2025.01.30 08:30 Gaia_Sole_Lady What would you do to switch places with my tinies today?
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2025.01.30 08:30 Jur_the_Orc An article about SImple, Complex and Artificial difficulty by Tateer Railcar. With various action game examples and some analyses on certain phenomena regarding action games, some games' different combat design, difficulty and general public's reception on particular games.
Simple Difficulty, Complex Difficulty, and Artificial Difficulty | by Tateer Railcar | Jan, 2025 | Medium
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2025.01.30 08:30 ToneZei81 METAPHOR REFANTAZIO Part 41 Gameplay Walkthrough FULL GAME HD Regicide Difficulty
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2025.01.30 08:30 simplyaless Healing in relationships when you've been hurt over and over, but the person is changing…
F21 and M25.
I want to start off by saying my bf is super sweet, kind, smart, wise, loyal, with a good heart, etc. I saw many many similarities and synchronicities.. I truly think this mess is all a result of his insecurities, unresolved trauma and issues, maybe mine too.. something traumatic happened to him as a child (SA) and he has a history of smoking and alcohol for many many years which he only stopped around the time we got closer. I am his first serious relationship and kiss according to him. This is probably very relevant too.
I have this complex of wanting to help people as much as I can, and wanting to get people out of their bad habits and ways, this is going to be relevant after.
I have been in friendships and even an old relationship with somebody more ‘emotionally safe’ but I did not feel as connected or have as much in common which I ended up walking away from.
Fast forward I meet my bf online through his friends, we are a country away but he is not a citizen of his country so he cannot visit me, I can only visit him.
We have gotten close since august of 2024, and ill be honest, its been ups and downs with the main problem being my bf THINKING hes a problem and being riddled with guilt and shame which in turn makes him not be able to be as emotionally safe or secure for me. He has never swore at me, called me names, or yelled at me, more so shut down. I have had to come up with many solutions, having to reassure him, and taking on more of the emotional load. He would do a push-pull thing with me where he would “try to leave” as he thought he didnt deserve me and that I was better off without him. This would happen often with sometimes hours of having to talk to him, be more rational, be almost like a therapist. At first I thought he had an avoidant attachment style but I realized he is anxiously attached, I am a bit more secure attached but he kinda turned me anxiously attached. His insecurities and fears of me leaving him turned into mine, as he was the one to do push and pull, when I have always tried to get him to stay. My mistake was probably doing wayyy too much to get him to feel safe around me/to stop him spiralling down with inevitably led to an extreme burnout.
I never gave up on him because I saw his soul, but I also saw a little boy that just needed someone to show him he is loveable..
One time he was questioning me on a relationship that happened 4 years ago (I was a teen) and he kept almost interrogating me about it till finally he accepted the answer, felt bad and felt like a hypocrite.
Fast forward, we met in person in the beginning of January. We were together for 4 days, things felt fine, I did not feel an off sense in my gut, I enjoyed being there with him a lot. The only thing is the whole time I felt this huge sadness/anxiety/dread of him having to leave, crying a lot, like I was losing control and things were collapsing down. It was one of the worst feelings I have ever felt. It prevented me from fully enjoying our trip and eating well.
Fast forward to the end of January. Things seem to be looking up as he is now handling our situations wayy better, not doing push and pull, he's being very clingy wants to make sure i am okay... but something is still kinda irking/bothering me. My feelings seem to also fluctuate towards him.
i brought it up to him and i suspected it is because it has gone on for so long (non stop 4 months) that i never really got time to process my emotions and its only been about 1 month of consistency.. i think once we hit the spring or summer of things consistently being fine, perhaps i'll be okay. 👍 He is very understand that i'll need time to heal and to not be surprised if i have on and off days.
When i told my therapist about what happened partially, like him shutting down, she said it was more of a reflection of me, something that was triggering me but my bf argued she doesn't know the full story and would probably change her 'opinion' on him if she knew everything.
i know we are still young but when i think of us potentially having kids (as an example) or even being officially married, there's something that doesnt sit right with me or doesnt make me feel fully happy.. again i think its because he has shown to be sort of emotionally unreliable at times and he is still working on his career.
it is hard to get people's experiences/opinions as most people seem to leave near the beginning stages of things going south, but i seemed to 'tough it out' and now we are at this point.
We pray together every day, and when we pray together, we feel more of a sense of peace about the relationship and in general.
what advice do you have for me? it sucks.
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2025.01.30 08:30 ConsiderationOdd9177 Gente de Zacapoaxtla y Tezuitlán, ¿Es buena idea ir a vivir allá? ¿Es seguro?
Hola, espero me puedan ayudar con información. He vivido en la CDMX toda la vida, desde zonas feas hasta bonitas, pero quiero un descanso. Tengo la posibilidad de ir a vivir allá, pero quiero saber 2 puntos: Seguridad; ¿Asaltan, roban a las casas ó zeku3stran? Me da miedo, he vivido en Iztacalco/tepito, pero allá es más aislado... Wifi; Necesito buen wifi para trabajo (Y para jugar LoL en las noches sin lag :b ). https://preview.redd.it/kg7z5z2pd3ge1.png?width=2410&format=png&auto=webp&s=667337c4ff5e7f84dbe307a5747b577de505032e https://preview.redd.it/vlj9c03pd3ge1.png?width=2244&format=png&auto=webp&s=93423b83bf5d89355064ed5b83f4bfcbb2a590c8 submitted by ConsiderationOdd9177 to Puebla [link] [comments] |
2025.01.30 08:30 Ambitious-Spot-2425 I need help please.
