
The bird God (essentially a pheonix) creates two new pheonixes by cleaving his soul and power. The FMC is a 4th generation Goddess, who was born during a fatal attack on a 3rd gen God. In the chaos, she is taken and raised by a human devotee, who becomes the chief of a growing village. The FMC's counterpart (MMC) is rescued from the ashes and raised by two 3rd gen. pheonixes (two halves of a 2nd gen. whole).
The story follows the FMC (who is raised as a human priestess) as she travels through the God Lands to rescue the chief's daughter. She meets the MMC who offers to help her on her journey, but is really trying to reawakened the dormate Goddess soul inside of her. They had a fated mates/soul mate type attraction that slowly develops into a romance.
I recently worried that their origin makes them too much like siblings.
This is actually a reworked and simplified version of what I originally had, and it makes so much more sense. I have tried making the FMC the original God (along with 6 other bird Gods), but having multiple bird Gods didn't fit with the origin of the other Gods. I also thought about adding more generations, but I need them to be as close to the start of the world as possible. I also intended for the FMC to have already lived several lives, each one having various types of relationships with MMC, but hit a hole with how she was reborn as a human. It can work, but was a bit convoluted.
What are your thoughts? As it currently is, would you think of these characters as siblings?
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2024.11.28 02:39 Dolcedevotio 20M very desperate for a friend. Anyone pls
The title sort of says it all. I honestly don’t mind who texts me I don’t discriminate at all. The truth is I have been going through a lot over the past like year ish. I mean , honestly the last few years haven’t been good but stuff really hasn’t gone well for me this past year. I really just want a friend as I don’t have any. My mental situation is pretty bad and I am sort of stuck. I have a ton of interests and I’m pretty mature (or at least I’m told that) I’m interested in history, sports, fitness and cooking. I also love to learn about cultures and such. I do usually communicate through ig or sn4p but we can talk on here too if you’re cool enough haha. Okay pls someone text me.
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2024.11.28 02:39 KissMeAndSayNoHomo Who sacrificed their daughter?
If the girl is Tabitha and Jade's daughter, who sacrified her? It seems to be that the deal is that parents kill their children for eternal life but they're trying to tell us that Jade and Tabitha were the good guys, that they didn't do that. So, who did sacrifice the girl?
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2024.11.28 02:39 wowwowsocool Im 18 what should I do with my money?
I am 18 and work a 16 hour contract on £10.73 with the ability to make commission on sales I make which is uncapped. I am abit confused and unsure on what to do with this money I make. I want to save and grow this money but do no know where to start.
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2024.11.28 02:39 Impossible-Ad-9748 Printable iron on smearing
I made a printable iron on for dark fabrics shirt I’ve had it hanging up for about five days I wore it today and as I was getting my son out of the bathtub it got the image wet and the color started to smear. Any ideas what this could be?is it because I haven’t washed it yet?
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2024.11.28 02:39 tootes123 Higher Duties while on employer paid parental leave
Hi, my employer funds 22 weeks paid parental leave which I will be taking at half pay. By the time I go on leave I will have been acting in a higher duties role for 17 months which i receive an allowance for (based on an hourly rate). The higher duties period is due to end while I am on paid leave. At which point the total length of higher duties will be 2 years 1 month. I've been told the higher duties allowance will be terminated early the day before I commence leave and so I will revert back to my old rate of pay. I want to confirm two things:
- our EBA states parental leave is paid based on our 'ordinary earnings' directly preceding leave. Would a higher duties allowance be considered part of ordinary earnings (noting the ATO considers it part of Ordinary Time Earnings)
- per our EBA, after 2 years of higher duties i would be entitled to permanently move up into that position level but as it's being terminated early I will lose that opportunity. Is there any basis on which I can question this?
Thanks in advance
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2024.11.28 02:39 FuriousFurbies Temporary Weather Stripping
Our apartment windows seem good enough to insulate, but there's gaps around the frames that let in a very unfortunate amount of freezing air. I need a solution that is both temporary and won't peel off the already peeling paint around them.
Some mild research led me to rope caulk, but an old DIY home improvement post suggested seal and peel caulk would hold up better in colder temperatures.
Any suggestions on which product would work best, and can anyone reccomend a brand?
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2024.11.28 02:39 Zinthose I need help identifying an ASUS EEPROM / Firmware reprogrammer.
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2024.11.28 02:39 Key_Owl3267 My Strength Against Sin Failed
In the New Testament, one of the disciples said to be sober minded. After going through a cycle of hopelessness, worthlessness, witnessing fucked up shit, and anxiety, I don’t want to be sober anymore. All I want to do is drink alcohol and weed concentrated drinks until I can’t feel anything anymore. Anyone who experienced something similar to me got advice?
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2024.11.28 02:39 Unfair_Rope5540 What is my phobia called?
I have a really bad fear of water rides at theme parks, specifically one with animatronics submerged. I don't exactly think that it's submechaphobia since it only really triggers for me when I see an animatronic in water. For reference, every time I see a video of "burt the bunyip" it sends a shiver down my spine. I was also kind of unsettled on jungle cruise at Disney with all of the animatronics in water.
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2024.11.28 02:39 hbyo M3P Overnight drive this weekend
Seen this question on here before, wanted input in my case the new performance model 3.
I will have the demo car Saturday night and Sunday morning. Should have access to the phone key as well, what would every one recommend I try and test? I’m in the market for one of these and looking forward to getting the feel for the car for longer than the short demo drive.
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2024.11.28 02:39 smokinpatty [US-WI] [H] LEGO Store (40305) Minecraft Micro World The Nether (21106), Harry Potter 2004 Sets (4750,4751,4752,4753,4755,4756) [W] PayPal
Images: https://imgur.com/a/dkyZuGx
Shrieking Shack (4756) used - $102
Professor Lupin's Classroom (4752) used - $39
Knight Bus (4755) used - $34
Minecraft Micro World - The Nether (21106) used - $30
Harry and the Marauder's Map (4751) used - $28
Sirius Black's Escape (4753) used - $26
Draco's Encounter with Buckbeak (4750) used - $23
LEGO Brand Store (40305) used - $22
Let me know if you have questions, don't hesitate to reach out or send an offer!
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My terms and how I calculate the prices above:
How I price my LEGO: I want to be very transparent on my pricing, all sets are set at 5% off of the BrickLink average (which I grabbed on 11/26/24) for the used price of each set and is either rounded up or down (.5 ≤ is rounded up, < .5 is rounded down) to the nearest dollar, the more you buy, the higher the percentage off I do. (I take about 1.5% off for each set)
The buyer is expected to pay shipping.
These sets are verified with the bricklink part contents but to protect me, I am selling them as if they are 99% with all the figures and instructions. If you want the box I have the boxes for 21106 and 40305 but assume the shipping will be cost a bit more.
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