I think my dad's dying
2025.01.20 07:50 That-Feeling-Again I think my dad's dying
My dad's an alcoholic. He wasn't before, but he's become one since a few years ago. He behaves like an absolute monster when he's drunk. He's very rude, inconsiderate, arrogant and quite frankly insufferable. He used to be quite normal when he was not drunk, but over the past year both his personalities have started to merge. He's been acting weird even when when he's sober now..
I'm pretty sure his liver is at stage 3. His face arms and feet are swollen when he's drunk. But he won't go to a doctor because he knows what they're gonna tell him- that he must stop drinking.
Another thing is that he just doesn't listen. He feels that the doctors are stupid, and they're just trying to get his money but suggesting "stupid" things like counselling. He went to a therapist ONE time (one- 40min session), and has been avoiding going to her again... When I asked him why he's doing that, he said that he thinks she's looting her. When we nag him to go to the doctors, he always comes up with convincing excuses, and sometimes straight up says no.
His psychiatrist has prescribed him two medicines- one to reduce the alcohol craving and one to help him sleep. He avoids taking the 1st one because he wants to drink and avoids taking the 2nd pill because he wants to keep drinking till about 3am. Sometimes he takes neither and keeps drinking for 24 hrs at times.
When he's drunk, he's started saying bad things like how he's gonna miss this family and all. It's like he's preparing for his death, and like maybe wants to do some pretentious "martyrdom" act? I don't know. But this makes me feel extremely frustrated.
I love my father. He was nothing like this before. We live in the same house but it's been years since we even had a nice outing where dad isn't drunk. We're doing fine money-wise at the moment, but I still don't have a job. It'll still be a couple more years at the least.
My mother has been holding us all together but she's reaching her limit now. It's all taking a physical toll on her. My dad has ruined relations with his behaviour between both his side of the family and my mom's side. His idea of a happy family is just our nuclear family staying in a house and noone else is allowed. No relatives, no friends.nothjng. just us. He has an older brother, but even he doesn't understand the seriousness of this situation. When my dad does the 24hrs drinking sessions, we finally call his brother and he comes and pacifies the situation for the time and leaves. That's it.
I don't know if my dad's recieved some bad news regarding his health which he's not sharing with us, but he's not well. I can see that. He knows that we love him.. but his actions are such that we sometimes wonder if this man doesn't care about us, or is just plainly stupid to not listen to us and our requests.
I pray that no-one in this world has to ever deal with alcoholics in the family. Fuck alcohol.
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2025.01.20 07:50 InfantryMOD The GPA appoints contractor to deliver European weather centre
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2025.01.20 07:50 Dramatic_inception Best summer events/parties in Berlin, Amsterdam, and Spain
I'm looking to visit Berlin, Amsterdam, and Spain (current thinking is Barcelona and Madrid) this summer for the first time (June, July or August - specific dates TBC).
Ideally I want to time and sequence my travel so I am in town for any good gay/LGBTQ+ events and parties. Particular interest in any pride events, kink/fetish events, sex parties etc. I've already got Berghain/Lab on my list.
I'm wondering if anyone has any recommendations for notable events/parties during this period?
Also would appreciate advice on any particular gay/queer-focused neighborhoods - so I can keep this in mind while booking accommodation.
Appreciate any insights people can provide!
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2025.01.20 07:50 Kitbit43 I WORE HEELS FOR THE FIRST TIME!!!
So i am a closeted indian femboy and and cant come out cuz my family is conservative yk Recently they were out for some work and i found my mothers heels and decided to wear them and it just feels right idk why like i was made for them i kinda look slutty lmao :3
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2025.01.20 07:50 Crazy_Paint_5358 Psycho Bandit Account with 750 vbucks! Not going firsŧ!
