Geld zurückfordern oder so stehen lassen (Umzugsfrage)?
2025.01.20 07:49 lindoland Geld zurückfordern oder so stehen lassen (Umzugsfrage)?
Hallo.
Vllt hat der ein oder andere meine Umzugsfrage letztens verfolgt. Es ging um den Umzug einer Freundin mit ihrem Freund zusammen, die beim letzten Umzug keine Verpflegung bereitgestellt hatte und nur ein lapidares, dahingesagtes Danke im Gegenzug hatte.
Der Umzug ist nun erledigt. Wir haben vorher gemeint, dass er morgens arbeiten ist und ich mich um den Hund kümmern muss bzw ihn nicht so lange alleine lassen will und wir dann ab Mittag / Nachmittag helfen können und es ja dann sinnvoll wäre, wenn wir an der neuen Wohnung einfach beim Ausladen hülfen.
Es kam dann zurück, dass sie wohl eh genug Leute seien mit ca. 15 Personen. Sie fragte mich dann - paradoxerweise - ob ich mich nicht um die Verpflegung kümmern könnte und ein paar belegte Brote oder so vorbeibringen könnte.
Ja, kein Ding, kein Problem. Ich meinte dann, ich stelle was zusammen, Aufbackbrezeln, Dips, kleine Schnitzel, Frikadellen, Trauben-Käse-Spieße, Waffeln gebacken, Obst... Also wie so ein kleines Buffet, bei sowas lasse ich mich ja nicht lumpen und für 15 Leute und 1 Tag Umzug fand ich belegte Brote etwas wenig und ich glaube, die meisten freuten sich auch darüber, dass es 'was vernünftiges (Schnitzel, Frikadellen, Aufbackbrezeln...)' gab.
Nun gut, ausgegeben habe ich ca. 40 Euro. Ich muss dazu sagen, ich bin diesen Monat knapp bei Kasse.
Von ihr kam zwar ein Danke, von allen anderen auch, aber gefragt, ob bzw was ich wiederbekomme geldtechnisch, hat sie von sich aus nicht. Sollte ich also fragen / ihr mitteilen, dass ich das Geld gerne wieder hätte oder ist das 'frech', da ja alle ihre Kosten durch bspw. Hin-und-Her- Fahrerei hatten?
Soll ich vllt auch warten, ob es diesmal ein Dankeschön -Grillen / Essen oder eine Einweihungsfeier gibt oder so?
Bin überfragt, will nicht frech sein, hab das gerne gemacht, aber wie gesagt - 40 Euro tun diesen Monat schon etwas weh und wenn ich jemanden beauftrage, die Versorgung zu machen, würde ich es auch zurückzahlen und von mir aus fragen.
Was meint ihr dazu?
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So we know Legends ZA comes out this year, now I originally thought we should expect it in November due to that usually being the time Pokémon games release
But this is also a Legends game and the last Legends game came out in January not November
But if it was gonna release in January we’d have had trailers and more Info by now
And Amazon says the release date is in August but we know that’s a placeholder date and the last time we saw a placeholder date was during the Indigo disk where it said April 2024
So that was a 4-5 months difference so I’m thinking the game could potentially if not be released in November perhaps April?
Maybe Legends games will come up earlier in the year they release
Also there have been rumors by leakers, YouTuber and whatnot that we’re getting a game for the Switch 2 that is slated for a late November early January release which is rumored to be a Unova game
Now I’m not placing my bet on this Unova game being announced as it seems they skipped over
But without any new content to hold us over till a potential November release I’m just not sure how that’ll work
While the raids are fun, once ya defeated enough pokemon and got your insane amount of shinies their not much keeping ya playing
Sorry to ramble my main point is do you think there may be a chance the game will release earlier in the year or do you think a November release is set in stone
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I want to start by saying where I live the drugs involved are either legal, or decriminalized and moving towards legalization.
I have SDAM, aphantasia, adhd, and severely diminished voluntary recall. All in all I feel more akin to a robot at times then a man. Studying the world around me, knowing it will all be turned into facts and figures that some associative recall might one day pull out for use.
I only recently learned that my dreams have a visual element, because the moment I wake up if I recall them at all it's just data... it tool a very disturbing visual element to actually break through.
With that little preamble into the state of my cognition, let's get into the topic. So I grew up "straight edge"... I really didn't want to touch drugs, even alcohol. It wasn't until my mid twenties that I started drinking (when 19 was legal), and even then it has always been infrequent.
I moved away to countries where most recreational drugs are completely illegal, only to return home a decade later to legalized weed. I decided to give it a shot, and it was pleasurable, but really had no effect on my unusual cognition.
