Having a hard time getting my girlfriend off
2025.01.31 02:01 Southern-Can498 Having a hard time getting my girlfriend off
I've been dating my new girlfriend for a few months now. Until recently, I was a virgin. The sex is great and it seems like she enjoys it, but she has difficulty cumming. I keep asking her how I can make her feel good so she can cum as well, but the only thing she says is that she has hard time orgasming. I'm still new to sex, and I've tried being open and communicating, but I feel a little frustrated with the lack of progress. I worry that it's something that I'm not doing. I've tried going down on her, but she won't let me because "it's dirty" even though it definitely isn't lol. I'm confident in my size and stamina. She is Japanese, maybe it's a cultural difference? I have no clue.
Does anyone have any advice on a similar situation they had or an idea of how I can improve our communication?
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2025.01.31 02:01 Throw-away2927 My mother has been falsely accused of Factitious Disorder Imposed on Another (FDIA, previously known as Munchausen Syndrome) by Healthcare Professional(s)
Iām sorry I donāt have a clear legal question but I was told to come here by medical advice Canada as it doesnāt seem like a medical question. I guess the main question is, do we need a lawyer? What do we do, and what are our options for going about this situation?
Iām 17M. Doctors will no longer prescribe me my current dosage of my primary chronic pain medication (the NSAID Celecoxib 400 mg/day) to manage my flare-up, because they believe my mom is drugging me with it and that itās unnecessary medication. They wrote this up in my file (I do not know if they also wrote ME up for āseeking unnecessary medicationā). I live in Ontario, Canada. I'm already struggling to manage my flare-up (canāt attend school, tough to get to current doctorās appointments, difficulty showering) and just generally donāt know what to do.
Iāve had chronic pain since around 12 years old. It began as right shoulder pain we thought nothing of, eventually progressing into back pain. We found out I had scoliosis and I received a hard brace as per Sick Kidsā Toronto recommendation, which I wore for around 2 years. They then determined my spine had fused and finished growing, so I was no longer at risk of having my scoliosis worsen, so I got off the brace. I had back pain and anxiety at this time, and was being treated for all this, but the back pain wasnāt too severe so the painkillers were pretty mild.
At 14, I had a pain flare-up in my wrists. It was likely due to COVID and lots of typing for virtual school, so I basically got treated for carpal tunnel and it improved back to normal after a month or 2. Not sure if it was really carpal tunnel or just some other overuse-related wrist injury, but Iāve been fine since.
At 15 I came out as trans (ftm) and began transitioning, eventually going on testosterone, which Iāve been on for a year now. Iām only mentioning this because I donāt know if health professionals had noticed this, and somehow thought my mom was forcing me to undergo this as well as other medical procedures? This part isnāt so important, but the next part is:
So about a year ago it all went to crap. We went to Jamaica for vacation, everything was good and I was very physically active there, but when I got back I found myself in severe full-body pain. My family and I figured it was some virus I caught on vacation, like a flu. I basically spent a month laying on the couch, with flu-like symptoms of severe full body aches. I also had this shooting numbness feeling throughout my limbs.
Problem was, it didnāt get better. We underwent every test under the sun. Stool sample, urine sample, blood tests (including deficiency tests), nothing showed. I saw a ton of doctors who ruled out every condition known to man. Not Arthritis, no infection/virus found, full body MRI (including brain), nothing neurological, I was just diagnosed with āChronic widespread painā, described to me as ānot fibromyalgia, but fibromyalgia-like symptomsā.
I was in so much pain my parents wheeled me into emergency twice, I tried a ton of painkillers (OTC) and only Advil and Aleve worked well, but they were very harsh on my stomach. I was taking the maximum dosage of everything OTC I could take simultaneously. Finally, we tried celecoxib, which was the holy grail. My body reacted to it like Advil, but it was longer lasting, with less stomach upset. I went on 200 mg/day, the pain improved but was still pretty bad, and finally a neurologist issued us 400 mg per day. I was around 15-16. She said if I couldnāt shower or attend school when taking less than 400 mg, then I needed the 400 mg.
It worked and I began lots of physiotherapy. I had no muscular issues but itās the standard treatment for chronic pain and if it had a chance of improving my symptoms I was gonna do it. I became very diligent with my health, diet and nutrition, working out very regularly (cardio + strength training), cutting my course load because sitting and standing triggered my pain, stretching, following physio recommendations, etc. With the 400 mg celecoxib my pain was low enough to be active, and I could even eventually drop it to 300 mg and sometimes 200 mg per day. My doctors wanted me on 200 mg max, eventually, as an ideal goal. I built visible muscle and my physical ability was good. I was still trying other pain meds because doctors wanted to see if that would allow me to decrease the dosage to 200 mg of celecoxib per day, which they saw as more sustainable long-term. These other medications targeted mostly nerve pain (antidepressant-family drugs), but nothing really worked nearly as well as the celecoxib.