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2025.01.20 07:50 LeadershipLanky9736 Unblocked talk 2 me
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2025.01.20 07:50 Deep_Syllabub7745 I’m going to hospital on Thursday
I’m just keen on some advice, I’m going to hospital on Thursday, it’s a private hospital, I’ve been asked to bring my prescribed medications, will I be okay with my medical vaporiser in the hospital? My prescribed flower is GG4 (so technically says for tea). I have a Venty (Storz and Bickel but not a Vapormed/medic, made to the same spec though), I also have a Mighty Medic (og and plus) and a volcano medic. Any advice anyone has? Cheers
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2025.01.20 07:50 Realistic-Sense9475 Is it possible to find electronics that are built to last a lifetime (BIFL)?
While most modern electronics are designed with built-in obsolescence, there are certain categories and brands where longevity is possible. However, it is crucial to define what makes these electronics worthy of the "Buy It For Life" title.
1. Music Equipment: Guitars, Tube Amps, and Analog Gear As mentioned in the original post, guitars and tube amplifiers are excellent examples of electronics that can last a lifetime. These items are often built with high-quality materials and components that can be serviced and repaired over time, making them inherently durable. For instance:
- Guitars: With proper care, a well-made guitar can last for decades or even centuries. Vintage models such as Fender Stratocasters and Gibson Les Pauls are still prized possessions, with many players choosing to invest in high-end, long-lasting instruments rather than purchasing mass-produced guitars that may wear out more quickly.
- Tube Amps: While tube amps require occasional maintenance, they are known for their durability and timeless design. Iconic brands like Marshall and Fender create amplifiers that, with the right upkeep, can perform for decades. Tube amp repair and component replacement is often relatively simple, allowing owners to maintain and extend the lifespan of their equipment.
3. High-End Audio Equipment High-fidelity (hi-fi) audio equipment, like turntables, amplifiers, and speakers, can also qualify as BIFL electronics when made with durable components. Brands such as McIntosh, Bowers & Wilkins, and Klipsch create audio equipment that not only delivers exceptional sound but is built to last for years with proper maintenance. While modern digital audio equipment can become outdated quickly, many audiophiles still value analog systems for their longevity and performance.
4. Durable Consumer Electronics: Keyboards and Mechanical Keyboards Mechanical keyboards are another example of consumer electronics that can last a lifetime. Unlike typical membrane keyboards that wear out quickly, mechanical keyboards are built with individual switches that are rated for tens of millions of keystrokes. High-quality mechanical keyboards, such as those from Keychron, Filco, or Das Keyboard, are often seen as BIFL electronics due to their superior durability, repairability, and modularity. Some users even swap out keycaps or switches to extend the lifespan of their keyboards, making them customizable and long-lasting.
5. Cameras: Professional and Vintage Film Cameras Digital cameras have become more disposable due to the rapid advancements in technology, but some professional-grade cameras and vintage film cameras can also be considered BIFL. Models like the Canon EOS-1D X or Nikon D850 are designed for heavy use and can continue to produce excellent results for years. Even older film cameras, such as Leica M-series or Nikon F-series, are highly durable and maintain their value, with many still being used by photographers worldwide.
Challenges to BIFL Electronics While certain electronics have the potential for long-term durability, it's essential to recognize the challenges in this pursuit:
- Technological Obsolescence: Rapid advances in tech, especially in fields like computing, smartphones, and consumer electronics, make it difficult for these products to remain relevant. Software updates and new features often drive consumers to upgrade.
- Repairability: For most electronics, the availability of spare parts and repair services determines their longevity. Many modern electronics are not easily repairable due to design choices that prioritize aesthetics and compactness.
- Environmental Impact: Electronics that last a lifetime often require resource-heavy manufacturing, leading to concerns about sustainability. Thus, while the longevity of these products may be desirable, it is important to also consider the environmental costs associated with their production.
