How should I go about this

2025.01.19 06:20 Queenoftheunderdark How should I go about this

Hi Reddit! So I 20F and my boyfriend 21M have been together for almost five months and we’re starting to encounter some problems. So let me just start off by saying my boyfriend and I have known each other since we were little. We were really good friends to high school where we kinda grew apart and lost touch. We rekindled our friendship back in the summer and started dating about a month after doing so. There was always feelings between us for many years but there was always something in the way. At the start of our relationship he was very talkative and always very supportive of me. We would talk for hours say good morning all the things you do during the honeymoon phase. But in the last month he’s started to pull away from me. He started responding to me less and less, he stopped initiating conversations, and he honestly started to seem really annoyed when talking to me. I thought it was due to work related stress and the long distance we’ve been doing since he has a job in another state right now. I wasn’t going to press him about it until he flat out started to ignore me for entire days. It came to a point where I couldn’t take it anymore and I had a conversation with him over the phone telling him how I feel and how his actions have been hurting me. He said he’d change and he’d fix things. He hasn’t. I talked to him about it 3 days after that initial conversation because I really don’t want to lose him and his actions have really been hurting me and he said the same thing once again. I’m a very optimistic person and I always give everyone the benefit of the doubt so I thought maybe work is really hard for him right now or whatever. I chose not to keep pressing the issue because I don’t want to keep begging and pleading but I just really don’t know what to do anymore. He claims he’ll keep my feelings in mind and he’ll work on it but he hasn’t done anything I asked. What I asked was he says good morning good night and a little text in the middle of the day to check up or just talk for a minute nothing too crazy. But still nothing. I decided I’d try and talk about it once more again last night and let’s just say that conversation hurt me even more than I thought. He told me I’m not interesting to him anymore and we both have different ways of doing things. He also told me I’m more laid back while he’s very driven to get what he wants. Now for background my boyfriend is very independent and has the avoidant attachment style. I on the other hand have really bad anxiety issues due to how I was treated in high school. I also have the anxious attachment style I’ve been working on healing. I suggested tonight that maybe until he comes back from his work we find something we want the other person to work on. So for example say he wants me to work on getting out of the house more and making new friends. I’d do that and see where we are with it when he comes home middle of February. I thought it would be a good way to maybe solve some issues we have with the other and hopes to fix the rift we have. He said he was down for the idea. We haven’t talked about what we want from it yet but I really want him to try and put more effort and communication in with me. Personally I’m not sure if this is a fantastic idea but I’m trying everything to fix some issues we have. Please any advice you guys have would be greatly appreciated. I really want to fix the rough spot we’re in and improve the relationship because i genuinely see a future with this man.
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2025.01.19 06:20 xoarku My voice sounds really weird..

Hey everyone! I’ve been recently noticing that my voice sounds really weird on video, could someone just help me out? I have a pop filter on a blue yeti mic, so I don’t think that’s an issue. I also have braces, which could be affecting it. Thank you!!
(Channel linked in profile btw)
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2025.01.19 06:20 yt-app New IRONMOUSE VODS Upload: Ironmouse Plays Schoolboy Runaway (Part 2)

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2025.01.19 06:20 tortiegenes the oye is my new muse

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2025.01.19 06:20 filo604 Task Scams - Online Hotel Reviews / Please Stay Away at all Cost

