2024.11.25 02:37 MatterandTime Project Esther: A National Strategy to Combat Antisemitism
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2024.11.25 02:37 Comfortable_Ad_9153 Typical Avoidant? Homeless and Blocked Me
Met this guy on a dating app last summer (around May). It was instant sparks, he super-liked me and we talked so much. Switched to texting and he came to visit me (about an hour drive).
It literally felt like love at first sight (him and I both agreed that even just our eye contact was intense). I cooked for him, and we cuddled. Unfortunately he had to leave for work that night. We planned another night together the following weekend. He drove up again, I made him dinner. We ended up having sex and it was fantastic. He finished fast and I could feel him getting in his head about it. He felt like he didn’t satisfy me, but he did!!! And we went multiple rounds.
We continued to talk and flirt and things were really good. Our scheduled conflicted for awhile during the summer which prevented us from seeing eachother in person. But we FaceTimed and texted often. He is rather reserved and stoic. But he opened up to me so much. He told me that I was exactly what he wanted, he would marry me in an instant if he had his shit together.
He’s also very career and business focused, and we met right in the midst of him trying to start his business. He complimented me, it was clear he was very infatuated with me, and was having a battle between his head and heart. He texted me that he feels he can’t give me what I deserve, and that he’s not in that place right now.
I liked him so much, so I reassured him that all I wanted was to spend a little time with him when we could. I didn’t want him to feel pressured to provide for me. I’m very intuitive and I started to figure out that he is an avoidant due to his childhood.
It crushed me to feel him pulling away. There were times we’d be in the same city, I’d text him to meet for lunch. Either no response, or a response telling me he can’t make it (work or business meetings). There was the occasional time he would say yes then never follow up.
Our contact became sporadic as the fall and winter came around. I’d flirt and he’d sometimes respond or tell me that we needed to stop. I’ll admit, I was desperately clinging onto something for us.
September came around and I actually spent the weekend at his house. He was skeptical at first because he never let anyone stay over before, especially because he’d be at work. It was great for the most part. I admit I did some wifey duties while I was there (but he was living like a typical bachelor and I saw some things I could help him with) so I stocked the fridge, did laundry and organized a little bit. He works overnight 12hr shifts and he felt horrible about not being able to stay with me. He’s very hard on himself, but I could tell me being there made a big difference. He told me he slept better because I’m so peaceful, he’d come home from work and come straight up to me.
Christmas and his bday came around, and it had been months since we actually properly talked, but me being caring and lowkey a last ditch effort to rekindle things, I sent him a gift. It included an engraved wood peice of something important to him, a robe with his fav football team, some body wash, and some Polaroids of me. He responded with a pic of him wearing the robe and “you’ve outdone yourself”.
Months passed and March came around. I texted him to advice because I had to move urgently and needed to know what he thought about locations. At that point, I had already moved (to his city) and was technically homeless staying in cheap hotels (family fucked me over and never repaid money that they promised, so it left me in a tough situation trying to stretch my money until I started my job).
He FaceTimed me randomly at 2am (he had just gotten off of work) and was literally pouring his heart out to me. We’ve talked in depth in the past about his issues with relationships and how he self sabotages and fucks things up. He told me he admittedly took me for granted and got in his head about not being the guy I needed. How I was perfect and how he wishes he could be that for me, because he’d marry me without question. I could see the anguish on his face.
I never got a chance to bring up how bad my situation was, so we ended the call with him asking to see me, and that he’d pick me up for lunch in a couple days.
The day came, and I had to come to another cheap place and basically scam a longer stay since I had no money. I waited all day for him to text me back about lunch. I was so upset because I wanted to let him know that I was homeless with nowhere to go. I was truly disappointed that he didn’t even bother to text me. I sent him a message “I’m so disappointed in you ☹️🖕” This is the first time I’d ever even expressed that I was upset with him. Usually I would brush it off and say something like “it’s okay hun, just let me know when you’re free again”.
Things got extremely bad, I had absolutely nowhere to stay with all my bags. I called homeless shelters, they were all full. Family had no money to send me. And I don’t have a car, so I couldn’t sleep in my car. I tried texting and him and no response, I figured out that he has blocked me.
I didn’t know what else to do. So I took an uber to his house. I just needed to let him know everything and possibly ask for help. He wasn’t home, there was a girl at his house. He saw me in the cameras outside and called me. He was so confused and mad. But once I explained the situation a bit, I could hear the concern in his voice. Still, he told me to leave and I did.
Still, I had no one else to rely on, so I ended up texting him on a text app after a day. I apologized for showing up to his house, and explained the situation further. He was very hostile. He ended up sending me $200.
Things took an even worse turn. I got into a homeless shelter and the lady I was sharing a room with ended up stabbing me with a piece of metal while I was sleeping. I saved his money so that I could get transportation to and from work, food, work scrubs etc.