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2025.01.20 07:50 aguywhogoesbyaname Should the derailleur swing freely, or is it fixed at the bracket axle (b-axle unit) on the RD-M980/M986
This derailleur didn’t come with one, so I’m installing a new one, and I can’t find ANY detailed documentation about the installation of this particular b-axle unit onto the derailleur. The technical manual shows how to take one off, but it isn’t clear about how to install it on this specific derailleur. It doesn’t even mention that it is attached with a torx bolt and retaining clip.
If I snug the torx bolt that attaches the derailleur to the b-axle, the derailleur doesn’t swing, but I was under the impression that it should.
I understand that the b-axle unit itself is secured tightly to the hangar with a 5mm hex, that there should be no gap between the tab on the hangar and the tab on the b-axle unit, and that the derailleur should be fixed securely at the hangar.
So, isn’t the derailleur supposed to swing freely at the b-axle?
Sorry if this is confusing, but please don’t guess or offer an answer unless you are 100% sure about it with this specific derailleur.
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2025.01.20 07:50 msuka1 Today ladies and gentleman we determine our future.
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2025.01.20 07:50 Advanced_Emphasis_41 Which mousepad should I get?
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2025.01.20 07:50 Low-Background-3051 Jennie
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2025.01.20 07:50 naruto-boulghour Intrigue at the Vatican
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2025.01.20 07:50 NecessaryAd5257 Makeup keeps getting on peoples shirt:(
every time i hug someone my makeup transfers to their shirt. i use setting spray before using powder, i use translucent powder, dust off, then the all nighter spray. AND STILL!! i need help guys
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2025.01.20 07:50 paper_plains Ross Coulthart Thinks You're a Dupe and Wants You to Believe Anything He Tells You
During Ross Coulthart's follow up to his News Nation special, he makes a pretty bold comment about you, the UAP community (timestamp is 12:10):
https://youtu.be/WaBVKjREg9I?si=mW-huRoTIMPAXuoW&t=730
To paraphrase, we should all take this more seriously and stop viewing it as "entertainment." I'll sidestep the fact that his shows and podcasts are, in fact, entertainment and presented as such as witnessed by the Unsolved Mysteries/Current Affair motif emulated for his latest special, as there is an even bigger glaring issue he wants you to overlook. He presented the now infamous egg shaped crash retrieval video that had no connection to Jake Baber with absolutely zero provenance or context and thinks you should just blindly believe that it's legit.
Now hear me out - I'm not saying that it is "fake," but it certainly doesn't mean it's a UAP which is a huge leap of faith to take when all we have to go on is Ross saying it is and that it was provided anonymously. There is literally no information to go along with this 10 second clip - we could literally be looking at anything, whether it is "fake" or just misidentified or an actual UAP.
First is he doesn't provide any provenance. Where did this video come from, other than an "anonymous" source? How was it vetted? What additional research was done to verify it's authenticity and the anonymous source's veracity? How was it obtained? Was it just sent to Ross in an email from an unknown sender?
And that speaks nothing of any contextual information about the clip. It literally was just thrown into the show and the audience was told it was a crash retrieval of a UAP. When was this video taken? Where was it taken? What was the circumstances of the crash and subsequent retrieval? Why is it only 10 seconds of what we can all assume is a much longer video? Where is the rest of the video? Why was it edited down to only 10 seconds? What occurred prior to the 10 second clip, and then after once it touches the ground?
Sure, it's an odd video and will make you say "hmm." But with ZERO provenance or context, it's just that - a random 10 second clip of who the hell knows what. Again - not missing some context - literally ZERO context. None. But Ross thinks you don't take this seriously and only view it as entertainment because this community questioned what we were actually looking at.
