Rebuttal to a random comment made over famous Sub(You know it)

2025.01.24 08:45 RightsForHim Rebuttal to a random comment made over famous Sub(You know it)

  1. “A girl is born into a family, she inherits the prestige and status of her father.”
    • Rebuttal:
      • Status and Prestige Are Not Exclusively Paternal: Children—regardless of gender—inherit certain socioeconomic conditions from the family as a whole. Mothers also play a significant role in shaping status, values, and upbringing.
      • Individual Merit Matters: Modern societies increasingly value personal achievement (education, career, character), rather than only paternal or familial prestige.
  2. “She gets married into another family due to the inherent social value she had by virtue of her father; the boy promises her the same status, prestige, etc.”
    • Rebuttal:
      • Mutual Exchange of Value: In many cultures, marriage is a union of two families where both partners bring their own social and economic merits. Men also feel pressure to “prove” worth—stable income, good education, respectable family—to be deemed a suitable partner.
      • Shared Responsibility: Sustaining or improving social prestige isn’t solely on the husband’s shoulders; it is a collaborative effort, with both spouses contributing to social standing, financial stability, and community engagement.
  3. “She migrates to his city, family values, and structure, leaving things behind and only adjusting.”
    • Rebuttal:
      • Men Also Relocate: Many men move to the wife’s city or shift jobs to align with her career opportunities. Geographical shifts are not inherently female-only burdens; they depend on mutual decisions and professional imperatives.
      • Shared Adjustment: Couples often negotiate whose city or home is more practical for careers, financial stability, or family needs. Both partners make compromises, such as forging new friendships, adapting to new workplaces, or learning local languages.
  4. “Her social value after marriage is dependent on her husband’s family, and after divorce, the social damage she endures is unaccounted for.”
    • Rebuttal:
      • Social Pressures Affect Both Genders: Divorced men also face stigma (being labeled as irresponsible, financially incapable, or emotionally unstable). The concept of “social damage” can be extremely subjective and varies by community and culture.
      • Growing Acceptance of Individual Identity: Societal norms are evolving. Increasingly, divorced individuals—women and men—retain their professional identities, social circles, and self-worth irrespective of marital status.
  5. “Pregnancy and motherhood bring irreversible changes. Meanwhile, the man goes through nothing of that sort.”
    • Rebuttal:
      • Physical vs. Emotional/Fiscal Burden: While it’s true women experience profound physical and physiological changes, men frequently shoulder a significant financial and emotional load, especially in cultures where men are expected to be primary providers.
      • Shared Parenting Challenges: Good marriages see partners who share parental duties—such as late-night childcare, pediatric visits, and household management—alleviating some of the burden on the mother. Many fathers also experience stress, anxiety, and shifts in identity tied to parenthood.
  6. “If divorce happens, she has a limited chance of leading a normal life; her dating market value reduces.”
    • Rebuttal:
      • Men Also Face Post-Divorce Challenges: A divorced man is often seen as a risky prospect—he may be perceived to have unresolvable issues or heavy financial obligations (alimony, child support). This can also affect his “dating market value.”
      • Legal and Custody Battles: Post-divorce, men often face lengthy legal disputes over property division, child support, or alimony, which can become emotionally and financially draining.
  7. “Career setback: she had to migrate, motherhood requires her to take a gap from her job.”
    • Rebuttal:
      • Men’s Career Sacrifices: In dual-career couples, men may forgo lucrative job offers to remain close to family or be forced into less ideal roles to support their spouse’s career trajectory.
      • Evolving Workforce Policies: Many companies now offer parental leave for both mothers and fathers, aiming to reduce career damage for women and encourage shared parenting responsibilities.
  8. “The mental stress of changing name, place, family, lifestyle; the husband changes nothing.”
    • Rebuttal:
      • Men Also Face Major Lifestyle Changes: Sudden financial responsibilities (rent/mortgage, planning for children’s education, supporting extended family) can be overwhelming and mentally taxing. Marriage can cause drastic lifestyle changes for men, too.
      • Choice in Name Change: Modern laws and social norms in many regions allow a woman to retain her maiden name or opt for a hyphenated surname. Such changes are increasingly a personal choice rather than a forced requirement.
  9. “Marriage is unfair to women; she loses more than the man in divorce.”
    • Rebuttal:
      • Legal Frameworks and Support: Many legal systems grant women alimony, child support, and often prioritize mother’s custody rights, which can provide significant financial and emotional security post-divorce.
      • Unseen Burdens on Men: Besides potential loss of custody and ongoing financial obligations, men often face mental health challenges post-divorce due to societal pressure to “be strong and silent.” This can go unacknowledged and untreated.
  10. “Men lose nothing but gain a lot out of marrying a woman.”
    • Rebuttal:
      • Mutual Benefit in Marriage: Marriage ideally benefits both partners—shared finances, emotional support, social companionship, and joint parenting.
      • Risks and Obligations for Men: In many jurisdictions, men risk significant legal and financial liabilities in the event of divorce, ranging from property division to spousal support, and often have less social support to navigate the emotional toll.
Marriage can present challenges and sacrifices for both spouses. Women undeniably face physical changes with childbirth and often shoulder disproportionate expectations around relocation and caregiving. Men, on the other hand, bear intense financial, legal, and emotional pressures that can be just as impactful.
A healthy perspective recognizes that both husbands and wives can experience losses and gains in marriage and divorce. Society and legal frameworks must strive toward balanced policies and cultural norms—ensuring men’s issues and women’s issues are addressed with equal seriousness.
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2025.01.24 08:45 strawberriloopie infinix pro 30