I feel like I need to share this because I have nowhere else to vent, and I can't believe how foolish I was for falling for this scam. So, I was contacted by someone on WhatsApp about doing hotel reviews through a platform called Guestline. The idea was simple: complete a certain number of tasks, and you'd earn money through compounding interest as you did more tasks.
At first, everything seemed legitimate. I completed a few tasks, and then I saw some funds credited to my account. They then asked me to open a crypto platform to transfer my earnings. But as I kept going, things started to take a turn. They introduced what they called "grand orders"—large tasks that put my account into a negative balance. At that point, they asked me to deposit my own money to fulfill those orders.
Once I did that, I tried to withdraw my funds, but the process was a complete nightmare. I made a mistake during the withdrawal, and they told me I had messed up and would need to "upgrade" to the next level. Stupidly, I thought that upgrading would help me get my money back, but that just led to another obstacle.
They made it seem like they were helping me, but in reality, they were just setting up roadblocks at every turn. They even added me to chat groups, making me feel like I was part of a community of people in the same situation—though I now suspect those "people" may have been the same individuals running the scam, pretending to be others.
Long story short, please don't make the same mistake I did. I know there's no way to recover my funds, but I'm hoping this serves as a warning to anyone else out there who might be tempted by the promise of easy money. There’s no such thing. If anyone has any advice on how to recover funds from something like this, I’d appreciate it, but I’ve come to terms with the fact that I probably won’t be getting my money back.
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2025.01.19 06:20 Unusual-Ad-5574 Something i didn't get in the series...

We see bodies of holston, his wife and others through sensor...but when Jules go out and we see the real world there aren't any bodies on the cliff...so did they die or went to some place else? And also as i remember when Holston went to clean he didn't see any bodies he just saw nature...so what is with that? cause when jules come to silo 17 there remains are their but those who wnet to clean from silo 18 aren't there?
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2025.01.19 06:20 Mermaid_Martini Correct me from wrong but the best AITA moment is ********* stealing ******’s *******

It’s a storyline that has kept me torn for years on end. Who was really the asshole here: gabi for stealing Susan’s wedding date and a lot of her details? or Susan for pretending that she could just change the name of the groom and go on with her original wedding?
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2025.01.19 06:20 Deceptivejunk Take Everything

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2025.01.19 06:20 Gold_Cream7461 Dard struggles of future second gen lawyer (whom no one talking about)

