Break up after 7 years:
2024.11.28 05:40 weedsmsn Break up after 7 years:
So my long term gf and I broke up (she did) with me after 7 years. We have a block of land together and were about to build/still might as if we do we are in for significant financial gain. I was living with her and her parents so we could save.
The break up came as quite a surprise to me, her family and mine. She said that she had stopped loving herself and couldn’t love me anymore until she found things in her life that she was excited for again. Which to be honest I understand, I have things to my look they created autonomy they she needs too. However, the part of don’t understand is why she wants to do this without me. She said we have nothing wrong in our relationship and she wouldn’t do it we were together, I suggested that I move out and I give her time and space to work on herself because I see a long term future with her. She decided to end things.
It has been 6ish weeks now since this occurred and we have still been talking a bit, not everyday and the longest time has been about two weeks. I am still hopeful of getting back together. However, I dont know if i should be going to absolutely no contact or selling the block of land and cut-ties ties completely.
note: ive been doing things for myself like going to the gym, pursing hobbies and trying to get a promotion.
any guidance/help around this would be good? i dont know if i am holding on to something that i shouldn't be
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2024.11.28 05:40 StrekrViking98 The Hrafnkel
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2024.11.28 05:40 Striking_Serve_9611 Pain from boot 9 days post op
Anyone else have a hard time keeping the boot on for long periods of time? It’s causing so much pressure on the ball of my foot and toes. I had akin type bunionectemy and osteotomy second metatarsal and hammertoe arthrodesis. Pain management is okay with the boot off, but when I have it on it’s so much pressure that I can’t do anything. I called the office yesterday and they told me to loosen the boot - which I had already done. I have a pretty high pain tolerance but this is awful.
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2024.11.28 05:40 2raysdiver Could we amend rule #4?
Rule #4 says no pictures of PCPartpicker lists. Can we change this to simply "No pictures of build lists"? It seems that is the real spirit of Rule #4.
Also, I get that people like to show off that they have a pile of parts, but asking for advice and simply posting a picture doesn't always give the detail. It's even worse when viewing on a phone. We don't get prices from that and half the time, there isn't sufficient resolution to tell specifically which CPU or memory they purchased. I'm happy to help, and I'm sure others here are too, but don't make it hard for us to help. Maybe something like, "No pictures of parts without a list of parts."
This is an honest question and I am open to dialog about why rule 4 is specifically there. If you are happy with the way things are, then fine. But I am a bit unencouraged by "Will this work?" and a pic of a stack of parts and nothing else.
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2024.11.28 05:40 Firebreather14 This could be social phobia?
First of all, I already know that the only way I can find out is with a professional, but all my life I have had suspicions that I have this condition. After reading comments from people who suffer the same thing, I realized that certain situations are not as complicated for me as going out to public places on my own, being surrounded by crowds, and things like that. I don't think I have agoraphobia perhaps? It bothers me a little that there are so many people, but I also think that they probably ignore me and I don't care.
There is also the fact that I have been in environments where I am able to attend people (this due to the business my family used to have, for example) and that requires talking to strangers. I may not be able to convince them but I have no problem responding and interacting for a brief moment with people i don't know.
Even so, in environments like school or university it is horrible for me. This is because they are not people that I will see one day and never again, but I am forced to interact with them constantly and that increases the possibility that they will judge me. It also does not help that throughout primary and secondary I suffered bullying that caused me trauma when interacting with classmates. It should be noted that I'm not an extrovert either and I'm afraid to speak in front of a lot of people, if I don't know what to say I get anxious. Even so, I think I have more of a social phobia when it comes to interacting with my classmates (I hate this. Who the hell invented group works and presentations)
Well, I wanted to let off some vent and although each person has a different experience, I guess I have a certain level of social anxiety. Or am I just introverted? It's just too overwhelming what I feel when I go to classes and it's always been that way 🫠 I don't have the skills to connect with groups of people 😔.
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2024.11.28 05:40 EmergencyUse69 People who own construction company
How did you start at the beginning? Give some advice to newbie like me
And how much did you make in last 5 years.
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2024.11.28 05:40 TheNetflixTakeover I used to be an adventure like you until I took a _____ to the knee
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2024.11.28 05:40 Illustrious_Winter19 [USA-CA][H] BNIB 9800x3d, Slightly Used 7950x3d [W] Paypal
timestamp: https://imgur.com/a/liC49ie
Selling:
BNIB 9800x3d - $570 Shipped (+$50, I'll include a Asrock PG Lightning X670e)
Slightly Used 7950x3d (Excellent Condition, 24H Benchmark Tested at Central Computer in Sunnyvale) - $450 Shipped
Paypal Accepted!
Located in Sunnyvale CA
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2024.11.28 05:40 lss_bvt_ios_05 Profiles 11/27/24-21:39:49
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2024.11.28 05:40 Ashamed_Cut2821 Mommy is here seeking for long term relationship with a loyal sb on telegram @prettyjul23
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2024.11.28 05:40 Tityfan808 Anyone else having issues finding matches in 10v10 in BO6 who connect to west coast servers? Idk what happened but search times are INSANELY long now but other 6v6 modes are fine.
Man it’s so bad right now, wait times are insanely long! And if I do find a game it’s usually a match in progress with insanely high ping. Idk what happened but when 10v10 was first added to the game I could find games pretty quickly!
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2024.11.28 05:40 KasperDaGhost81 Tickets for Sale for Friday
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2024.11.28 05:40 Haunting_Attorney443 Mole change? Should I wait or call my dermatologist?