Finally I went to another city and saw a mushroom shop. I'd been interested in hallucinogens for a long time, wondering if they might really work given all my issues... I first tried some off the shelf edibles, and I can say the high was something else... easily becoming a favorite for my wife and I, but the closest I ever got to visual imagery was distorted colours or shifting textures... while it felt great I was disappointed.
Finally a couple nights ago I tried a different strain... and it was overwhelming. Everything unlocked. I was reliving memories (fairly fresh ones only) as if i was there, my eyes were closed yet it was as if they were open in other times... past and present were indistinguishable, and memories vividly recalled as if reliving them.
Has anyone else had experiences of their own?
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2025.01.20 07:49 mazdorati My aunt wants me dependent on her so I won't leave.
Throwaway since family has Reddit.
In late 2023, I became sick, and my aunt brought me to live with her out of state for medical care. While I appreciated her all of her support during my time in the hospital, I began to notice how controlling she would be: delaying my discharge (even refusing outpatient options) because she "didn't want to be a caregiver", overriding my decisions with doctors, using very private information I'd confided in her about against me to get her way and abusing her role as a social worker to gain influence over what medications I took. To the medical staff and to the family, she was the doting, caring aunt that was there for me, which I don't 100% disagree with.
After being discharged 4 months later, I found out I’d lost my apartment, credit, car, and had a lot of debt. I also learned about a large inheritance from my grandfather that my aunt was managing, which she only would only give me in small amounts to pay bills, refusing to help me save my car from repossession. So, I lost my car. She was ok with me filing for bankruptcy if it came to that (which I was not). I also owed thousands of dollars to my property manager due to my sister coming to clear out my apartment weeks after my lease ended and leaving it trashed. My aunt said I could live with her for "as long as I needed to", but had no plans for me and disregarded the plans I tried to make for myself to get back on my feet, like getting a job.
As I worked to rebuild my life and pay off debt, she did offer support—integrating me into her network and having them invite me social activities and drive me to medical appointments, allowing me to stay rent free and was involved in knowing my day to day—but she was still low key controlling. When I got the best job I could find, her ex husband happily lent me his extra car so I could make the long commute each day. Despite this, she repeatedly threatened to take back the car. She would guilt trip me or block efforts to assert my independence. I wasn't even allowed to fly out of state to retrieve my belongings, but at the same time she felt I "should at least see what's there and take back what you want." ???
If there were disputes I was dealing with, she'd side with me to my face, but behind my back she would build a relationship with that same person. I started to notice if she could get an emotional reaction out of me on a particular topic, she'd use that as gossip fodder to other family members and speak on my behalf on decisions I would try to make for myself. If I showed legitimate concern about things like my credit score or talk about how some of the family has treated me, she'd tell me to take a pill or that I was imagining things. After all that, I started to gray rock her and limit what I would share with her, which I don't think she liked.
I was fortunate to find a better paying job, ironically at the same place her daughter works, but it was cut short right before the holidays, which she knew was a huge blow. Despite that, I was still actively interviewing the whole time I started back working and after I got let go. When I asked for the remainder and an accounting of my inheritance, her stories would constantly change and so would the amounts. I also found out she was giving other family members my money behind my back, but she was framing it as a necessary expense that had to do with my bills. When I asked why she made those decisions, she would dig her heels in and basically said she was justified for doing it. To this day, I still don't know how much exactly I had or what all she spent it on outside of the Zelle's she sent me.
After all this, I feel as though she's taken advantage of my trust a lot.
The last straw was the unnecessary taking back of the car I was borrowing, which cut off my main lifeline. First the reason for taking it back was "well you aren't using it anyway because you're not working" and then it was "(Ex Husband) is too old." When I explained to her my use of the car, her ex's willingness to give it to me and offered to rent it or buy it, she agreed that her Ex was happy to lend it to me, but I still needed to give it back. She referred me to her daughter, who then demanded I give it back immediately. Her daughter essentially told me she didn't give a damn about my problems at all and she was supporting her mother, which caused a lot of tension.
So I'm stuck back at my aunt's house with nowhere to go, no job and no car.
It’s become clear that any attempts at independence are met with resistance or punishment. The problem is, I have $3,000 in bank and some of that will have to be used on means to get my belongings by the end of next month, and for uber rides. I want/need to move out, but I’m unsure how to do so without stable transportation or housing. I have to get my belongings out of state by the end of next month, and I’m actively looking for a job. How can I create a solid exit plan to leave by then? How do I conduct myself in the meantime while still living with her?
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