Wife randomly extremely verbally abusive then back to normal.
2025.01.31 02:31 Icollectshinythings Wife randomly extremely verbally abusive then back to normal.
I would like to think it is the progesterone she is having to take for medical reasons but I’m not so sure. She will go from being normal and loving on me one day to not being able to stand my very existence for the next few and then back to normal for a week or two and repeat cycle.
When she gets like this, anything I say or do to even slightly upset her is magnified by 100x. And she will just wind up and up and up and then spiral down out of control going off on every single thing she hates about me. One by one systematically. Apologies, she mocks and says I’m not sincere, when I finally get even a little mad back she is like “see there it is”
She will say she hates me and can’t stand my existence and wishes I wasn’t even here. Will tell me she always thinks I smell bad or my clothes always smell bad and other things about my appearance-which she just a couple days ago said she liked the way I smelled and said she got lucky to marry such a good looking guy. Honestly the back and forth really makes me feel like absolute shit and crazy myself because I don’t even know what to think anymore,
I’m too old for this shit to be honest. When it’s good for a while I forget this even happens but then when it happens again I remember oh yeah that’s why I’ve been so close to leaving all those times before. Or why I’ve taken off driving for hours or stayed in hotels years ago to get away for a while.
I say something, she goes off, I don’t say anything at all she goes off. My very existence infuriates her when she gets like this and sometimes I wish I could just disappear in these moments to see if she would actually even give two shits that I was gone.
I don’t know what to do here. I love this woman and she never acted like this before taking this progesterone shit. She doesn’t believe me and calls me a bigot for even saying her medicine could be making her hyper emotional and emotionally unstable by messing with her hormones-which is a legit side effect of progesterone and a common one at that.
I hate to say this as a grown man, but I’m actually heart broken by this. To be with someone so long and think they love you just to completely change when they started taking a medication. Which is funny because she blames my antidepressants as why she can’t stand me. Like she is projecting on me that she knows her medicine is making her crazy the same way she accuses me of when I’m just trying to take something that makes me feel life again.
She makes me feel insane when she gets like this. I know it’s abusive but I just can’t blame her because she never acted anywhere near like this until she started taking these hormones. I would hate to end our relationship because of something she could not help. Then again though, I don’t think I can take much more of this.
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2025.01.31 02:31 RedAlwaysSusProTIP Is the Dutch giant actually 7'2? Guy on the left is 210cm (6'8.9) and Olivier's (Dutch Giant) Exact height is 7'1.5
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2025.01.31 02:31 brianjames23 My Kirby/Ditko shelves.
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2025.01.31 02:31 throwawaybciwantto Anticipatory grief for my sick mother who I have complicated feelings about [CW: homophobia]
So here's the story, my mother has cancer. It's spreading and she's getting worse, she is slowly dying.
I have a complicated relationship with my mom. Growing up she was not supportive of sexuality. She took the "love the sinner, hate the sin" and the "it's just a phase" approach to my sexuality (I'm bi, leaning more towards women). She's been supportive and there for me in other areas of my life (education, career, friends, etc), but not my romantic, dating life. Because of that, we've never been super close. I've never felt truly comfortable to be myself around my family.
There was a point in time I was in a 5 year long relationship with a woman, and my mom wanted nothing to do with her. She made no efforts to acknowledge my then girlfriend, and did not want to get to know her at all. It was heartbreaking for me, and it further drove a wedge between us.
Over the years, I've just come to accept that my mom will never really understand me and that that was okay. I still love her and appreciate her for what she's done for me in other areas of my life, but I don't like her. I don't enjoy spending time with her.
Now that she's dying, she wants to me to be there with her, she wants to repair our relationship and mend things before she passes. We've since talked about it, and she's apologised for her reaction and the way she behaved around my sexuality. She's understands now that her homophobia has damaged the kind of relationship she wanted to have with her daughter, and she's apologised to me. She's apologised for not taking the time or effort to even acknowledge and treat my ex like a person.
I don't know how to feel about it. On one hand, I'm grateful and appreciative of everything she's done for me in the other spheres of my life. I'm glad she's come to this realisation now that she's was an homophobic asshole when I needed the love and support of a parent. I'm glad she's apologised. I'm glad she's trying to make amends and is taking the time to see me for me for the first time.
On the other hand, I don't really want to be there, it's draining. Yet I know I'll regret it if I don't. I hate that her declining health is affecting me emotionally, affecting my career, and affecting my relationships (and lack of capacity for them).