I wouldn't have as big an issue if he himself didn't hype this up as one of the biggest stories of the last century. He even retweeted Jesse Michels before the show aired who said the following:
Ross Coulthart is dropping what I suspect will be one of the most consequential news stories in the last century: a firsthand UFO whistleblower who has retrieved non-human craft
And then he has the audacity to berate the UAP community because we question it's authenticity when he provides no information to back up his own sourced 10 second clip, and follows it up with a first hand whistleblower that only provides more stories and no tangible evidence to back up his own claims? Need I remind everyone that Ross was fired from a previous journalism job because he pushed a conspiracy about a British pedophile ring claiming evidence/witnesses that turned out to be completely false that he hadn't vetted.
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2025.01.20 07:50 Draghardth_37 Any couples/dom/domme in Mumbai willing to let a submissive bi boy toy (22m) serve them?
Hey y'all I am gonna be traveling to Mumbai tomorrow and with it being my first time there I wanted to see if I could find some dominant couples of singles who would be interested in meeting up and letting me serve their bodies as the slutty submissive boy toy I am! Please hit me up if you would like to own me for a day in Mumbai hehe
Hey y'all I am gonna be traveling to Mumbai tomorrow and with it being my first time there I wanted to see if I could find some dominant couples of singles who would be interested in meeting up and letting me serve their bodies as the slutty submissive boy toy I am! Please hit me up if you would like to own me for a day in Mumbai hehe
Hey y'all I am gonna be traveling to Mumbai tomorrow and with it being my first time there I wanted to see if I could find some dominant couples of singles who would be interested in meeting up and letting me serve their bodies as the slutty submissive boy toy I am! Please hit me up if you would like to own me for a day in Mumbai hehe
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2025.01.20 07:50 bedtimeisoverrated Well that's a first
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2025.01.20 07:50 EmergingCricket [EC Article] U19 World Cup qualification a reward for Nigeria’s investment in women’s cricket
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2025.01.20 07:50 borkmaster0 Person Struck by a Train at 7 Av
6:11 PM: Northbound C, E trains are delayed while emergency teams respond to someone who was struck by a train at 7 Av.
What's Happening?
For alternate service along 8 Av, consider A, C trains.
For alternate service to Queens Plaza, consider R trains via transfer at 34 St-Herald Sq.
For alternate service to Court Sq-23 St, consider 7 shuttle buses at Queens Plaza.
What's Happening?
For alternate service along 8 Av, consider A, C trains.
You may wait longer for a northbound F train while they share tracks with rerouted trains.
Southbound E trains and D trains in both directions are delayed.
What's Happening?
For alternate service along 8 Av, consider A, C trains.
You may wait longer for a northbound F train while they share tracks with rerouted trains.
Southbound E trains are delayed.
What's Happening?
For alternate service along 8 Av, consider A, C trains.
You may wait longer for a northbound F train while they share tracks with rerouted trains.
NYPD is investigating after someone was struck by a train at 7 Av.
For service to 34 St-Herald Sq, 42 St-Bryant Pk, and 47-50 Sts-Rockefeller Ctr, take an F train.
For service from those stations to Upper Manhattan, take a southbound D, F train to 42 St-Bryant Pk and transfer to an uptown 1, A, C train.
What's Happening?
For alternate service along 8 Av, consider A, C trains.
You may wait longer for a F train while they share tracks with rerouted trains.
Northbound D trains are still running on the C line from W 4 St-Wash Sq to 59 St-Columbus Circle.
D trains have resumed making scheduled stops in both directions.
Southbound E trains have resumed making scheduled stops.
E trains have resumed making regular stops in Manhattan.
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2025.01.20 07:50 YT_Brian Random Thought - Pinocchio's Nose Type LLM?
What I mean by that is his nose, when he lies we can see that Pinocchio's nose grows as proof. My thought was to have LLMs/AI be programmed to essentially do the same thing, and trained against ever going against that showing itself without human prompting and only for a set period of time that not even human prompting can remove.
Or is that a type of thing already? Sorry if this doesn't make a lot of sense, just about 3am here with rambling thoughts.
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2025.01.20 07:50 SalesMountaineer Not too shabby!
Marley, Rio and magnificent Mount Shuksan.
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