I was in the hospital for quite awhile. My family had no clue, and they also live in a different state. My sister was my emergency contact so the hospital called her. She was devastated and had no idea what I had been going through fully. She got access to my phone and was trying to contact anyone who had been in touch with me to try and put the peices together. I was fully unconscious for days.
She texted him explaining the situation and I guess he didn’t believe that it was my sister and not me, so he kept saying to stop playing with him, and would not respond. I got out of the hospital and saw that he didn’t believe that it was true I’d been stabbed. I texted him letting him know everything and sent him pictures of me in the hospital.
That is the last we’ve talked. I just want to know can avoidants be this cruel and harsh? Or did he truly just not give a fuck about me? To this day, the things he told me haunt me, it was very clear he was scared of the fact that he fell for me. He told me that he caught feelings too fast, but he knew that I was the one.
TLDR: Relationship started great, avoidant pulled away, I became homeless and needed his help and he blocked me.
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2024.11.25 02:37 guavaachick Plant ID Help!
Was at Legoland in southern CA a few days ago and saw this plant there. I tried googling and doing plant ID apps but couldn’t find much. Any help would be greatly appreciated!! submitted by guavaachick to PlantIdentification [link] [comments] |
2024.11.25 02:37 theQuackingQueer Why does my c.ai do this sometimes when i copy and paste something?
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2024.11.25 02:37 IrishWonder4 All the people defending Brandon half an hour ago have gone pretty quiet..
lmao
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2024.11.25 02:37 Material-Occasion-21 A suggestion a week #1 Piscarillius. Quest
Good Morning ironmemes, mains, pkers, and overall unwashed nerds, I'm new to posting here on 2007scape, and I would liked to introduce my ideas going forward. I’ve always loved the idea of suggestion's in OSRS, and I moreso wanted to make a habit of sharing my ideas for runescape and also work on my creative writing/ChatGPT prompts, doing so I would like to delve into ideas I think would make great additions to the game. This week, I’ve been thinking a lot about the banger quests that came with the release of Varlamore truly some fantastic additions to the game’s questing lore and mechanics. I really enjoyed the way those quests introduced new areas and fresh storylines, so I thought I’d keep that trend going by throwing out a a series of quest ideas based on the Twisted Tale concept that Jagex introduced for Kourend. I have been toying with this one for awhile so introducing A Good Fence Makes Good Neighbours, a Twisted Tales quest set in Piscarillius. Black background yellow text, feel free to read, condemn, suggest, shitpost, degrade or whatever you like. The point of these suggestions for me will be to let them be seen and hopefully get picked up by a bored JMOD. https://preview.redd.it/nt39bwtdmy2e1.png?width=1365&format=png&auto=webp&s=332607590ac413313fb9893115a4224f82b9dec2 https://preview.redd.it/vzdef95cmy2e1.png?width=1365&format=png&auto=webp&s=79ed8e3cec9a023f0bdd6150bfc67d0dc1fa10a7 https://preview.redd.it/44fyeufamy2e1.png?width=1365&format=png&auto=webp&s=61c6fd0aab60a5b748d3cb67f059b6c28248758e https://preview.redd.it/w67lai29my2e1.png?width=1365&format=png&auto=webp&s=89c3f268ad58c09b4c793a0f03e3fcacf1768347 https://preview.redd.it/snio1r87my2e1.png?width=1365&format=png&auto=webp&s=bfebc862066654d2fc513900c9314297324493a5 https://preview.redd.it/eqp3fs44my2e1.png?width=1365&format=png&auto=webp&s=2691f87cd402d0df4cce17039f93f6e67e069b48 https://imgur.com/a/6CYTU7a submitted by Material-Occasion-21 to 2007scape [link] [comments] |
2024.11.25 02:37 HamsterOk3112 Which bootable cloning software can clone my system NVMe drive to a larger NVMe drive?
I’m looking for software that can create a bootable USB, allowing me to clone my current NVMe SSD (which has Windows 11 installed) to a larger NVMe SSD seamlessly. While I know of several tools for cloning SATA drives, I specifically need software that works flawlessly for NVMe SSDs.
Thank you in advance!
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2024.11.25 02:37 InterestingDriver401 Primal Kyogre add 704674063393 starting in 5 mins
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2024.11.25 02:37 AsrielDreemurrFloweX Best Storyswap Design?
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2024.11.25 02:37 Immediate-Agency6101 Roasting your friends
I have two kids 17 & 12 and they dont really roast each other. In the 80s everyone was roasting each other. Am i alone on this?
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2024.11.25 02:37 Pro_CZ_Shadow_et_al USPS Require an IQ below 80 for Employment
I'm sick of the incompetence of USPS. They hire people that could get a job nowhere else. I live 50 miles from St. Louis, Mo. A package was at their sorting center this morning in St. Louis, and now this evening it is in Tennessee. This happens all the time because their employees don't care, or they're incompetent.