Hi yall I’m a female age 30, history of acne and PCOS this is why I have a established dermatologist. I have this dot/freckle idk on the inner most part of my right ring finger🤷🏽♀️ I did notice it a few months ago and it started off as a light brown dot, I did ignore it because it looked like the freckle/mole I have on the bottom of one of my toes. But I recently noticed it is now a dark brown almost black dot and it is slightly bigger and not completely flat. By that I mean if I rub my finger I can feel it and if I move my hand like this ->🫲🏼 it’s slightly raised but not a lot. Should I give it a few more weeks and call my derm? Or will I be okay waiting until February for my follow up?
Wasn’t sure if I had to NSFW the pic 😬
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2024.11.28 05:40 TheKindlyPoltergeist How do I (30+) respect my mother (60) when her requests regarding my relationship with my girlfriend (30) are out of line and borderline creepy?
Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 6 months now and she is great very understanding, goofy, nerdy, fun, and extremely adorable. Things are great between us expect for the problems we have getting time to see each other and getting some alone time together. I currently don't drive this was due to a medical issue that's no longer problem so I'm in the process of getting my driver's license. I also am currently living at home because I'm going back to school so I had to cut my hours at work way back and living at home is much cheaper.
My parents in the beginning were great taking me to see her every other week. But slowly this has started to be a drain on them, so I'm useing my money to Uber my way to her place and then they will pick me up at her place to split the difference. ( My mother is unhappy about this agreement because she feels it's a waste of money) I have offered multiple times to Uber both to and back home but I get told that " Uber won't take you 30 miles after 9pm" and other similar things. My mother would rather I not Uber and go back to just relying on them for rides. This would be great expect for every time I tell my mother about my date plans she gets angery and says she has stuff that needs done around the house or has stuff she wants to do and that I'm being selfish for wanting to see her at least every other week.
Here's the big problem all this could be mostly solved if I could just stay at my girlfriends overnight. She also lives with her parents and is going back to school as well. we have talked to her parents and they could honestly care less if I spent the night or even the weekend. They think it's awesome "that their daughter has a good man in her life". The only problem with this plan is the mere mention of me spending the night at my girlfriends house sends my mother in to an angry frenzy that rivals a volcano. My girlfriend has multiple times asked me if I could please stay the night with her and every time I have caved to my mother. Honestly I don't know why my girlfriend puts up with it. Further my mom will not let my girlfriend stay at my place.
I honestly love and respect my mom and it hurts to see her get to so worked up about this. At the same time I feel like I'm letting down my girlfriend by refusing to spend the night with her and constantly canceling planned dates out of guilt. I'm at a loss for what to do in this because I'm developing extremely long term feelings for my girlfriend and would love to have a life with her.
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2024.11.28 05:40 Minute_Switch2509 Yami Gautam
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2024.11.28 05:40 badcatxxxo What’s the anime arc you enjoyed that everyone hates on?
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2024.11.28 05:40 Longjumping_Draw8060 How do I make friends as an adult?
I’m a 29 F. I am struggling lately of feeling like I have minimal to no friends. I moved out of my most recent town because of a divorce. I know I willingly chose to leave but to be fair the friends I had in my old town I also didn’t see much either. Lately though, I’ve been feeling pretty alone and unsure where to start with building friendships. Where do I start? Where do I look? The town I live jn now is fairly small (around 15,000) so I’m feeling at a loss with not knowing a starting point.
Any suggestions on how to make friends as an adult?
To add: I know making friends typically happens with co workers (and it’s worked for me in the past) but all of my co workers are remote in other cities so making a genuine friendship with them is out of the question.
Thanks all
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2024.11.28 05:40 Rops1423 Ask I want for Christmas!
All I want for Christmas is Toradora back on Netflix, so I don't have to sail the seven seas for the Christmas rematch. (Good luck singing this)
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2024.11.28 05:40 EddOfSpades WOWW my game can look like this but it decides to rain every second of everyday.
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2024.11.28 05:40 sars-666 ...
HELLO I have been experiencing strange things psychologically for 3 years. I'm hallucinating someone I lost. Even though it's strange, the days I don't see him I feel very unhappy. Sometimes he even told me to commit suicide. Even though I didn't do this, it hurt me more spiritually, especially when I was depressed. Sometimes he is a very nice person and understands my mistakes. To get rid of him, I start not thinking about him for a while, but then I miss him and become even more unhappy. I don't think this is Schizophrenia or multiple personality disorder. I once dreamed of him and when I woke up my nose was bleeding. I think this is a sign that the brain is overworked. I don't know But I still see him, especially when I'm alone
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2024.11.28 05:40 Vaught2132 Professor Izuku travels in time
Let's say he dies by chance, now back in his younger self he tries not to expose himself as a time traveler to his classmates (failure from day one)
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2024.11.28 05:40 denrickmallu36 Couples here looking for female
Kochi. Couples here for online fun
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2024.11.28 05:40 OMG_WHY_ME Process of Making a Handmade Rosewood Fountain Pen[Makers sound][male][11:45]
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2024.11.28 05:40 Just_Chill_Yaar A movie With the Saddest Climax in Indian Film History, 21 years apart to Kal Ho Na Ho...!! Your Views on This movie Guys??
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2024.11.28 05:40 dop3scum Ampeg vh140/marshall valvestate model
Would it be possible to have a ampeg vh140 or Marshall valvestate capture on this? If so would any of you be willing to drop it? Been debating on getting this pedal but I’m a 90s death metal nerd so lmfao
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