Hi. Baka may alam kayo na kayang mag bypass ng phone? Kamamatay lang ng Papa ko netong Dec 2024. Gusto lang namin makuha yung photos and contacts niya.
Nag try kami mag reach out sa mga tech sa malls. Unfortunately, 90% of the files will be deleted daw.
Baka may alam kayo. I am very desperate to keep my Papa's file sa phone n'ya. I am also willing to pay kahit magkano basta hindi OA ang presyo.
Thank you
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2025.01.24 08:45 real_Laggy_Ill_7212 :0

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2025.01.24 08:45 Complex_Metal_8125 Starting phy now ( jiska hogya h/acha h ,pls help)

1) Ese konse chapters h phy m jinke mcqs ban he jate h 100% ? + Easy chapters bhi btao koi 2) I was prep once a neet aspirant toh mene physics ki DC pandey ( neet wali) pr based formula sheets etc bna rakhi h ,mujhe uspe rely karna chahiye ya change ? 3) Physics kha se kru, rg lectures ka crash course direct pakad lu ya fir khudse ? Less time consuming,more efficient source chahiye koi ....
But main toh ese chapters btao joh musttt h phy m karna
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2025.01.24 08:45 El-Legend34 Are replays working rn?

Do replays work at the moment? I can’t seem to save any from my multiplayer races.
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2025.01.24 08:45 HelgaMelnik Regeringen vill ompröva klimatmålen

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2025.01.24 08:45 nemzylannister Is the "proceed for payment" button in raising objection working for everyone?

I click on it aur kuch hota hi nahi h. Kya vahiyaad log hain ye.
Sirf mere issue h ya anyone else is facing it as well?
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2025.01.24 08:45 Visual-Individual-49 I don't want to die, but I don't want to live.

I'm scared of dying, or more accurately, I'm scared of what happens after death.
I think it would be better if it were clear that the self is nothing more than electrical signals and hormonal reactions, and that nothing exists after death. But I'm afraid of what happens after death because it's an unknown territory.
So when I say "I want to die," I mean, "I don't want to live."
I just said it because I was feeling bad. It doesn't mean anything. People who are "mentally unhealthy" tend to talk nonsense.
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2025.01.24 08:45 lumeshine Playful/Mischievous Collectible Figures?