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2024.11.25 02:37 ChampionshipNo2 Extended stay in SoMa - Residential Parking Permit
Hey folks, moving to SF for a few months in work assignment. The unit that I’m considering renting is in SoMa and its only parking option is street parking with Residential Parking Permit.
Is this generally a good/safe idea for a car with out-of-state plates? Not trying to encounter breaks ins or vandalism while I’m visiting.
Any recommendations help, even recommendations for neighborhoods where Residential Parking Permits are perfectly safe.
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2024.11.25 02:37 detviler8u81 Winter car ownership tips
I’m new to winter car ownership & wanted some suggestions and tips on how to care for my car during cold weather. Specially tips on cleaning the car in the morning while it’s frozen overnight. I currently use cold water to clean my windshield glass & then heat the car. Any other issues which I may face as we get into winter. How to deal with snow, frost etc. Any liquids/ tools I should keep in handy, or any general advice will be greatly appreciated from the locals who have been doing this over so many years. Cheers! Thank you!
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2024.11.25 02:37 remotearmyio Remote Front-End Programming opportunity: Frontend Developer (React + AWS)
🚀 New remote opportunity: Frontend Developer (React + AWS) Job Category: Front-End Programming
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2024.11.25 02:37 Mammoth_Ad986 Where can I read this full chapter with translate ... in snowmtl not update 😑
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2024.11.25 02:37 TiredReader87 A question for Canadians
I see that the PaperWhite SE (12th gen) is on sale, but only in a bundle. I only buy bundles so that’s fine.
However, it says that the raspberry Kindle could ship by Tuesday, but the case might not come until January or February. It’s useless without a case.
I’ve seen this for both the leather and fabric, and I’m fine with either.
Ideally, I want the jade case. However, I can’t pick the case colour. The other bundle is all black and I have multiple black Kindles and cases.
Any tips for ordering? And when do the sales end?
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2024.11.25 02:37 jonny_tuttle_24 I opened a booster and this came with it. I cant find the rules for it so could someone explains how it works? Sorry im new
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2024.11.25 02:37 owlers123 Esdeath hand to hand combat
Do you think there is any female in the series capable of beating Esdeath in hand to hand combat? Unrelated side question: How close is a fistfight between Akame and Esdeath? I feel like not very close, Esdeath is bigger, stronger and has a lot of experience. submitted by owlers123 to AkameGaKILL [link] [comments] |
2024.11.25 02:37 sonofhanoppar One month after returning from Japan 🥲
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2024.11.25 02:37 GoRokuGo Yes please stay away from us we want you to be safe
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2024.11.25 02:37 normaldude37 What led you here, honestly?
For those of us who have given up on and sworn off relationships, what led you here? What made declare being a single person as part of your identity?
It was trauma and bad experiences for me. I’ve had a lot to overcome in my life from a very dysfunctional upbringing. I’ve mostly repaired everything and am generally someone I like. I respect myself.
Except in the area of sex and relationships. After a failed marriage, and almost marrying another bad choice again a few years ago, and being completely turned off by the dating world, life is bigger single. I’m free. At peace. No drama. No bullshit. No accountability to anyone else. No accommodating anyone else.
Admittedly too, I have trauma around sex. It’s not something I will ever get over or fix. I’ve made peace with it. It’ll always be there, though. And I’d rather not ever wake up that beats again.
Curious what all your stories are.
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2024.11.25 02:37 CHICHATEA_ChineseTea CHICHATEA.com Thanksgiving BIG SAVE: Up to 50% Off! From 11/24 - 11/30
•Page: https://www.chichatea.com •Free shipping on orders over $45 •Delivery within 2-5 business days •Every order comes with a free random tea sample submitted by CHICHATEA_ChineseTea to teasales [link] [comments] |
2024.11.25 02:37 Gibnez First actual “incident” on the road today. I feel like a total moron.
I was backing up out of this parking spot, only relying on my backup camera which isn’t all that great, and I backed into this van’s mirror and kinda tore it out of its place. It didn’t actually fall on the ground, but the mirror was definitely moved out of its normal place. I left a note with my phone number, and carried on (praying they don’t text me because I haven’t told my parents, since there was virtually no damage on my vehicle) but I feel like a total dumbass. People have told me that I’m a good driver so far (only been driving for a year, 17 years old) and this is my first real “crash” that was actually my fault. I feel like a dumbass. Any advice/stories to share that maybe make mine seem a litter better?
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2024.11.25 02:37 Hot-Cause-481 My dualsense thumb grips
I bought these to prevent wear on the sticks. Yay or nay? submitted by Hot-Cause-481 to Dualsense [link] [comments] |
2024.11.25 02:37 matchweek34 Just switched to Rogers for wireless, anything I can do about these speeds?
Phone is an iphone 16 pro.
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