I Dumped Him, Moved Across the Country
2025.01.30 06:59 prunepuddingg I Dumped Him, Moved Across the Country
So I don’t really know the goal of this post. I suppose just to get it off my chest and out of my mind?
I (F24) broke up with my ex (M26) almost two years ago now. We had been together nearly 7 years and were about a month and a half away from a very big, expensive wedding. It was a huge decision to leave him and I don’t regret it at all. We were both incredibly toxic as well as physically abusive to each other, and way too much had happened between us to ever salvage the relationship, in my opinion. Also, I realized our life goals and dreams were just totally opposite. I had full support from my family when I broke up with him and moved back in with my parents for a few months.
I completely blocked him on everything and went full no contact. Part of me was genuinely afraid he would stalk me or hurt me or my family, and my sister was newly pregnant. The other part of me just didn’t want to talk to him or argue with him any longer. We broke up at the end of August 2023 and in October of that year I moved across the country. I also started a new relationship at the same time I was moving. This was a friend of mine (M30) that I had known for a long time and always really loved, but never thought we could actually be together. We’re still together now and so incredibly happy. We love together and often talk about our future together and how our goals align and how we are in no rush to get married or anything, we’re just genuinely very happy.
Today, I saw on Facebook that my ex got married. It doesn’t bother me, I don’t think. He looks terrible, and the wedding looked really cheap and thrown together, and there’s not much more I can say about that without being mean for no reason. I guess it just shocked me. We were together 7 years and had huge plans and then when I left him he just kinda threw together a new wedding instead, it feels like. But at the same time, who cares? If they’re happy, what’s it matter? I just don’t understand my own obsession and care for them, or HIM to be specific, especially when I’m so truly content in life now.
Maybe I just want the satisfaction of him knowing I’m so much better off without him?
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2025.01.30 06:59 TheRebelCreeper Do these shin guards fight right?
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2025.01.30 06:59 One_Series_5696 Travel reimbursement when reintegrating from sick leave
Hello everyone,
When I was working full time, I received a monthly fixed travel reimbursement from my company. When I went on full sick leave, this benefit obviously stopped.
My question is: since I have been reintegrating and going to the office for a few days per week, don’t I have the right to a partial travel reimbursement? Does any of you have experience with this matter?
Thank you :)
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2025.01.30 06:59 Dark_medic80 Bought this KP3 from a teammate
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2025.01.30 06:59 TimonX_ Should I sell a bit rn and reinvest at a lower point?
Idk if this is a good idea, it seems to be at a bit of resistance here so it might drop idk.
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2025.01.30 06:59 AfterSomeTime Zyada kuch nai, this kid have real talent!!
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2025.01.30 06:59 kittehey Layering or Blending Color Correction
I'd like to know your thoughts on this! Because I've seen both approaches, where some people will usr color correction and then apply foundation, sometimes giving the corrector time to dry or set it with spray or powder, and others prefer to blend them (like applying tiny dots of both all over and then lightly brushing things together).
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2025.01.30 06:59 Mukumuku77 Supporting boyfriend
My boyfriend and I have been together for around 1 and a half years. There have been ups and downs due to his & my struggles. He has depression & I struggle with reoccurring depressive episodes & anxiety.
Right now my boyfriend is struggling. He has been unhappy with his job for a while now. His coworkers are super mean and just bring him down even more. I suggested he should look for another place but he declined and said its just a few more weeks. Then I said that he should call in sick if it gets too much for him.
Something else happened a few days ago and it not only upset my partner but me aswell. It's too personal but it's about his mother and a decision she made. My boyfriend feels betrayed, hurt and just mad. It feels like his mother has let him down. Overall she has been quite toxic. Just an example: she showed me a nude of herself when I met her for the first time "by accident". He decided to cut off all ties with her. I support his decision & try to be there for him to help him get over it.
Well, my boyfriend opened up to me a few days ago and told me he has been drinking every day for weeks now because he just feels so bad with all of this shit happening. It shocked me and I am very, very concerned. I am happy that he opened up to me, I told him that I am proud of him to tell me that & that his awareness is a good thing. But what can I do now?
Another thing is, that I know that he usually withdraws from me whenever he feels super bad. It really makes me feel insecure because I just need a lot of assurance. Should I let him know that I am hurt by it or not? I don't want to burden him even more with my feelings. But I'm scared that I will be unhappy, if I don't open up. What are your thoughts?
Today he wrote: I feel like total shit, be prepared that I'm out of it for the next 2 weeks. I am ready to support him. I'll write loving notes and leave them in his shoes so he will see them when he leaves for work, I'll buy him snacks, cuddle with him, listen and try to cheer him up. But all of this might not reach him. Do you think my support helps?
Also, is it okay for me to distance myself if it gets too much for me? Like I said, I am very happy to support him in any way I can but I also need to take care of myself. I don't know if distancing is okay in a situation like this. He needs my support, right? How should I handle this, do you have any advice? Thank you in advance!
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2025.01.30 06:59 rcrzd It’s been a long time.
