Husband believes he should only be 20% involved with child rearing
2025.01.30 08:01 Akaikanransha Husband believes he should only be 20% involved with child rearing
Husband (36) and I (30) were discussing the prospect of having children. I expressed some concerns I have that are holding me back. We’ve discussed that if we start a family, that I would be a SAHM. We’d rely on his income alone to support us. I told him that I understood I would be responsible for the majority of child rearing/household chores, but that I’d appreciate and feel much more comfortable if he’d also help. He shared that since he will be the sole provider, that he expects me to complete 80% of the child rearing/household chores. While I understand this division of labor, I guess I was just hoping he’d empathize and understand my anxieties. I tried to explain(maybe poorly) that becoming a mother would be a huge sacrifice. I’d be taking a break from my career and I also understand that having children is a job that doesn’t necessarily “stop” at the end of the day. When I tried to explain, he shut down. He said he felt disrespected and that I don’t value his sacrifice to provide for the family. We were having this discussion at a restaurant and he became snippy and attempted to abruptly leave the establishment. I profusely apologized and re-iterated his concerns in an attempt to let him know I understood how he felt, but he kept saying that I don’t understand him and that he fears we have different values.
As he became more terse and angry, I started to cry and was filled with anxiety. The conversation went left so fast and I didn’t see his reaction coming.
My question is, how could I have navigated the conversation better? I wasn’t trying to negate my husband’s contributions, I was just trying to share my own fear and anxieties. He said that me sharing my fears made him feel like I view him as a potentially poor father (someone who wouldn’t help at all). I can understand how me sharing my fears could come across that way, which was not my intent. But no matter how much I tried to clarify, he was adamant that I didn’t respect him or the sacrifices he was going to make.
Thank you for any input/constructive criticism.
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Da ich aber nicht dort bis April arbeiten will, stehe Ich nun vor der Entscheidung was ich jetzt machen soll?
Ich will die Zeit mit Arbeitslosengeld 1 überbrücken nur ist das überhaupt bei einem Aufhebungsvertrag möglich? Normalerweise bekommt man doch dann 12 Wochen Sperre ?
Aktuell bin ich noch bis Ende Februar in der Probezeit. 6 Monate Probezeit mit 2 Wochen Kündigsfrist.
Danke für eure Hilfe. Ich bin etwas aufs Geld angewiesen. Ohne ALG1 würde ich nicht über die Runden kommen. Und den aktuellen Job kann ich mir nicht mehr antun (ich gehe mal nicht ins Detail)
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