Okay I prefer ballb/law cause of my father as I opted for humanities and my first choice is to be in mass media like yeah mass media but my parents told me that there would be so much struggle like struggle like hell and even acknowledge the one who is in mass media they be like yeah it's not easy to find job! So I decided to go with ballb /law field! Now the here the thing is my father is an advocate in High Court of Our State. So Everyone thinks wah bhai iske liye toh easy hai hoga par nahi here the twist is my father give lecture to one normal topic in 2-3 hours like seriously bhaai, that's why I always think to ask him anything like anything, and sometimes when I decided puch lo bhai wrna ni puchenge toh uske liye bhi bolenge he, so it's even a problem like hell problematic relationship between me and my father, okay so one example - i opted for legal studies yeah socha clat k perspective se acha rhega so opted for it , jis din boards tha papa he drop krne gaye the so in the car maine socha legal h puchu kya ek do sawal , maine puch liya kuch kuch , bataye bhi lambe sabd me, phir aise he mens rea ke bare me baat aaya and he be like yh kya h woh kya hai bla bla, like bhai it's a new word bruh unhe kaun samjhaye mood bigaad diye !! The main thing is problematic relationship m ni hai mere papa k thinking me hai whi ghisa pita soch -- actually har advocate k bacho k sath yh mostly hota hai if you are 2nd gen that ballb is just a degree, degree lo and just judiciary ke exams m lag jaao! Like bhai pehle mai decide kru mere liye kya best h ? But ni just judiciary ke liye lag jaao !! Mere yh adv dost ke bache taiyari kr rhe h judiciary k woh bache kr rhe hai, bhai sb adv k bache ka mann judiciary m kaise h bhai 😭??? And the thing is my mummy always explain me papa ki baatein and she be like judiciary krogi toh thora acha bhi aayega papa would push you in kisi k help se kitne judges se papa ka contact h yh h woh hai, like par agar sb adv same bol rhe h apne bache ko toh sbka toh ni hojayega na😭🙏🏻 Okay mera yh first drop tha and ise pehle maine ek bar bhi clat ni diya so, i just take drop within 2 months my papa be like my colleague is getting admission of his daughter in colleges of noida as she hasn't cleared the clat exam and bla bla exams and she is from renowned school but for me it isn't as sbse faaltu ladkiya ussi se jaani jati thi state me, par hatao I be like papa uska ni hua toh mera bhi ni hoga yh kaha ka dimag , hogaya toh, and guess what during Convo my papa is even be like woh bhi apne beti ko judiciary ka taiyari krwayengey, like bhaai mujhe uske liye Bura lagrha tha same haal mere jaisa he hai and even she be like is bar ni lene do drop par his papa be like naah degree hai bus ! Maine mana krdiya usme bhi mere papa mese khush ni the par even me not ready to be in Noida and in this year only not in physical and mentally terms, so i rejected the proposal, and shayad uska hua yah ni hua ni idea hai. And yeah usko noida isliye bheja ja rha tha as uske bhaiya waha job krtey the aur mujhe isliye bheja ja rha tha cause woh ja rhi thi do log sath m rhenge better rhega aane jaane m issue ni hoga like seriously?? Maine dusre college bhi dikhaye alg alg jagh k papa rejected it ki ni noida ka dekho ! So yaha baatein khtm ni hoti, mere papa always be like likhne ka practice kro arey krtey h par kitna krey omr ka exam h🥰par papa ko kaun samjhaye, ek time my papa be like tumse ni hoga tum ni kar paaoge likhna padhna tumse ni hoga like wow and mera jo interest tha aise down krdiye 😭🙏🏻 and phir kabhi kabhi papa be like tumko kya karna h law k baat and I belike abhi kya idea lagau usme bhi drame bc, I be like corporate, judiciary, legal journalism, banking sb bak Diya 🥰and here my papa be like tumhara corporate first option hai like wtf bhai mujhe thore na pata tha first second Krna h 🤯 isme bhi drame chaprasi banna hai and I be like laakho m koi kharidega toh why not apne aap ko bolli, papa phir mahatavya samjhaye judiciary ka 🥰🥰 Even my papa friend jo ab adv se judge hogaye h unki beti jo abhi 7-8 class hogi bc woh judiciary k taiyari me lag gyi h apne papa ko dekh ke 🥰🙏🏻 like wow sb adv judge ka bacha judiciary me he jayega mtlb kya h bhaai 🥸🙏🏻 Even us time mere papa ko unke colleague gyan de rhe the ki arey yh judge k bache Amity m padhtey h apne he state ke, like kaun judge h bhai amity woh bhi mere state k bhadde college m padha rha, mere papa tumhara admission krwa detey judiciary he toh Krna h 🤯 like woh judge k bache h bakchodi bhi krenge toh no worries aur kaun boldiya meko bhi milaow aise judge k bacho se mai bhi puchu kyu bhaiya didi here studying 🥰 Jindal seh bhi sktey but judge k bache Amity aur mai noida ya bangalore ki baatein ni kr rhi hu, so no argues. Okay one more thing my bade papa is having llb degree from cnlu so still he is a tutor in Delhi and doing some roughly work in courts, so my papa be like degree se kuch ni hota taiyari se hota like wtf papa bade papa shyd he class kiye honge 🥸🙏🏻 THE THING IS BEING A SECOND GEN LAWYER EVERYONE WOULD FORCE YOU TO BE IN JUDICIARY NO MATTER WHAT LIKE EK ADV TOH H HE EK JUDGE HOJAYE GALAT KUCH NI HAI , NEPOTISM IDHR BHI CHALTA HE HOGA I REALLY DON'T KNOW ABOUT BUT YEAH JUDICIARY M GALAT KUCH NI HAI BUT WITHOUT MAKING KID FIGURING OUT IS JUST A DAMN SHIT. BUS EK DEGREE HAI COMPLETE KRLO KAHI SE BHI APNE STATE SE HE , YHI PARENTS GALTI KRTE HAI MOSTLY AB WHAT IF AAPKA STATE ITNA PRIVILEGE NI HAI KI DHANG K INTERNSHIP DHANG KA NAAM TK NI H BAHAR AND WHAT IF JUDICIARY NI NIKLA TOH PHIR JO AAPKE UPAR HAI UNKE UNDER KAAM KARO, AND I LITERALLY DON'T WANT TO WORK UNDER MY PAPA. PHIR AAP BAITH RHE HO TOH SHADI KI BAAT IF LADKI HO TOH LADKE HO TOH KRO UNDER M JUNIOR LAWYER BANKE AUR TAANE BHI SUNO, ADVOCATE JUDGE PARENTS DON'T WANT TO SEE THEIR KIDS IN STRUGGLE KOI BHI PARENTS NI DEKHNA CHHATA PAR YHI SE STRUGGLE SURU HOJATA HAI !! KOI BACHE K PASS CV RESUME GHANTA KUCH NI HAI BAHAR JAAKE BHI JOB NI MILEGA! I RESPECT MY PAPA AND ALL THE ADVOCATES AND JUDGES UNHONE APNE TIME P STRUGGLE KIYA BUT SAME HAMLOG KO NI DEKHNA CHAHTEY STRUGGLE ME BUT USSI ME BCHE KO FORCE KRNA IS JUST A SHIT BHAI ! AND LITERALLY MUJHE JUDICIARY M JAANA THA BUT ITNA SOCH K AB CHIDH MACHTA HAI, and Sir Shubash sir m jo bhi judge ki is just a fuckinn damn thing, and I'm so sad about that mai is jis ka part banna chahti hu ya what !! Here the clause is my papa wapas forcing me to take admission in bla bla college pvt college hai as it's just a degree 2024-25 session m admission mil rha h so lelo degree he h 🥰🙏🏻 and here I be like sala 5 sal baad judiciary ni nikla ghr m baith gayi phir kya , phir toh shaadi k drame bc krenge and here my plan is be like dilaao paise zyda h toh 🙂‍↕️ krwa dijeye Mummy se Convo krti if hua bahar jaayegi mai phir yh ni paise lag gaye yh woh lag gaye isliye soch k aur sala uske liye bhi mai he daur rhi jisme no interest hai 🥰🙏🏻 And here one more last thing - acc to my papa research 2nd gen lawyer jaldi clat clear ni kr paatey and na bhi krey toh kya karna toh judiciary he h 🥰🙏🏻 And yeah, mere papa even be like beta abi paise h thore more baad m woh bhi ayenge haayein isn't it experience k sath paise badtey h, and mere papa k pass pvt m paise lagane k liye h lekin if hogaya govt toh paise khtm hojayenge 🥰🙏🏻 As kahi bhi jaao h toh Krna judiciary like judiciary teri maa ki toh👹 chalo htao yh h struggle 2nd gen lawyer k and sbke he h bhai mere experience k sath sbke experience saamil bc 🥸🙏🏻🫡
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2025.01.19 06:20 LiViNgDeAd_CrEaTuRe Panic attacks that make you experience the symptoms you fear?