I'm just venting and looking for support. I don't think there is anything to be done, or anything actionable. I already decided that, I'm going to give my mom some of my time for her happiness, while making sure I have time for myself to recover. (aside: I'm spread so thin emotionally and mentally with my mom, my relationships, my work. I'm considering taking a leave of absents, but that's so hard to do as a doctor)
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2025.01.31 02:31 osmanoz7 One of the calculators mentioned I have part ancestral Indian and Papuan. This is the result of the ancient back migration 3k+ years ago in Horn Africa area
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2025.01.31 02:31 Emotional_Ad9598 please be honest, am i ugly (19f)
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2025.01.31 02:31 quagzlor No 'Horse' Statue Decoration for Homestead?
Heya. Was looking at the homestead recipes for Lunar New Year, and one thing bugged me.
We have recipes for statues of every member of the zodiac except for Horse. Yes, i did check under Skritt, but no dice. Anet pls.
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2025.01.31 02:31 chriskiji FeEl SoRrY fOr Me!
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2025.01.31 02:31 dyvonca [POSITIVE]%20for%20/u/aPiMpNaMEdSLiCkBaCc%20[buyer]
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2025.01.31 02:31 TerribleWeather4018 LT trade or sell these unis and griffs
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2025.01.31 02:31 Papillonbluemorpho What are the best hiking sandals for a beach trip?
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2025.01.31 02:31 einnachen My latest painting
Galactica (2025) Oil on canvas, 50x70cm
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2025.01.31 02:31 Practical_Ad5906 Screen sharing Apple TV
Hi my gf and I want to watch Apple TV+ on a meeting app for etc: Microsoft teams, Skype or Zoom. When I share my screen my gf can’t see anything, it’s just a dark screen. I understand there’s copyright issues or what not but I really just want to utilise my subscription instead of going to some dodgy website to watch it. I’ve tried screen mirroring from iPhone to Pc but it’s just grayed out with audio playing. And I can’t FaceTime and share my screen because my gf is in china rn. Is there a solution to this?
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2025.01.31 02:31 No_Penalty3029 From the 25th to the 29th, over 83 hours, the Deepseek server cluster was subjected to over 230 million DDoS malicious requests per second, with the total attack volume equivalent to the total internet traffic of Europe for three days.
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2025.01.31 02:31 Tman1184 Ferguson fitness
What's the group's thoughts on Ferguson? Transfer seems inevitable, is he fit to play / ETA on return?
View Poll
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2025.01.31 02:31 SuperPax4601 Helper + 2 Pistols
Does having a helper with 2 pistols stack the backup gun bonus? I've been trying to figure this out for like 20 mins and figured maybe someone already new.
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2025.01.31 02:31 VersionOk6133 can someone help me find this poem?
i was doomscrolling on instagram and i came across this poet but before i could follow her or save the post MY FEED REFRESHED. anyways here are some fragments of her work. PS- these have not left my mind so if you know herr help me out
my mother's disappointed, her starchild burnt
long after my breaths would have fallen short, my soil i project will always love your rot
my love is such a wretched thing to keep within and about i spin it to your lips and test, you spit it out
my elbows are virgin to concrete scrapes yet my thighs have seen a war, they could never comprehend
but i fear i am the apocalypse i feared, i am the apocalypse i fear
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2025.01.31 02:31 Puglad Show Me The Way
So I encountered a bug with Show Me The Way where I can't consult the intel on it cause it doesn't have an intel tab. I should mention that I did do Mountain Siege with my buddy I believe so that might be why it bugged out, or I don't know. I just don't get the Intel Tab on Show Me The Way and I can't complete it. I am literally at the last step.
My request is, could anyone hop on the game with me and restart Show Me The Way and complete it with me? I wanna see if that solves it. Set the difficulty to easy and all that. Just speedrun it
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2025.01.31 02:31 jackisback2209 Surprise Pokemon tin opening time!
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2025.01.31 02:31 Prestigious_Peak8407 Can anyone speak to the sizing of this specific Chanel ballet slipper?
I found these gorgeous flats in a price that’s good finally but they are a size too small they are a 35 and I am a 36. I saw some other online forums talking about another style being true to size but the toe box on these are a lot wider.
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2025.01.31 02:31 the_callisto_404 I drew all my bf’s favorite pokémons for a wallpaper
well I think I drew them somehow I hope you all like it too
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2025.01.31 02:31 Repulsive_Ad_4284 H: White spring jumpsuit W: Offers
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2025.01.31 02:31 Barganhar Batalha de rap de terror mané.
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2025.01.31 02:31 DrUnwindulaxPhD Is the Aiden 100% reliant on software functionality and internet?
I'm suddenly getting cold feet with all of these posts about seemingly bricked coffee makers.
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2025.01.31 02:31 ItsNaberius Apparently shock remnants from rare monsters use a female model, which can bug out
https://reddit.com/link/1ie4mcm/video/z8sy5u9yp8ge1/player
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