I posted here a few days ago for help with a friends birthday present I'm still working on it and its going good. But now I'm curious, I saw a video on TikTok about deities and how they show signs, and I was wondering it someone can help me see if any are calling out to me? I'd really appreciate if someone could help me find out.
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2025.01.30 08:30 RetiredBM +1.10 % #ChiffreDuJour
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2025.01.30 08:30 TheV3ssel Unlinking PSN, and relinking new PSN.
I'm not entirely sure if this is the correct sub to ask this, but I have little to no options when it comes to this.
A friend of mine has her Hoyoverse Pass linked to a PSN account that she no longer uses. And we have a question regarding the topic in the header.
If she does unlink her Hoyoverse Pass, from that old PSN account, would she be able to relink it to a new one? And if so, is this second linking, permanent? Or can it be undone if needed? Is there something else we should know about this specific situation?
I told her to wait until I get some answers from somewhere, or someone. Mind helping us out?
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2025.01.30 08:30 Jbeans11 The best Gengar card
IMO, everything about this is perfect. The vibrant colors, the personality. Plus I prefer Gengar to be nice and fat. (Phantom Forces #34 for reference) Also a big fan of the full art version of the same set. (Phantom Forces 114) Vmax Gengar is cool, but it's just not the same. In the future I hope they come out with a really dark and twisted illustration. submitted by Jbeans11 to PokemonTCG [link] [comments] |
2025.01.30 08:30 House_Admirable Changing dose dau
Hi, Started my MJ journey this week and so far it really feels to be working. I took my first dose on Monday but now wonder if I"d be better taking it on a Friday so it is at full strength over the weekend when I think id need it more. Is it safe to simply take my second dose five days after my first or would i be better moving it back a day per week until I am dosing Fridays? I am on the 2.5 dose and have had no side effetcs. Thanks
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2025.01.30 08:30 you_koker Son todas iguales?
Resulta que me estoy hablando con una mina que tiene novio y otra que realmente no somos nada y me esconde como moto robada. Cuando la realidad es que no me importa, cuestión es que vengo hablando con unas después de cortar mi relación de 5 años y me encuentro con joyas como está. (Captura en comentario)
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2025.01.30 08:30 Total_Hat1300 Synthetic Granite Countertop
synthetic countertop stain marks any tips on how to remove these water stains for synthetic granite countertops? thank you!! submitted by Total_Hat1300 to CleaningTips [link] [comments] |
2025.01.30 08:30 RetiredBM Croissance française (PIB) : +1.1 % en 2024, avec un 4e trimestre dans le rouge
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2025.01.30 08:30 BiscuitWithTea Average day of Ghar ka chota beta (m21)
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2025.01.30 08:30 sniika_ Today launch date?
Glaubt ihr, dass heute schon confirmed wird, dass das Pump Pad morgen live geht oder wird es morgen ohne Ankündigung droppt?
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2025.01.30 08:30 IlGodaGaming When you lose a 10 mm socket inside your car
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2025.01.30 08:30 Southern-Bobcat-2594 not my sister saw it on another sub
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2025.01.30 08:30 Keezonm I absorbed too much piss posts
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2025.01.30 08:30 manelebot NICOLAE GUTA SI PLAY AJ - BEAU,BEAU (SPIROS GALATI)
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2025.01.30 08:30 Fun-Database8293 Travis Scott X Jordan 1 " Low Golf "
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2025.01.30 08:30 Nativeup addicted to yarn, not alcohol (5 years sober!)
Around half of my stash was accumulated in the last year; I have projects in mind for most of it. Staying sober has been hard but knitting helps a lot, as does going to recovery spaces. Sometimes I see other people crocheting or knitting as well at meetings. Next step…not be addicted to buying yarn -and- stay sober, haha! One step at a time, one day at a time, one skein at a time. submitted by Nativeup to YarnAddicts [link] [comments] |
2025.01.30 08:30 Personal-Fan-5559 PSMF + Medical Support = Game-Changer for Me
I love PSMF for rapid fat loss, but sticking to it was tough due to hunger and cravings. I found NP2GO, where a doctor prescribed a medication that helped control my appetite, making PSMF so much easier to follow. Now, I stay on track without feeling miserable, and my results have been amazing. Has anyone else combined PSMF with medical support?
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2025.01.30 08:30 Imaginary_Seaweed480 مين زيي؟
لما اكون من بداية الكلاس ماشية صح مع الدكتورة وفاهمة واكتب ملاحظات وحريصة على اني افهم كل شيء، بس فجأة عقلي يوقف للحظات وما يستوعب اللي تقوله كأني انفصلت عن العالم لوهلة بسيطة مرة. طبعًا دايم تصير لي بكل كلاس، ولما تصير لي اتوتر شوي لان يصير فيه جزئية ناقصة في عقلي ما تناولها ولا فهمها وحللها، فهذا الموضوع يزعجني ويخرب علي رتم التركيز اثناء الدرس. تلقائيًا اصير اكتب على جنب ان هذي الجزئية يبغالها مراجعة لان عقلي فصل فيها هههههه. ما انتظر حلول بقدر ما انتظر اعرف هل فيه اشخاص زيي او لا؟ احب اشعر بالانتماء جدًا
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2025.01.30 08:30 charvaka24 New CAP TIME
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2025.01.30 08:30 Striking_Storage_727 Stoeger uplander sxs 410 and 20 guage.
Are these two built the same as in the parts and such interchangeable. I had a buck of guns stolen lilltle over a year ago. And they didn't take the entire sxs 410 they just took the barrell keepehandguard . Do yall thinks it's possible the 20 guage ones will fit the 410 model? Can't find just the foregaurd for it. I don't wanna have to make my own.
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