Recently I started getting into collectible toys and after encountering the more obvious ones like Funko, Popmart figures, and various designer toys, I was left feeling uninterested in much of them. I guess I have somewhat of an idea of what I'm looking for that I'm not finding. The vibe I'm after is figures that are cute/playful but at the same time have a little bit of a dangerous and mischievous edge to them. A good example of this would be kidrobot and their various figure collections. If anyone here knows of any figure series or brand that offers a combo of cute, playful, and edgy qualities to them, I'd be glad to get some suggestions!
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2025.01.24 08:45 DefenseExpress 1066 Days of russia-Ukraine War – russian Casualties In Ukraine | Defense Express

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2025.01.24 08:45 lilAsh5851 Unicorn name

Unicorn name Mine is aurora star chaser
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2025.01.24 08:45 Filberwolflinkfan Ain't no way😭🥳

Ain't no way😭🥳 I got a cookie from the market place, Chester's in fact. I was expecting maybe a nice lamp or something or a new outfit for my villagers to wear at the now January themed campsite.
I got this one instead.
Also really happy the sheep toy showed up! I got one with a complete ticket before but now I can have as many as I want👀👀👀🐑
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2025.01.24 08:45 joshutcherson069 What is this?

This post contains content not supported on old Reddit. Click here to view the full post
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2025.01.24 08:45 Anxious-Radio-1565 Guillain-Barre Syndrome causes 60 hospitalisation in Pune: What is the neurological disorder and how fatal is it? - The Economic Times

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2025.01.24 08:45 AdTraditional3600 Vans Old Skool

Vans Old Skool Vans Old Skool (Original binili sa orange app mall)
Halos di nagamit kasi medyo maliit sakin. Size 7 women 5.5 men.
₱1500
Manila loc
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2025.01.24 08:45 melthallium [PC] [00s-008?] Dark Point and Click with Fem Protagonist

Hello! I'm trying to find an older game I used to play religiously as a kid, I'd be grateful if anyone could help...
Platform(s): PC as far as I can remember
Genre: point and click, it had a bit of story too
Estimated year of release: Unknown
Graphics/art style: 2.5d, semi-realistic style. Gritty. Almost like Dark Souls 1, but visually cleaner.
Notable characters: The MC afaik was a woman. I can't remember much other than that.
Notable gameplay mechanics: none that I can remember. Simple point and click that had a story.
For more context, I can remember having to poison and kill people (predetermined and automatic actions) within the story. The protag was also thrown into a dungeon at some point and escaped. The setting is likely Victorian Era England. That's all I can remember, unfortunately.
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2025.01.24 08:45 Royal_Cancel_2034 Hordozo helyett Maszat a hutodobozban akar utazni ma

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2025.01.24 08:45 Pretty-Anxious-00 Apply in multiple streams

I submitted OINP EOI under Master's stream two months ago with 54 score. Can I apply in Foreign Workers Stream too? I do have a valid job offer in CS field. I calculated my score for that stream and it was 55. Shall I go ahead with applying in that stream?
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2025.01.24 08:45 Pale_Pace_5799 I love seeing dummies get dunked on (all pun intended)

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2025.01.24 08:45 Thepalmtreesback Oil stuff

So as I do with every vehicle I’ve owned I like to find the best maintenance items and make a list lol. That being said I’ve heard everything when it comes to oil…”oh I only use Harley oil. Only use amsoil. I toss whatever brand in mine. Only use k&n. Never use k&n. Slap some type f in that primary. Don’t put type f in the primary.” From mostly older guys that I’ve tried coming to for advice. So anyway…tell me what fluid specifications(brand, type, etc)yall use and I’ll do the majority of what I see lol.
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2025.01.24 08:45 Mabuchi-ko Camera issue after maintenance

Other controller players on pc have a camera problem after maintenance? I can't see my character, the camera is high up, once I switch to the keyboard and mouse everything's fine, but when I activate my controller the problem returns
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2025.01.24 08:45 elden-lord2002 hi im high 21f

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2025.01.24 08:45 KungFu-King 😝 MR2 - mbpg4632

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