My DM Seems to Have a Selective Memory
2025.01.30 18:39 o0Rhapsody0o My DM Seems to Have a Selective Memory
As a direct response to this post: https://www.reddit.com/DnD/comments/1ic19fb/struggling_with_a_player_who_doesnt_respect_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
Hello there, i am the problem player in question. I don’t know why he posted this before talking to me about any of this. We have been playing together for a while and i didn’t know that he had problems with me, since our very first game. It just weird and heartbreaking to see this post, we normally tend to talk a lot about this stuff (and probably too much, to play a simple game of DnD), as friends or DnD players. After discovering that post, and making sure he noticed, he only then replied to me with "I think we have communication problems, Reddit post was just to express my feelings". Didn't even bother to acknowledge or answer anything i wrote to him about this. I think he only remembers what he wants remember about this or our past "problems". He seems to be the one failing to be a listener and posing as one.
There are a lot to cover here, and so i will cover it step by step.
Current Fey Campaign
Here is what i exactly wrote on the backstory, “As time goes by they got closer and closer”. I was trying to be vague, i didn’t care how he exactly got his powers. I never wanted to play an arc or something about this. Whole idea of the character was simply this: Spoiled brat with daddy issues falls in love with a shape changer, hurts her feelings after encountering her true form and scares her away. Later finds out that he has a magical condition, or sorcery in DnD terms. After learning the source of this power to be coming from fey creatures beyond the walls, he would go for an adventure to try to get rid of this power and make amends with his heartbroken lover. And then, as game goes on, to go together with the mechanic that the GM is using called the Fey Transformation, he would get in terms with his powers and get a new perspective on life. I can see clearly now that he either doesn’t read my character stories or simply doesn’t care about them at all. And for the race of the love interest, first thing i have asked him to do was to make race of his lover, her true form a mystery for me. He refused, telling me that the mystery race could not be to my liking. I was okay about this and chosen a race that can be later changed to anything. He later asked me to change it after sending the character, and i told him that she can be anything that can change forms. I didn’t know i was bending the setting to my liking, considering the fact that he usually starts his campaigns with the premise of “Tailoring the setting based on player characters”. I have always been open to change, i usually end up making multiple characters on his games, to fit his liking.
Previous Games ?
Witchlight game he was talking about was our very first game and my first 5e game. I did know a thing or two about the game but i was of course, still a beginner. After reading the post in shock, i have found and read the story of that character and also our messages (took a while to scroll up to see the oldest messages, we have talked a lot) from that time. It is an unoriginal vengeance paladin story. Paladin’s brother got killed by “elf like red creatures” while on a hunting party and wants to avenge him by finding & killing that raiding party. It turns out i did also write at the end of the backstory “I leave the subject of the places and creatures to you so that it doesn’t spoil the setting”. All he wrote about that was that we can do/add that. It was a short campaign with really bad players, by his own words, and it lasted for like 3 to 4 sessions at best. He did later tell me on several occasions, you were the only one trying to play the game properly. Only thing my character did about his story was that he was poisoned at some point and was seeing an imaginary pixie friend. He asked that pixie if she has seen any creatures like that, she said no and that was just it. About that space game, i didn’t know we were playing two games at once. They were two of the many characters i have tried creating for that Spelljammer game. He didn’t care that much about that game, didn’t want to put much effort. Setting was that we have joined a Spelljammer academy and you should make a character that can want to travel space, thats it. Astral elf was NOT searching for an astral elf god, she was a twilight cleric trying to save her family from the astral elf Xaryxian Empire (I have accidently seen a spoiler from the official adventure from a wiki and told him so) because of a vision she received from Selune (or any other fitting deity, i did ask him for a better choice). He was not that happy with that character and i have changed it half way, didn’t even send him a background. Other character was going to search the galaxy to find his patron’s (Which was a yellow dracolich, giving my echo knight Sandman-esque powers. Of course he remembers wrong.) artifacts. I did tell him multiple times that i don’t want that lich to travel space or something. That character’s adventure’s was going to be too long for the game anyway, i have wanted it to be like an epilogue kind of thing. I have changed two more characters after that and played a simple barbarian.
I could go on and on, could bend the reality to make the post more appealing, not caring about our 2-3 years of our friendship. He always knew that how passive i play my characters, he knew that i have never asked for a special arc or a spotlight. He was always the one to tell me i would feel as a sidekick if i use that character and i was the one trying to appease him. I didn’t even want to leave the game immediately, i have spent the next day trying to make another. I have decided not to half way through and made up an excuse (he posted that before this) to not hurt his feelings. If we have not been playing regularly (He has been inviting me as the first player to his games for a while. Building the setting together, deciding who to invite and etc. . ) and if i didn’t value him as a friend, i would have not care much about this. I am just heartbroken.
I should have known better to check Reddit sooner, he has a habit of posting on reddit about problems with his limited amount of players.
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Hey Leute,
ich bin 24 Jahre alt und leide seit etwa drei bis dreieinhalb Jahren unter dem Hard-Flaccid-Syndrom. Das ist ein sehr unerforschtes Syndrom, bei dem es zu einer anhaltenden, schwachen Durchblutung im Genitalbereich kommt – oft ohne organische Ursache. Es führt zu Verspannungen im Beckenboden, die letztendlich in erektile Dysfunktion münden können. Das Ganze ist extrem belastend und schränkt die Lebensqualität stark ein.
Es gibt kaum medizinische Informationen dazu, aber viele Betroffene vermuten einen Zusammenhang mit dem Mind-Body-Syndrom (TMS), also einer psychosomatischen Reaktion des Körpers. Ich denke, dass das Nervensystem eine entscheidende Rolle spielt – insbesondere Stress, Angst oder unbewusste emotionale Blockaden, die das autonome Nervensystem beeinflussen und eine Art dauerhafte Fehlsteuerung verursachen.
Da das Syndrom so unerforscht ist, gibt es kaum Ärzte oder Therapeuten, die sich wirklich damit auskennen. Deshalb meine Frage: Hat hier jemand Erfahrungen mit dem Hard-Flaccid-Syndrom? Kennt sich jemand mit dem Zusammenhang zwischen Nervensystem, Beckenbodenverspannungen und diesen Beschwerden aus? Ich wäre für jeden Austausch und jede Hilfe dankbar.
Danke!
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