Anxious attachment (me)and avoidant attachment

2024.11.30 02:37 Direct-Drop7910 Anxious attachment (me)and avoidant attachment

So i can describe myself as i have anxious attachment and the person I'm wit has a anxious attachment Ima start this backwards so just recently i started seeing this avoidance attachment side of her the girl I'm with has a kid is 22 and just got out of 6 year relationship where i feel like she gave a lot and received the bare minimum I also feel like they trama bonded and the similarities between them causes them to be together for so long so long story short we met at work i was engangles wit a girl that had no feelings for me she lied to me and much more but i tried to help her a lot but after a lot of talks from the new girl i finally ended it i started wit me taking her to work and talking she lives wit her baby dad at the beginning but we still hung out her and the bd were on bad terms after him cheatting and putting his hands on her she finally moved out after moving out me and her had sex as friends at this time i was still entangled i made her feel like shit at the time but i didn't meant too her situation was too much at the time and i didn't really trust her move fowardto when i cut her off i started being closer to the new girl started to trust her started to fall in love the more we hung out she slept over a lot we were still co workers at the time fast forward again i got fired she still working there for like a month after me for some more context her mom lived right next to the job we worked at allowing her to be able to work so when she stopped working at the job which was 45 min away btw and she doesn't have a car or nothing she started going crazy in her head with no one being able to watch her baby and her inability to work triggered her avoidant characteristics she started to want to be away from me more telling me she wants space not wanting physical affection and i didn't understand till i did its overwhelming she still said she loves me a lot but she's not in a position to give me enegery ik how things can be when she's in a good place so i want to stick it out but then she tells me things like i might be too fucked up for her and she doesn't get why i want to help so much she says things like i still deal wit my baby dad which isn't a problem theyre actually doing a decent job co parenting other then the fact he has low income and low problem solving skills and that i have to focus on myself but i like the dynamic at the same time because of my issues i need to learn to be alone so her giving me spave but also being there gives me my time to heal also she had a bad a pregnancy bad relationships and bad parents I just want to show her that there is more to life but the list i have to deal wit is being ok with not being priority her kid and her dad is Depending on the situation her not being able to be spontaneous and our opposite attachment styles I want to stay wit her and i love her but i just wonder if the happiness at the end is even gonna be real or fake I can plan and forsee a future all i want but i don't get listened too all the time because of the things tieing her down i love the kid too yk but I'm not the dad she also has his name tatted on the back of her neck its just a lot and idk because i love her but in the end will she listen to me will it work out after we both heal with time is the return on investment real or just imagination I don't know at all
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2024.11.30 02:37 PretStill5 Advice for rescued neighborhood stray who will now be fully indoors

I finally captured the tiny stray tabby who has been coming to my apartment door for food for months. She started running toward me in the last few days when I came home so I seized the moment to gently trap her in a cat carrier and get her out of the freezing rain. She's been sequestered in my large bathroom with litter, food and water so as to gently get her accustomed to the smell of other cats in the house. I did get her to the vet this morning- no microchip but she is a spayed female about 2 years old, no FeLV, no fleas, no parasites and now fully vaccinated. As of now she mostly just looks terrified and hides behind the toilet. She does eat and drink and use the litter when I'm not in the room with her. She doesn't growl, doesn't bite or scratch but just seems petrified when I'm close to her. I'd love to find ways to have her come to trust me and eventually start mixing in with the other cats in the house. I plan to keep her unless a perfect re-homing option comes along. She's had a hard enough life to be shuffled around shelters at this point. I've adopted a lot of cats in my life but never gotten one so scared to be around people. She's so little, just 8 pounds, I want to make her feel safe. What can I do to help patiently bring her around?
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2024.11.30 02:37 UpperSupport9 Brought sauce to the in-laws

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2024.11.30 02:37 Pretend_Flamingo3276 how do i sign out on a previous generation console?

ive seen this posted multiple times but still cant seem to find a solution.
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2024.11.30 02:37 Knightbear49 [Highlight] Naz Reid chase down block leads to a DiVincenzo 3 on the other end

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2024.11.30 02:37 PuzzleheadedEbb5461 can someone help me make a remake for asdf movie 0?

https://youtu.be/7on431S39MU?si=YpdEOiPvjWnrvYUG heres your script
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2024.11.30 02:37 Brave-Quality-2538 Saca tudo agora da corretora!

Saca tudo já, galera!
O Banco Central tá vindo com força, agora querendo regular corretoras e até proibir autocustódia de stablecoins. Tá claro o que eles querem: controle total do mercado. Hoje é stablecoin, amanhã é Bitcoin. Não tem erro, o governo sempre vai tentar meter a mão onde não é chamado.
Por que isso é sério? 1. Quando você deixa seus BTC em corretoras, eles não são seus. São da corretora, e elas obedecem o governo, simples assim. 2. O BC tá se aproximando cada vez mais desse mercado com desculpa de “regular”, mas a gente sabe que o objetivo é vigiar e limitar a liberdade que o Bitcoin proporciona. 3. A história tá cheia de exemplos: começa com “regulação” e termina com confisco. Tá achando que eles não fariam isso? Acorda, o Brasil é especialista nisso.
Autocustódia ou nada. A frase é clara: “Not your keys, not your coins.” Se você não tem as chaves privadas, o Bitcoin NÃO é seu. Sai dessa de confiar em corretoras. Usa uma carteira decente e garante que você tá fora da mira desses burocratas.
Agora é o momento. Saca tudo antes que seja tarde demais.
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Even Butler said to RJ that it wasn't a foul lmfao, they went on a run following that call so that's just great
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2024.11.30 02:37 ClayDrawz How to come up with ideas

So I recently got a laptop, and I wanted to start writing a fictional story with my own idea. I’ve been told my writing skills have always been pretty good, but only when I had a set thing to write and could change the style. I don’t know how to come up with ideas because I’m not creative at all considering I can’t imagine and picture things. Does anyone with that same issue have some sort of strategy they use to cook up their ideas?
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2024.11.30 02:37 Nitro-XFLAME Is Absolute Batman inspired by Guts from Berserk?

I felt as soon as I started reading he shares a lot of similarities to Spider-Man and Guts. Kind of like a merge of the 3 which merge so well. I found these similarities while reading: -The Battle Axe to me feels very Dragon Slayer like -The height, weight and frame are very similar -The rage and drive, very animalistic -In the first comic where he beats 100 or so of the Party Animals with ease it reminds me a lot of Guts when he beat 100 men when he was with the Band of the Hawks. -General brutality and use of melee -The spiked Armour is a little more obvious
Might not be true and some of these sound reaching, at the end of the day both Batman and Guts are badass human characters so they’re likely to have some similarities but I can’t be the only one to think it surely. Also I feel like the Spider-Man similarities are a little more obvious and have already been stated so I don’t need to go into it. Am I the only one?
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2024.11.30 02:37 Eurim Desk Mat Recommendations

I have a standing desk. My workable space if I want to avoid the charging pad, the workable space is 42in wide and 20 inches deep. Any good recommendations on sizes for my desk?
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2024.11.30 02:37 Vexed_Ganker Best company to get custom built top-end computers

Hello I'm planning on getting a business loan soon and want to spend 20,000 on some serious hopefully Server grade custom hardware. What company do you recommend I have build these devices for me. They will be used for everything but Artificial intelligence is the main workload. Game Dev, animation, and everything else. Any recommendations?
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2024.11.30 02:37 CrystalDragoon-4 Question, regarding the Clear Cobalt Drake.

So I purchased one from a seller in Japan. Can people already purchase the bey by exchanging the code at stores in Japan. Or are they not in stock yet.
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