Does anyone else experience panic attacks from illness/health OCD that make you physically feel the symptoms of your feared condition? I have a healing cut on my finger and the scab is kind of itchy. Started spiraling about infection and had a panic attack. Suddenly my entire hand was itching and burning, hot to the touch, and my wrist hurt. Scratching it turned the whole side of my finger red which only sent me further. This only started with the panic attack. I’ve had this happen with other things, such as fear of getting sick and experiencing chills, headache, and intense urge to cough. This was my worst by far and I’m still struggling with it at the moment.
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2025.01.19 06:20 Thoughtfullguy Am I an asshole for telling my bf don’t like hearing about the meaning of the things he dreamed about ?

My boyfriend [M28] it’s a lot into telling me [M31] about the things he dream of and stuff about lucid dreams, their meaning and astral projection stuff and how incredible experiences they are, I barely remember the things I dream about and it’s not like I’m really interested in that info, tbh I don’t know much about that topic and he gets mad when I say I’m uncomfortable talking or hearing about them, I’m more into evidence stuff and reality, so hearing about his dreams and how much they mean to him really annoys me since I consider them just fantasy and not a useful thing to spend time talking about, am I selfish for telling him how I feel?
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2025.01.19 06:20 Used_Geologist_7622 Anyone else having conflicts with this specific Post Office?

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2025.01.19 06:20 Boring_Evening5709 F*ckin finally

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2025.01.19 06:20 sars-ncov-3 Modded cutscene: Durge redemption

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