Daughter Reconnecting with Father After 28 Years of Estrangement: Mother Brainwashed us Against Him.
2024.12.01 01:51 Randy_Giles1880 Daughter Reconnecting with Father After 28 Years of Estrangement: Mother Brainwashed us Against Him.
I’m reaching out to get some insights from others who might have experienced similar situations, or from fathers who have reconnected with their children after a long estrangement. I’m hoping to hear about the emotional journey from both sides those who’ve been estranged and those who’ve been absent for years, especially fathers.
A bit of background: I’m 32 and recently began talking to my father again after 28 years of no contact. My mother told me my father was sexually abusive, and when I was growing up, she told my sister lie about being molested. I believed her and thought he was the worst kind of person. Recently, my sister came to me and told me that she didn’t experience any of that and that our mother’s version of events wasn’t true. My mother is a toxic, true narcissist, and a compulsive liar. She has mistreated me my whole life. I say this so it wasn’t hard to believe. My sister had already reconnected with him about six years ago. I’m guessing she kept it from me because of guilt. He had reached out to me before at 22. My sister could have told me then. She reached out him he after the death of my step dad.
I’ve recently started talking to my father too, and he’s been nothing but kind and positive completely different from the person my mother described. Incredibly intelligent and he has 50 pounds of court documents he held onto. He also was never convicted of this. He’s even told me that having us back in his life has been his dream for years, and he’s so excited to be reconnected.
I’m struggling to understand how my father can feel so strongly after being absent for so long. From my perspective, he feels like a stranger, and I’m overwhelmed by how to rebuild a relationship with someone I don’t really know anymore. But he seems so thrilled, and I want to understand his feelings more
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