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2025.01.30 06:59 Nice-Experience-3374 Hello 👋
Hi bondhas.
My first time posting here.
Nenu kastha internet shy, real life lo inka chala shy. I want to make some internet friends 🙂.
Meelo evaraina pc games aadathara.
Evaina kastalu unte cheppandi, I'll listen.
Apologies if you find this a bit awkward.
Peace ✌️
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2025.01.30 06:59 lightingbeetle SUBJECT DOUBT
In the second sem there are 2 new subjects Indian constitution and engineering graphics
Some people say that there will be no exam for Indian constitution is that true?
And is engineering graphics similar to CAD?
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2025.01.30 06:59 xatfi Enersense muutti ohjeistustaan
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2025.01.30 06:59 ResponsibleGoal8214 Having pop in issues with several games and I think it's a ram issue but I need some confirmation.
I play at 1440p and my system is a 3080 10gb 5600 x 500gb nvme boot drive 1tb game drive 1tb sata drive 750 watt psu 16 gb 3600 ram Windows and my Drivers are current
I notice it in Blackmyth wukong,Fortnite,Elden Ring and the new pc release FF7 Rebirth. It mainly happens in grassy areas and bushes. I can easily upgrade to 32gb but I want to make sure it's the ram first.
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2025.01.30 06:59 luke_c Is it worth going all in on an already pretty high pension?
30m earning 100k, with a 25% bonus and 70k of RSUs vesting next month which would put my total income this year around 200k
I have 200k in my pension, 70k in S&S ISA and 30k in premium bonds for our emergency fund. 320k left on mortgage.
I currently sacrifice 20% into my pension, and my company matches up to 10% so my adjusted income is about 180k
My wife is a basic rate tax payer and we have a 2 month old baby, so I'm also thinking about childcare costs and the 100k taper, though that won't be until next tax year. Wife's pension is almost nothing. We also want to move to our forever home in 3 or so years which will probably double the amount we need to borrow
I have the option to sacrifice my bonus directly into my pension which I've done before and am considering doing again, but even if I did that I'd have to contribute another 30k or so to get under 100k, and would probably have to use up almost all our emergency fund to do so or take from our ISA so I'm not sure what's really the best option here
I'd like to retire around 50-55, and my pension has a protected age of 55
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2025.01.30 06:59 altrongtm If you've been in therapy for years, what is something you have learned about yourself recently that did not come up during earlier years in therapy? And why did it not come up sooner?
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2025.01.30 06:59 Confident-Cicada-683 What are you doing, Jeremy?
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2025.01.30 06:59 Whatfor12 What is this cable
Hey I found this cable in my car which I’ve never noticed before, I’ve got a weird feeling that my partner put a hidden camera/ tracker in it. I saw a glimpse recently of what looked like a location / camera of me driving but I’m not fully certain. I obviously don’t want to go accusing and asking as that would be bad if I’m wrong
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2025.01.30 06:59 LastArt404 Any way to get citizenship as a college student
I am planning to study in the USA, and I want to know how I could get citizenship since my home country does not have very good opportunities and is not good politics wise. Any idea how I could get citizenship?
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2025.01.30 06:59 Larri_G Book Review: 'I Loved A Dictator' by Tatenda Unika Kombora - A plaintive tale of silent resistance
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2025.01.30 06:59 ComprehensiveLove422 Ghosting/Double vision whenever I look at screens
Is this a symptom of dry eye? Or is this something more serious. I seriously can’t look at my phone for more than 30 minutes without my eyes developing double vision. I’m starting to get really worried about this and I don’t know what to do about it.
I’ve been to an optometrist who’s said I’ve got quite dry eyes. Tbut of 3 seconds. I’ve also noticed eye floaters over the past couple of months but the optometrist said they weren’t dangerous.
I’m so paranoid about my sight now though and I don’t know what’s of real concern and what’s not. Whenever I see floaters I’m struck with anxiety. And whenever I get this double vision same thing. I don’t know what to do and am completely freaking out.
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2025.01.30 06:59 Prize-Mine3487 Microphone suddenly stopped working
I've been playing contractors for 3 years, today when I logged on it the vivox setting is red, and when I go into the vivox devices it reads none for input and output, please help, ive tried everything and I mean everything to fix it
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2025.01.30 06:59 Aggressive-Log-6176 Abusive parent
I don’t know what to do. My father keeps abusing me and I tried calling the police but they didn’t do shit. They let him go after 30 minutes and I left for a week to stay at my brothers house but he doesn’t even have his own stable living place. And my mom is a homeless drug addict, who my father also abuses when she decides to show up, and the siblings from my father’s side don’t take me seriously, saying it’s discipline. But I’ve been emotionally and physically abused. And I had to go to school the next day. And I get forced to do shit that I’m too tired for. I try to use my phone as an escape but I barely talk to my friends. I just want to give up. So bad. I had to live with him after my mother became homeless. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to be mistreated and sometimes hit regularly. I try to keep my mouth shut but I can’t even express my own opinion. I just want to end it. Or atleast escape.
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