Then, early December 2024, we went to Sick Kids Chronic Pain Clinic again, but they said they were not comfortable with me on 400 mg of celecoxib per day (despite the fact this is the middle of a flare-up). They told me to switch to gabapentin, so we did. Late December 2024, we went on vacation again. I was able to keep up on vacation, but there was lots of walking, standing, sitting on planes, etc. We got home and I crashed. I had a huge pain flare-up in my whole body. My back was the worst. I laid on the couch and couldnāt move. I couldnāt go back to school to write my exams.
I went back to 400 mg celecoxib per day, which allowed me to shower, stretch, walk a little, and move around the house. I couldnāt really āexerciseā but at least I was no longer bedridden. They said the neurologist had no business prescribing that to me. We tried some other meds (more gabapentin, increasing my anxiety meds because it can also treat chronic pain, topical creams) but nothing worked. The celecoxib allowed me to be somewhat functional.
Suddenly, though, no one wanted to prescribe me 400 mg celecoxib. No one at the Sick Kids pain clinic, not the family doctor. They offered me physio that I tried, but could not do. They wanted me to talk to a psychiatrist, and I did, explaining that I actually used to talk consistently with a social worker but stopped because she told me my problems seemed mostly medical, not anxiety-related, and she didnāt feel comfortable talking to me about that. We couldnāt understand why no one wanted to prescribe me the pain medicine.
Eventually, Sick Kids deferred us to another pain clinic, where the doctor finally told us he would prescribe the amount, writing that I needed ā200 mg of celecoxib BID (bidaily) during a flare-upā for the family doctor to prescribe.
She wonāt. She wanted clarification on what the length of a āflare-upā was. She said she would call my mother today (who goes to all my appointments with me since I am underage and my dad works full time.
As it would turn out, SICK KIDS had WRITTEN UP my mother for āFORCING MEDICINEā on me, and PUT IT IN MY MEDICAL NOTES. We donāt know when this happened, the family doctor just told my mother on the call today, and that is the reason she will not prescribe the 400 mg celecoxib. My mom was furious and explained that I was in pain, to the point of suicidal ideation (probably a bad move on her part) and sheās probably even LESS inclined to prescribe it to me now.
Additionally, while the doctor at the pain clinic did agree to prescribe me 400 mg daily, he wants me off ASAP. He said ideally a month. Last time it took me SEVERAL months of consistent physical training before I could decrease the dosage to 200 mg (what he wants).
And also, apparently 400 mg celecoxib is actually a pretty standard dosage, and our pharmacist told us he has plenty of patients who have been on that dose for MUCH LONGER? So, the only reason they wonāt give it to me is because my file is written up for seeking unneeded medicine.
When my mom brought this up on the call, the family doctor simply said pharmacists are not doctors.
I live in Ontario where it is impossible to find another family doctor due to a critical shortage (and we are going through a healthcare crisis right now).
I honestly donāt know what to do now. How do I clear this up with the system so that it doesnāt say in my file Iām seeking medicine I donāt need? (PS: Celecoxib isnāt an opioid or anything, itās an NSAID like Advil so I donāt know why we got written up in the first place. Sick Kids said they were worried itāll wreck my stomach lining but Iām on Lansoprazole to combat that, and itās better for my stomach than me taking the equivalent dose of Advil).
Weāre trying so many new medications + changing dosage, but nothing else has worked so far and I always have had to fall back on celecoxib 400 mg when the pain gets high. I feel like theyāre taking it away before weāve found an alternative and just donāt care if I suffer in the meantime. My only other option is to take the maximum dosage of Advil which, while it works, makes me throw up frequently.
Am I screwed until I turn 18? Until then, they will assume my mother is forcing me to take medicine and wonāt prescribe me anything. Iāll have to put everything on holdā schooling, university applicationsā¦ We could get my dad to go to all my appointments? But he works, so thatās difficult.
The diagnosis is also not very clear. Like, I donāt have a name for the condition, we were never given one. The only physical thing that shows is, I guess the severe tightness and knotting of my muscles and irritation of my back joints, that my chiropractor (who also has a bunch of physiotherapy certificates I think) can feel.
Besides, how do I even clear this up? Do I need to find a psychiatrist? I canāt find a new family doctor right now, weāve tried. I could ask the gender clinic, but my doctor there already said he doesnāt deal with chronic pain so he wonāt prescribe any pain meds whatsoever.
Even when I turn 18, what if they still donāt trust me? I really donāt know how Iām going to survive because Iām in so much pain right now, just the thought of having to wait any longer really makes me feel hopeless.
Tldr; 17M, need a prescription that wonāt get filled because my mom got (wrongfully) written up for Munchausen Syndrome, until then Iām suffering in pain, so how can I clear it?
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